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Kagarko:
How then do you intend to live your life as a woman ?

donedy:
In fact, you are now her PRO. Which town did this happen in UK? So, I can do quick research. I bet authorities have no idea of the whole thing.

The grandmother is not hiding, she is not a criminal. She is a women of virtue and integrity. If that fool need the baby, even if what she says is right of which I doubt, she should get her Ofe_manu behind and come to Nigeria.

donedy:
Why would I sympathize with her, while you have already placed guilty verdict on the old lady? If the girl is hardworking and responsible as you claim, she should have reported the issue to the issue to the authority instead defaming people online. She should even have utilized various organization as help. She knew she has no case. First, I don't believe her words a bit. The story is shady.

Based on my analysis, she might have lost custody of the baby and then decide to come online and solicit for sympathy when she found out that the granny will be taking the baby to Nigeria. To me, that seems like what happen. There is no way the granny could have left UK, with the bay, that easily. More over, she was with the girl.

cococandy:
People don't reason. It is evident in their posts.
She's a party animal yet she didnt abort the baby to have her freedom of playing and sleeping around.
As most irresponsible girls would do.

I wish these evil people what they think is fair to this girl.

desiree:
I believe her story...lets say my instinct plus I have been in her shoes. That is the only reason why she would have a child and be single mother raising her daughter alone with the help of her father. The bottom line is that the guy rejected the pregnancy otherwise we won't have this wonderful kidnapping situation on our hands.

MsNas:
Lmao. That mad transvestite doesn't live in America. That's a sure thing. She doesn't reason as if she even passed immigration. I can't imagine myself embarrassing myself on NL like shes done here today.

onila:
I heard the mother wasnt a good mum

always partying and drinking
maybe the grandmother thought she wasnt fit to train the child

cococandy:

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englishmart:
listen! I snapped the meals, sent it to that website, then I re-downloaded it from there. Are you ok now?

englishmart:
You see that kind confirm food, you dey complain.

I remember when I visited china. These were the foods I was served.. I no fit eat am sha, but I snap am

berem:

crackhaus:
This was my point in the first place though

bennyrazz:
let them get pregnant na

datalossvictim1:
Lmao @ get fat I don't even see how becoming a house wife can be classed as an ambition. If it really is then it is a selfish one. I hold no judgement if staying at home is what one wants but I see it as a necessity not and ambition. I mean you are supposed to take care of your home anyways you just choose to do it 24/7.

Also imagine after going through secondary and tertiary education, one ends up confining themselves to the household. Where and when would one get the chance to broaden their horizon, contribute to their society and explore the world really... I actually like the bias society places on this issue.

Anyways make I go chop and get fat

shizzle11:
@kandikane, ^why don't you quote me properly or were you simply in a haste to blab?.
You are just ranting anyway cos you still didn't just make any iota of sense with the garbage you just spewed. How can i wait for my wife to be breastfeeding me when I'm the man? you aren't making any sense as usual.
Punk.

cococandy:
Ok. I don't want this to end on a note of misunderstanding.
Let me try again.
Is it your opinion that any woman who is ok with being told that her role in life ends at being only a mother and wife is ambitionless?
If yes I agree.
Is it your opinion that any woman who CHOOSES by herself to be only a mother and wife ambitionless? If yes. I disagree.
If yes to both,let's agree to disagree.
As for your questions I think my former posts answered them.
Peace.

eighTHREAD:
look at how feminists are confusing and disagreeing with each other on this thread. One will soon come here and start talking about first wave, second wave and third wave as if we are at the beach. Feminism is just confusion.

datalossvictim1:
Ehh op do you know how strong the words 'role in life' are? Life? Ha! or did you mean to type role in the family?? Nawa oo ...

cococandy:
But my first post didn't quote you
You could have just read and passed.

I don't know what so hard to understand in me saying that I don't agree with you that a woman who choose to be a full time wife and mother is ambitionless.

Anyway never mind

eighTHREAD:
^^^ both of them are confusing each other

kandiikane:
Yep that's it... A woman's role in life is to be a mother and wife. Rubbish post! This thread is for lazy people without ambition.

drlawizle:
Even a weak man will not behave like d@... check dat "man" he might not be a man afterall...or perhaps he is staying for something else...men can be cunning atimes...e go just do you like Portuguese film.

cococandy:
I would say you're the one getting worked up over nothing.

1) I said a woman can be a wife and a mother among other things. Meaning that she doesn't have to be limited to that if she desires more for herself.infact I'd rebel seriously if anyone tried to dictate to me what my limit in life should be.
(I'm surprised you don't know that about me...yet)

2) I said it has to be HER choice. Not one borne out of other people's opinions. You know,the kind of people who will tell a woman to aspire less just so that she won't be 'too big' for her husband.

3) I don't recall posting any comment which agrees totally with the OP that a woman has only two roles in her life. So what are you on about?

4) The only disagreement I have with your post is that you said if a woman decides to adopt only those two roles for herself,then she is lazy and ambitionless.
I'll only advice such a woman on the possible disadvantages of being a stay home mom and also tell her to find a man who likes such too.

While I'll argue anyday in favor of a woman doing more with herself than being a stay home all round mom and wife,I recognize that some women actually sacrifice their careers to adopt such roles and it doesn't reek of lack of ambition.it is what they feel they need to do.

Mind you I also know that there's a difference between the i-cant-get-a-job kind of women who hide under being a stay home mom to cover their asss and those who made the conscious decision to devote their 24hrs a day to being a mom and wife.


Pls re read this post over and over again.
I don't like being misunderstood.