₦airaland Forum

Persephone1:
My Mama always warn me of men with wonderful narrative skills! I've seen an example on Nl today. He narrated it so well it will take extra effort to detect the lies, people like this can kill! They are hardly ever wrong or at fault.
Pity!

Well this guy has not hidden anything. Please sister, take a good look at the way your mother treats your father, assume that your father is your son, and your mother is your daughter in-law, do you think you will happy with the way your mum treat your dad ?

frozen70:
Are we talking about infidelity here or we are talking about an irresponsible man like you, who doesn't have a better plan for his family but to use the family financial plans for his own pleasure just like you

Ha, hope this is not a temper problem. Calm down

Aonkuuse:
Go for MSc abroad

This maaaaaaaan, please go to Germany. You finish and even be in a better position to secure the same job over and over again. Do you know the kind of part time job and other exposure you can get in Germany ?. Engineering is even on the shortage skills in Germany. Moreover, you can even become a consultant to that Nigerian Engineering firm. Lastly, you can try keeping the job, while you head of to Germany. Write them that you want to go for career development. They can keep the job for you or allow you work from Germany, while visisting Nigeria once in a while. Play your game well

Channah1:
I'm in Lagos. Sir.

ok. I do not have any contact around there

Sominablack:
Greeting Nairalanders,
My wifes attitude has been unbecoming, disrespectful, avoiding intimacy for months, insultive and always playing the silent treatment which I have learnt to ignore. Her mum visited and confirmed these attitude, she did counsel and advised her to change yet she was reluctant and stated she dont want to continue being a wife that she has lost love and feelings for me because I want things to be done decently and in order in my family which she is opposed to. Having observed this her mum left angrily and told the matter to her husband to confirm some of the issues of my wifes behaviour which I had stressed on and as a result had a family meeting with her family since I was invited not long ago.

Now with the attitude still being displayed by her, her dad asked me to come down to the village by next week so the issue will be discussed in their larger family so that my wife would come and explain to them why she is behaving the way she is doing, but not up to three months we had a meeting and now this one billed for next week again.I dont feel like honouring the meeting because I have done my best to follow peace even though I cannot fathom where I am at fault. At this juncture what do I do?

You are lucky you have good inlaws to interven. However, if she does not want you any more, then let her go

Channah1:
Pics 2 is the demolished building that used to house several people that made me feel safe and agreed to stay there few months back.

Pics 4 is still demolished building behind the uncompleted building I'm staying.

Please fam. Help me. Even right now, the whole place is so quiet and deserted except for area boys playing at the other side.

Please I'm scared. Help.

Modified: pics removed.

do you live around abuja area

Maxymilliano:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/526467-how-i-learnt-of-my-nomination-as-buharis-running-mate-osinbajo.html

This man is a dangerous man. So he mentioned the person that told him the food was ready, and left out the one that cooked the food.

Lies. Any link to the source ?

sheanzy:
I can't use My money and pay to be perceiving all kinds of smells in the name of I want to watch match.


I watch my game at the comfort of my house,if theirs no light I start my generator. Simple!

Viewing centers are like stadiums

sunboy:
Ignorant! AK 47 is Soviet made not Russian made. Ukraine is part of Soviet Union, Ukraine has lots of Soviet era weapons manufacturing plants including nuclear manufacturing. Same goes for the s300, Russia modernized their own version now that they are selling but it’s a Soviet era technology.
Have you asked how Slovekia a nato member has enough to give Ukraine ? Simple answer, it was a Soviet nation and got some shares of the s300 when they broke up.

Just to educate you!

Na man you be

Beress:
Request for the redesignation of my appointment to an administrative staff

Request for the redesignation of my appointment as an administrative staff

Request for the redesignation of my appointment to administrative staff

Request for the redesignation of my appointment as administrative staff


Pls which is the best to use among all these. It's meant to be the title of an official letter I want to write. I want to change from clerical staff to administrative staff.

I will appreciate your response


MODIFIED

Having listened to some grammarians here, I now have two options:

Request for Redesignation to Administrative Staff

OR

Request for Redesignation as Administrative Staff

Pls which is the most appropriate

1.Request for the redesignation of my appointment to an administrative staff
2.Request for the redesignation of my appointment as administrative staff

The first one is correct if you want to join a team of the adminstrative staffs. Therefore the indefinite article 'an' must be introduced.
The second one is correct if you will be the only person in this position.

Loewe:
None of the above. Below is what you should use:

Request for Redesignation as Administrative Staff

This could have been correct if their is just one administrative staff position. But if he is going to join a team , then the indefinite article 'an' must be added Request for the redesignation of my appointment to an administrative staff. This shows that he is requesting to be a member of the team.

NwaAmaikpe:



Just like wine, women get better with age.
An aged kpekus always remains a delight to me; zero pregnancy worries, unscripted orgasms, minute infection potentials, better grasp but worse smell.

When I discovered this, I began spending more time at the States Pensions Board. The way I always loitered there in search of prey, you'd think I had just been appointed the Permanent Secretary of the Board.

Mokason288:
Will you post your wife if she is 16 years older than you?

These two teams do not deserve to be in the world-cup

iLegendd:
Exactly what I would've done. Though, our Nigerian tutor made three mistakes sha, but the Kenyan goat won't notice.

1. Contest for context (I blame his autocorrect).
2. Who thinks, but he wrote who think.
3. The last line, after Nigeria, deserves a period.

Las las, the Kenyan goat go dey fear to reply.

100% oppression and confidence.

Excellent, however it is better to explain the rationale behind the 'who think' and and 'who thinks'. 'Who think' sounds sweeter, but wrong, singular nouns must go with singular verb forms , apart from the personal noun 'I', that behaves like a plural, therefore take the plural form of the verb. That was I wrote 'take', and note 'takes'. And if I may add, verb add 's' to agree with the singular subject. A direct opposite to noun/pronoun which usually add 's' to form the plural

klassyguy:
I have two lovely kids with my wife - a girl and a boy. My son is six years old while his sister is eight. Both were born here in the US. I’ve done what I feel is right as a father to train these kids, but I know not everything can be done accordingly.

My son is restless. He has the attention span of three seconds before he gets distracted by something else. My mum tells says he is a copy of me when I was his age, but that was in the eighties and the way children were handled back then is totally different from today. He hardly wants to do anything in terms of school work and almost every day I get complaints from his teacher that he does not do his work or he is disruptive in class. When other students are doing their work, my son will be the one falling off his chair or hiding under his desk. His teacher told me he acts out when being corrected. Only yesterday my wife told me the teacher met her when she went to pick them up in school and told her that my son started yelling when the lights in the class started flickering. His behavior got so bad, they had to call the school security officer before he calmed down.

This behavior is really bothering me. I know my son is smart. His pre-school teacher once told me he was the smartest student she had. My son can do complex mathematical equations off the top of his head that even his older sister struggles to do. He has a very good memory and can list off all the types of trains that exist in the US, things that even I don’t know. It’s sitting down to be serious about work that he can’t do and can’t seem to focus on.

I enrolled him in a soccer club to see if that would help him expel his excess energy. At first he seemed to be lazy as he gets frustrated easily, and rather try harder, my son would rather give up and cry. I mostly have to encourage him to put in more effort, and most of the time he does not pay attention to what the coach says. The coach told me a couple of days ago that he wants to move him to a lower group level to see if he can build his confidence there.

I want to believe it’s his being the last born for now that’s worrying him. He seemed to start being a bit more mature when my wife got pregnant last year and he learnt they had a younger sibling on the way, but unfortunately, she miscarried and we lost the baby. I’ve been thinking for a while now whether to move back to Nigeria with everyone so that we can build some sense into both of them (my daughter’s story is another one). I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Any advice would be welcome from parents out there.

The school is not really fair.They know this might be ADHD, and that your son do not have control over the things he does. They should be suggesting a therapist instead of all these complains as if he is in a position to do things better.

We do not have a coach and a team

with this jersey, no hope

EastisBae:
What is really going on please, only one person has been campaigning desperately in APC since, e come dey look like say na only am waka come. While others kept a studied silence, the desperado was all over the place like he is King Kong whereas he was just an old and sick man with loads of stolen money to throw around.

The funny thing was that some Northerners even encouraged him by telling him the sort of things he would like to hear just to massage his ego. One would even assume that he is already the president and only waiting for official confirmation.

However, 24 HOURS TO THE APC PRIMARY & WE ARE NOW HEARING OF A CONSENSUS CANDIDATE THAT HAS REMAINED TOP SECRET!

How is Buhari able to pull such stunt off in this age of internet and FOI? Not even Premium Times and Sahara Reporters have been able to unravel who the annointed candidate is?! No be juju be that

which primaries ? You mean convention

Zonefree:
Give it a befitting burial with scent leaf in collaboration with maggi, salt, pepper etc.

IS THIS GOING TO BE SUSTTAINABLE

DeathToAfonja:
Money can buy power

Like it bought for MKO Abiola ?

Power all the way power can get you anything you want.

nakaman:
op do u know the English name

cherry

any link please

This is really sad

ValCon888:
What an amazing way to step into the weekend.
Snake and goat meat pepper soup.

Instead of swallowing bush rat inside forest, it went for a pregnant goat.

The longer throat of the snake has led it into the cooking pot.

instead of swallowing Bush rat

macho44:
Get In Here. Everytime una dey ask for link. Join Telegram Channel where Dem dey drop links everyday u no go hear

please what how do I join the telegram channel

please any link

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

you said it all. People that truly love are most of the time not appreciated. Ioved my spouse with all my heart. Been married for 10 years, she has been treating me like toilet paper. Just waiting for my first child to hit 18. Even my children are tired of their mother

wizonlyson:
..take heart, bro..all is well..

oh you do have a sense of emotion