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NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Just imagine what you are contemplating ? It is so sad. Please go and think about your life, your are very weak emotionally. that man will finish you. It even tells more about the man. How can he even go for the sister of his former wife. He is only out for revenge !

waoooo, I strugling, holding back my tears

[quote author=Senomi post=109547918]Bros, why u go quote person wey invent colorado[/qu,mn m,mm,

kkins25:
where can i stream na??

hesgoal.com

Ogt1:
Good day Nlers?

I have a teaching job which pays 30k monthly for now. I am not paying for an accommodation as I have a free accommodation presently.

I got a contact who connected me to a proprietor in cote d'ivoire who needs teachers. He said the pay will be 90,000cfa monthly. He offers to allow me stay in the school residence for a period of 6 months till I find my own residence.

I want to know if 90kcfa will be enough to live comfortably in cote d'ivoire after paying for house rent which I inquired is paid monthly and can be as high as 30k-50cfa monthly.

Will this be a better move than the 30k job I have presently?

How much is 90kcfa in naira?


Kindly advise.

Thanks.

Best opportunity to Migrate Canada. Ask me how. Just learn French and places like Quebec and other French provinces in Canada will snap you up. Look beyond 30k

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Women that are over suspicious are always the one that cheats easily, or have cheated a lot before. You know what I am saying

Elbinawi:
I saw someone campaigning for VP Osinbajo & I replied him:

VP Osinbajo is more evil than the genocidal criminal Tyrant Buhari. Tyrant Buhari is an illiterate barbarian but Osinbajo is educated and a Pastor. The fact that he is part of this genocidal regime underlined the extent of his evilness.

A responsible person will immediately resign from the genocidal Buhari regime after the Zaria Massacre which is the biggest massacre in the history of the Nigerian state as more than one thousand innocent men, women, children and infants were brutally slaughtered by the Nigerian army in less than 72 hours. #ZariaGenocide

For a highly educated person with religious background like Osinbajo to remain in this genocidal regime that burnt and buried innocent children ALIVE underlined the level of his monstrous evilness.

#ElbinawiTweets

God bless you. GOOD INSIGHT

Iheanacho don dey fool himself

The match is ours to loose

These are not Egyptians abeg

agadez007:
Muric don’t think so

4; 1. Din ask me who will win

diplomat058:
I beg to disagree. Superlative adjectives always come to play in the comparison of two or more subjects. Good, Better, Best. Simple. The situation you described is more of equalizing/likening two subjects i.e as good as ....as cheerful as...and so on

it is not as bad as we expected, means better than the status quo, this can also pass for comparison.

Bluezy13:
Of course it can be used but not in a context of comparative adjective that is followed by "than" as the context proposed up there.

"we had thought " as a phrase passes for than.

Bluezy13:
Nay, it isn't.
Well, neglecting the omission of the subject of the predicate which should be capitalized; it would have been grammatically correct if "worse" was used instead.
"Worse" is a comparative superlative of "bad"; just as "better" is a comparative superlative of "good".
Since one cannot say "John is 'good' than Peter", but one can say "John is 'better' than Peter.
For example;
"Good", "bad", and "weak" have the comparatives of "worse", "better" and "weaker" that are used.

So the correct sentence/phrase is thus;
"(It is) not worse than (we/I/they/etc) thought."

Bad can also be use to express a degree of undesired condition depending on the qualifying verbs and adjectives. For example , Not as bad as we had thought.

Naijabad:
Is this phrase grammatically correct?

it can pass. But he is missing 'as" and "had"

Not as bad as we had thought. My view though

Oga that pot, as in ehhhhhhhhnnnnnn

visijo:
Sometimes it’s your friends that keep your enemies updated...

The demon within.

It is all times. Advertently or inadvertently, because those not close to you can never know anything about you

MEGA4BILLION:
What a thrilling comeback that ended in a draw

heykims:
There are too much breakages on hesgoal.

ok, please do you have another link I use

watch at hesgoal.com

vanbonattel:
That's too small. I even thought it was up to 643.554 trillion dollars.

jaytii:
So after reading through NovesaTillie's thread https://www.nairaland.com/6909608/celebrating-one-year-abstinence-sugary#108790773
Two weeks ago, I decided to go on the same journey starting this year.

For this reason, I consumed more than my usual weekly dose of Coca-Cola and Pepsi (maximum of 4) no thanks to the festive season free drinks here and there.

Unfortunately, thirty five minutes (01/01/2022 12:35am) into the new year after screaming happy new year and saying hello to few friends and family over the phone, I was already downing a very cold bottle of Pepsi to cool my head before I realized I just broke my major resolution for this year.

Mr Dj please play Timaya "I can't kill myself"


Lalatiscl.ala, myn.d44 and the rest of the Nairaland family Happy New Year. I hope I am not the only one in this situation.

it doesn't matter. First failure in life is failure to try again. You can compensate by picking a day and skipping lunch or dinner as a self punishment. In giving up habits, we must not be hard on ourselves else we fail.

Jay5mie:
Those "Bush Pigs" have families waiting for them to come back home this new year, and here you are celebrating how you brought sorrow to a Family.



F**ck off

Let's stop this. Animals are for man to do what they wish. You can keep them, protect them or eat them. Over 500 million chickens cows ,fish etc are slaughtered daily

Mercychen:
Beta meat.
But wait o.. seems most nairaland men are hunters . I mean... They are always hunting one game or the other.

Hian!

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

If you can afford it, just buy for her. But you should not expect anything in return please . Just buy and keep an open mind

chelsea has been raped again

wellbeck still playing ?

[quote author=Unigrad post=108916811]Chelsea fans are out of the hidings.[/ ;quote]

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

I enjoyed the almost English error free write up.

hotwax:
i dont think she is into hookup. She just wanted to have a fling..one night stand...most ladies do..even the decent and faithful ones...

one guy will just come from nowhere and he will bang them...

I never saw any sign of infidelity in her...

I didnt disvirgin her, but she was well kept...I dont want to reveal everything

you are still making mouth

Jay5mie:





Thank God for nairaland o, woman no fit use my head again.

Everyday new wahala

But guys, stop taking women seriously, they are not worth it.

It is not joke bro. You really need to thank God for nairaland. I wish I knew this in my formative years I would have been more careful with women