Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by Justbehave(m): 4:50pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by Justbehave(m): 4:46pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: The vast majority of women in Nigeria are NOT in the category described by OP. They are indeed marginalized and expected to be comfortable being second class citizens and very subservient to men
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How many women are like your account officer? Nigeria is approximately 50% women. Look at the business, political, church, education, etc leadership landscapes in Nigeria. How many are wome?? And who is stopping them from working? Tell yourself the truth. In banking sector,is it not women that are in majority? Do we see ourselves saying we are being marginalized? |
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by Justbehave(m): 4:42pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
pocohantas: The good thing about this thread is, suddenly MOST Nigerian women are doing well educationally and career-wise.
Suddenly, most NL guys would know rich independent women.
I am very grateful for this thread. I don’t want to see anyone say Nigerian ladies are dull and jobless again.  Stop attacking NL guys. Counter what the op said. |
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by Justbehave(m): 4:16pm On Oct 13, 2021*. Modified: 6:28pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Lalasticlala. This is front page worthy. Let them tells us how we marginalize them so we can make amends.
MODIFIED Thank you lalasticlala.We have all seen that non of the ladies here could give a very detailed response to the Topic. Their lies and manipulations against men and the society has been exposed. |
Romance › Re: GUYS!! You Are Very Stupid If You Accept A Cheating Girlfriend Back!! (Photo) by Justbehave(m): 4:12pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
 effort1: Why are you taking this personal as if you are a cheating girlfriend? |
Romance › Re: Dear Guys, Is It Okay For My Fiance To Shave With This? by Justbehave(m): 4:09pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
What was he using to shave before you two met? |
Romance › Re: MEN!! NEVER Let A Woman Manipulate You With SEX!! She Will Ruin You!! (Photos) by Justbehave(m): 3:55pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
TheGidRedpiller: Men don't manipulate women with money for s€x, women give away their body because there are seeing money in it for them! Be educated!
Why do you think women go into prostiitutionn Are their customers manipulating them then? Think! Stop being ignorant!
Men only give women what women are asking for, there is no manipulations here pls! You finish work here my G. |
Romance › Re: Can 10k Open Your Legs? (nairaland Girls And Ladies Only ) by Justbehave(m): 3:48pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
 Noshitboi: shey u wan carry ur smelly pussy go crash pesin jet. You this girl wey okada and keke riders don knack scatter |
Romance › Re: 50% Out Of The Divorce Settlement?? Hell No, I Deserve 70% It’s Over 2years by Justbehave(m): 3:43pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
reddingtonblack: when i said you dropout that was just a guess i didnt know i was right normally i know suppose reply you again cos you get google Never you argue with a woman. You can never win. |
Romance › Re: 50% Out Of The Divorce Settlement?? Hell No, I Deserve 70% It’s Over 2years by Justbehave(m): 3:41pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Lamentations Of A Battered Husband by Justbehave(m): 3:34pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
This thread won't get up to 2 pages because the victim is a male. If na woman now,we for dey for page 15. Guys should wake up from sleep . |
Romance › Re: See The Crazy Level Of ENTITLEMENT Mentality These Bittches Have! WTF?! (photos) by Justbehave(m): 3:24pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
TheGidRedpiller: I recognise your moniker, but where? I dey with you full time since the days of ubunja.Simps and sissies must be delivered. Shalom. |
Romance › Re: Can 10k Open Your Legs? (nairaland Girls And Ladies Only ) by Justbehave(m): 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
kenzysmith: Can ten thousand naira do the magic  Very funny question. When dem come for social media all of dem dey claim virgin and talk say na private jet fit open their legs but in reality,common indomie dey open many of their legs.  |
Romance › Re: 50% Out Of The Divorce Settlement?? Hell No, I Deserve 70% It’s Over 2years by Justbehave(m): 3:16pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Casalindal: So guy we had a briefing with both lawyers last night in regards to my divorce. Guys men will always be men!! After everything you giving me only 50%?? Like 50% this is really sad to say the least.
And before you all come for me. Please know this I gave everything and also bring something to the table as well. This why men don't respect you leeches. Bitch. |
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by Justbehave(m): 3:07pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
I want to hear from the ladies. @ OP. You ve said it all.My account officer is a lady rich and single. I have asked her this question once and her answer was that only a lazy and entitled lady can say that they are marginalized. |
Romance › Re: What Inspired Nairaland Men Views About Women? by Justbehave(m): 2:31pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
syrecookie: Good day N'landers, Please I want to know why nairaland men/boys like to nag and complain about women/girls. I'm not trying to criticize or discriminate anyone's views, but this is something I've observed in the short time I've spent here. I am still a young lad(in my late teenage), and the posts I see here on nairaland has really polluted my mind about relationships with females(i have never really been in a relationship). Nairaland guys make females look toxic and I'm willing to know why's this so.
Please I need answers and I don't mind if you share your experiences on relationships you've had with "Nigerian girls"(lol) and why you think they are "toxic". You don't need any answers. Experience will tell you all you need to know. |
Romance › Re: See The Crazy Level Of ENTITLEMENT Mentality These Bittches Have! WTF?! (photos) by Justbehave(m): 2:26pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Good job bro |
Romance › Re: Lamentations Of A Battered Husband by Justbehave(m): 2:15pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
I hate it when grown men in such situations say they don't know what to do.Whats so difficult in filing for a divorce in such situation? Op,let your guy stay put and maybe when she eventually kills him,he will know exactly what to do. Weak ass men everywhere. |
Family › Re: A Nairalander "Apeli Kingsley" Bathing His Son. by Justbehave(m): 2:12pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
All for the camera. Me weh don dey do Daddy duty since never even try showing it to the world. Mitchewwww |
Crime › Re: Kenyan Child Serial Killer Who Murdered 13 Minors Escapes From Police Custody by Justbehave(m): 2:08pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Escaped or bribed his way out? Police and corruption sef. |
Health › Re: Three Family Members And Maid Die After Eating Poisoned Food In Enugu by Justbehave(m): 1:57pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
BigSarah: Who still hires maids these days? Having a maid is outdated, cleaning companies are everywhere, you can practically order any meal you want... And you don't get to have a stranger in your home!!!
Only egotistic people still keep maids, RIP to the family tho
Tueh  Make you try get sense small nah.So the maid poisoned the food and still ate from it? RIP to them. |
Romance › Re: Could It Be That She Belong To The Streets?? by Justbehave(m): 1:32pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Greystone: Very very stupid questions in fact.
That olosho go use hin head do Bet9ja  Lol. Him just mumu go accept say him be her brother. |
Romance › Re: Could It Be That She Belong To The Streets?? by Justbehave(m): 1:28pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Could It Be That She Belong To The Streets?? by Justbehave(m): 1:22pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
She does not belong to the street rather,she owns the street. |
Romance › Re: Men,come And Tell Us The Food You Can Prepare Or The One You've Ever Prepared. by Justbehave(m): 12:50pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Bolarineliza202: Guys complain about inability of most girls to make palatable meal. Some will be like:she doesn't knows how to cook or so. So as a guy,have you ever cooked before and which food do you know how to cook best? I can prepare all the Igbo native foods. And some continental dishes.espcially when my kids are around. |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Justbehave(m): 10:43pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
purples25: You are not feeling any pain, not for a day. That is why you can open your mouth and call everything rubbish. So who was pounding the pepper before he came? Let's agree she only have such pains during her period? Or she doesn't cook during those period? |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Justbehave(m): 6:42pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Trojan8: Get a house before trying to act like an Alfa Mail. Come let my kids feed you. Sissy. Just beloved her lies because she is a girl. |
Family › Re: Confused Wife by Justbehave(m): 6:32pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel: According to her post, she said her husband has never allowed her to take the children to go visit her parents. Do you think that is fair? The man might have his reasons for not wanting the kids to travel down to the village. About the grandparents issue,they should visit them in the town. Or are they afraid of visiting their son in-law? |
Family › Re: Should I Travel To Togo Or Not by Justbehave(m): 6:13pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Chizzy7890: I am 19 years I come from a very poor family of 5children I am the fourth position my dad doesn't do anything only my mum she sell bread by the roadside but it is been 4 months now she is not working because she march on poison and her leg is very big and suallen, I also have a 3 years old child she is my everything I feel sad for not providing for her the way I am supposed to , a friend of mine propose me to follow her to Togo for work but my parents has refused they said its very risky I might end up being killed there but I don't care because they don't help me with anything , I depend on myself they don't provide anything for me not even a pant , I want to do it for myself and daughter to live a better life I don't want to be poor like my parents they were born in poverty also had children in poverty andI want to break the curse. We are leaving on the 18th of October I am getting worried I hope I have taken the right opportunity for me and my daughter. Your advise is needed please You know all these and still allow a guy to impregnate you. By the way,where is the father of your child? |
Family › Re: Confused Wife by Justbehave(m): 6:05pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Na you make you go sit down!
Na una type dey carry una whole self give man. Once una marry, papa and mama no matter again, but once dem begin show una pepper for marriage, na dat time una go remember say una been get family.
No wise up you hear? Please just stop. Did you read anywhere that he stopped her from visiting her parents in the village? He only said she shouldn't be visiting frequently and he is right. Can't they visit them in the city? Or did he also prohibited them from visiting? Since she loves her village activities so much why didn't she marry a man that is based in her village? Why nagging unnecessarily. Like I told her earlier,let her use something and break the man's head and see if that village she so much like won't welcome her permanently. |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Justbehave(m): 5:46pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Amalekki: Not managing situations like this with sense and love is the reason why we hear stories of some rich guys blanking out cousins/family members. You never know what happened in the past when they were still in their formative years and forced to rely on family members. I just hope the OP is not capitalising on her cousin's situation to 'cut him down to size' just for her own satisfaction since his own immediate family are currently struggling. I say this because I have seen this play out in the past within my extended family. Wisdom is talking |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Justbehave(m): 5:42pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
CSNg: @Abetterperson
Let's hear from your cousin first!
Cos I don't really think that you would calmly ask him to grind pepper and he would flare up. You might have raised your voice on him simply because of the entitlement that "you own the house" under where he is taking shelter . No mind her. Only the wise ones will reason like you. |