simplexity:
Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.

My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.

The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.

It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.

Should I report to the police or what?
Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.

Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused



You are not a man and you did not run your home well....love does not exist and as a man you make decisions of how your family would be run and encourage the woman to agree with you. If she fails to agree with you then she has no choice. Why would you allow your wifes mother to come and leave with you, a big mistake. Never send a woman to school until after she is done giving birth to your children if she has not completed her education before the marriage...it does not end well.

King44:
Abuja was well designed and one of the reasons why you won't see very tall sky scrappers etc is because they planned Abuja to withstand earthquake get your fact. It is better but I would say the architectural plan of Lagos Atlantic beats Abuja hands down I wish they could speed up Lag Atlantic works.

Kenplay:

You talk too much… I have been reading all the comments but yours was full of daftness and emotiness.
South Africa (Johanesburg, Cape town, Pretorisa e.t.c) is light years of Nigeria. If Lagos was a city in South Africa, it would not even make top 5.
How can you compare a country & cities build by the white men to Nigeria.

DNA1997:
bros na man u be, who is she to be threatening you with sex, make sure if possible u get another babe as soon as possible it could be she has another side guy

ModestGal:
It still amazes me how the lady would marry such an old man. Its unnatural for a young lady to fall in love with an old man with wives already

I guess its because the man is rich, well, she has inspired me to hustle till I become a billionaire.
Just to show stupid girls that you don't need to marry someone because of money, because you can also make such money yourself.

I belong to the billionaire squad, this would be my speech when asked how I became a billionaire.

So annoying that girls would do that shit because of money

To the ladies...
1. You don't need to wish marrying a president, you can also be a president
2. You don't need wishing to date a celebrity like davido, you can become richer and more popular
3. You don't need to wish dating Otedola, you can be richer
4. You don't need wishing to marry a doc, you can be better
Infact, its ridiculing wishing to be with someone and worshiping them because of money when nature has given everyone the chance to be one.

Parents...
Teach your children financial literacy
Teach your sisters financial independence


Let us lift each other up from poverty and poverty mindset, 70% of Nigerians are not just poor but live with a poverty mindset.

MartinsD12:

P square is not coming back anywhere as long as their elder brother Jude insist on managing them

Maobichek:
This is over 3years P Square came to an end, Jude is still with Paul, musically, Paul is better than Peter now and no one can argue about this (Reason with me alone broke record) , thank God Peter is rich, let him enjoy his money, firm and endorsement, he should move on and stop talking about PSquare that is died over 3years ago, thank you.

Lostz:
it is not like Peter, Mr P is still relevant in the industry.


he is almost in same situation as Morgan. just that he is okay financially

Halo22:
Hmmmm...Is Mr P saying that his elder brother is a freedom confiscator and hence, why he left his Don family records. Nawaoooo, if a brother could say something like this against his senior bro, then the guy in question must be a replica of Tommy Motola.

ejihand:
Has anyone heard from Jude? I mean his version of what went wrong.

Kindly disregard Peter's comments. That's how losers behave.

Trailblazer1:
Peter Okoye seems to have found another excuse to vent his anger and further fan the embers of discord already existing in the family.



You can neither convince us of your innocence nor guilt.


We can never judge the matter fairly.


Please reconcile with your brothers or kindly move on and stop looking for excuses to throw tantrums

englishmart:
Jude Okoye practically destroyed and tore their family apart with his greed.

Morray:
He made no right decision. Where's he today? He's no longer relevant in the music industry. He's in no position to advice Cynthia on what to do


You have that iphone 7+ or laptop you want to sell? Hit me up, let's get you a buyer and sell immediately

phelonrays:


If they could panel beat their own blood brother to a level of Him still crying on Social media till today,

Wander what you might have been going through


Jude always appear as a devil incarnate among the Okoye's

pretydiva:
Owes Jude over 40 million naira . How's that even possible

SavageResponse:
Cynthia Morgan dem go soon open your nyash for public!

Omihanifa:
I just knew Cynthia Morgan edited some vital information from that live video chat in other to gain sympathy

How can they strip you off everything like that haba same Cynthia Morgan that is widely exposed and widely travelled and she didn't fight back.

Before Jude Okoye signed Cynthia Morgan she was already an household name with like 3 hit songs, so she no be novice that was looking for fame desperately


Am sure she get skeleton too for her cupboard. Cuz that was how her former landlord in Omole estate told punch newspapers that she was owing house rent of 1.3 million, doing drugs in the house and also owing waste Bill of a year.

When channels tv asked her to make clarifications on those claims she stylishly Dodge the question

Righteousness89:
If only Cynthia will see this as an opportunity to turn to JESUS CHRIST and Make Peace with Him..

Some events that happen in your lives is GOD'S hand to pull you out of the Way of Destruction.

I wanna Advice Cynthia to be Careful of the Help she gets! Any Help that will take you back into this Lifestyle of Worldliness, stay away from it Cynthia! Don't Take it!

I Perceive someone has been Interceding for you, Maybe your parents or siblings are praying for you and that's why things turned out this Manner, all for you to be delivered from this Wordly lifestyle.

Not Everyone has this Opportunity to be off Destruction..

Many Died and Wasted without this opportunity! And they are pleading for a 2nd Chance now!

Another Chance might not be Available if you Go back again

She that Ears to Hear! Let Her Hear

Happy Sunday

Humanoid01:
She agreed to date you while she was dating someone else due to impatience and greed, what made you think she would want to continue now that she knows he's now doing better? What exactly did you expect? You approached her when you knew she had a boyfriend and even went ahead to propose marriage to her. SMH!

The both of you are getting served what you ordered, did you expect any less? Don't even put the blame on her for what she said, you're both responsible for this. It'll only take a miracle for that love that was once there to be revived, 'cause her regrets alone (especially when she keeps seeing what he does) will make life miserable for you both.

You married a materialistic woman, and it's shocking to know that you didn't see that before now, or perhaps you did and you decided to ignore it, which is even more shocking.

Ironically, most guys' experiences that have been told here are actually ones where they are the victims. It would be very interesting to see the victim in this case narrate his story here lol.

ContractKiller:
The girls are notoriously easy up North. That Hijab they wear usually hides a lot of secrets.

Kinematics:



I leave you to your belief. Guess what you see in Nigeria to you is what marked roads should be. Where a city will have just 5-10 marked roads and the rest is just there without any marking or road sign.

The travel and see you are screaming should indeed be addressed to you, because its obvious you've not travelled, you only dwell on online pictures and lies online.
Reality is different from what you are thinking... unless you live in a different Nigeria.

Kinematics:



Even the areas u mentioned does not have upto 30% marked roads. Remember naija is more than what you just mentioned. I repeat 99% of roads in Nigeria are not marked. I'm talking about Nigeria, not just one or 2 roads in a city.

Guess you ain't looking at the bigger picture.

The pictures you are showing are not even up to 1%of the roads in Nigeria.
Show me 1 marked road in Nigeria and I'll show you 1000 unmarked roads in Nigeria.

unite4real:


Reminds me of the song. LANDLORD TRAVEL AND SEE.

There are many roads in Nigeria with markings from Lagos, Abuja, Kaduna, Kano, Eastern part and South South.

Here in Abuja, the kubwa express way gets markings renewed almost yearly. Same with several roads within the city.

Not all roads in Nigeria have markings. Even in USA and Europe, not all roads have markings. I don't know the reason behind that.

One thing I am sure of is that your point is not correct. Market roads are in many states

gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?