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DEMZEE:
That is why poor and average men should not even think about women or having serious relationships with women. Those men should Rather focus on increasing their value and understanding women's sexual mating strategy and womens nature and know game.

Poor and average men don't deserve the pussy man

Poor and average is a very relative standard... and is not even an objective measure. what level of wealth qualifies one to be poor and average?
reading one single book on mating strategy will leave room for misapplication. Even monkeys and dogs get pussy why not a man just because he is 'poor and average' ... poor and average by whose standards?
Well, the irony of your argument is that poor and average people get more pussy than any other category of men. As evidence, you see population explosion in poor and average populations.
Infact, average and poor people dont struggle to get pussy at all and sometimes they even get it from women who pay them to give them.

I still want to know what a man is designed to gain in marriage that is worth all the suffering he goes through.

DEMZEE:
Those are the poor and average men though and they are meant to be suffering cos men must become and men are judged based on our burden of performance

There are more poor men in Africa than anywhere else on earth, so how do I understand your argument?
Poor, mediocre and average, in fact completely useless women, still gain the same with any other woman in the institution of marriage.
I still don't see what a man gains even with your argument which suggests that if a man does not have wealth, then he deserves to suffer.
Another double standard against the man who marries the usually broke, dependent leeches without requiring them to have money and even if they have money, it is for their own selves alone! most women are broke anyway...I did not say ALL because an insignificant percentage still dey try get some money without men.

DEMZEE:
I don't know about u but here in Africa, we gain dominance, authority and responsibility

Even in Africa, bro!
Men are just doing donkey job in most cases... nothing for them apart from suffering!

rocknation62:
Half of the men will gain stability, support, love and commitment if they make a good choice in a wife. The other half will make alimony payments, pay child support and be dragged through the courts until he's broke and his name in mud.



Choose wisely

I dare argue that ALL men will gain stability, support, love and commitment if they make a good decisions without MARRIAGE!

simplesearch:
Your huge misconception about marriage didn't allow you to be able to differentiate between their and there. The reason for your post is because you are either myopic, empty of God's word or naturally unable to understand what marriage is all about. Biblically a woman is suppose to give support to the man, the onus lies on the man to take care of his family. If you are a real man before getting married you won't be too stingy or close minded to take care of your family. The reason for your post may be as result of the many leeches, Jezebels, cheats, we have around who are getting married for the wrong reasons, some of them walk out of their marriage when the road gets dusty and pale. Don't allow what you see around deceive you into thinking marriage is a scam or all women are useless; No, they are not. They have their specific role to play, which is majorly not provision, so don't give yourself heartache looking for a working class woman to marry who will not demand anything from you, if that happens praise God, but rather man up and pray to God to lift you up to be the father and husband your wife and children will be proud of. Marriage has a lot of benefit, just pray to God and open your eye to the benefits and prayerfully ask God to give you a partner that's worth it and you'll come back here to edit this your post when that happens, not if, because it is possible.

benefits that you need to close your eyes in prayer for God to open your eyes to see?
OPEN AND CLOSE or CLOSE and OPEN?
make that make sense, please.

we can see and enumerate the gains of marriage for women and children even without God and prayer!

dbaruwa:
From ur reasoning, I don't think u are upto 18 years. Period.

Methuselah,
give him some answer na.
you cannot know his true age from online posts.

with your old age, give a rational answer without insults na.

DEMZEE:
Men gain dominance, authority and responsibility in marriage

in the current reality, men dont have any of those gains anymore as the simp dominated society and the law has taken away all of that and you cannot honestly claim that men are still dominant.
so what dies a man gain in marriage today?

Funkybabee:
When you see a frustrated soul

Nothing, nothing I say nothing can satisfy it

no, leave insults and provide some form of rational answer.
dont personalise the question.

DEMZEE:
Marriage institution especially having a male and female parent is the best form of raising children

you are absolutely correct... you clearly articulated the benefit of marriage to the child.
but what does a man gain in the marriage institution, especially in the context of present realities?
that is the elephant in the room

Dpaulie:
Useless post.. you must not be older than 14... must u showcase your stupidity

methusellah... leave insults and address his questions.
your age inspired wisdom might just educate him and others.
you just insulted him without addressing his questions.

DEMZEE:
Trash

So u will stop ur lineage and ancestry line all because u cant find a unicorn

Do u even understand women's sexual mating strategy and Women's nature

cant the so called lineage be continued without martiage?

gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER

that is the exception... the exception does not prove the rule. it is anecdotal evidence.
In general, the man is expected to bear the burden of providing and protecting the family.
If a woman does not provide, nobody calls her a useless woman because no one expects anything from her.
tnhe question is what does a man gain for being the main provider and protector?
can you say it.

AMAECHI don lick one Girl PLATE

and men built the entire civilisation that the shameless fool is using to say his nonsense.
Oga Ameachi, if you wan get pussy, pay the hoes. You dont have to give fairy tales of women and their intelligence is more than that of men. what is the proof of that claim?
several experiments (like Bear Grill's, The Island) have shown that without men, women will not survive.

I get that when we want to fvck, the brain migrates south to the groin but you dont have to say nonsense to score any pussy points.

This story is MAD!
see how many potential mad people are enjoying the tales of madness.
We all have an iota of craze in us...

May God grant us peace, happiness and prosperity!
I just love my naija people.

Zzor:
I so hate this parrot man,he talks tooooo much and forming redpill online

Reno wan tamper with some pipu office and dem dey vex come out.
Apart from hating him, which you have a right to, can you point out a wrong in his statement?
Then point it out and let the people judge who has or does not have sense.

Philadelphia:
A a Benz v6 uses 10 liters in 7 days while a Toyota v4 uses 5 liters in 14 days: which car is more fuel economical ?

I thought fuel consumption is a function of distance travelled and use, not number of days.
I mean you finish the 10 liters in a day with use and 5litres will stay a month with less use.

That your number one item eehhn... na him hard pass ooo!
... only God go forgive us

oluwatosink:
The body is the temple of God, and the Spirit of God dwelleth in you.

7 Important Things You should never do with your Body.

1) You should never commit fornications in your heart or body

2) You should never worship or eat things presented to idols

3) You should never lust or love the things in the world.

4) You should never be Unrighteous on earth

5) You should never commit sexual immorality.

6) You should never be drunk in wine taking cigarettes , indian hemps etc

7) You should never make any cutting on your flesh, body piercing, tattoos and putting things that don't glorify God


Feel free to drop your views, thoughts and ask question

Archmend:
It's hard to imagine, yet the obvious is the case. There are so many people who have never been invited for a chat with the HR of any company.

your cv is supposed to open the door to an interview for you like a foot in the door.
start from making a good cv... dont pay anyone to make your cv for you. learn from youtube how to make all aspects of a cv.
That should atleast get you an invite for an interview.
Just to encourage you, I started going for interviews before going for NYSC and eventually landed my first job off of an interview I attended while still serving.
My point is, learn to make a cv that is attractive to HR. Keyword is LEARN so that you can vary your cv to suit different roles and different companies.
secondly, submit as many good cv to company career websites as you wish.
may the forces be with you and the wind blow on your.back.

I get your point about the hijab being a part of dressing for Muslim women and I clearly understand its provisions.
The point I raised earlier was the suspicion of dominance which quite recent, I mean before the coming of democracy in 2019, you don't hear the issue of hijab being a problem in Nigerian schools both government and private - Infact everyone dressed according to the school uniform requirement in schools and however they liked outside. In this particular case, we are talking of a school that belongs to another faith and that has admitted muslims for years only for a sudden demand of change not only to be required but forced with government backing. You agree with me that, that could be problematic, if a Christian were to make such a demand of a Muslim founded school.

2. I mentioned the motive of government taking over missionary schools and even told you how it was celebrated as a control tool against the spread of a certain religion. Your second point echos the same sentiment, why should a government that cannot run its own schools now take over missionary schools which were founded with a specific goal of providing education to its adherents? Now you are saying the schools have been taken over by government, why would you think government has a right to take over private property and the owners should be forced against their wish to relinquish control?
Since the government pays the staff, they can easily transfer their employees to their own schools and let the missionary schools operate as the private entities they want to be. why is the government not taking over other private schools but those belonging to missionaries?
if the government were such a good school administrator, why are they not doing it for their own schools without wasting tax-payer money on paying staff of a private concern. This smells fishy and will definitely breed distrust. The government did not buy those schools, they just want to take them over, why?
so on the specific issue of hijab, I think a permanent solution is for the government to let private institutions run as private and handover such schools to their original owners. This is both cheaper for the government and will remove all unnecessary friction.
How can government decide to take over a private concern just because it decided on its own volition to support such schools? make it make sense to me.

So we must accept that the main culprit is the government and its actions are causing needless distrust among the populace. I am sure if the case is reversed, government will not even attempt to take over Islamic based schools and attempt to impose a Christian or even secular practice.
So lets be fair and only fight when there is a real need to fight.

thaqib:
Two points just to note

1 Hijabs are part of dressing of Muslim women in all places. Not a religious garment for mosques. Its compulsory for them. Since that is protected by the fundamentals human right, so be it.
U can then say, the hijab must be red or white or whatever to conform with the school uniform, that's fine. U may also say it must have a badge to distinguish but from other schools hijab,that's also cool. This is a middle course

2 I understand from my research that the school in question is not a private school per se. Yes , it was founded by Christian missionaries but it has been taken over by government prior to this regime. The teachers are being paid by government. The founders still foot some expenses, as support but technically those are supports. If the missionaries want to take the school back( both Muslims and Christians now), that can be achieved via a law that would pass through the state assembly. It happened in Lagos, and the schools were returned!

There are new private schools in kwara owned and completely funded by Muslims and Christians entrepreneurs. The Muslims would not send their children to such Christian schools unless they must abide by such school's principles( including no use of ijab), and vice versa too . The government cannot interfere with what happens there, they can only regulate to achieve some minimum standards..

thaqib:
Nobody has provided a legal argument against the government in this matter, only sentiments and biased opinions

I don't understand how a school still owned by the founders have their staff on the payroll of government

That aside, how does what one put on his/her head or buttock affect his or her learning
Besides, the government has consistently emphasized it is not enforcing the hijab on anybody. They can't even do that anyway, not even on Muslims!
All they have said was "if u wish to use it, no problem"
Muslims who wear hijab and Christian relate with each other in the university and workplaces everyday. Has it threatened our corporate existence?
Why can't the same happen in our secondary schools in an atmosphere of love?

We only need to respect our individual preferences, be it religious or otherwise provided such doesn't encroach on tm other people's rights. That's all

Anything outside this is religious intolerance and bigotry!


U can argue against my opinion, but perhaps u shouldn't insult

I must say here that it is not necessarily about Hijab. It has to do with a larger issue of distrust due to the precedents of the past.
Why was the government interested in taking over missionary schools while leaving other private schools to operate freely? I tell you that policy under Murtala was suspicious and I have heard clerics applaud it as a move to curtail the spread of missionary schools since Christian organization own most of such schools.
Secondly, the government could simply review the policy of interfering with only missionary schools and run their own schools with their staff that are currently in the missionary schools.
We all agree that religion is high inflammable in Nigeria so I wonder why governments of dominant religious groups feel it okay to use the power of government to trump the rights of other groups.
The other question is that these schools have existed and operated for more than 30years now with Muslims enrolled in them without making a fuse about the uniforms. I am sure the folks that attended those schools are not less Muslim or less pious by adhering to the uniform requirements of such schools. so why is it suddenly a key requirement that muslim students must disregard the uniform requirements of such schools?
The key word here is uniform not religious garbs or apparels. so since the school wants its students of all religious backgrounds to be in 'UNIFORM' not in the way of any particular religion why is it now suddenly a big big issue? it does not sound discriminatory to me since everyone is equally required to adhere.
We all see the way of today with governments in muslim dominated states brazenly subjugating other groups and coming out to rub it on peoples faces that they are doing that because the state is ' a muslim dominated state like kwara'. If you are from the North, you see and hear that alot but Buhari's regime seems to have emboldened that sentiment.
Finally, not my strongest argument, but why are muslims insistent on sending their wards to christian schools and insisting on change those schools to accommodate them even though there are muslim schools but you don't see it happening the other way round with christians going to muslim schools and asking for the schools to change by force to accommodate them? This raises the suspicion of infiltration and domination, if one were to be objective.
The thrust of your argument seems to be that they should be accommodated on the basis of love and tolerance but it seems they are forcing their wishes through with the backing of usually, Muslim government powers and that inspires rebellion and hatred - key example, Kwara and Kaduna state.
I hope I have been fair in my arguments without insults because I am on the same side of the divide and just being objective .

femi4:
Nonsense...you don't dictate to the govt

inverted logic with selfish undertone.. government does not dictate to the people who vote it into place.