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I know I said big eyes are beautiful but is that how her eyes are naturally or is it just my phone playing up?

Christ! I hope that's not how my eyes look oo but because they are on me I'm oblivious to how big they actually are.

Locked because it may lead to ethnic wars. Beauty is in every ethnicity.

Revolva: Linda has worked hard for all this..sha..8 milla ryde no be joke oo!! Well but she may be the no 1 blogger here..but that money she used to buy the car no be from that blog I beg jare!!! She has some other racket she does..and man friend fit contributes to her infinity car savings

Shut up, just shut up! So, any woman who can afford 8million to buy a car was helped by a man?
Useless thing!

ThoniaSlim: There is a difference between silent treatment and calming down when you are angry so no need to confuse the two. Silent treatment killed whatever love I had for a particular ex. Just couldn't tolerate it anymore.

When you take a couple of minutes to hours to calm down, then that's acceptable. But when you continuously ignore your partner for a day to a couple of days or weeks, then that's just being wicked! Especially when you know the person is trying to apologize or talk you. I think silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse and it messes with the mind of the person trying to get your attention.

Majority of the people who give the silent treatment do not do so to calm down their anger, they do it to exercise some form of control over their partners. No matter how they might deny this, it makes them feel good because they feel they in control and that's the truth.

Absolutely!

Afamdman: please help modify ur post and remove my comment from it. Thanks

When she attacks you, leave the place. I'm sure you're bigger than her and the slap you will give her will leave more of a mark than the one she will leave. If she's getting all hyper and heated, leave, go for a walk or something and cool down so by the time you're back she would have too. There is no reason to raise your hand and react because it will just make the situation worse and you'll come out as the bad guy.

Does this mean I need to drop my stubbornness, aggressiveness, all up in your face and argumentative behaviours?

@black panther, you must have met a ghanian not Gambian. We've got loads of them in ghana town.

Gambian women ooze of femininity.

I don't want to start busting pictures on here.

I'm not doing anything oo. The thing's gotten boring sef.

^awh, you fine sha. Are you half sierra leonean?

y me: The only reason/time I give the silent treatment is when I'm angry . Except that,I hate giving the silent treatment and I don't like people giving me the silent treatment either. I could literally kill that person if I could

Silent treatment for a long time based on little argument is just childish and silly

I know right! I'm getting the silent treatment from someone I care deeply about and because of his ego, he's trying to show me he's the man and teach me a lesson(that's what I deduced from it). I feel hurt and disappointment and I've been texting him but all I get is stone cold replies after like 2days *sharpens cutlass* nigga dey piss me off bad.
Anyways, no sweating. If I let my own pride take over ehn! Hm

Seun osewa, when will you be posting your own photo with the first eternal benz ever made? Or you dey shy?

Siena: Could it be anything but?

I hardly ever get nigerian sarcasm.

I hate, hate the silent treatment. I'm a sensitive person says my mum(which I deny ). It hurts my feelings because I like to talk things through, I hate sleeping with malice in the air. So, for a person like me, it just makes things worse. It makes me just want to kill the person, I swear.

Flashaldrin: and of what advantage will the average be to him?
The average wont give him a clue as to how it would work out for him.
The average would also be false, as it would take someone that has satisfied the exact four years for the answer to be right.
Thus the fact that he is asking a specific question that will generate many useless and incorrect answers that wont help him anyway makes him a nit-wit.
The fact i'm explaining this to you makes you a zilch-wit (whatever that means )

Grow up. I'm sure many have been in a relationship for more than four years or so.


@chima, seriously? I don't believe that. I can just imagine the cobwebs. trust me, living your life for your kid alone is not healthy. Humans have needs especially women and you also would want to be taken cared of.

o'boy:
Truth is I have never seen a beautiful ghanaian woman,the almost-pretty ones are Mixed or from sierra leone

No wonder otumfour never talked about sierra leone when I told him I was half but talked of Gambia because he's never met one before or even heard of it.

Lol

otumfour:



What happened to this^^^^....now tell me u ain't hurt.....I do this piggy monkey, I do this

Lol, you may need to ask the forumites. I usually promise to end a fight at some point but I always go back on my word. I just can't help it when it actually entertains me. I'm glad you found the definition for kwasia because that's you right there. Also, google pgymy and bush rat.

Lol, ok, I hear. It's the box scene, I remember seeing her face with the body when they carried her but anyways, it's true. Very likely to be double double.

Lol, I'm hurt? Am I the one crying over ghanians? You're the one shaking oo because someone mentioned your country girls. Oh,yes, I'm underneath the boot of ghanian women blah di blah abi na der nyash?

All this your vibrating is nothing. You're just a lost jungle pgymy who needs to go back inside his hole. Better go church and pray for God to cool your heated body because it seems my icecream didn't work.

Btw, should I still send you money for whey protein for those bread sticks you're flexing or should I just buy and freight it to wherever you are?

Lord_Reed: Body double. . .

I thought so too but I believe the body was not shown and then the face or side of face. Her face and body were in the same picture(correct me if I'm wrong). Unless, if they went through the effort of joining her face and a different body in the same shot.
Lol, anyway, I'm not a movie maker but I will continue to believe to have seen her tittays.

Flashaldrin: Lol, op you're a proper nit-wit!
As if there is a defined conventional timeline for soul healing. Even for wound healing sef, the time varies.
A number of factors determine how long it takes, ranging from personality, cause of the break to the suddeness of the break, thus asking such an open ended question is quite useless.
Also someone that hasnt experienced it for the exact 4 years will never know how it feels!

Come off this joor, are you telling me there is no such thing as average even in a relationship?
People could probably come and give how long it took them to move on and he can deduce the average time it may take joor! No one person is the same but we still do get averages.