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Festus30:
I and this girl have been dating over a year. I took her serious, I've sacrifice a lot for her and it made me so heart broken when I noticed she cheated on me reason I almost took her life.

My girlfriend and I live in the same city (Mowe) but I traveled out of the city 2 months ago for work things (ibadan), so around last month she called me that her phone screen (Samsung) is broken, that she's just managing her phone and to fix it is 35k but she already have 15k so she's in need of 20k to complete it. So I sent her 21k.

Fast forward to Friday when I came back to mowe, I went to see her, I saw her holding iphone Xmax. I was like who gave you iPhone? She was just telling me lies upon lies. At first she said she swapped it, then I was like why didn't you tell me you bought iPhone and who gave you money to swap it becus you'll need over 190k to swap. To cut the long story short..

I later found out that a guy bought the phone for her. The 21k I sent to repair her phone, she repaired it and gave it to her younger sis.

I was so heartbroken. For a guy to buy her iphone that means she have been dating and having sex with the guy secretly without me knowing. She has been begging me, calling & texting since Friday but i didn't reply.

She texted me she was coming to my house yesterday. The only word I said to her since on Friday was to meet me in a uncompleted building close to my house yesterday, I have this machanic slege hammer, it's one of my tools I use for working, so I held it while waiting for her.

My plan was the moment she enter the building, just a powerful whiplash on her head and she's dead, I felt so cold inside of me, I was also shaking while holding the hammer and feeling so heartbroken. Then I heard a deep voice inside of me saying "YOU WILL REGRET YOUR ACTIONS" (twice)

Then she called me that she's there, I already sighted her through the window, I came out and I told her to run away and never come back anywhere around me again. She was still begging that she's sorry. And I said if only you know what I'm about to do, you will run.

She left, I just sat on the floor feeling so heartbroken.

OsuIgboIpob:
This is how most of you just kill yourselves and die untimely with strange diseases.

Your sin is one of the deadly sins = GLUTTONY

For you, anything that moves is food. This is a baby animal and yet you still want to eat it.

Continue eating everything until you eat your death. Mugu

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.

Islandlady:
Says a broke, fraustrated and hungry boy... waiting for his Mama's food! Better return your mama phone and stop forming Alpha mail oshi online!

Go get a life dude!

StrongAlphMale:
A vote for peter Obi is a vote for better Nigeria. Vote wisely.

I'll urge peter Obi to start preparing his inugration speech now. No doubt he is the next president of Nigeria

God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids for two different men already?

Righteousness2:
Your Friend has been Fornicating for 8yrs and has 2 kids. His brother wants to deliver him from the Bondage of Fornication. Yet your Friend is forming big boy.
Tell your Friend to repair the altar of his life. Tell your Friend to humble himself and do the right thing which is to go marry that lady legally.
Op , If you are the Friend, humble yourself and repair your altar.

xin5:
At first I thought it was a joke when a neighbor told me my girlfriend came around last month while I was away in another vicinity. This was someone that knew about my movement, I confronted her when I came back and she told me it's a friendly visit to my landlord house, apparently she was invited by the landlord daughter to come spend time with them unto paddy paddy settings without my notice.

I didn't take it that serious because when she visits me, she always climb upstairs to go greet them....fast forward to this month, I noticed her strange attitudes towards me... no longer likes to visit... always saying we should meet in the mall. To come for my conjugal right is a problem. (I do send her Money, so it's my right).

She broke up with me last week which was okay.. I didn't sweat it. But what surprised me is getting to know she's been seeing my landlord son at different locations.
it hurt me deeply because I took this guy like family even though we not close. But his elder sister and the middle one are so fond of me, giving me greenlight last 2 years when I just packed in as a young guy at 22 which I maintained frame but right now I may just do what I have in my mind and damn the consequences.

chatinent:
Because of that you reject food? Una dey take risk for this life o. Abeg e get how the rejected food fit reach me?

You have to learn how to conquer anger the right way make you no go from problem enter more problem.

How you go reject food?

Small thing you go use brain do small yanga trick for a month or two, na she go carry am come dey beg you apologize., you come dey reject food.

But wait, how dare you! How dare you reject Nigerian jollof with turkey?

mccloud224:
When I talk say him still dey learn, I know wetin I dey talk. Two years? I don dey observe dat boy before corona lockdown. I go just read him mumu posts,shake head and shift go front. Old peeps talk say, first change wey pikin get na akara him go take am buy. Slawomir neva enter life.

Leave the boy make him grow abeg.

mccloud224:
Live and let live bro. Leave the past in the past. Las las, all na online. My beer don dey idle. Na beach I dey.

mccloud224:
Leave dat slawomir mumu...

Him dey carry cultism for head... Say him be NBM...him get rifle...him be did...him be dat..him get black 2009 Camry...with iphone.. And Xbox....and tiny bar for him small flat with small 40" TV and na him smoke weed pass so we no go hia word again because him get dreads.
E get rifle? That's very hilarious and at the same time very annoying. This guy na RAT OOOO. E GO STILL DE TALK DAMN NIGGA.. BENINS RIFF RAFFS. E SIT DOWN THERE DE WAIT FOR MONEY WHEN OTHER PEOPLE WORK, THE PEOPLE GET TWO HEADS?
E GET MIND ABI NA STRONG MAN WITH RIFLE ABI? I BE JEW OOO, BUT THEM FEEL MY HEAT FOR BENIN..... THIS slowpoke DE MORALLY BANKRUPT, DIABOLIC WITH A STUPID CANAL MENTALITY.

Dis na person wey say him go thru 4 walls of uni....

F**king disgrace!!!

mccloud224:
U no need reason him matter far. Him dey claim street, na street go claim am las las. Him no get work...na to dey find maga be him own. Him still dey learn.

Live and let live.

Nuff said!!!

mccloud224:
Leave dat slawomir mumu...

Him dey carry cultism for head... Say him be NBM...him get rifle...him be did...him be dat..him get black 2009 Camry...with iphone.. And Xbox....and tiny bar for him small flat with small 40" TV and na him smoke weed pass so we no go hia word again because him get dreads.


Dis na person wey say him go thru 4 walls of uni....

F**king disgrace!!!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Shut up

Common who you be...you nor fit answer

Who goes you

You come online dey make mouth....

Ninisun:
Na you thunder go fire

Ninisun:
A Jezebel cus she cheated? I hope you will use the same noun when a man does that!!! Rubbish

Righteousness2:
Sorry bro. Really a painful and unfortunate discovery.

You both should Seek Godly counseling from one who is Spiritually matured. Someone you both can Confindently pour out the truth of your home to.

I Pray for you! GOD Almighty Heal you, Heal your Home and Restore your Home in JESUS Name..

habsydiamond:
The way forward will be separation... If we can't be one or act like one since the inception... Am not sure we can now.. Though every region with their own problems but the northern part are riding the other regions in every aspect and yet we are still claiming we are one... If we are one everything should be done equally in every aspects of this country but that's not the case. They are everywhere in government, in ministries and so on... Even the security problems we are combating in this country begins with them.. It as been said if u can not cater for the poor man's children, one day they won't allow ur own children to eat in peace... It's happening now.. When u give birth to multitudes of children and at the end of the day give them bowls to go fend for themselves, what do u expect in return a good citizens of the country or what

Tranquility2345:
What kind of ice cream is that? It doesn’t look like ice cream o. Plus that’s a lot of ice cream for someone that’s trying to lose weight sha

Zonefree:
You bought PS5 for a six year old and you're wondering why he's misbehaving

faithfull18:
Don't reply him, keep a straight face. If he is sensible or has any self- respect left, he either reduces the interaction or mind his business.

God1000:
The corruption in our military is endemic and pervasive, a lot of money earmarked for military hardwares has been looted for decades leaving our armed forces in a sorry state.

We should be able to have these sophisticated weapons as a country, no one can predict the future

Teettyllayho:
Please I need advise from people with grown up kids.

Honestly, parenting is not easy. I don't even know what to do anymore.

My first son is 7 but he is kind of slow. However, he's above average in learning and he's learning at his pace. I understand all of this and I'm always happy to guide him.

But I don't know if I'm too hard or too soft on him because I use to talk to him a lot. I only beat him when he does something serious (like going against my rules, or not doing his homework when he should).

These days, whenever I scold him, he would give me a sad look and he might even shout saying: "I've heard you!" Then, he will be alone in a corner for some time.

Sometimes, I'd go close to him and tell him why I had to scold him and he'd say "I don't like it when you shout at me" I'd apologize and hug him (I don't even know if I'm spoiling him by apologizing). .

I don't know how to scold without putting a bit of action at least. Shey I'll be whispering and scolding ni? Sometimes, I'll leave him and pretend as if I didn't see him when he brings up such attitude.

Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.

Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?

His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.

So, I figured that he must have gone to check once and didn't bother to check again. And he didn't bother to also tell his class teacher.

So, I was very mad this time and told him not to bring someone else's property home again, no matter what!

I think he would have told his teacher if he really valued his property because he told me something that made me really mad the next morning.

"Mummy, or will you buy me another lunch box since we can't find mine?" Luckily for me, he was brushing his teeth then and I was bathing for his sister. The resounding slap I gave him on his back brought back his senses.

I don't know why he always want something new. He spoilt the lunch box I bought for him and his sister o and he's using another one now. That is, he wants me to buy a third one while his sister is still using the first one? How na?

I don't even know what to think. Why would he want a new box when he's barely used the new one?

Then, he's always talking about how his classmates use to bring different kinds of food ( he wasn't like this before o).

I try as much as possible to make different foods for him too, and he's stopped complaining.

We recently changed his school and his new school has quite a lot of pupils. I Don't know if that's affecting him.

Honestly, I'm bothered about the changes and I don't know how best to address it.

I've made him understand countless times that he should always be content with whatever he has and he shouldn't compare himself with anyone.

I just finished with another round of lecture now and he has tears in his eyes saying:

"Mummy, stop shouting at me. It makes me sad"

I was heartbroken and felt guilty seeing him like this and I did everything possible to make him see why I had to shout or scold.

Please how can I scold a child without shouting? Am I spoiling him? Can someone help with tips?
Honestly, I'm tired!

CoronaVirusPro:
Same way Russia disappointed the world

Guys were expecting to see state of the art artillery, military strategy, and artificial intelligence in combat, only to see old soviet union artifact's, with hunters being mobilized to war front. And Putin cools their nerves with "I HAVE NUCLEAR WEAPON"

I feel their pain at some point. Disappointment could be very painful.

MadamVanessa:




It's not possible for Vladimir Putin to win this war. Everything is against him , even his foot soldiers have fallen in love with beautiful Ukrainian women. These soldiers at the end of it all may not pay allegiance anymore to Russia especially when these beautiful women start hypnotizing them with their sweet pussy.

Davidonkonsults:
Hate? Are you OK? Her mother killed and buried a uniben student. Killed countless as DPO at Esigie and Oregbeni. Pointed a pistol at me when I was on my way from church. And you as a goat come here to defend her. Let hate destroy your life as she has done to countless youths.

Davidonkonsults:
Good. This shameless hoe birthed by an ugly degenerate killer.