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ImaIma1:
Someone that came to visit from Bristol. [b]I wasn't even interested in any love. [/b]I broke it off when plenty guys from my tribe yapa.

And I wasn't talking of just my experience.

ImaIma1:
Lol...for you to even sleep with your married ex tells a lot about the kind of person you are. And it means she made the right choice by leaving. Or else you will cheat on her with your marrie ex.

ImaIma1:
Fortunately, I'm talking from experience; mine and those I know o.

About igbos and their mums, nothing compared to a Yoruba man and his mum. I dated one and his mumsy didn't agree with my tribe of course.

My guy said "let's see how it goes, maybe she'llchange her mund". I ended it immediately. Not "she can't choose for me" or "I'm man enough to pick a wife for myself" but "let's see how it goes".

Thank God we had only been dating for like 2 weeks.

ImaIma1:
"Most" doesn't even happen. Have you slept with your married ex?

ImaIma1:
It has to be two serious people that have their minds towards the same goal. They need to be able to fight their families to be together.

However, we know how most Yoruba guys carry their mothers on their heads and do her bidding. That alone accounts for most of the decisions made.

ImaIma1:
The delude themselves with the idea that every married woman will sleep with their exes. Very funny lots .

ImaIma1:
She did it before the guy did it. It happens a lot to ladies, heard of so many, especially when they are from different tribes.

It's not cool if the guy was serious with her. But who knows what he also had planned as a Yoruba guy dating an igbo girl.

Aboki99:
Let him or you go to North and do it if he's brave enough

pocohantas:
Werey olorin. You don’t miss indeed.
I will be here and you would troll for 30 years.

You go change moniker and share screenshots tire. Na me you dey use play?

pocohantas:
Something wey pass you, pass you.

11yrs a troll.

pocohantas:
At least you get sense pass Kayperry. That should count for something.

GloriousGbola:
Just in case you don't know - Pocohantas is trolling. There is a trend of vicious misogynistic female victim blaming on this platform where women are blamed no matter the crime. If this was a lady victim, there would be comments like she was running her mouth, what did she do to vex the guy etc. This is just reverse trolling. Laugh it off.

pocohantas:
It is Alcatel I am using, but I would still choose it over your Naomi. If you like, knack head for wall.

Jennyclay:
If you taste my food, you would confess that I cook more than your mom.

And besides, if you're not giving me nothing less than 15k to cook stew for you.. My Dear Just forget about it okay!

Jennyclay:
@kasaliola I don't blame you. I only blame your wife here.

What are some women still doing in an abusive and terrible marriage?? If you claim you're still there because of the children.. If you die through domestic violence your children would still be living thier lives comfortably.

INFACT, your children will hate you in your grave for not absconding from that abusive marriage when you had the chance because they would believe you deliberately rendered them motherless.

Just see how op is beating his wife like he's in a competition with Anthony Joshua. Nawa oo!!

violence against women should be condemned by all means and women should stop believing that a man is going to change. HE CAN NEVER CHANGE!!

I wonder why a man would raise his hands and hit a woman he claims to LOVE. I wish moderators could push this thread to crime section because this man will kill his wife any moment from now oo!!

May God help us all.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.


The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

farouk2much:
All of them they look innocent.... But you're demanding the release of only one person among them......... I see injustice in this post...

Felimax:
You better be joking!

Leave the police to do their job. I am an actor also and been an actor does not mean I cannot have evil tendencies or engage in evil desires.

He was not arrested on set or arrested with a script on his hand so just bleep the hell off and let the police do their job.

He is not a thief or criminal my anus! No, na me be thief and criminal. Ewu!

pocohantas:
Some of us are actually put off by such and NO, we are not interested. I find it cringeworthy that anyone would harass my sight with his/her nudity. I HATE IT.

Ishilove:
Get used to it. In life we have to learn to tolerate and compromise on certain issues. When I was in the hostel, some girls can walk from the ground floor to the top floor, butt naked. I found it jarring at first, but I learned to remove my eyes and ignore. When your roomie strips, mentally blank out her nudity and keep your eyes firmly away from her body. In time you will adjust because the human mind can stretch and adjust far beyond our expectations.

cococandy:
It’s easy compared to being the one who has to do everything else.


You’re right about this part. And I don’t endorse trivializing a role because someone who you feel is beneath you does it.

cococandy:
It actually is. All you have to do is go to work and have the check deposited in the family account and that’s it.

If that’s all I have to do, I’d be in paradise.
No tending to children, no cooking, no cleaning, no mental load of planning and executing any family wellbeing activities.

Any man that is only providing money better be providing loads of it to outsource many of the other tasks necessary to make a home functional. If he’s only bringing money but expects his partner to bring money too as well as take care of everything else, he’s not pulling his weight and is easily replaceable by a paycheck.
He’s a whole human being and should be enjoyed in other aspects different from his paycheck.

Not to underscore the importance of money in our capitalist society. But that can’t be the sole contribution of anyone in a healthy relationship.

cococandy:
Speak for your own ladies in your life not every woman

Acidosis:
You cannot contribute what you do not have na. By contribution, I am assuming the man has the money.


If I have the option to contribute money OR my cleaning and cooking skills, I def will prefer the former.

Acidosis:
Lol. Very strange.

I believe most of them know the truth but they hate to admit this truth, openly.


I don't think any sane person would conclude that women benefit more in the typical Nigerian marriage setting. Same marriages we see everyday? The way I dey pity some married women ehn, but it's quite understandable why many women would want a marriage anyway.

Women sacrifice time, put their health and lives on the line, go for the lowest and most pitiable jobs just to create time for, more often than not, an unappreciative guy. Many will have to cook for the rest of their lives and no they won't get paid for it. There's so much more. A woman with 3 kids, for example, has practically sacrificed at least 8 years of her life on pregnancy, breastfeeding, nurturing (while also making money o), and throughout these years, the man does nothing but contribute money.

A man will drop 50k for the month and thinks he has done the woman a favour... Ahahaha! The easiest thing to contribute to a marriage is money.

valentineuwakwe:
Atiku has been on the news this week for the wrong reasons, is this the fulani man we can trust again come 2023? Why is he so pained by little questions n provocations?

pocohantas:
I like the content. I like the idea of men getting a rude awakening by your constant reminder of how marriage rips them off. So I am here to help you ensure MEN DO NOT GET MARRIED.

It is trap bros, DON’T MARRY.



So non-beneficial you want three.

Women are so troublesome and of no use, that is why men can’t stick to one. They must sha cheat with all the supposed troubles.

Even God didn’t understand men. More reason he tried creating what he can understand in women.

pocohantas:


Socks? Check
Graphic clothe? Check
Airpod? Check
Crypto? Check
Hair like covid? Check

E remain Lexus and oversaturated pictures. I would conclude this my investigation and order for his arrest.

Kuginzi:
Anyone who blasphemes the name of the Lord is to be put to death. The entire assembly must stone them. Whether foreigner or native-born, when they blaspheme the Name they are to be put to death."
Leviticus 24:16

Deborah killers used this verse to kill her the way the verse instruct, I think they own a copy of christ papers, bible is full of evil to its followers.

Despite showing u how your Bible endorse terrorism of death for blasphemy but you completely ignored it all and start attacking others for this same act that has a verse in your Bible.

Magnoliaa:
Eyaa. My condolences to your mother. Must be hard not having contracted a venereal disease alone, but having to pass it on to you in the womb and giving birth to you—a disgrace and shameful reminder she'll have to be seeing and living with for the rest of her life.

Magnoliaa:
They will just be speaking in the rubbish nigboro enu, thinking people are stupid.

So illegal immigrant get mind write JAMB, apply for admission, started studying in a college of education 'til the second level and they feel that is right or even okay to put out?

ArewaHero:
arresting the youths will not change anything una better released those youths you had Arrested earlier ,had it been that the law take it effect on blasphemiers I see no reason for the youth to take it by their own hands.


Release our Brothers