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My dear,there is absolutely to rule guiding that o. The choice is yours.

She deceived you into marrying her? Did u marry her for her qualification or for love? Anyway,I will advice you to forgive her because it is just the best. Keep her secret for the sake of the love that exist and the children.

Let me warn you: Its very risky taking marital advice from a divorcee,a bad husband/wife or a single person.

Seems u were eagerly waiting to get married and post your problems! wow! You only voice out marital issues that you've tried to settle continuously and didn't work!!! And running here shudnt even be your first option mehn. Pls I will advice you to grow up,obviously,I sense u are and will be the problem in your home,NOT YOUR WIFE!!!

The mess/fart part really lighten up my morning!!! I love farting especially when I eat ewa. hahahaha
sorry dear,I feel your pain but its a good thing that you have Christ in you. pray for her silently.Try to sit her down on a good day and ask her for forgiveness for watsover u may have done to her. Do claim rights even if you,just plead for peace ok. May God see you through.

When I saw the topic,I wanted to get mad at you but after reading through.... PLEASE GO AND TAKE THE PHONE FROM HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She must be a first class witch.

They are both good but Tonto's tattoos and piercing really turns me off when I sees her acting in an epic film especially as a village girl,it only reminds me that am whiling away time unlike Mercy that looks so real, interpreting such roles so well that I get carried away in the suspense.

Job. He was a very patient man. He loved and obeyed God even in his deepest grief.

snowballa:
Micro job sites like fiverr,elance, freelancer are site where you get paid for any particular job. Some of have skills like proofreading skills.. The money might look small but on the long run you will alwayz smile @ your bank account.. Itz is what I do. Resigned from my job cos the streess am getting doesn't worth the money... You can work and also do those jobs online once you are connected... They pay $5 for a job if you have 4 of that jobs is $20 and if you keep doing that everyday you will make up to 500$ monthly.. I know a lot of guyz that work like that 2 hrs per day... Thanks for reading

I haven't done any of these online jobs before but am sure ready to start one or more. I need more light and guardiance pls. tx

comsoy:
Hi. I was once in your shoes. I quite understand your situation. But wait, do you have skills? Most importantly, are you good on a PC? Or even your phone, android or Windows? I'm into lots of legit stuffs I mostly do from the comfort of my home. I can help. Just send me a pm or find how you can reach me as I don't like to drop my number here, you know spammers na. Well, just check my profile here, you'll find how to contact me. I wish you the best.

Hey,thanks a lot. Have you gotten any mail fro. from me? I av bin receiving failure notice to the mails I sent to u.

Congratulations and welcome to the club.

AgapeCharis:
me too...
U must have a lot to gv(knowledge)
Sent a pm

sorry am unable to access my mail so I av not bin able to view my PMs. feeling reluctant to open a new account.

macof:
Yh as the so called word of God has been used to instil fear the mind of the gullible since 30AD

Hahaha. People interperete it in different ways. Study it for yourslelf,don't be told. Its beautiful!

Am expecting my first baby and I have been thinking about the same. I already have names in heart,only pray my over sabi mother inlaw doesn't interrupt it with those heavy weighing Edo names. can't even pronounce my husband native name well,I can't risk that with my baby

soonest:
Give it to the fathers,it's their prerogative. However, the mother can name the child as well. I name mine because if I wait for my husband,the child will be 2yrs old without a name.

Funny you lolzzz

Be calm and act with your senses this time not your emotions. Don't pressure him on this. Ask him with wisdom and care. Remember,for him to have gone for trad against his family wish means he was either under a spell or genuinely in love with her. let's assume he was in love when he did that,do you expect such love to die so soon? The office Record for me,isn't prove enough. some job seekers lie about marital status depending on the benefits. So dear,I will advice you visit him and have a face to face chat with him. Leave his woman out of it for now,if u really want him. If he insist he's single,start getting closer to him and his family. Lastly,distance relationship is a 50/50 thing,you don't put all your eggs in one basket and never let it get over you.

AgapeCharis:
yea

Eyaa. Anyway,we can use our time to teach one another new things if you don't mind. for me,I love tapping from the knowledge of others ooo

It is a form of discipline. It only becomes an abuse when you flog unmercifully and unnecessarily. But a simple way out of all the troubles is FEEDING THEM WITH THE WORD OF GOD FROM INFANTRY. I learnt that from my aunt and pray to pass it on to my kids. You will have very less work to do on them.

AgapeCharis:
following

#seriously getting bored @ home

you too

DukeNija:
If you have access to internet and a good laptop, you can become a blogger. Open a and update it with news, inspirational talks and happening events around the world. You never can tell how big it might become.
Also you can become an online marketer, marketing items and services for people and organizations. Create a website or blog and market services for free for a start. You will then become an online Human Resource person. You can also go into forex trading depending on your knowledge of basic financial and investment. All these can be done from the comfort of your home. Start a blog and advertise job vacancies for free. Although the initial financial reward might be little or none, it will be worth your while and might turn out great financially.

Thanks a lot but I will surly need a guideline. I will appreciate if you can put me through. watsapp

Humm...am a twin as well so I feel your pain. A partner like no other...pls take heart ok. May God give you the grace to bear this heavy loss. RIP to a sister in twinship

Its just your testing time. Pray about it

LMAO!!!!

You are only hurting yourself. Before I got married,a guy did to me exactly what your ex did to you. But as I speak,we are BFF now. You feel awful about yourself because a guy left you with no excuse,don't lie on self esteem dear. I will advice you to brace up and always see yourself as the best. The earlier you realise that no one is better than you,the best for you.
NB: Everyone advising you here has individual problems. so be strong.

Some men don't even know common moves that arouses their wives.
Do all you can to find her weak spot.

slimup:
@ juzzybabe, you are welcome. For the sake of love and marriage just bear with him but if you cannot, he can get you a small accommodation outside his family house. All in all, time will take care of it all. Be strong and be encouraged.

Thanks so much. As for the accommodation,he strongly refused worst of all his parents has refused to let me get a job while here. they av restricted my movements as well.My husband dances to their tune. I wake everyday,watch the sun set to its going down. May God help.

slimup:
@ Zuzzybaby, all your husband has told you is the truth and nothing but the truth. So just bear with him and pray for him to finish his 2years contract, get a better job, and be financialy bouyant to either invite you as a wife,or assist you get a job to do especially as a teacher, but that will be when you are strong enough and baby is big enough for school.

Thank you so much. I only feel hurt that he knew all this and deliberately got me with the pregnant,now I have to tolerate his parents for until the baby is due for school. Feel like he played me because I suggested I work for a while before babies but he refused. Anyway,thank you so much.

I will give you the advice I have been giving my own husband. Am just in a Very similar case. while dating my husband,he accused me of a crime which I am very innocent of,I have explain everything to clear his notion but he refused to accept that am telling the truth. secondly,while dating,he was never serious with me,so I double dated and didn't hide it from him,I told him I was doing it because he had no plan of marrying me,and he didn't deny that.I loved him that's why I was still with him. In the end,we found ourselves on the alter saying I do. Well the problem is he always uses the past to judge me even tho he wasn't and isn't clean yet he has chosen to make life very miserable for me. we are just 3months old in marriage and am even pregnant but I have been begging him for divorce since I have no peace. He went to the extent of telling his family about our past just to convince them that I cannot be trusted,his family now treats me somehow. I cant narrate all am going through just because of a crime i didnt comit and my husband's refusal to let go. So my dear,if you have not caught your wife in the act since after marriage and yet you strongly feel you can't forgive her,divorce her or cheat your own if it will give you peace but don't push her to commit suicide like my husband is doing to me. Some so-called marriages aren't just worth the stress!

Please friends,I need your help and advice. Am in a mini prison which gives me no room to entertain friends or go out at will. I wish to get a job but am under tight restriction. I will like to know if anyone has an idea of a sure and legal job or business I can do from home no matter how little the pay,I only wanna keep my brain active. I will really appreciate your suggestions thanks.

please clear the air for me. My husband has been working in Dubai for a year + now,before we got married. After our wedding, our plan was that I join him but I got pregnant. When I told him about the development, he said I will have to come in as a visitor and work in order to stay. I Agreed but later he said life in Dubai is too hard and I may not be able to cope with my condition. i insisted knowing i will be able to meet up with the challenges but later again he said they don't even employ pregnant women even tho my pregnancy isn't showing. So I told him he cud file in for me to live with him since we are married but he said I can't join him again because his salary isn't up to 5,000 of the currency there which will permit me legally to live with him. Please I will like to know how true are his claims. thank you.