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InvertedHammer:
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Because most men are stupid enough to continue stressing themselves trying to impress women.

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DaddyCK:
ok so now u sayin u a 100% feminine male lookin for space only?..bro i swaaar u are confuse u neeed medication plus help.. bro how can u create thread sayin woman live longer to kill u? who talks that kinda statement in 2023?..bro find a doctore quick & drink medication tablets! (no ofeisne)

quickly:
its not about how long but how well. You can keep your estrogen.

Men have been dieing in Millions in Wars and other activities.

for example Jesus lived till 33 but made a huge impact on the world.

Women and sleep , have you ever seen a chicken when 7pm reach. they fall asleep soundlyly until like 6am. Thats how women are

brainint:
1)
From my little understanding,men die earlier than woman due to high energy expenditure.

2)
Look at Tortoise,elephant etc.They move & do things slowly,thereby conserving a lot of energy for future. These animals live up to 400 years+ especially tortoise.

3)
Over-stress takes a toll on men hence depleting their stored energy level.

Remedy
1)
Take it slow.
A man given an award for being the oldest man on Earth shared his secret.

-Take It Easy

2)
Reduce sex to once a week
I was in a public bus one day,elderly men were discussing reasons why men grow/look old quick.

They concluded that the frequency of semen discharge is responsible.

Do you know the vitamins & mineral content in semen? Think about it.

3)
Be happy from within. Do things/listen to music,shows that make you happy.

You are a reflection of your internal status

There are more to say

DaddyCK:
son u said by women kill men who die fast (READ YOR OWN POST) so i ask, .....did woman kill you? did u die ywt?
please use brain & please answer the questions or stop talkin rubbbish sir!!(no oofeinse)

quickly:
At a minimum 2 things

Firstly biological estrogen which is a female hormone has a protective effect over the heart compared to testosterone. Testosterone leads men to put their lives more at risk than women. It’s also what makes men to be daring and leaders. Ur heart is more most important organ of it stops working it’s game over. Women have a protective hormone over the heart.

2ndly look at the women in your lives and she how they sleep. Women sleep like babies. They don’t like stress at all. Compare the way your father sleep compared to your mother. Women go to bed early and sleep deeper I find. Sleeping good is very good for your health.

womenareapezz:
what did you expect when Simps are getting married to orphans as wife

You will marry those useless piece of shiit called naija women and started taking care of her and her family members

All what she bring to the table is her smelly vagina and nagging while you go out, work yourself out and still come back home to meet that baboons nagging your life out!

DaddyCK:
bro did u die? (no ofeinse)

ejimatic:
. 1. Only God knows when a man or woman will die. The bible says nobody can add one cubitvro his life span. Many men suffer today yet they live long. Many men enjoy today yet they don't live long. We can do our best but God sees everything.(Awa eda le se tiwa,gbogbo e lo ye Olorun.2. Traditionally men want their wives to outlive men. But it may not be so for God knows who will die first. 3Men takes more risk than women and they expose thier lives to danger everyday 4.The occupation of some men expose their lives to death like palmwine tapping 2,driving 3night gaurds etc 5 . Men don't always have time to pay attention to their health. 6 Men think about a lot of things in their lives food ,housing , protection etc The pressure makes them develop high BP Diabetes etc 7 Some men are maltreated by their wives and fully abandoned which leads to their untimely death. Given all these factors and many others women usually live longer than men.

Mindlog:
One of the reasons and also men are less likely to go for testing and when results comes back positive, poor medication adherence in men (women are more likely to religously take their medications) and men find it difficult to readjust their lifestyles to the reality of their health status and of note, men find it difficult discussing their health issues both physical and mental with those around as it tends to make some of them feel weak or effeminate as against most women who don't feel embarrassed discussing what is ailing them as they don't feel judged

Talking has been normalized by women and it has been one of their survival skills.

That is Health Psychology 101.🤣🤣🤣

oz4real83:
do women go through labour everyday? Men worry everyday of their lives, especially when such a man is married to a lady that is never satisfied. Yahoo boys and Nigerian politicians have even created more problems for honest, hard working men. An average Nigerian lady will compare what she receives from her partner with what other ladies are receiving from their partners, when it doesn't measure up, such a man will have his lifespan reduce furthermore , even when such a lady has nothing to offer.

kaima
8 months ago
The reasons men has a reduced lifespan compared to the women is as follows:

1) In Nigeria, a lot of woman kill their husband with juju put inside their food
2) Some women will use their bad mouth to silently kill their husband even causing them to commit suicide or being hit by moving vehicles
3) Too much responsibilities is placed on the man especially when you marry a lazy woman
4) Men engages in war front that have psychological effect on them.

However, old days in the Bible where men married many wives and live long. Nothing like any of the wives being jealous. But nowadays that men marry one wife, the men seen to die early because some of these wives will not give them peace of mind.

Sex hormones

The differences in sex hormones are one such advantage. Women produce more estrogen and less testosterone. Estrogen is a female sex hormone that provides protection against cardiovascular diseases, while high levels of testosterone have been linked to an increased risk of diseases, such as endometrial and breast cancer in women and prostate cancer in men. Nature has endowed women with natural advantages over men and from studies, women have additional years of life, on average when exposed to the same conditions as men.

The “X-Factor”

There’s also a genetic component at play. Every human being has two sex chromosomes. Normal females have two X chromosomes, while normal men have an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. Essentially, unlike the X chromosome, the Y chromosome is almost “genetically empty”. Scientists say what this translates into is that women with their double X chromosome possess extra genetic material which gives them the advantage to “backup” if there is a bad mutation on one of the two X chromosomes.


Women are thus able to cope with certain genetically transmitted. Men, with just a single X chromosome, lack this advantage. This biological advantage gives women, on average, just under a year of longer life expectancy when they are young adults compared with men. Even among infants in settings with particularly high mortality rates, such as famines and epidemics, baby girls have higher survival rates than baby boys.

Social factors

Men are generally more risk takers. Men smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol more often than women, and are often engaged in competitive, reckle]ss, and dangerous activities more than women, hence accidental death rate is higher in men. Young men due to fights and wars, are more likely to be killed, lowering their chances to survive into old age than women. The World Bank data shows that 35 percent of men in the world smoke compared with 6 percent of women.

Healthier habits

A woman is 33 percent more likely to visit a doctor, excluding pregnancy-related care, than a man. Also women are more hygienic than men. A woman is more likely to wash her hands after using the toilet, and before eating.

But women don’t have all the biological advantages, because they experience high blood pressure earlier and at a faster rate than men, according to Susan Cheng, a cardiologist at the Smidt Heart Institute at Cedars-Sinai. Women’s blood vessels also age faster than men’s. More so, women often died during childbirth. Quite surprisingly, men do not necessarily age faster than women, just that the average man grows weaker at every age than the woman.


More widows than widowers

There are more widows than widowers because women have a slower death rate, meaning that more women survive into advanced years. It is also arguable that women tend to be younger than their husbands at the time of marriage, and this increases the probability that they would survive their spouses even without the differences in longevity.

According to the Widowhood – Demography Of The Widowed – Gender, Women, and Five, a publication by Jrank, widows have been outdistancing widowers by a continually widening margin. There are no statistics for Nigeria, but, for instance, in the United States, in 1940 there were twice as many widows as widowers, but by 1990, the ratio of widows to widowers had climbed to more than 4 to 1 and the ratio has widened today. While several factors may explain the imbalanced gender ratio among the widowed, the greater longevity experienced by women than men plays a significant role.

Healthy aging

People do not die from “healthy” aging, as assumed, rather people die from age-related diseases such as cancer, atherosclerosis, hypertension, heart failure, osteoporosis, and type II diabetes. When aging is accelerated, age-related diseases occur earlier in life too.


So healthy aging is best described as the late onset of diseases and is associated with longevity, and aging is an increase in the probability of death. From the records, a man usually has a higher chance to die faster than a woman of the same age under similar circumstances. However, while men become grey and wrinkled faster than women, they can reproduce longer. Menopause cuts off a woman’s natural reproductive ability several years (even decades) before a man’s.

The logic is that people that age slower are healthier. A school of thought posits that women age slower than men because age-related diseases are delayed in women compared to men. Women also live more years than men free of these diseases and do not readily die from the age-related diseases before menopause. The later onset of diseases in women compared with men suggests that women age slower than men.


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Mindlog:
That is it. Just like HIV, more women get infected by it than men but more men die from its complications than women.

Mindlog:
That is the reality on ground, which is evidence-based.

Then adding the poor health seeking behaviours prevalent in men, gone too soon
is inevitable.

Mindlog:
Biologically from the onset, the XX make up of females gives them a protective advantage when it comes to survival, reason boys are more likely to be stillborn than girls and under 5 infant mortality is more prevalent in boys.

So from conception, childhood, adolescenthood, adulthood to old age.....males die earlier.

oz4real83:
A man already has a lot of personal pressures added to other family pressures. That same man falls in love and the girl he falls in love with suddenly becomes an "orphan" without family and dumps all her life worries and pressures on that same man. When they become married, children pressure becomes added to an already overstressed man, how will such a man live long 🙄🙄

Experts’ views

Even the experts agree when it comes to why women live longer than men. Marcia Stefanick, a professor at Stanford University School of Medicine, agreed that even though researchers know “men and women age differently,” they are still “kind of guessing how.”

A publication in the Wall Street Journal points out that some of the factors could be behavioral. Women are more health-seeking than men, even into old age. David Sinclair, co-director of Harvard Medical School’s Paul F. Glenn Centre for Biology of Aging Research notes that genetic and biological differences are significant.

When the blood of men and women between the ages of 65 and 95, was examined, NirBarzilai, director of the Institute for Aging Research at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine, found that men’s protein levels changed significantly at higher rates than women’s did, indicating that the female biology seems to be more stable than men’s.

A neuroscience professor at Georgetown University, Michael Ullman also found that a person’s sex might influence the ability to recall basic things such as events or where they left their car keys. Ullman posited that both men and women scored comparably on a memory test involving image recollection—until age 70 when a “significant female advantage emerged.”

Why the gap will keep widening

By Sola Ogundipe

Unlike in biblical times when men lived to be hundreds of years old and the women were left far behind in the biogical age race, the tables have been turned today as the men are now trailing the women.

In Nigeria, the average life expectancy at birth in 2021 was 54.69 years according to the World Bank. This equaled 59 years for men and 63 years for women. The World Health Organisation, WHO, is less optimistic, as it puts the average life expectancy in Nigeria over the same period at around 54.5 years, with men living an average of 53.7 years and women living an average of 55.4 years.

From both data, the women outlive the men who have an average lifespan below the national average. This is not particularly surprising because data from previous UN projections show that even before independence in 1960, women had always lived longer than men in Nigeria. It may sound surprising, but the facts are there. Women, even with the comparative disadvantage of their reproductive life cycle, tend to live longer and healthier lives than men.

Lowest life expectancy

But generally, life expectancy at birth in Nigeria is now the lowest in West Africa and among the lowest in Africa and in the world as a whole. [/b]For a number of reasons, [b]the average Nigerian is not living for long or living well when compared to several other African countries such as Algeria, Tunisia, Kenya, Ghana and Ethiopia, all of which have better life expectancies.

Combination of factors


Why is this so? Saturday Vanguard gathered that a combination of factors ranging from a high burden of communicable, non-communicable and preventable illnesses are responsible. Also in the complex equation are illiteracy, corruption, poverty, high rate of crime and insecurity, high unemployment rate, stress, and harsh living conditions, among the host of the causes of low life expectancy ratio and the untimely death ratio.

Granted, lifestyles have changed over the years, and life expectancy is also changing – rising slowly but steadily year after year. But one thing that has not changed is the gender gap. Men and women are living longer, but year after year, decade after decade; women continue to live longer than men. In fact, the gender gap is wider now than it was a century ago.

Widening gender gap

This gender gap is not unique to Nigeria. In fact, every country with reliable health statistics reports that women live longer than men. Nevertheless, women appear to be coping better globally than men at staying alive, so it is not unusual that Nigerian women outlive the men, because all over the world, women live longer on average, whether in Africa, America, Europe, or Asia.

On average, women live four or five more years than men, and the reasons may not be too farfetched. Not only do men die at a faster rate than women, but men also die younger. Men are more burdened by lifetime illness than women. On average, a man falls ill at a younger age and has more chronic illnesses than a woman.

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felixzo1:
, stating facts and statistics you are there arguing, an average girl that is not educated in the north marries before the age of 18 willing and not forced. not everyone is prevailage to have an education, a lot marry after secondary school, its not a matter of finding anyone attractive or not, a lot of girls in the south south that are not educated have a child before 18, moreover 18 is legal marriage age in lots of countries , [/b]this does not mean girls do not marry before 18 it is not allowed legally, [b]you make it sounds as if a lady starts having breast and mensuration at 18

casualobserver:
Next time don’t quote me. I didn’t respond to you or know you existed until you responded to me and I responded to what you said to me.

You don’t like what I have so say…move along, I didn’t start a conversation with you…..you jumped on to my post. Neither am I interested in reading your conversation with someone else that I was never a part of.

felixzo1:
the whole thing I wrote, thats what you pick, did I say a girl should marry at 17.comprehension is the problem I understand.
its means when a woman is most attractive and desirable going by physical beauty and appearance, from the ages of 17 to around 30.. if men marry based on looks only , this widow is a woman's best chance to find a life partner

casualobserver:
Life works in cycles. Just like I said pre 30 the woman has the upper hand and after that the man has the upper hand. However a successful man can never be alone unless he wants to be alone. If you are abandoned in your old age as a woman or a man it is because you have nothing to offer. Same for a man or woman who no one wants to marry.

As a man your job in life is to be successful, if you are successful you will get the best women and you will not be lonely in your old age.

Please dont come hear giving examples of lesser men, whose problems in life is their lack of success or failure to think ahead and plan for old age, they probably married a woman who settled for them because the type of men she wanted didn’t want a woman like her to begin with. Such women tend to abandon their average husbands once they have kids. The key here is the woman has gotten all she wants from you. In the same way as the job of a woman is to be needed as a wife, your job as a man is to be needed until you die.

Success has many fathers, failure is an orphan. Same principle applies to both sexes. Men and women need to be desirable to the opposite sex. For a man, the no1 criteria for desirability is success. For a woman it is youth, purity (low body count) and submissiveness. People who end up alone usually do because they don’t posses these qualities. The game has always been the same and always will be.

If you are youthful, able to give a man children and submissive, you will be able to choose the best men to marry. By definition the best men are good men with a conscience and good values. Such men will never abandon their wives come rain come sunshine. Similarly if you have done your job as a man and you are successful, Nobody is going to leave you …be it wife /wives, side chicks, children, friends associates. Everybody wants a piece of you!!! Nobody abandons success!!!!!! If you see a man abandoned chances are he is not successful or lost his fortune. It has nothing to do with you, even if you are the nicest man on earth, even your children won’t have your time if you have nothing to give them in your will!!!

felixzo1:
they guy said the Truth just that most people are not prepared to hear it. anybody that waste his or her prime will surfer in later years both men and women, a woman's prime is from 17 to around 30 where as a mans prime us from 25 to roughly 45, if you can not find a partner during this time for both, or not in a committed relationship, even if you get married you may just settle for someone who would not have been your choice in your prime years, some men marry and maltreat their wives and suffer it when the get old, some women marry and leave their kids and husband and still suffer the consequence at a latter stage

Inhuman69:
I’m not on the OP side or anything oh
But he never mentioned women only
He didn’t even specify on gender

casualobserver:
Your post is exactly the problem of modern women. A successful man will ALWAYS find a wife. A successful woman with your attitude will likely never find a man to wife you and amid she does she will likely end up divorced.

The error in your thought process is this: when a man is successful ( and modern women want successful men). He doesn’t have to settle, so as a woman you fit in or you don’t marry….simple!!!

The problem with modern women is they think they are a prize…you are not. A woman is a only a prize when men are young and want to have sex. By the time a woman enters 30, the man is the prize. Do you ever hear men say they are looking for wife? It is always women looking for husband. The thing many women do not understand is this: women control sex but men control the relationship. A women determines if you have sex, the man determines if you become a wife. If you don’t satisfy the criteria for a woman, you don’t get sex, if you don’t satisfy the criteria for a man you do not become a wife.

By the time reality dawns on women with your attitude, they are not even an appealing option for even the B and C grade men.

The problem with a lot of mature single women is they carry the attitude of being pursued and pampered when they were young into adulthood not realizing the dynamics of the game has changed. By the time a woman is 30 she is the hunter not the hunted. Men know but a lot of women don’t quickly grasp this. By the time they realize (often post 40yrs) they are no men to hunt except losers…..all the men worth hunting are taken and to make matters worse they have less value even in the eyes of these sorts of men. By 40, a woman has lost 90% of her eggs, so why would a man who has delayed marriage and looking to start a family even consider a 40+ when there are loads of women below 35? If you are even going to take BS from a woman at least she needs to be able to give you children. Or else what is her value?