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I think this statement "70% of Black Ladies in America are Single" applies mostly to African American females, not Nigerian women. Nigerian ladies have their men on lock. -- (laughing) Well it appears to be that way.

It's because most ordinary Nigerian women are the type of women that any man would want as a wife. No man likes a woman who is a nightmare in the house always wanting to be the head and always trying to prove points.

Just call yourself what you can relate better to.
Black Americans cant really relate to African ways (you can call them crude if you like) so why do they want to label themselves Africans? besides, there are many different cultures in Africa so you cant just say you're African with no reference to any country!

Black Americans can relate better to Europeans whose culture they have imbibed (could be unwillingly) and they are now trying to evolve their own culture with a blend of misunderstood African culture and some European touch. Better to refer to them as Black Americans than African Americans. I have cousins, nephews, nieces who are truly African Americans because they know that they have parents from Nigeria and they have family in Nigeria.

morpheus24:
An indian or or Chinese respects the old wolrd culture his ancestors are from which is why he has no problem with accepting that label. Many so call "black" Americans have no idea of or no affinity to the continent of their origins.

It really irritates me when AA's refer to Africa as the "mother" country like it is some far away planet that cannot be reached.

It is a far away planet to them because they are not AFRICAN Americans. They are Black Americans

chaircover:
British Passport

Since when did that become a factor in determining a suitable man for marriage?

Nigeria don really enter reverse gear o

ayomifull:
Really?

I was wondering because i have eligible male cousins with all them red p, good job and handsome faces still searching at over 30

what exactly does red p mean?

ayomifull:
rooooontflmaooooooooooo

Haba! where did you get that from?

Thanks jare.
She should come and see what British women try with me in spite of my conpicuous wedding ring and I always tell everyone that I'm married - they still wont stop trying to get in my pants- and I am not even a Bill Gates or Trump

UNLEASHED:
Will she starve if she returns home?

Abeg, help me ask am o.

How can anyone advise a woman to stay away from her husband for 5 years for the love of money? It seems that some people cant see beyond monetary values.

A woman who has papers in Ireland should be home with her husband and either taking her husband to Ireland with her or staying put in Nigeria to build a happy and balanced family.

Some people dont know what it means to the life . They also expect the man to be a fool and agree for his wife to stay abroad living a seperate life from her husband's.

A happy family has to be more important than making money!

plappville:
I don't think the guy needed her just because he knew she is a virgin, at least he has visited her several time and has been calling her,
its true that some guys can't wait if they are really in love.

[b]don't u think the girl is taking this her virgin thing too far does HER HEART BEAT for the guy too .[/b]alot of girls make this mistakes, after all there is limit in keeping virginity, if u know the guy well and both of u ve dated for years what's the need keeping him waiting and waiting
OK She should tell her guy to take her to the alter, BUT she must be sure she is virgin ooo.

i ve seen a muslim couples that got married, the girl claiming she was a virgin and that she will not ve sex befor marriage.
As a nice man, he respected her right and waited but was dissapointed to discover that she was not a virgin after he married her, the man want to divorce her immediatly, the case is in the court.

Na this make me say make she dey sure!!!!!!

Absolute nonsense.

A girl should lose her virginity simply because of a guy's threat  
She can never regain it once it's lost. So, what happens if they seperate after a few weeks?

I dont like it when some girls ill advise younger girls  

This mumu has married an Igbo man and she says all her friends are Yoruba women who date married men.
These nosensical Black Americans do my head in
They are so full of rubbish and they dont know. They exhibit excessive pride in their ignorance. Just like their leader Gearge 'Mumu' Bush, many of them are wallowing in the pits of their ignorance.
We wont be having a battle with our Yoruba ladies if that's your intention for this thread. Go and find your fellow black americans to kill themselves with guns in schools instead of stirring up internet tribal issues

girl22:
if we have subsaharan african blood and long lost relatives in africa and live in america for 500 hundreds years that makes us african americans.

everywhere across the planet indians are called indians. it does not matter if they were born and raised in chins, africa or america. asian are asians no matter where they were born or live. chinese are always chinese, japanese are always japanese ect. no matter where they are.

If you are not an African, you cannot be an African. An Indian knows that he is from the country of India respects that. A Chinese knows that he is from the country called China and respects that fact.
A Black American is from the country called Americana and should respect that fact!

chikenna

they prefer them because they all want me

DavidDylan:
Even Jesus said you shld be submissive to ur husband.

you must be living on a parallel planet.

True

and many of them dont want to accept what the bible says about submission but they expect God to help them through their problems  

Problem is that the issue of submission gets taken to the extreme by some feminist women and they mislead younger women with their views

stillwater:
I surely know I don't behave bitchy, so why's such nonsense attributed to black women in general? The mannerisms of some AA ladies should never be used to describe/classify me, please.

I take it you meant some BLACK AMERICANS

nj11:
I buy designer clothes for my four year old son.Especially his church and party clothes are all designer and his boxer briefs are all from Calvin Klein,just love it when his jeans pants runs low and the waist band of his boxer has that label,its so cute.

I am unable to believe any sane mother will say this. . .

are you from the carribean islands by any chance?

Re: Why Do Africa Think Its ENTITLED To Foreign Aid?

If African leaders get their resources together - they can come out of its SELF-IMPOSED poverty state.

but NO - African leaders take the AID and pad their Swiss bank accounts.

If Africans don't care about Africans.

Why should the world?

Get your language and communication skills together before pointing your leprous fingers at others

JamaicanQT:
i always dream of having a big wedding a reception,

dont we all have dreams? more often than not, they are not achieved

I'd rather have it in my living room than McD's.
All the junkies who go into McD's will just be staring at you. You'll have junkies for guests

SeanT21:
AA have accomplish wonderful things in American History!!

I hope Every Black Man and Woman in America can live up to MLK,Oprah,Denzel,Obama,Michelle,Powell,etc and be somebody!!Every minority should try to do the same!!

Who is AA?
Is Oprah an African? NO. She's Black American
Is MLK an African. Bloody Hell NO. He's Black American
Is Obama an African. YES. He's half Kenyan, half American.
Is Michelle African? NO.
Is Powell an African? I doubt it

Abegiiiiiiiiiii comot for road

Now that we've seen the statistics for Black Americans, what are we supposed to do with it?

do you not think you should pray for the souls of your slave forefathers?
They will be very happy to know that you're happy for them to be slaves

MandingoII:
I'm glad my forefathers were slaves,

I couldn't tolerate looking like an Ugly african. no offense.

but that accent is kind of gross.

I hope you can say this to all other Black Americans you meet.

If you are so glad that your forefathers were slaves, why do you moan about your slave experience? Are you sure you're together upstairs?

MandingoII:
Sure, we have our druthers, Don't you?

We stick together and GET THINGS DONE!

Of course we have issues - What oppressed people don't.

American Whites have always been facinated with Black AMericans.

Its TRIBALISM that Africans have brought to Amerikka - with its separatist behavior.

If it wasn't for AA's Africans would NEVER be in this country.

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Your issues is NIGERIAN MADE AND BORN,

Our issues were created historically from the White man.

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Can we Black Americans over come them - YES WE CAN!!!!

Will Nigerians ever over come theirs, Not with illiterate people running your country & Goofy Religious practices HIJACKING your country side.



we are a mix of: Congo, Angola, Sengal, Gambia, Ghana, Equatoria Guinnea, Mali, Benin, Ibo, Camooroon, Madagascar, Niger, Ivory coast, Liberian, etc,


WE ARE ALL AFRICA!

so when you try and diss us, you diss yourselves.

Bolded part is deceitful hallucination