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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by kellyaa: 1:59pm On Dec 23, 2023
Gabriel2005:

Please are you using direct flight

No direct flight o. But Abv to Paris to Vancouver
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by kellyaa: 8:56am On Dec 18, 2023
PeSt007:
If you’re going to Vancouver and need a room, there is a vacant room in Surrey. Holla if you’re interested.

Interested. Will be in Vancouver by Jan 2.

Sent you a DM
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by kellyaa: 6:35am On Dec 07, 2023
Please which airline goes to Canada that I can pay in Naira?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by kellyaa: 1:27pm On Dec 03, 2023
mikexceo:
guys pls what is the best way to book a flight from Nigeria to Toronto (Ontario) and what airline is best to avoid transit visa wahala or anything if the sort..pls i need help with this

Co-asking.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by kellyaa: 1:22pm On Dec 03, 2023
Hola55:
Good day Nairaland, please can anyone tell me any airline ticket you can buy with dollar official rate or Naira

Co-ask

Or which international airline will accept Naira.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by kellyaa: 2:35pm On Nov 05, 2023
Favourafrica:
Hello guys please I need advice.

I’m traveling to Vancouver and most flights has 2 stops to Vancouver so I’m thinking of using Toronto or Montreal (which is preferable) and what airline and how can I book my flight ?

Co- asking.
Family / Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by kellyaa: 11:46pm On Aug 22, 2023
Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him


I will be very honest and blunt with you. You failed, you caused your predicament, your marriage is gone for good. (otilor).

You felt incharge because you started catering for the family 2 years ago, so you would go out and come back late whenever you wanted and you felt your husband was not important and you never owed him any explanation for your actions. You started comparing him to his mates that probably were telling you lies just to get under your panties. You started committing adultery (especially office romance) and denied your husband sex severally. Trust me, a married woman only behaves a-such when she starts having sex outside and therefore seeing her husband to be nothing. Mind you women are not wired to cheat. Therefore, once she starts cheating, the love, respect and submission she had for husband shifts to her new found love thereby making her see her husband as worthless and building hatred for him.

You rushed to NL to seek validation for your action further going to create another thread on divorce. Madam, you had this all calculated out and you are not sure if the guy who is fucking you now may be consistent if you leave your husband. You are just acting in fear.

If you want to know how I have been able to pick the disconnect in this your story then send me a DM. We will have a constructive conversation, I will ask you all the tough questions if you provide honest answers to them then I will tell you the solution to your problem that is if there is still room for it.

1. Why was your phone smashed. What did you do that led to this?
2. Why was he challenging the paternity of his children? You obviously have him a reason to.
3. You sounded so holy in this story. You never reacted.
4. You cooked food for only you and your children and left the foolish jobless man to die of hunger.
5. What businesses or jobs did you recommend for him? Obviously those that made you be lord over him. (Her majesty)
6. You left your husband at his lowest moment. Did you for one day sit him down and take sense into him and made him understand that his children are seeing his drunken behaviour and would take after him?
7. You never gave him peace of mind thats why he took succor to alcohol.

Finally, while I condemn his being violent with you, believe me you provoked it, A man fights his equal but fears the one above him and expects submission from those below him. The time you made yourself look equal with your husband you brought out the beast in him.

Peace.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by kellyaa: 9:30pm On Apr 07, 2023
No whatsapp group that i am aware of.

I sent you an email


TemiWura:
Hello I also applied to University of Windosor January 2024. Do you know if there's a whatsapp group?
Education / Re: University Of Windsor January 2024 by kellyaa: 9:07pm On Apr 07, 2023
When did you apply? and what course?

TemiWura:
Please I also got admission for January 2024. Pls add me to the group
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by kellyaa: 7:56am On Apr 05, 2023
Co ask


ActivatedDreams:


Hi, I also applied for same intake at university of Windsor but still waiting. May I know the date you applied and the date you got admitted ? Thanks
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by kellyaa: 10:08pm On Mar 29, 2023
Na them

cococandy:


No it will not automatically be less work for the lady.
It requires a lot of sacrifice. Someone else’s sacrifice is not something you just expect from them as if you’re entitled to it. You’re not entitled to her sacrificing herself to care for your mom. She can do it herself if she wants to but it’s not something she owes you.

Why are you expecting her mom and your mom to have the same level of priority in her life? Her mom can die for her. Can your mom die for her?

A little thinking please
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by kellyaa: 2:41pm On Mar 23, 2023
Does the CAD43k include living expenses and all associated cost of attendance or just tuition?

All these monies you mentioned seems not to be very accessible to you immediately. Also. You may need to do a more indept explanation in your letter of explanation.

If you are married, is tour family going with you? If yes then you need to get more funds to cover them and explain better your proof of home ties.

All the best.



Christyiji:
Good morning people..

Pls I need an assistance on what to do right now.
I was refused visa on the ground of the following according to VO;

I am not satisfied that you will leave Canada at the end of your stay. I am refusing ur application because you have not established that you will leave Canada , based on the following factors;

1. Your assets and financial situation are insufficient to support the stated purpose of travel for yourself (and any accompanying family members), if applicable)

2. I am not satisfied that you have sufficient and available financial resources without working in Canada, to pay the tuition fees for the course or program of studies that you intent to pursue.

3. I am not satisfied that you have sufficient and available resources , without working in Canada, to maintain yourself and any family members who are accompanying you during your proposed period.

I am going for Masters of Management in University of Windsor, and my tuition fee is 43,000cad in total. I showed N8,351,000 in my uncle'S bank statement, N6,000,000 in my cousin's bank statement and N3,000,000 in my bank statement because they are my sponsors though I am married. Meanwhile, I have already paid 4,000cad for tuition deposit.

So, now my family members are contributing money for my studies which according to my sister, they planned giving me N10,000,000 and my that my uncle that was my sponsor want to transfer the N8,315,000 to my account while he will do a gift deed to that effect. So now concerning my family's contribution, how best am I supposed to show the funds, should they deposit it individually into my account or is it better one of them gather it in his/her account and send it my own account?


Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by kellyaa: 8:42pm On Mar 19, 2023
Your request will likely be rejected due to the comment there.

"Kindly upload 3 years tax clearance certificate"

If you are paying via Corporate account I GUESS you may be required to provide that.

Xavier70s:
Please , can someone help me understand what to do
Education / Re: University Of Windsor January 2024 by kellyaa: 7:56am On Mar 07, 2023
Mynana:
Hello everyone
I’m creating this thread for those applying to university of Windsor for January 2024. Kindly let’s identify ourselves.

Thanks!

Let us link up.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by kellyaa: 8:54pm On Mar 06, 2023
Let's link up. Sent you an email

Mynana:
Hello everyone
Any applicant for University of Windsor- Masters in Management Program 2024 who has gotten admission already?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by kellyaa: 8:01pm On Feb 24, 2023
what course?

Mynana:
Hello everyone. Is there any whatsapp group for those applying to university of Windsor for wJanuary 2024 ?
Education / Fully Funded DAAD Scholarship Opportunities For Masters & Phd In Food Chemistry by kellyaa: 8:24pm On Nov 01, 2022
Fully funded DAAD Scholarship opportunities for Masters & PhD in Food Chemistry are available at the Benue State University Makurdi. Nigeria. Interested applicants can open the link below for further details about the requirements and application process. Deadline for application is 9th December, 2022

https://www.bsum.edu.ng/w3/daadScholarship.php
Crime / Re: Woman Allegedly Kills Boss Inside Office Allege Sexual Harassment by kellyaa: 12:43pm On Aug 20, 2022
Correct.

Even when you read in between the lines, the 2 men cannot be sexually harassing her at the same time...if she was smart enough, she would have accused only the dead man without roping the accountant. But by involving the accountant, the other story suffices, It is certainly the money issue.

[quote author=SpecialAdviser post=115881261]The woman obviously is using sexual harassment as a ploy to evade justice.
Romance / Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Once Madly Inlove With by kellyaa: 8:35am On Jul 05, 2022
RaymondHarmony:
What killed your feelings for someone you were once madly inlove with ?

Disrespect

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Family / Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by kellyaa: 11:35am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


Na them

I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

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Family / Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by kellyaa: 11:34am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Very true.

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Politics / Re: Ortom To PDP: You Have Treated Wike Badly, Go To Him, Appeal by kellyaa: 1:34pm On Jun 29, 2022
Aonkuuse:
Seriously, Oga go and pay salaries, Teachers in Benue have gone 8 months without salaries.

Meanwhile, Troops dealt with terrorists in Borno, see Photos>>> https://salemgists.com/nigerian-troops-kill-3-boko-haram-in-an-ambush-recover-weapons-photos/

Pls tell him
Crime / Re: Wife Pays Assassin N7000 To Kill Her Husband In Yola by kellyaa: 5:04am On Jun 28, 2022
SeeHim:


Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/6/wife-pays-assassin-n7000-to-kill-her-husband-in-yola.html

You will not see all this female advocates or defenders commenting on this one now.

But if it is the man that did this, they will appear like hungry dogs.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 11:06am On May 24, 2022
Any idea of HYPPADEC salary structure?



Teeeecash:
unfortunately this doesn't apply when a politician posts the letter.

That APL was probably posted on Facebook that has larger audience than Nairaland and has been shared hundreds of times.

Is this the first time you are seeing APL that wasn't covered ??
NNPC
NDIC
Name the agency, one politician or the other has posted it on his timeline

The politician sometimes takes selfies and pictures with the APL and shares it on his Facebook timeline.


WELCOME TO NIGERIA sir grin
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 8:09am On May 24, 2022
With speed self.

Abu73:
Good Evening guys. Is it wise dropping a lecturing job at a Nigerian uni for a cbn job with a secondary school cert where there is room for growth and development after furthering your studies. But u’ll have to go through a fresh degree for an upgrade.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 8:24pm On Jan 04, 2022
Papacypaul:
you mean you are confirming it?
Are you confirming it to be quarter 1 too?

Yes Sir. According to my source.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 10:28pm On Jan 03, 2022
TammyAnybody:


By the grace of God another batch of recruitment is expected this year...

Embargo to be lifted on FSCS this year and massive recruitment to follow asap...

Accident Investigation Bureau is undergoing replacement..

INEC is expected to conclude 2020 recruitment exercise before November as communicated by the chairman to House Committee on INEC during last budget defence..

Another batch of NIMASA recruitment is expected first quarter 2022


NCDMB interview expected applicant should be warming up before mid-year..the ES is facing lot of pressure as regards the recruitment, the interview will likely be virtual..


Confirming your info on Nimasa

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 7:58am On Dec 04, 2021
Mayusig:
NIMASA APL has started flying. Press your buttons if you have grin

Confirmed. Very true. A former colleague's husband got 3 weeks ago

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Family / Re: Sex Starved Husband by kellyaa: 8:15pm On Nov 19, 2021
I admire your honesty and openness.


slimjohn2k5:
Bro, u are not alone. I beg my wife all the time for sex.

Sometimes she said I always ask at the wrong always, she is tired, etc

I have accepted my faith but what I do to get her now is doing somethings she is supposed to do like washing the toilet, I take professional exams, show her result I passed, when she is happy I asked for sex as the reward.

I buy very cheap things that make her happy and ask for sex as reward. I said cheap things like bolé and groundnut, corn, watermelon etc

Just find a spicing point, I feel they need a little tickle

Some of us are unmarried n do not understand what happens there. This is the reason marriages are crashing. Some see women as sexual tool, so when they see these resistance they say the woman is bad.

At least op was having sex before it stopped, y not ask him what changed. When he was enjoying it we did not know till the place lock grin grin grin

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 7:31pm On Sep 12, 2021
id4sho:


NIMASA increment is underway and if it's approved by PMB. NIMASA will overtake DPR wink

I thought I read where Ameachi said "He rejected the pay increment by Nimasa cause it became a cashcow, everybody wanted to be seconded or transfered to Nimasa"

https://www.google.com/amp/s/tribuneonlineng.com/why-i-rejected-nimasa-salary-increment-request-%25E2%2580%2595-amaechi/amp/

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 8:19am On Aug 18, 2021
philipianlobbos:

You hord info about PEF, i speak to help others and you queried me for speaking? Na only you wan work dia? You think we've 10m to pay DAFMIS?

You see all of us waiting & praying everyday for this PEF or other job? we all have GOD almighty so we're majority wish is our ultimate connect & every single information we hear or see in NL & outside NL will be screen grap & sent to our connect (GOD almighty) to speak for us, you can only hord your info but you can't stop us from getting this PEF or any other job opportunity by GOD grace, otherwise our GOD will fight and put you in trouble too. oh YES!

Cc:
Swagsultan1 & Kingdemu


Gbas gbos.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by kellyaa: 12:47pm On Jul 25, 2021
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