₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Who is your senior aunty? Eucharia and Jim Iyke didn't act in the same generation. Stop exaggerating things.

franchasofficia:
He doesn't have time for foolish Reno Omockery, he only respected the American Journalist that asked him the question not that he was responding to the foolish fugitive called Reno Omockery when we that know him know he did built more than schools

BUSINESSARENAA:
Whos lying to u over what?
On top how much or for what? You guys are pathetic. Igbariam was up and running with which infrastructure? You stay in your hut and know whats happening on ground in another region? Igbariam that was littered with bushes and was even used as grazing area for herders is what is up and running. Pay a visit to the school today and see the dates some of the infrastructures there were commissioned.

The hate for Peter Obi go kill una las las.

pocohantas:
How definitely ain't leaving me for your mum.
[i]How many rounds can she go? ;[/i]D
So, sadly you are wrong.

ChristianMuslim:
I swear if i be Naira marley i go use police pack plenty people.. people wey go do jail term go plenty gan.. what nonsense

pocohantas:
Evening newspaper has loaded and overloaded. I hope you die before you become an evening newspaper like me.

Persephone1:
Congratulations

I tap in this blessing

Make folake4u just surprise me with one

pocohantas:
Tinubu's government is favouring me and my family. I hope it is favouring his minions too.


I needed to change some FX to pay my cousin's fees. In the three days I took to make up my mind, it added almost N15. I was really impressed with Tinubu. Many remote workers would buy GLE at the rate FX is going.


If Tinubu comes for second term, I just might vote him. He is my sureman.

fyzaila:
Here in the North, there is sharia court to sort things out. Will or not

cococandy:
Una love traditions sha even unfair ones

For peace to reign, involve a lawyer, get into agreement to let him refund your dad the money that went into the renovations and then they can share the property amicably.

fyzaila:
Go to court, let the court share all the properties and everyone can have theirs.

Klass99:
A very useless first son who provided no value whatsoever. Why should such a person inherit or lay claim to any properties, solely on the basis of being a first son?

We have some very messed up traditions that cause more harm than good, which need to be thrown away. Is it not men who created these traditions? Can the same men not undo them, if they really wish to?

Unlike you I mean every offence when I say (not to you specifically) that the useless first son should have stayed gone and never returned or reappeared to claim property.

What is wrong with some children sef? Are your hands broken or is your brain malfunctioning to a point where you cannot build or acquire properties of your own, without looking to grab what your parents had?

MadarasBlade:
Then it means you're nothing without money, you're really scared of loneliness and if money relationships are predicated on money, the only way to mask that loneliness is through money. What happens if the money vanishes, i do not wish you ill luck by the way.

folake4u:
Sis!!!!! I'm so going to borrow it too.🤣🤣

E too choke!

Persephone1:
I'm definitely going to borrow that line

pocohantas:
Forgive me, your wife is only being delusional.
Probably she is surrounded by career women and because she sees them in heels, she thinks they have it all rosy. Whereas some of them can't boast of 500k savings.

If she was such a career woman, she would nurture her accountancy career, not look for cheap customer service jobs that offers little career growth in Nigeria. If she removes transportation, she would be left with nothing.

In the longrun, she makes nothing to add to the home. The home is neglected. She comes back tired. Sex life dips. Family time dips. Then matrimonial issues sets in and we blame village people.

Don't mind people telling you to support her. I pity these modern husbands that support everything. The mistake you made was marrying a woman who didn't work in her most active and free years only to try make her some Okonjo Iweala after childbearing. They most times exhibit this confusion later in life. Not their fault at all. You don't learn left hand in old age.

pocohantas:
Good morning, Sir. Thanks for adding the bolded. I am sorry I cannot communicate with a man outside this forum. We can talk here. Thank you.

Iamzik:
This is the exact point I tried to address in my post. If you are a woman and you think that contributing to the home in a meaningful way is a licensee to disrespect the man who has been shouldering the same responsibility for years then your head need examining.

Women want the man to evolve from patriarchy but at the same time they themselves are not ready to have a progressive mindset.

As a woman what is your joy if you stack up millions in your account while the man is struggling to take care of the family all in the name of culture and tradition? Heard the story of a woman that died of sickness while the husband was struggling to pay her medical bill. Alas she had more than enough money in her account to afford a foreign hospital but mentality of my money is my money killed her. She became stingy even to herself!

As for me I will make it clear and both parties will sign. No woman will come and kill me with problem of marriage. This stress is the reason why some men die too early. The man is not a financial slave neither is the woman a domestic slave.

Let each contribute in meaningful way to the family. It is your home for crying out loud

hardon1:
See , what think the "post assistance" insult will come if you as a man is not capable and most things are by the woman's money which they don't like. The house chop more than 15m, so 2.5m is just a small fraction.

Women tend to dish insult when everything is on them. Women are wired to receive and provide assistance, they will only ridicule a man when they become fully in charge in one way or the other.

A reasonable one who knows that her man has tried will be happy to help - trust me. Unless na woman wey no love her husband

hardon1:
What is wrong if a woman assist her hubby to clear rent. Are they not together in the union.

People have issues with their partners and believe everything other person is like that.

My elder bro moved to his own apartment three months ago. He confessed to me that the roofing of the house which took over 2.5M came from his wife.
He didn't ask her to help, she did because she want the project to be completed in time

No be every woman dey give wahala over assistance

folake4u:
I'm married with 2 kids, Sir.

saphiere:
Why do men sleep with their house helps? I need a concrete answer. It's getting too much.

Chinjo2:
Nigerians need more of David Hundenyin. Though not a lawyer, he is the Gani fawehinmi of our time.

Doolove:
Some time ago my boyfriend brought my matter here because I went to visit a male friend and I was called all sorts of derogatory names without anyone hearing my side of the story.

We met early last year, he was just out of school without a job but I still accepted him regardless. I had a stubborn ex that wouldn't go away so he was taking care of my bills while I was dating my new boyfriend which he was well aware of. I later had an issue with the ex that led to him calling the police on me accusing me of stealing the iPhone 7 that he bought for me while insisting that I return it or he would take the matter to his village and make sure I run mad. I stood my ground amid all the threats held on to

Every guy that asks me out seems to be well to do than my guy and it really bothers me. They all have nice cares and ready to spend while my own guy now depends on begging to feed. Even though he's smart and all but I don't know where the break through will come from and it seems I am wasting my time with him.

On Monday was my off day and I was at home, I woke up with a mood swing so I wasn't talking to him. He was busy cleaning the house without mentioning breakfast so I had to call someone to come get breakfast for me. He got mad at me tagging it an insult to him. It caused issues and I left the house and dared him to do his worst and he asked me not to leave because I needed some positive vibes since he was boring me with his attitude. I actually went to my family house but he feels I always go to see a guy each time I leave the house.

I came back around 8pm to meet the house locked and he kept ignoring my calls knowing fully well that I didn't leave with my key and I wasn't feeling fine and needed to take my drugs. I got drenched by the rain and my sickness go worst. He came back home by 11pm that night.

Now I haven't been able to go to work for the past three days and he's been running around buying drugs and food on credit so I can get well when he caused it. On the other hand a guy that has been giving me stuffs asked me to take a break from work and rest and he will give me my full salary.

I am just confused, it seems I am leaving better things out there for a broke guy and it's bothering me. What do you guys think I should do

Please ignore any typos, I wrote in a hurry

Persephone1:
Nahhhh I'm not doing this with you Perry.

If this is coming from someone else, I would bite but you? Have a lovely evening.

doggedfighter:
And you didn't read they were married?

Persephone1:
Now this is why women should endeavor to do court marriage o. Anybody can move mad at anytime. If the lady is legally married to him all she needs to do is fasten her seatbelt because she's in for a bumpy ride.

Funny enough, after seeing some of his before death videos on a blog. I thought to myself where were his family members when he was going through these problems. Shey him no get mama or papa? Lol I have my answers now. They were practically waiting.....

Life ehn

pocohantas:
Odiegwu. They do too, they are just not as brazen and loud.

PrinceOfLagos:
His married to the lady . She's not a baby mama .

They legally married .

doggedfighter:
Thought yorubas aren't into this kind of thing.




Was I wrong ?

It is rife in Igbo land.

Able bodied men, parents and even married sisters shamelessly dragging properties with a late man's wife.

Sometimes they accuse the wife of killing the man just to justify their greedy selves.


It's been receiving condemnations lately even though much is yet to be achieved.



Why should you take all and leave a man's widow and children with nothing?


It's shameful and no responsible and self respecting family should be involved in this.