cheechee1: To be insulted verbally in public can be embarrassing. Not to talk of someone raising their hands to slap you at the full glare of the public eye especially when that person is your lover. Now, that's another level of ignominy. Right?
A scenario as this one happened sometime last week at the Leisure Mall of Surulere, Lagos. Nigeria. I had to ask people how they would have reacted in such situation on the Cheekah Suave 1 platform on YouTube which to be honest many that were interviewed gave hilarious responses to it. You can check that out here >>> ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ot2b3CwThVA)
But as a Nairalander, I want to ask my people here. What would you do, if your boyfriend or girlfriend slapped you in public? How would you react? Is that the end of the relationship? What if he/she apologizes?
Although they say, Don't accept private apology for public disgrace. But isn't there any room for a second chance in the relationship?
I would gladly appreciate your opinions guys. What would you do?
maximusprime2000: Guys I’ll give you some advice…don’t read crap by “Pick up Artists” (PUA). I know it will be tempting.
When guys are searching for answers about women, they often seek it out from men instead of the group that really knows how to get to know women….the women themselves like Esther villa I can tell you that those guys are full of craps. They will try to make money on your insecurities, sells you books that will only work on hoez and brag about conquests they simply don’t have.
Manipulating women will not get you where you want to be. Women are smart, and likely the girl you think you are manipulating is also playing you too. What a childish game.
Girls I knew often made fun of guys who use that PUA stuff…they can see them coming a mile away. Sometimes they went along with it to give their friends a “play by play” later, sometimes they shot them down.
No one cares if you want a one night stand, many women do too. But playing games with them is immature - and to be honest - completely unnecessary. You’ll only make yourself an object of ridicule.
Look for women who simply want the same thing you do…whether that’s a one night stand or a long-term relationship…and be honest with them.
One thing I noticed is that a lot of guys who are trying to learn “game” are actually nice guys who are just sort of awkward with women and seek the wrong sources. I don’t blame them for that…but be a better man than these methods ask you to be.
The bonus is that you’ll stop seeking how to manipulate women, and start looking for ways to connect with them. Women are amazing creatures - fun, sexy, and intelligent - but you’ll never get to know the half of it, if you go down this road. Think better of them, and yourself.
Superstory.....
If you don't build that confidence to approach any women and tell her you like her then you're wasting your time...this are stuffs those PUA artists do teach, who would teach you this things Na your papa or your sister?
A friend of mine did a 100GB subscription on Airtel for personal use, but after using 39GB, he got tired and sent me the SIM with 61GB left and to be expired on the 10th of January. It's just 7 days to use 61GB. Now, he uses his MTN since that one has lots of GBs too.
So, if you're in my shoe, what will you use this subscription for?
After you've told me, I'll tell you what I did with it and now I have 1GB left.
PrinxArthur1: Let me shed more light, in class we are friends,she lives within close proximity to my hostel(Lodge) sometimes we actually study together,my classmates are thinking that we are together,but we are not
Why buy her gifts if she aren't your girlfriend. If you like this girl I advice you make your intention known to her as soon as possible becauz if you continue with just being friends you are gonna be friendzoned. Act fast, delay is dangerous...
PrinxArthur1: Pls I don't want to crave for huge attention over this small issue I have,so i decided not to open a thread for this,but can any body offer a piece of their mind on this,I have a gal I have a crush on,but she knows that I have crush on her, the main thing is that I have not asked her out ,but I want to send her a new year gift,based on guy code is it good for me, in the long run?
If you wanna be friendzoned or tagged as the MR NICE GUY, proceed......