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There's no wife material among the ladies of this generation.If you doubt me,try and see.

Sorry to say this but they caused their death. Why were they running and making the security men to give them a chase before shooting them? There's insecurity everywhere and we all should be wise. If you are in a military or police checking point and suddenly you started runing especially if the car glasses is tinted. What do you expect? Or are you expecting they should fold their arms and get killed? Don't they too have families and loved ones that will miss them if they are killed? RIP to them.

ChineduChinedu:
This message is from her yesterday


Baby pls, I love u and u know it. I'm so sorry for all I did to u.

That was why I didn't want to tell u anything that will harm our love or harm you. I don't want to say anything about my past because, I was hurt and deceived. I vowed never to love any man after what happened to me. That man met me at my teenage age. I just finished my secondary school. He promised to send me to the university. I was blind and deceived. He took my virginity. I never knew anything abt love. I got pregnant, He said he was gonna marry me. I said okay. After that, I got pregnant for the second child all in the name of you are gonna be ma wife. Then the 3rd one came. I suffered alot in the hands of that man.

While all this was happening, he never went to ma village to pay anything on ma head. Even his family people kept saying we are just having a relationship. Since he hasnt done anything on ma head.

I asked him when is he going to pay my dowry, he kept saying later. Not until he met this woman he got married to and went straight to marry her. Did court marriage. When people who knew him asked him abt me, he said he has never been married, that It was just a fruitful relationship.

I wept and cried to God. And I said to God, fight ma battle. This battle isn't mine. My life was scattered. I looked like a lost girl. I wanted to end ma life, buh God & my family gave me reasons to stay alive.

I vowed never to love and trust any man again in ma life. Not until I met u. I always call u my Hero ��buh u won't understand. U gave me reason to love again. U gave me reason to laugh sincerely, to live again, u gave me comfort, u gave me strength. �����. Ur coming to.me made me believe God answers prayers. U won't understand. Buh God knows I'm writing this msg with tears dropping from ma eyes�����. U wiped ma hidden tears, u made me feel loved again. Tell me, why will I want to hurt someone who made me see reason to live again by telling him what will make him leave me for real. �����

I'm so sorry, I didn't want to lose you or lose our love. �����. Before now, we have been living like twins, not until this news came up and kept us like this. ��.

Words cannot express how sorry I am. Whatever judgement u pass, just remember I will always love u���. And I won't love anyone with ma whole heart anymore.

Punish me, do whatever u wish to.do, buh pls consider the fact that no one is perfect. I'm carrying ur child. Don't abandon us. Even if u don't want to marry me again, no problem. Just don't abandon us. Grant ur baby and I the access to see u. Grant ur baby boy the access to call u dad. That's all I ask. Grant me the access to call u on the phone and ask u how u are doing. U remain the love of ma life.�������

U know I'm not after money, I always manage ur money, and always tell u to invest and make more money.

It hasn't been easy for me, since that Saturday, I felt like ending ma life����. I asked ma self, what's there to life for, buh people around me held me back. All I Seek and ask is to just call me and speak to me. No Matter how angry u are. It has not been easy for me in this condition ������


My Hero, I beg u, we have been living in peace before this news came, pls I beg of u, have mercy ������ My Heavenly Father Knows I sincerely Love you. I can't do anything to hurt u. Pls my love have mercy ����������������


This message is from her yesterday

To slap you dey hungry me.But anyway sha. This her message will serve as an evidence in court. Don't reply her or delete it.

Selfmotivated:
The error has already being made. So in this kind of situation, if you divorce half your property will be her so bear with her.

Lies.Court will even fine her for deceiving him into marriage and lieing under oaths.

MrMacinterchi1:
Lol �;F

Lol. Wetin you wan mey I talk nah?

Funny but not funny. @ OP,you have nothing to worry. Court can easily anull such marriage based on deception and they will even fine her. My life is good o. I have kids without any woman to worry about.
Tell these simps and sissy idiots that calls themselves men to be wise and never trust any girl of this generation,they will not hear.
Watch as non of them will comment here because they are all the same.

Romanoff:
Marriage no be by age o. Na by maturity.
See what someone's husband is bringing to social media, this is what marriage has been reduced to.

Issues that should be discussed between man and wife gets brought to social media for children and skeptics of marriage to analyze and criticize.

If you dey pray for husband, your first requirement should be man wey get sense.

E get why.

You are very correct but add AND A WOMAN WEY NO DEY THIEF AND LIE. E get why.

obi4eze:
Congratulations ma. I don't know what's wrong with some men who think that sex determination is the woman's fault when in fact it's what the man supplies that the woman takes care of and nurtures into a baby.

Congratulate her and move on. Stop talking trash. You are not in the man's shoes and hopefully you will get to understand later in life.

Maybe she forgot the actual amount she collected.

Madam better go and apologize to your husband and take corrections.Put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself if you can condone such act from him.

Mercychen:
If this has been going on for the most part of your marriage, then he should be used to it by now and adjust.
Everything is about understanding. Since you've already explained to him that it's because you're always engrossed in your biz that you don't get to hear your phone ring, he should have stopped calling you during biz hours.

Let him get busy and stop disturbing you with incessant calls.

Rubbish. Op take this and watch your home get destroyed.

Iyaebe:
Don't dish out what you can't take, if the reverse was the case you will accuse him of cheating. Find a way to stop this bad habit permanently before he permanently drift away from you

So this girl get small sense?

Homeboiy:


After one people

Looking for sympathy

Lol. No mind them.

Congratulations

Pataricatering:
women do not hold the key to any chastity. Becos you people want to be dogs and fvck anyhow without control or being held accountable - so you blame women for immorality when we all know men are the most sexually perverted goats you can ever find .

No be me write am for Bible oo.lol

Toks2008:
Very true but ladies just don't want to accept this age long fact

They will never accept because they are still in contention with men. The wise ones among them understand this. A man cannot have sex with a woman who doesn't fancy him except is rape.

CHAI.nairaland..See as Una finish this guy man.There is God oo

shortgun:
Not placing her on any level she's not used to, not all girls are broke. There are over 5 cars in one of her father's house. I won't let her do public transport for obvious reasons.

And she can't drive?

shortgun:
So I should be the one to pay for him to meet my girlfriend abi. that's why you lots are wallowing in poverty... misplaced priority.


With this your comments I don update men and told my girl to lure him...you fit hear scores for front page... brainless idiot

Funny. No go enter kasala because of gf.As you dey update men for am,no forget say himself fit come play return match for your side.

muller101:
you should have advised Potiphar's wife. Where were you when she was trying to abuse our innocent Joseph.

What a smack down. Lol

shaybebaby:
Do you realise how unbalanced you sound?
You've been cyber bullying the chick and now you are asking another random stranger to " prove" fertility to you?
Are you off your meds or you are simply undiagnosed?
Leave the girl alone effing weirdo and go deal with your spawns.

In as much as she doesn't even know who her baby daddy is nor his family,she is still better than you atleast she is not barren.Talk to me when you are able to prove your fertility.

Favfables:
You see....
It says wife, not husband's...
So even the Bible places more emphasis on female virginity than on males

Infact sef...

I think using virginity and male in the same sentence is wrong , just like using poor and Bill gates

Apt. The truth is that it's women who holds the key to chastity.

debbydams:
orisirisi

Nwa. You are good to go.

Very very few my brother,very very few.

shaybebaby:
3 baby mama's? 3 different women you definitely had unprotected sex with. Diseased dick!!

Be feeling accomplished because you nutted, spawned and became a part time parent. Knobhead!

Talk to me whenever you become a mum.. I quoted the op because atleast she has proven to be fertile. Prove your fertility first,then we can talk. Now fuckoff.

RightToReject:
You're a wise man.

@OP, tread carefully. There are many good women here and everywhere else; however, if you care to listen, avoid one of the women who have commented and shown interest indirectly because she will wreck you and your child in the long run if you allow her into your life. She's an embodiment of toxicity; forget about her usual use of laughing emojis in most of her comments. She has low self-esteem and is good at lying, pretense, and hypocrisy. Although she might be open in telling you that she doesn't want to have a child of her own, she will definitely not tell you that the main reason behind her hallmark pronouncement is because she has used abortion to damage her womb, and she suffers depression regularly. Use your tongue and count your teeth.

Anyway, I believe that by now you ought to have learned some valuable lessons from your babymama that used you to achieve her self-absorbing aim of bringing a child into this world while having no genuine intentions to stay married and/or committed to nurturing hir, even though your approach here says otherwise.

Thanks jareh. I noticed her antics and put her in her place but lol.She and her colleague started attacking me. Op,be wise.

Rubbiish:
Cc Streamz
I think this is your wife!
The ball is now in your court, u know what to do!

Supported. No be all those ones weh dey indirectly tell him say dem no fit born for am.

fannybaby:
. But you are not as rich as those you mentioned

And how sure are you about that? So because you think I'm not rich that's why you were attacking me? Very funny reasoning. May be you should give me your contact so you can find out if I'm rich or not.

AutoChick4U:
You proud of impregnating 3 different women? Like you met ladies you do not find good enough to be with but yet impregnated them and u proud! Wtf is wrong with some people though

For your information All my baby mamas are classy and I will be proud to be with any of them but I don't wanna get married to any of them or even any other woman.So shut the fuckup and go In search of your baby daddy or those he look like me?Hey,I'm having good time with my kids at home so geh ra out.

AutoChick4U:
3 baby mama guy is here again

I'm proud of that. But in your own case,you don't even know who the father of your baby is neither do you know any of his family members. Lol.

Op you are right in a way.But it should have said WHAT EVERY SIMP go through to make their women happy.

WriterNig:
Dear Fathers, never ever leave your innocent baby sons to any woman, be it his mother, your mother or sister.

Every woman out there is a predator looking for kids to rape or abuse. Watch over your boy child fiercely.

Speaking from experience. Be warned!

Hope you are being sarcastic?