₦airaland Forum

Ebonyeyes:
You know I love you guys

U wat? No u don't U are one of the feared sharp tongues here.ahahaha

Ebonyeyes:
Hmmm all D--ks look the same, it has a head, shaft and two balls .


I think the poster still has a soft spot for the ex.

God will save us single blokes from u this cheeky woman.

Ebonyeyes:
O dear im sorry

My view abt being too much of a 'nice guy' is not good originated from my experience with her. Very valuable experience i must confess.

Ebonyeyes:
Its annoying when things like this happens just stand your ground and you family will come through in the end.

Well i ended it, though it got nothing to do with my family views abt her.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Mehn E hard ooo
It's important to me that my brothers accept him. Though they (brothers) are generally very cool with things. They aren't so unreasonable most of the time, just that they would prolly end up watching the guy like hawks [/color]

Haha, that is even worst, they accepted him/her yes, but gives the person cold shoulder.

Davedavy:
It is always boldly stated in the visa application forms that the visa fees is non refundable, there is no country in the world where the visa fee is being returned due to refusal of the issuance of the visa. So it is not only a Nigerian thing, it happens everywhere,all the embassies across the world.

Tell them

Ebonyeyes:
I know what you mean. We need to change our backward mentality.

When i visited Nigeria last yr after 10yrs, everybody were interested to know if i'm hooked up or not, some suggested one or two good girls they know that will make a good wife. I kept quiet. Then i was in serious rela/ship here and i went with her pic which i showed my elder brothers, one was ok with it, some extended family members were either here or there but some came out smoking, that i can't marry non-Nigerian, that she will not like our culture, that they can't communicate with her bla bla bla.

My mum was influenced by all the side talks going around, sometimes confused abt the whole thing.
All my elder brothers are married, i reminded that i never choose for them, i never told them who to marry and they should keep off.
I was furious abt the whole thing, now they know where i stand when it comes to marriage issues.

Many embassies does give help but some Nigerians makes it even harder to be rendered help to. They have more than 3names, no travelling document, even rude to embassy staff who are there to help them.

Ebonyeyes:
Thankfully my parents are liberal and non-traditionalist so I will not have problems hopefully. I hope my inlaws are the same.

Now i see where u coming from. But remember alot of Nigerian families go through hell to get both sides agree.

Pataki:
Must a man be ''bad'' to be urbane and sensible with a good head? The truth is this: you women do not know what you want in a relationship. When confusion sets in on your mind, you become incoherent (This is not geared at you!).

A nice guy is simply being himself, standing true to his value(s), and maintaining the integrity and sanity of a relationship. A nice guy respects himself and holds a good esteem of a lady. The word ''bad'' should never be interchanged to imply or connote an anecdote that it means good in a relationship.

Totally agree with u

Ebonyeyes:
I dont know. I mean family is family and if I alienate them and things dont work out in the marriage, its them I have to crawl back to. I would have to make them see reason and keep[b] both sides happy[/b].

Sometimes u can't make both sides happy. Its hard to have it both ways sometimes

Ebonyeyes:
His parents may have set the traditional marriage to the village "good" girl that your BF asked them to find























_{Just kidding}

U may not be far from the truth

whitelexi:
No

She has to meet my family, and they have to approve, all of them.

And u still man enough to be called a husband? How long will families keep making serious and crucial decision for u?

Yes take her back just for shag, just[i] friends with benefit[/i] kind of stuff, just in case she does a runner again then u got nothing to lose

yes

Spiffyhot:
My boyfriend is a nice guy
but the only problem he has is jelousy,he also has a temper.he doesnt allow me keep other male friends,he gets angry and shouts at me whenever he reads a text from anybody evn if it is a girl,his excuse is dt he doesnt want me to b a lesbian.sometimes he beats me up.

he is always talking about marriage but i am scared,we are nt married and he treats me like a prisoner,when we do what will i become.I ve been dating this guy for over two years nw but he is frustrating me, should i quit

This just prove that some' girls enjoy abusive rela/ship. If u can call somebody who treats u like that NICE guy then now i know what i have being doing wrong.

posakosa:
He doesn't have money for recharge card now, send him some western union so that he can spend it on his boo over there.

Hmmmm

Its normal, though most BBW or chubby girls don't like removing their cloth with light on, infact i was with a girl who refused to remove her cloth untill i turn off even the TV.
She is so insecure of her body cos pple told her that fat girls are ugly. That did not bother me, with time she becomes free with me and feel free around me.

Give her time, she will over grown it.

I respect this guy. That was pure shit!!!

@Chuksab,

The title of ur post got nothing to do with the body. U are trying hard to get a victim here. Tell us how embassies rip Nigerians off.
Are u not a wicked soul? U can't even put together readable sentence.
Stop making fool of urself here.

Damoche10:
I need a quick answer/advice to this puzzle. I went visiting my gf(girlfriend) and we got talking, she told me how she met her long time friend (male). She tod me they actually dated and called him by name Akeem. That name got stuck in my head. She told me the guy is now married bla, bla, bla, the exchange numbers which I think was a normal thing.

A few days later (yesterday) she came to my house and as I was surfing the internet on the black berry phone I gave her as a birthday present, a call came in , she stored the number of the caller as " AK S heart". Her middle name starts with an "S" and AK could mean Akeem. When the ringing stopped, I checked the number of the said Akeem I stored on my phone and noticed that it is the same number that called her phone. A lot went through my head, With this I must confess that I feel she is double dating.
Nairalanders, what do u think?

Could be but don't act on it, ur evidence is not stronge enough, unfortunately u have got urself  in a mess, meaning u will struggle to trust her again. Just try to keep an open mind abt it.

biola44:
wats sex on d phone?

Good Question, whats that?

whalezy4u:
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AM EXPECTING your REPLIERS NL

Do u mind my grandmma? She still wears micro min-skirt. U know the older the better

cherish:
she claimed, she havent meet him

Its posible that they never met but its cheating as Ebonyeyes pointed out and chances are that they will meet. Done it b4 and i know the urge to meet quick to.well

Ejigbo Ann:
There was this guy in my life he want 2 marry me as second wife mean he is once my alfa nd d person he is dating i s already pregnant for him he said there is no were am going dat am his wife plz wat can i do i don't want 2 become a 2nd wife

See ur doctor 1st, get ur head checked and come to ask us wat u should do again

posakosa:
Nice guys might finish last in the dating game but NICE GUYS MARRY FIRST.


Which woman want to settle with a Bad guy if she no go get peace of mind ?

I can pay to say that again

Ebonyeyes:
Nice guys finish last. I like a mixture, a nice guy with elements of badness in him.

Hmm, this got me thinking now, what do we mean by badness? U mean a little bit of cheating here and there, small lies as long as he does all u want? Tell me

patwhizkid:
. . .dhiz yur English wan resemble Italian Language o. How yu manage get e-mail address sef?

Was thinking the same thing hahah

mubowa:
@sextacy and justwise, one of u asked me what am bringing into the marriage and one also said he's sure i will want him to be tall, handsome and bla bla bla. i will only answer u two bcoz it seems u fit into the described persons shoe. i will be graduating next year, after which i will go for my master and PhD degree concurrently. and guess what guys, i pay my sch fees from day one till tomorrow. i wouldn't enter a marriage if i do not have a job either.i am a young girl but hardworking and independent. i will definitely place thesame expectation on the man qualified to be my husband. so justwise, yes i want a tall and handsome man because am 5.9ft tall and beautiful and above all,i deserve one. u don't want me walking on the street with a man looking like a briefcase

Good, as long as u bring such quality into the marriage then u got every right to demand ur dream man.
Now i'm cool with ur previous post.

Chuksab:
Haba friends, why make a libel out of my post. Carefully go thru my write-up, you re expected to com wit a lawyer (your legal adviser). Plz i dnt get u clear friends, despite d high rate of scams doesnt mean der no faithful ones. Scamin is 2 low and cant bring myself 2 low 4 such. Tanx much 4 your undastandin

Just stop all this rubbish, don't try to justify ur intentions, we know it. Legal adviser for what? buying ticket or visa? Who pays for his services?

Hmmmm

MrCrackles:
Convention to do what?
WTF do you mean by convention?
You want to enquire about Ireland Visa, Canada Visa. . . How many do you want to enquire about at the same time?
Do you want to enquire about Ogbomosho visa too?

Hahaha u are funny. U know alot of pple use church conversion as an excuse to travel out of Nigeria, they will get a letter of invitation for some useless conversion then travel and never to come back again. BUT days are gone when that works. British embassy have seen more than enough of that. 2yrs ago, my friend wanted to bring her fiance here, she paid for those church programs in Ireland and sent the letter to her man in Malawi, he was given a visa but getting to the heathrow airport he couldn't prove to the immigration officers that he was really going for church program, not enough money to sustain himself. He was sent back from the airport, my friend lost her £200 and air ticket.