₦airaland Forum

Dreyl: mtchwww
swerve pls!

Then some quoting me unless you want a burnt looking anaconda in you.

bennyrazz: what example are they setting for their daughters? what message are they passing to the people around them? the key word for me here is modesty.

So in the name of modesty one should be dressing as a nun or in hijab? How does wearing eyelashes and g-string correlate with how you bring up your child? Who cares about what people think? Trying to make others happy at the expense of yours, you ain't living

generalissimo: U see, fufu like u just see new fashion trend and follow, no questions asked. Fish-brains like u wouldnt even bother to know the origin or what that symbolizes cos u blv u know better than d whole of Africans put together. Go and do ur research before running ur mouth here. Trending guy, who gives a damn what d westerners think of us other than pple like u who are lost in ur vanity-chasing quests?

What are you on about? Anklets has been worn by many societies since time immemorial. This has nothing to do with being western or not western. Anklets were worn by ancient egyptians and also dates back to the bronze age so what is western about it? Indians that wear it nko? Even on wedding day, dem be ashawo? Ignorance! Here you are spewing what it symbolises and it's origins when I can bet my left leg you don't know anything about it except for the bush mentality you'be been brought up with.

bennyrazz: I will certainly Judge some certain books by it cover and for the records, i don't stereotype people

Well, that is seen as ignorance. You don't stereotype yet you perceive those who wear g-string, eyelashes, tattoos, anklets etc as not being decent.

Dreyl: Then u must be gay!
Since you re male (m)

You like?

generalissimo: U be impostor or gay? Ur profile says u are male! U'd better change it b4 I change my mind. Abi u dey wear brain chain ni?

U dey craze abi?

Tallesty1: Dunno if you are a guy/girl but I just tried to picture you as grand parent with all your piercings and all. To be honest, your grand-children will be scared to death.

You should be concentrated on your own old age rather than that of another's. I am sure you have grandchildren hence why you know so much. Oga mind your business and stop worrying about something that doesnt concern you or benefit you, you hear?

Acidosis: (m)

Lol or "guy"

bennyrazz: do you fall into the category of those wearing eyelashes, Longnails, mascara, tatoos, ankle chains e.tc

Piercings and all but I am one of the most decent girl you will ever meet if you had the chance to come across me. People need to stop all these stereotypes and judging the whole entire book by the cover.

bennyrazz: Decent ladies don't wear ankle chain, waist beads aka ileke, mascara, eyelashes, nails, G-strings and the rest. The wear whatever is moderate

Na wa for you.

Idowuogbo: So d he-she finally put a ring on it? Wow!

For where? We nor even think am.

Sweetlemon: Nigerians will always be Nigerians and comment on what they know nothing about.

1. Yes, it is very possible Pastor Chris has other women but have you asked why? (Abegi don't give me that self-control nonsense. He's a man!).

What do you mean why this statement?

Idowuogbo: Married? Where? To who? Man,woman or animal?

Lol shattap joor! You think say every person go wait like you until their pubes doe turn white before dem marry?

nannymcphee: I'm not a proponent for assault/battery but common, based on the piece, this is the first time in 16yrs, thats things turned physical, meanwhile it is the lady that has been verbally abusive. So give the guy some credit, just one slap & it didn't degenerate to a beating.

She called the cops so who is at the receiving end now, is it the man or the woman? Everybody is so focused on the slap & nobody is talking about the verbal abuse the man has been enduring, of which I'm sure those verbal torrents of insults are usually the triggering factor of their fights

There is always a first time for everything my dear. There is no one to give credit here because if you had read carefully, it also states the husband is a bully and aggressor. I could also say the bullying may be the reason why she becomes verbal. I mean, if you are ok with receiving slaps since your mothers have received worst then that's you but whether it's a slap or knock, it should not be accepted. If you are raised to not condone violence in relationships then that one slap can be a deal breaker. Her sister had died from such abuse therefore it is reasonable for her to not be ok with it and I am very certain her sister's physical abuse started with just one slap.

nannymcphee: 16yrs just one slap & all these fuss!! our mothers took way more than this & they turned out well(I also know of some tragic/fatal cases)
Reconciliation is the way forward, she should take anti-purge pills whenever her verbal onslaught diahorrea wants to start, maybe that will calm the man & situation

Madam one slap should cause such fuss because that one slap opens the floodgates to many more slaps and batterings. Your mothers may have turned about well in your eyes because that was the image they wanted to portray.


Both of them should sit down and discuss their issues. Their dislikes and try to work out solution. They need to meet each other halfway. The man seem to have alot of pride and ego and he needs to bring it down a notch, that is his wife and not his mates in the streets. The woman needs to find her inner calm when she feels she is about to get angry and the man should stop provoking his wife.
If with all these years they cannot sit and reach such compromise then I guess they are just done with the marriage. Every woman is different, just because you can endure physical violence in your relationship doesn't mean another can.

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Idowuogbo: You can have him! You in desperate need of a toyboy anyway. Y'all a match made in china

Lol stop forming joor! At this your age, you should be lucky say I am trying to get you a good man wey nor go mind say your ovaries don turn to dusts. Get on your knees and thank baba God biko before hin come arrange someone else for am.

teeo:
Lol
Tell kandikane I miss when she used to be female, now that she's male she's so boring.

Lol, I don get family way I dey look after now. Mi lady dey very strict with all these social networking. She think say if I tok too much one man go just come sweep me off my foot and I go turn female again.

teeo: Dash me this one, I still think he didn't want to offend you. Oya tell me what you did last night and I would gist you about the azz I danced with at the club last night.

I bet it was idowuogbo's azz, nuh, you just never knew since na that her 4'o clock eyes she don dey show people. I bet it was hard like concrete

Idowuogbo: The c-u-n/t too scared to call me out. Blawwdy nuisance! Btw, next time shout me so I can come in on time to tuck in his upper lip..

Lol I nor fit do that nah, Acidosis na my good person oo. With this una cat and mouse game, una just confess joor. Idowu, acidosis go make a good husband oo. Forget all these small small chingum boys for london, this one na correct man wey fit treat you well.

onila:

Just met a delta igbo guy in the library, he was so sweet and smart

he saw me talking to someone and figured out I was Nigerian and came up to me

hes a Nigerian but was born over here

I was surprised he knew everything about Nigeria, from politics, geography and culture despite being born here

he told me, hes doing his masters bla bla

he took my number, cant wait to meet up with him again

delta ibo guys
they r like a unique version of the original igbo guys
not too igbotic and very posh

Meetup to do what? You nor get boyfriend wey still dey wait to chop that your long broken hymen?

rokiatu: she wish

Lol

[s]What's the point of making a video though if you are going to split the screen like that? Waste of money![/s]

Problem was from my side

Acidosis: hmn...
stuffs like?

Acidosis: Lolll, we need to resume our training then

With wetin dey for my head I nor fit.

Acidosis: Yoruba

Ohhh I normally recognise the yoruba language, don't know what happened

HezronLorraine: www.nairaland.com/attachments/1679284_a12e9193d9a42afceaec53d61f008fdb_jpegdaea8e7343b888afbca325ec08448eda

This one is epic,those who don't understand,it says:"If you put ypur refuse here you'll become a pauper and your life will be destroyed along with your children this year",

What language is it?

I knew it when I heard about this issue she was having. At that age, the body will find it difficult to fight infections. Anyhow she lived a long life so her family should celebrate her life. Rip

miredia: Not like anyone will notice if you have them on or not. So why the yardstick for ethicality

Why wes I quoted?

ignis: Wearing no undies outside the house is the highest height of irresponsibility.

Care to explain?

Acidosis: The rate at which these girls attract likes baffles me! Some guys just "like" anything. Idowu-ogb-o uploads her eyes & nostrils and she got over 120Likes! Choi!

Personally, I follow ladies who I enjoy reading their posts; but even at that, if I follow you, and you decide not to follow back; I'd simply un-follow without making any funny/negative assumption though.

We guys need to stop the woman wrapper-ing. If some of you re-allocate the energy you spent complimenting the ladies on your sisters, trust me, they won't fall for badt guys and their sugar coated tongue. Some of you guys have never complimented your sister's cooking and make-up skills, yet run around nl "liking" nostrils, hand-bags.

Make woman poo upload am for nairaland; some guys go still Like am.

Lol I see what you did there@bolded