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I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

This story is somehow, the way I see it, she tells you she is pregnant, you act out like a slowpoke and throw a fit, babe is scared of an uncertain future and decided to abort it. You find out but since you are looking for a way to leave her, you make her feel guilty about aborting it. Grow up.

Eyah, could be your inability to express yourself well in English that is the cause. Pele

Lol so many ignorant answers. A proper hospital will never allow a male doctor examine a female patient alone. Besides who will get turned on by a woman groaning severe pains, leaking blood and fluid while pushing a baby. Some even poop while giving birth. Obviously all of you saying no dont know what delivery or surgery is. Smh

sauceny:
Guys don't lie

And you just did.

saintikechi:
nobody wants to marry a barren woman.

And nobody wants a man with empty testicles.

That is a very wrong and twisted condition to give anyone before marriage. Infertility is 30% male, 30% female and 40% unknown. So the guy might the one with the problem.
Marriage is way beyond procreation.

So sorry you had to be a victim of a man full of insecurities. To be honest I will do just what you did, having a child that is a constant reminder of rejection and mistrust is not palatable. Work on yourself, find love where your heart seeks irrespective of tribe.

Iranu, Abasha. What about the lies guys tell ladies so they can deflower them. Lies like you won't have menstrual pain again, I love you, I will marry you, I will only put the head, etc

Funny enough my previous landlady and her husband are in same situation. In fact for years I thought he was the gate man. Later for to know he used to be very wealthy, was one of the first to drive a jeep in that town. He squandered the money, deserted his children and wife. But when things went sour for him, they accepted him but he lives in the BQ and they dont treat him well. The woman is wealthy now. Maybe its just karma.

Experts oshi, people just love to display their stupidity boldly. Simple science. It is NOT possible for a goat to be impregnated by a human.

I dont see what is wrong with a woman keeping her maiden name. Marriage is not about monotony but two people understanding and reaching a compromise.

tayooluwole:
U said death to a true believer is a call to everlasting life... My brother, what I need is evidence that after death there is a life there that is everlasting , there is paradise in semewhere else where all believers are going after death... Let scienstific or material or even spiritual evidence be shown to me in dis regard and let's see if I will not go to the street of kano and beggin to shout that Jesus is the only way...

Believing is not all about seeing...look at this way, you sleep today and wake up healthy tomorrow. Did you see the tomorrow you hoped to wake up to? But you went to bed with the hope of seeing tomorrow. Believing something exist is not all about seeing it, its the hope and faith that makes it real.

AuroraB:
Why 'both' of them ? Are you afraid or something

Iya what has fear got to do with my statement?

These two must think they are the first "celebs" to have marital problems. Awon atole meji.

You are doing something wrong. If your woman says she can't cope its because she has a lot on her plate, domestic chores and work related issues and you are not helping in relieving her burden. Talk to her, assist her in chores, listen when she talks about her day, compliment her and have sex when you are both in the mood.

Why will anyone use such dp when he knows things are not fine with them? Both of them need bulala

I read to the end hoping to find the sense in this non sense but alas it eludes me. Smh. What a perverted nature, when the holy book condemns adultery, someone is justifying it on a supposed holy day. If a man wants to be polygamous, fine, but do it with respect and dignity not sneaking around and saying sorry afterwards.

truthspeaks:
Some blogger created a story of her abt d incident u see in d pics witout her permission n it portrayed her in bad light in frnt of family n friends. She was jst expressing her bitterness. If sum1 snapped u let's say while eating n posted it on social media witout ur permission, how wld u feel? N why wld u judge sum1 as olosho?

Shows the kind of person he is, a bad apple.

It just shows the decay in human nature, you take pictures of regular people going about their business, form a story and post online for cheap attention thereby damaging the other's reputation.
Like the idiot who posted a video of a sleeping baby that was dreaming and termed it sexual. So much decay, no respect for privacy.

If the girl is one year old and was raped two years ago, when was she born?
But if the girl was raped at age one and is now 3 years old, how does a 1 year old point out the suspect after 2 years?
This story sounds like akoba, adaba.

Lol like how do you quit someone? Bad use of English.

This guy will soon Photoshop destinies.

skywalker001:
Good morning my dear sister...
Pls am gonna need your help and support for the upcoming event on nairaland...
Thanks sis

What event sir

devilmaycry:
lol....Aunty who told you they are implants....or u jealous ?..heheh

Jealous of something fake? Read the article again.

Big baby, make e no chop, shioor.

devilmaycry:
Lol...at 65 some nigerian women can't even walk...and their Boobs be flat like slippers

Ish the boobs are implants

ZUBY77:
Hello Pastor VP Osinbajo,
what happened to

"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"

2 Corinthians 6:14

Have you been telling us lies at the pulpit?

See how you twist bible smh. What is your definition of unbeliever and wickedness.

kennygee:
So if a sister walks up to you dressed like her to preach the gospel, you'll accommodate her message?

1 Timothy 2:9 - In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

My pastor once shared a story of how he and an evangelism group went to evangelize on a Saturday morning. He met with a prostitute around, shared the word with her and invited her to church, the sister didn't show up that Sunday, but he met her weeks later and asked why she didn't come.

She replied its because "she didn't have any cloth fit for church".

His happiness was that, even a prostitute knows what is fit for coming into the house of God.

What will it cost to dress modestly, if your salvation or godliness is that precious to you, you will go to the extreme to guard it jealously.

I will rather know someone first than judge them based on appearance. But whatever works for you sha.

kennygee:
Its the heart that reflects outside. The bible says we are light, them dey hide light, is light not physical?

Our profession of Christ should show outwardly too. That's how to know we are "Christians".

Outward in terms of good works like compassion, love, kindness etc not how you dress.

When we realize godliness is beyond the physical appearance, then we will know not to judge anyone based on what we see.