₦airaland Forum

According to Nairaland's standard, cooking is a woman's job so washing his clothes should be his responsibility.

But if your man doesn't mind sharing domestic chores, well you won't have a problem doing his laundry.

Just buy the machine, there are cheap ones out there. You make it sound like you married her just because she washes your clothes. Lol

That he took her virginity doesn't mean he took her dignity or self worth. She should move on, life doesn't start with virginity and definitely won't end with it.

Smh, yet Luke was a physician.

How come you are still single

All this small children going into relationships sef

Temptee101:
You must be related to Lair Mohammad or suffering his syndrome

You are retarded...just because you date girls that leech and drain your meager earnings you think every girl is like that. My parents raised me to be independent and contented with whatever I have. I am gainfully employed and dont need a boyfriend to pay for my needs when I'm not married to him.

One reason I dont allow guys spend their money me. They spend few kobos and they start thinking they are your savior.

The CAN in osun state is just immature and wants to divide a peaceful state. Is this even necessary? The education in this country is in decay and all they think of is an unholy competition. Instead of making better the educational system, awon idiots

Mr. Manipulator,
I have moved on and very happy, get a life or commit suicide.

Lol at "discussing how to maintain virginity"

DeMekus:
I've always maintained that a man should allow his wife exercise her freewill if it wouldn't ruin their marriage. Most women hate being the sit-all-day-at-home housewives, especially the educated ones. They like to engage in activities that relates to their course of study; primarily for its practicality before monetary benefits for family support. It doesn't matter if the husband is rich or not. So it would be unwise to try to stop them. Notwithstanding, the kitchen belongs to the woman as making financial provisions for the family belongs to the man. It's not debatable!

Its very debatable but that's your opinion. No one was born with an apron, the first man to cook was Jacob in the bible when he made porridge for Esau.

If she is not cramping and not passing out blood clots, she should be fine. Some women bleed in pregnancy due to changes in hormones. She should maintain bed rest, continue her prenatal drugs and see her doctor as at when due.

When I see topics like this, Im just not bothered. Like they say whatever floats your boat mate. If you like cook for your family, if you like insist its a woman's job.

Cammo:
No disrespect to women but by general standard (whether Africa or abroad) the kitchen belongs to the wife. Couples can share responsibilities but it's never gonna be equally. The husband, who is the head, is expected to provide for his family while the wife serves as his support. I can't imagine a scenario where a husband is cooking in the kitchen while the wife is mowing the lawn outdoors.

But it happens. That's that real world not fantasy.

DeMekus:
You didn't get my point. Among other things the African man was not supposed to do before now, I think the "stay away from the kitchen" rule should remain, if nothing at all, to show why we're different from the white folks. It doesn't take away the women's right to be respected. I, for instance, can wash my wife's clothes but can't force her to wash mine. I can sit and feed my baby too if need be. But I can never enter the kitchen to cook her meals; let that be my own dividend of being a married man.

You still haven't answered the question. Should the African woman stay at home and wait for the man to bring in the bacon? Since it was un-African in those days for the woman to work.

Lobatan

MCeeShort:
I'm not afraid of getting sick.
Most of these doctors run private practises and when they're on strike their hospitals get the patients.
Even when they're not on strike u find a doctor in a tertiary healthcare facility referring u to a private clinic!
They can fool every other Nigerian but I've seen too much of these doctors to ffeel any form of sympathy for them. They can strike all they want. Bunch of bloodsuckers they are!!!

True but most private hospitals dont have the facilities a tertiary hospital has and how many Nigerians can afford to see a doctor in a private hospital.

SegunAdewole:
Our yoruba muslims will support this because their fulani master Mumuhamido Ibn Burukutuharri the dullardd 1 can never be wrong.

yoruba muslims are our problems in Odua land.

The one I know is Yoruba vs Ibo vs Hausa or christian vs Muslim. Which one is yoruba vs Yoruba Muslim.

See them, let a man help his wife with her shoe or gele in public, all hell will break loose. Smh

Take your chance now.

MCeeShort:
I'm tired of Nigerian doctors!
If them be witch-doctors I for understand!

No calender passes by without hearing that doctors are going on strike!
Who takes care of the patients?
Our national health institution kills more people than it cures....very RUDE nurses and COMPLESANT doctors.

Haba! I just wish the Nigerian Media will blank them completely!
They should gerrerrehiamehn!!!

And where will you or your family get the health care needed. Why not pray the government give them what is due. Most of them are been owed salaries and are not even paid any presently and they have families to feed and care for. No one can function properly with such conditions. Most hospitals are not equipped with basic facilities to help the sick, yet the government wants them to work with with virtually nothing.

smellingmenses:
she must be a les.bian

Lesbians have sex

lecturerdabo:
This story is not balanced!

A lot of factors can cause the hymen to break including rough play by children!

As much as I don't hold brief for the teacher in question, I also doubt the possibility of a teacher fingering a pupil right inside the classroom!

"Others were sleeping" where they all drugged?

If that child was defiled, its most likely a man that did it and the child is scared to mention his name!!

But I think that child does not know what happened to her and her mother was desperate for answers and she gave her one!!!

You never can tell, the heart of man is desperately evil. A child of that age will not point out another person as the perpetrator but will rather keep quiet.

Sorry to say ma, you married an egoistic man who doesn't care about your opinions. But all is not lost, talk to him calmly and suggest couple therapy.

princeade86:
so ur hateness make u not to read very well or u dont knw how to read to understand. he said they never invited him for once and that they even met at court room by 9am and nobody talked about is warrant of arrest.

Relax, I did not know he is your uncle. Besides that does not give you the right to question my literary abilities, mind you I read it and I did not say he is guilty. Understand the context of what I wrote.

NB there is no such word as hateness.. Use spite instead.

The bible said, be gentle as a dove and wise as a serpent. That woman wasn't wise at all, you live in a volatile area known for religious violence, yet you dared to blasphame their prophet. The reaction she got was expected, albeit, that action is condemnable and the perpetrators be brought to justice. You cannot kill another in the name of religion, its wrong. Even the Islamic book condemns killing in the name of Islam. Those idiots were just looking for an excuse as always to kill non indigenes.

Chief that is not the gravest crime in the world, raping a 4 year old is. If you are not guilty, answer the clarion call. Stop making noise

You can't breathe but you can type this lie. Smh

When a man finds a good wife. Happy for the couple, sorry for those giving unsolicited advice and opinions.

johnstar:
Hmm, dis kind hard tym wey we gt for 9ja??
Na him u dey marry fat gal?? With oily punany
Al dis kind fat gals dey chop 6square meal oo

D main reason wey dis guy go marry dis gal na bcus say she go get moni

Stop your myopic views and disrespecting other people's choices. Just because you will love a disabled or an obesed woman for her wealth doesn't mean every man out there will.

This is the kind of thing NL guys will cheer and like. But let a man help bath his baby, they will be foaming in the mouth. The world does not revolve around you guys.