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suxes2005:
Sure my bruv but since they said what i posted is wrong
and for the sake of love and peace to reign[b] i had to dance
to their tune.[/b] Those goin there this time around knows whats up in
Malaysia, Of course i hate scam and its last thing i will
ever do or think of.
ThanksSHALOM

Don't dance to my tune or anybody's tune, dance to the tune of truth, dance to the tune of justice.
Don't let money cloud ur sense of justice.

Dare14:
@ justwise

welldone bro.i really appreciate all your efforts on this forum man , thanks alot@ suxes2005

i tot your always on our side, fighting those scammers on Nland?

God bless.

petaling:
Indeed biss!!! scamming people

Don't mind that thief.

AngieFan:
Same here. But in America it is expected and they will give you attitude if you don't do so whereas in places like England and Nigeria it is not obligatory.

Well. . .in that case, i will not be in a hurry to visit that restaurant again b4 they give me 'rat eat and die'

googles:
That's how you know potential serial killers.

You may not be far from the truth

AngieFan:
I think Chika98 is using the US as his point of reference. In that part of the world it can be considered highly offensive if you don't tip.

Ok, but even at that, i will only tip if i was given good service.

Beync:
I wish the poster's friend can read this.

Yes. .the bf should pick that phone and say to his family calmly and politely. . .i love this lady and she loves me, we want to be together, I'm old enough to know what i want and i need your support,if you love me and want me to be happy then this is when to show it.

I mean. . the bf can't blame his family if this rela/ship ends, his family shouldn't choose who he should fall inlove with.

betty obie:
I will try to get in touch with his family,because never before I have seen them or talked with them,But i always send my love and regards to them.But I think to get it touch with them will be difficult,cause they don't want to talk with him,what about me?
I just want to be fine with them.I am not a bad person and I want to show them my love towards my boyfriend.

P.S thank you all for your opinion,it's important for me to get into all this things more,

That will be good idea if u can.

190:


[color=deeppink]funny but true
wetin you want make i talk again

its obvious this poster is dealing with a family with backward mentality
maybe gifts go open their eyes, i nor know wetin i wan talk again   [/color]

She will become their cash machine, if the money is not flowing then the love is not there. Her bf should do the bribing and talking not her

190:
[color=deeppink]I know this is serious ish and im trying to be funny here
how about you buy your way into the family

[b]Get his dad a car,his brother's and sister's different stuff[/b]we africans love gifts and money anyway,
sssh its just a secret dont say i told you!![/color]

, i disagree, buy them nothing! Your bf has to prove how much he loves you now, this is where he should show what he meant when he says he loves you. This is love in action, not when all is rosy and juicy but in a case like this. . .he should stand up and be counted.

190:
[color=deeppink]simple ,

Goosh i cant imagine we Africans complaining that RACISM is everywhere
when we cant simply allow our sons marry their daughter's

No wonder some Africans are far from civilization [/color]

Its upto 'us' to move things forward, we need to learn how to say 'no' politely to our families and stand by it, yes it may get rocky at first but they will soften it up with time.

betty obie:
Hey guys!
I read absolutely every single word here. . .
The truth is his mother is dead,his father,brothers and sisters are against our relationship.
I still don't know what to do. [b]Your culture is very strict and I know if family says 'no' then nothing can be done.[/b]I am praying all the time and hope GOD will help us.
Just looking for a way to let his family know they are wrong and cause us pain and pain.

Actually that is not the whole truth, not all Nigerian culture is like that, maybe in 70s or early 80s but things have changed now, many families are more accommodating of other cultures than b4

190:
[color=deeppink]Chaircover i bet you are Yoruba
but your idea for defending his parents are illogical and baseless!!
I am a Nigerian and i have seen what Nigerian ladies can do
look @ this Guinea fowl ^{riff rat} called odunnu now, do you think i would ever let my son
marry such a lady into my family, GEEZ!!
I have seen serious cases of where families wouldn't want their kids to get married and cos of love
these kids stick in { without their parents blessings or whatever } and these marriages work
as long as there is LOVE { notice its in caps } things are bond to work,
this lady loves this guy here so why cant she have this guy to herself and later we africans would
come out and start shouting RACISM RACISM RACISM [/color]

I don't normal agree with u but in this case i have to, my family can only support my choice of partner or they back off, its my life, my wife.

Temayo:
I guess it is a scam 'cos even me that did not apply was sent the mail. So you friend has to be careful. A word is enough for the wise.

That was my initial feeling but then again since the email stated that the USA embassy will send him a letter then he has to wait untill the letter comes, he will be able to verify it. That is ONLY if he entered the visa lottery.

wakiri:
@ suxes2005, you are the one to apologise for trying to mislead people.

I have to agree with you.

chika98:
It is rude not to tip. If I've gotten a bad service then I tip about 10% of the total bill. But the standard I tip all the time is 20% or 15% it depends. Unless of course When I travel out of the country to somewhere else that isn't big on tipping then I wont tip.

I don't think its rude not to tip, i think tiping should be a personal thing, one shouldn't be forced to tip.

VIJAYKRISH:
@justwise but thts a contact of nigeria i guess i need the contact of india

Ok, this is the india contact link http://www.vfs-uk-in.com/contactus.aspx

Abayomin70:
they sent him a message in is yahoo mail dat d america embassy will contact him personally dat they av nofin less to discus with him

Ok, in that case, he should wait for the letter to arrive in from the embassy b4 taking futher step.

oncolor:
Thanks a lot Justwise, just wanted to be sure cos I have been getting conflicting info.

No prob, just remember that u can't travel out with the old passport after April as it will be phased out after April.

ikeyman00:
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ole and onye oshi

SEFAGO:
no they are not. A small number of the ivy league have weak research profiles though they are weak in teh US, but would be qualified as strong in the UK. For example Brown is seen as a weak research institution in the US but its research profile is stronger than 80% of the Russell Group. However the student body and prestige at brown in the US is very strong. The job opportunities available to a graduate from Brown would be very very significant.
In geenral most people in the US make a distinction between rigorous undergraduate institutions and Research universities.
You might as well say OAU/UI is equivalent to Harvard since these are the best in nigeria. Also depends on your definition of good opportunities. They would do the trick though for a simple job but most would not get you a job at an elite firm easily.
Anyways I think at this point I want to encourage everyone to go back home. [b]There is so much we couldn do for Nigeria with the education we receive abroad.[/b]Dont you miss pounded yam and eguisi soup, because I do.
i agree, its the right of the UK to limit immigration in their country. Their system seems to be already overburdened
Come on guys there is Canada and Australia- these countries have small population density, at leasy consider your prospects there.

There is only one place that no one would be chasing you about in terms of immigration and stuff. the country where you were born----Naija

Thats a serious point, though its hard to make that decision, the way things are here now, alot of pple would cherish the opportunity of moving back home, but its hard to make that move.

creamofluv:
Have been living in the uk for the past 6 years and i can tell you UK is not what it used to be back in the days, [b]my advice to people back home who want to come to the UK, should stay put, use your money to invest in business or any other things you can think of.[/b]Alot of people here wanna go back home, but the prospects of security, no light and bad road and health scare the hell out of most people here.
You can't blame the UK government for wanting to reduce immigrant, for one they cant reduce the EU which take massive part of their employments, due to referendum they had with the EU, hence reducing people from non eea.
Let me remind you guys of when ghana was in our country doing all the odds jobs, what did we say, GHANA MUST GO, did you see where the brits are coming from now?No money, goverment cutting all jobs like there is no tomorrow, and people are getting more angrier by the day.
Also to friends, families back at home, should cut we guys here some slack as they expect us to be sending them ridiculous amount of money everytime. Alot of people cant even afford to eat 3 times a day here. RANT OVER

That is true but a bitter one, not everybody will see it that way.

SEFAGO:
The US ivyleague is different from the Russel Group. It comprises the most elite undergraduate institutions. Most of these institutions open job opportunities and have a social and academic tag that only Oxbridge in the UK can match.

Anyways, Nigeria is really a high risk country- eevryone is trying to run away from naija, dont understand why though.

Are those two groups ranked based on the quality of research they carried out or what?

seye4nii:
wat about you that used fake document to obtain student visa ar u not one of us,

from madeup.com. I don't deal on fake documents, all my traveling documents are original.

I don't need to marry my grandmother to stay here, unlike you.

seye4nii:
you still dey angry about dat ; my brs u will die of premature anger oooo.

No, i'm not angry at all, but you don't have any moral right to condem the UK for treating some Nigerians poorly cos you are one of those denting our image in the UK

seye4nii:
Dnt mix things up pls bro!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@justine u must read and understand; se oju e tifo ni, you always mix things up

. . yea but not about you getting involved in sham marriage to stay in the UK.

Flawless:
Bukky4real ignore him, he is an infamous character on this site. He is known by everyone for his aggressive and offensive nature. He clearly lack argumentative skills and cannot pass his point without been offensive.

Please never allow his intimidating nature get into you at all.

shalom

. . .yea maybe thats all pple like you deserve from me. Can't be bothered.

bukky4real:
Flawless,thanks. I really can see that. i will totally ignore

You better do.

Flawless:
Justwise that word should be ceasing (fervently, non stopping) not season (festive, weather etc) I guess you need to be passionate about you improving your English skills with the several asssswipppppppinnngg posts that you have been regurgitating on this site one would think you would have improve your understanding of the English language. You are aspiring to be an English man, you are better off getting your writing skill sorted out then you can graduate to skin bleaching, then various surgeries such as nose restructuring etc. before thinking of supporting the English man with your dribbles.Mr justwise, today is Saturday I have got better things to do with my weekend than throwing banter with someone that gladly walked into 21 century slave trade. Kunta Kunte etc have paid the price.
Nice weekend everyone Bleep

This is coming from somebody who wrote: 'I believe it is hi time you stopped writing anything about Nigeria cos we all know that you will never see any good thing about that great country'.  ? Get help too Mrs English language teacher.

bukky4real:
Pls do, u are not popular on this thread at all especially with the ladies, thread carefully with you use of words

Who started this thread? And who give a monkey about the so called 'ladies'?

bukky4real:
Teejay, am not arguing or anything. US is not my country. Besides i thot i was coversing with you, i never knew that dude would be[b] on the offensive[/b]

There you again