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martinosi:
ROFLMAO!!!,  typical, i should not have expected much from you, keep on
with your dodgy advise in the travel section as thats what Nigerians like you enjoy,people
asking you for your advise when everyone fully knows well that your sources
are not credible or fully scrutinised.

This is coming from the same m[i]o[/i]ron who was advising somebody to over stay his visa and get a job as a teacher?

Many got their visas with the same dodgy advice FREE, Were u really borne, raised, studied in the UK as u claimed?

pendo89:
amen

pendo89:
yep yep.one man's poison, meat.but at least u agree that its all about choices. Dont want to push that positive and negative influence further.
Fact is there's is always that grounded loyal nigerian girl whom the likes of the guy above you refuse to see yet they are all over the place.
cheers

I'm tempted to agree with you.

pendo89:
lol @ the only man-lover in town.
Positive influence I hope that is what you mean.Its got to be positive to influence me. And Its still up to me to decide how far it will influence me.
Things are not forced on us. We embrace and adopt them and make them our lifestyle. A lot depends on your persona,beliefs etc.
No man is an island and no man is a tazmanian devil as well. you choose what you want into your life.good or bad.You decide.
So for me to make decisions based on my friends opinions and lifestyle is pretty childish.Its simply bringing weeds into my island.
we be friends but I decide what is best and works for me.

Probably the only girl/woman in the ''village'' , . . . . sometimes what you see as positive influence could affect another person negatively. It takes a very grounded girl to remain loyal when the going gets tough.

pendo89:
yeah few I agree.But the bolded to me describes a very immature/insecure girl. One with teenage tendencies who is still influenced by friends and people's opinions.
Whatever the case,no relationship is forced, its a matter of choice.You choose your kind and deal with it.
It's just wrong to blame the world for one's own choices.

No matter your age or class you will be influenced by either friends or the society, you will be an odd number if you choose to go ''solo'' or be island of your own, you can't carry on being the only g-a-y in the village for a long time.
Everybody would love to have the type of the rela/ship you described but the truth is that they are very rare to come by.

pendo89:
chima,that your mind is just something else. 
That cementing is what I call nourishment and its supposed to be a symbiotic kind of relationship not parasitical one or else one dies in the process.
Everybody even william and kate treated each other even though not with bb,weaves or cards.
But you,as well as I know that the treats are a way of getting to know each other better and build a strong relationship.
If it all ends in bed or at the burger place everytime u meet with nothing solid then I call it barter.
Now ask yourself what happens if at one time things go haywire for you and you are not able to buy the goodies? If the goodies were the cement it goes down the drain. But if true love and other valuable qualities were cement it holds.You will not enjoy the luxuries but it will hold.
a malnourished relationship you may choose to call it since you say it's a value system.

The picture you painted works in real world, where people love you for who you are and not for what you have, very few girls will stick with a guy who is not financially ''useful'' to her any more after getting used to receiving. She may try for some months but when her friends get new gadget, new hair-do, going out for dinner and her boyfriend couldn't afford those again then it will not be long before her body-language start changing forwards the boyfriend, they argue about every silly things, cracks start appearing in the rela/ship. her ''friends'' will advice her to dump the boyfriend for somebody who ''value'' her more.
You could count with ur fingers the number of girls who will stick with a broke-[i]ar[/i]se guy long enough without doing a runner.

pendo89:
well said chima

dont miss the point. I said a smart guy wins a lady using his mind and not his wallet and vv. When you buy her goodies/treats thereafter you are not buying her love but nourishing what you already got. Am sure there are several of such gals in nigeria.

A foolish guy will buy spend money to win a gal. The mumu gal will fall for that of course. Now whatever he does for her is not nourishment but survival. Its called barter trade.Money in *love* out.

Questn really is what does caring guy mean? spending

Yes i agree with u but i'm basically saying that  in Nigeria sometimes, the opposite is the case. Even if you are smart enough to win her mind without the ''goodies'', it will not last until you cement it with goodies, buying the recharge cards, money to get her hair done, BBs. . . ., this is the value system, if you don't give (with love or out of foolishness) you will be dumped like hot potatoes cos there are ''foolish'' guys out there who are ready to do that.

pendo89:
Not nigeria only. Its done all over the world and its very okay. What I understand you to mean is, that very kind act of buying gifts is depicted as foolishness.
Now my guess is it would only be called foolishness if you are using the money or gifts to buy her love. She can sniff a mumu.
If you win her with your mind and then accompany that with gifts/treats am sure she wouldn't call you mumu.
A mumu guy has nothing else to offer in terms of care except buy stuff.

That is supposed to be the case in real world but unfortunately 8 out of 10 cases doesn't work that way.

No matter how much you claimed to love her by word of mouth its all crap until the goodies start flowing, then that is love in action.

Sijo01:

U cant b both!
any gurl dat calls u (justwise) is a mumuology

pendo89:
That is what I was waiting to hear. You are buying love instead of letting it happen.And she knows it that's why she labels you mugu certified.
care = buying stuff= foolish/mugu
Caring is broad.

Well. . . in Nigeria, buying ''gifts and giving money'' is a core part of rela/ship, you show how much you love her by action (gift/money) i must point out here that its not all Nigerian girls that does this.

If you are not a ''giver' then u don't stand a chance.

pendo89:
ok I take mugu to mean foolish.
so a caring guy does foolish things? why shouldn't he be called foolish then?

The term ''mugu'' is used when somebody is being milked by a girl/boy, basically it means you are not smart/clever to realise that you have been turned to cash-machine.

Sijo01:

meaning u ar wat d op said,
true or false?

Both. A guy could be a mugu to one girl and a caring one to another girl, it all depends on how the girl sees it, she may think that a guy is giving her stuff cos of her looks or her charm is working on the guy while another girl will see it as caring and generous.

martinosi:
For you Justwise!!!

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Stick that garbage. . . . you know where

martinosi:
Come on Just wise why are you talking like you dont understand the "MO" of the
Western Countries since you like in one (UK).

They set up AFRICOM in 2007 [/b]which means it was not going to be long before they start
bombing an African Country. Please dont be so Naive or [b]just stick to giving people
"Dodgy" Travel advise in the travel section lol!!!

Obviously I'm not a stranger to ur lies and misleading information, i thought u were borne and raised in the UK? Hypocrite, i'm used to you copying and pasting rubbish everywhere.

Sijo01:
^ar u caring?

I would like to think so.

pendo89:
and what exactly does the caring guy do to be called one?

The same thing a ''mugu'' does, it all depends on the receiving gal.

Both

enuose:
i don't why you ppl want to knw d name of the skool,dat i can't disclose if you like laugh till eternity ok,[b]after all my school calls me often and often,[/b]u can LOL

Another sign of bogus colleges.

chelseabmw:
Bros i wan die for laugh here oo. . . Abeg make u and your travel people nor con kill me here abeg ooo

he knows why he doesn't want to disclose the school's name, but any private college in London rated ''A'' and charging £3000 for a year course should be avoided by all cost.

chelseabmw:
@@@poster


What is the name of the school?

London Greater London

dinggle:
Georgia is Georgia joor USA or Europe after all they have same spelling. If u live in Georgia jus say so!

Are you for real? A country [/b]and a [b]state are the same thing cos they shared the same spelling?

imconfused:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-15589596
It is still a proposal though and won't come into effect for a while

Thanks for the link, the poster got no backbone to defend his lies.

[quote author=olajide_07 link=topic=797265.msg9487782#msg9487782 date=1320508888]I was just going through one of the national dailies and it seems to me the british government is trying steal from us they way they have always done as our colonial masters, in my submission I think except I can be further enlighted that they have found out that their so called pound would soon have to be deregulated because of the euro zone problems facing europe and their economy may soon nose dive if they do not do some form of economic re-engineering, it reminded me of Bob Marleys song the "buffalo soldier" they have just found out that most of their citizens are not interested in working and this is causing a lot of issues for them economically after a close assessment of the greek economy, they have now decided to change gear from what I saw their they said that[b] for any nigerian to live in the united kingdom for a year he would have to earn at least £35,000/annum about 9.1million[/b] naira imagine the turn over and economic boost 200,000 nigerians legal and illegal immigrants doing that amount just to stay in the u.k their economy would only get stronger as well as them making up the difference for their social service system OWO baba, critically speaking it would generate more spending and increased productivity in a foreign country because of the relunctance of their own people to do minial jobs and factory jobs, wahala dey O![/quote]Where did you read that from?

Isu ata:
This is why FIRS- Federal Inland Revenue service field operatives are now armed with Digital Forensics training, so business owners beware o, lol

Isu ata:
Prevoius laws were not explicit on the admissibility of digital evidences but the followin icpc act opens doors,

The ICPC Act 2000, Section 57 (b) states that “ any document
or copy of any document or photographic electronic evidence or
thing seized from any person or however obtained… shall be
admissible in evidence in any proceedings under this Act
before any court,…”

Thanks for the info, very useful.

Isu ata:
well as for cost, and training you hav to be in abuja, or if you wld like to read urself i can make materials(practical materials) to you.Ofcos you must purchase your tools of engagement too,

What forensic tools do you use for the training?

enuose:
No that is where the skool is located and the county,but the rating is A-rating

You don't the school website or name? Many private colleges were stopped from admitting foreign students recently and some suspended, you need to check ur school recent status, as recent as this week.

How much is your total school fees and how much have you paid already?

enuose:
Yes this the colledge rating, LONDON GREATER LONDON A rating Tier 4 General

London Greater London?

enuose:
Please house i applied for Uk visitors visa in july but i was refused due to insufficient fund and not meeting the appropriate requirement,but am applying for student visa now and i have met all the requirements with enough fund of 2.4million in my account now,and i have my offer letter from the college in London, with the unconditional letter and i have paid half of the college fee,but am still scared because of the first visitor refusal,please house i need more courages and advie on this pleaseee

If the refusal wasn't as a result of forgery or other immigration offences then u got nothing to worry about.

1st of all is the college highly rated by UKBA?