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My 4 private jets

UmericanGirl: I will crash your wedding if I dont get an invite!

Last time I checked you are till classified as extremely close freind


For the threat alone,you have a ticket,last thing I want is CNN's attention as a result of the crash,lol

Low key

Preferably court marriage.I just want extremely close freinds and extremely close family members.

I hate noise and publicity

Whe I didnt lose my mind,why wil I carry her bag.


I refuse to be a handbag.


If I try that shi*t then I need deliverance

Money(it encompasses the other two)

If you have money you can buy power to a certain degree and ofcourse women will flock after you.

So in my opinion money is the most important and with money one can buy his own destruction

If you are willing to accept her and her shortcomings,you can take her back.

But bear in mind that if you cant cope with those attitudes she puts up socially(and in other areas that you have issues with) you will only be left dissapointed for the rest of your life.

Love is not just sufficient to have a happy marriage(ask those who are divorce,they still love each other but they cant live with each other).

The question is then simple,can you put up with her attitudes.


My2Cent:Never marry anyone out of pity,you only marry a person because you have a deep conviction you should.

9 years

Two ladies embarrassing the whole nation

IN EVERY RUMOUR THEIR IS AN IOTA OF TRUTH

bashr8: what did they expect from gowon , the same man that said an american childs life is worth more than that of a nigerian .


i wnder wh this is funny to you, did they mention your father's name there?


people like you keep proving to the world that nigerians lack common sense.

Goofball,I'm sure you are a biafran,you should have refuted my argument,I think that would have made more sense.

nagoma: Celibate? No! to have some milk now and then you don't have to own a cow.

Besides a daily paid laborer is far cheaper to maintain than a slave who you have to feed, cloth and bury when they die.

Obviously I checked my dictionary before using that word.

Celibacy:the state of being unmarried or refraining from sexual intercourse.


I used the word celibate in my comment to mean unmarried(not abstaining from sexual intercourse)

Movingcoil: especially if u ar ugly

Lolz

adubiay: Your statement is childish and does not maka sense. Some guys wait for 6 months to a year to get into ladies and dey still run. It is not hw long he wait dat determine the love

My point is simple,if a man truly loves you he will wait till you are married before he has sex with you.

Money(it encompasses the other two)

If you have money you can buy power to a certain degree and ofcourse women will flock after you.

So in my opinion money is the most important and with money one can buy his own destruction

You don finish Op,meaning he all his actions will be influenced without him knowing and without him haviing a choice either

You don kill op be that o
[quote author=Mynd_44]I hope the girl uses jazz[/quote]

Sweetheart,forget about this guy,even if he takes you back,he will never trust you and that will be more painful to you than a break up.

You have learnt your lesson,make sure you dont ever cheat in you future relationships.


For you ex,it is over,their is little you can do about that,so focus on your next relationship.

ayabunmi: You are option No2, if that guy should f**kup, then you are in (the love of her life) otherwise you don juns.

Frankly he is not an optionn,the other guy already f*ucked up and he is still in number 1,if he still f*ucks up again he will still be in number one,op shouldnt forget also that this guy is in abroad another advantage against him.

So on paper and real life op stands little or no chance at all.

So Op why should you make her a priority when you are not even a option in her book.

STTUPIDITY IS SEEING THE OBVIOUS(she doesnt love you and you just dont stand a chance of being loved) AND CHOOSING TO BELEIVE THE LIE(that she will love you later)

So it's better you take a hike now before she ripps your heartt completely.

Their is a girl out their who will make you her priority,so break it off with her NOW.

My 2 cent for Op

Never forget you were born without her(so you will be happy if you break up with her,because you were happy before you met her),their are thousand of girls who is as good as her and billions who are better than her.MOVE ON

Never marry anyone out of pity,you will only regret your action later.

So if he doesnt love her because she limps,he should tell her politely(besides she is guiilty of not telling the guy of her ailment before they met,to me she just wants to play being smart on the guy)

At least 84years

At most 90years

ijebu all the way.

Garri ye ma n kan gan.
Agaga ti ba mu garri yen pelu eja kika.

Punteke: Its sad having to have two of them seperate after so many years together, well I was hoping there could be something done to save this from happening. Marriage no easy finaly sha.somehow I keep feeling maybe there is something I can do, I know deep down the love is there.

That's a big lesson for you dear.Love alone is not sufficient to have a successful marriage,both partners have to be compatible in major areas of their lives.

Your parent love each other but they cant live with each other(they are just not compatible in some core areas)

phineboy1pimple: In essence, U can't handle ur partner wit sum1 else rite?

She is my partner because she is mine and mine alone.
I believe in mutual exclusivity.

Very simple.
Walk away from the relationship(forget about her,a relationship with her will never happen)

If you dont forget about her,you will only be left dissapointed.

Take a hike,now,or else you will shatter your own heart yourself(frankly she has showed you enough signs,it wont happen)

Why should she read your chat without your permission?

Why should you invite a friend(a girl for that matter) without letting her know?

I'm with the girl,she should dump you,you cant be trusted

[quote author=Mynd_44]As you lay your bed[/quote]So you lie on it.


Op forget say he don make vow e arly in the relationship,after he com get money he won live her,smh for some people.

Open relationships just doesnt make minimum sense to me,yeah why not just play around.

Punteke: Its really disturbing me..

Frankly,their is little you can do,remeber they found each other and proffessed to love each other before you were born,and now they want a break up.
So it's their decision,all you can do is learn from them and make sure you have a happy marriage.

I know it will be hard,but ignore both of them(if they remain in that marriage they will not be happy,it's better they broke up and live happily)

Honestly,I had a friend who told me everything about her past(a terrible past for that matter).
I just loved her for being so honest and frankly if I had to chose a wife,she will be number one on my list.Not that I would have loved to marry someone like that before we met(ofcourse I wanted someone with a clean slate just like mine),but the fact that she was honest enough to tell me.
Ofcourse, I'm 80% certain she will be honest in our marriage.
Ofcourse her past had it own consequences which I know of,I weighed my options and frankly I dont have a problem with the consequences,I'm willing to bear it with her.


So to answer your question,each partner should tell each other everything about their past early in the relationship(if he/she walks away,it's better,their is someone out there who will love you,no matter how terrible your past is)

Do absolutely nothing.

Be a spectator.

Mr president it's possible but very unrealistic(100% unrealistic)

The possibility is based on your assumptions and paper work from Aso Rock.

To achieve it will take more than 4years of preparation

Mr President,your dream will come through in the nearest future but not 4years from now

My academic achievements,I may not be the best but I'm not doing badly.

My virginity.

I'm absolutely responsible,I dont put the blame on other.

My Family(proud I came from that family)


I dont have any destructive habits(smoking,drinking,womanizing etc)

My relationship with God.

I have a clear conscience

Ofcourse we think with our brain,our heart just pumps blood