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mytravels:
See This: Why Is It That I Am Not Just Lucky When It Comes Food At Event?

I am angry right now i am at an event and i have been served with chicken head, while others are served with half and quarter chicken.

It has been happening like this either i am served with small beef or something else.

Please share your experience.

Please take this forward

I think it reflects how lucky you are. It also happens to me a lot.

Saynoomore:
Another lunatic on the loose! Your reasoning and writing are completely disjointed very meaningless gibberish! Go back and read what I wrote again - that's if you have any comprehension skills !

Again, it's "taking" and not "taken"! olodo!

Na only wahala this gender sabi!

leave her alone and her poor home training. Just imagine what she wrote

AGurlnoname:
Abegi, you men on Nairaland always come online to say whatever you like about women. I know things like this happens, the best he can do is to pray and with faith and hardwork he will surely overcome. My problem here is you men have more to say about "women" but forget the roles y'all play in some women life's too.

Pray over what?. You mean non Christians can not have successful marriage. Marriage has nothing to do with prayers please

yanabasee2:
I pray never to meet and marry woman like you...


I've seen a man who was earning big, built houses and had good investments.... Married early and was happy.... He had an issue that he was accused of murder.... He was arrested and charged. He spent money to end the case.... He sold all his assets and houses and went broke...


All his friends left him, his wife left him and married his friend.

You can't accuse men who fall as being weak or lazy.

The Op is not lazy, he's a hard working man.

Amen. Just imagine what that woman wrote there

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

The problem is that, women can not respect some one that do not threat them with some iota of thoroughness. The more you try to make peace reign the more they get disgusted by your action. It is not their fault, that is how they were created. They can not respect who do can not show dominate influence and authority. The sesame woman you are complaining about, will be a faithful and "law abiding" woman under another man. That is how it is

Kriss216:
What's the essence of this nails painting? She's just a child for goodness sake

that is from frozen carrion series naaaaaa.

chatinent:
Marriage is not a life requirement, tho. Perhaps, there are many men in her life who'd want to count scores than there are those who would want to stay with her forever. There are more stupid men in our century than ever before.

pyyxxaro:
Yeye Foooowl


No Cleavage No lap to show us self





Quote me and watch Olumo rock fall on ur goat testes

[quote author=PlayMaker14 post=108804172]SIMP will always be a SIMP even on Christmas Day.... They don't have Public Holidays.


May God nor allow our loins produce SIMPATHETIC son's.[/quot

the Amager bakke just means the Amager hill. It is free to get on the very top and have fun. There is an artificial snow at the top where people can do skiiing.

BullyBullies:
Chairman, are you sure you understand the video ? I want to encourage you to watch again. Tony Kabaka never contested for anything, he was a political thug.

He is Edo state MC oLUOMO

I pray the Lord perfects his will

obembet:
Where are not talking about dwarf that robbed
People here, and we thank God he has been exposed in PSG

God bless you. of the seven balon d'or, one belong to iniesta, one belong to xavi, one belong to lewondowski. CR7 EARNED all his balon d'or, he was robbed of two

IgiveLadiesBj:
Hello people of Nairaland, I am at the point of my life where I want to stop pleasing people regardless.

I find it difficult to say no especially to family and close friends and this has affected me badly in all ramifications especially in financial terms.
Please how do I say No and stand my ground without feeling bad or even care how they feel after I say no

Do not worry, till you get into a deep mess like me, no one will tell you to stop.

JubrilBuhari:
This is a reliable writeup, the so-called northern protesters in the North are not northerners, they are organized southern protesters set up by the enemies of the north to paint our darling Buhari administration bad.

Buhari is doing a great job in securing Nigeria, especially the northern part, whatever you read on the news are fake, planted by the enemies of Nigeria to make Nigeria look bad.

The North is by far the most secured region of Nigeria, so, please ignore the so-called northern protesters as they were stagged and paid handsomely.

Sai Buhari!

What about Zainab AMINA that everyone know that she is a northerner ?

Incredible128:
In my place, there's no 20# own sef they all start from 50#

i do not believe this

MrMacinterchi1:
so you want him to lie and hide facts?

Noooooooooooooooo

MufasaLion:
And how many cases of such have you seen?

If you truely love that girl, you can not be saying you lashed her !

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

LOL. Tell me you are just joking

nwajesus12:
I am baffled by his show of weakness maybe before they are in Yankee but a firm stance in his decision making would have made a difference

You would not understand. If you hear my story, you will know that his is just child's play

Mrdike:
I am moved to comment in this write-up probably because the story really touched me. It is my earnest desire that God will intervene in ur marriage in Jesus name amen. I appreciate your effort to make it work and also assisting in house chores.

Pls continue to show her love and attention and pls don't get tired.
Inculcate the habit of confessing positively about ur marriage at any given time, place and have this absolute faith in God that you will win this battle.
Lastly but not the least,try to stop discussing ur marriage matter with friends, colleagues, family etc....they don't really have the solution but God only. If u can always pray midnight prayers against all forces fighting ur marriage,I believe in due time, u will experience joy again.

this very evil. You think say you wise or holy ?

Nicepoker:
I don't interfere into marital issues. I only comment on pre wedding pictures tell them ahead how it will end. Guess what they never listen. At the end topics like this will hit FP. ; ;

Fool. So you already accepted your mother is a witch because your wife said so. I thought I was weak in my marriage, I have seen who I am better than. By the way,, from my experience, the more you do those house boy things, the more she loose any respect and love remaining for you. Those things work only for women who are not damaged already.

thesayer:
I have read some write ups about issues in todays marriages...and some say it is more complicated for those abroad...but lets use Nigeria as a case study.

I hear some suggestions by some persons and am wondering......is it actually an easy thing to do? especially when u have someone that is demonic n stubborn...Not homely trained actually.

In dating women submit and can give as much sex as u need, but in marriage they demand submission first and go on celibacy.

I hear "If you can't handle this woman it's better to let her go, or send her back to her house...
what if she refuses to leave the house??.. and if kids are involved.
and If the man leaves the house...then he begins to foot double house bills..(rent on the kids/wife and his private apartment)...else the woman can also file for abandonment.

If the man threatens to walk out, and she threatens same but actually waiting for ur move..
some women can be a bone in the neck.

I also hear "u're the man, take charge of ur home...be the man....HOW in this case

my wife can stay as long as possible without sex nor asking for it.....i will have to appease, make her feel good, and put her in the a good mental state before i can sometimes have it.....if she's not in mood...dats all....and only God knows when the mood returns cos she wud never say or ask...thats a burden

For example..my wife clearly refused that she or the kids wont travel with me to see either parents..and that I cant take the kids without her.
will i force her?

Food....U punish yourself by not eating her food cos she doesn't care.

Seriously i have a woman with a big mouth...really big anger provoking mouth.
She is a dominant alpha female actually....A woman without a blink not afraid to raise a hand or call me names..and if I dare retaliate...someone would be dead.

One of the issue is this - she's from a broken home only raised by the father, mother abandoned them since she was 10 or so and is out of country...so no home training.

I missed some vital agreements/rules before marriage..out of pity...am 36, and 3 yrs apart....and we dated long.
U can call me a simp...but am learning n growing the hard way....things are improving gradually...but it's not been easy.....but what else do u advise.

Damn! O thought I wrote this. Or someone that I told my story wrote it. This is exactly my story word for word. I am just dumbfounded

Money ritual is the reason the naira is getting weaker

ImoleNaija:
Boarding schools & brouhaha are like 5&6.

Seniors would bully.
Paedo-staff would assault.

una don finally turn this man to trump

Optimistguy1969:
Op forgot FLYING OF KITE.


Why?

nor mind op

Iyaebe:
kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

careful what you wish for

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