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please save a nairalander's life.

https://www.nairaland.com/1995601/sos-please-hamed-djdola

melotreaah:
Sup with this??

huh??

i go with chaircover's recommendation. makes so much sense. pls let's work together so dj can come and testify. please let something concrete be done today pls.

God bless you all!

As it is, if the "bird's" online, he would have gotten an inkling that something's wrong going by everyone's comments here. So I'll say he should be told, no matter how bad it is cos he'll still know eventually.
Then he decides how much we should be told, abi?

caracta, pls let's know who the bird is and the tree too. has someone hijacked the funds or something?? say it as it is pls. its seeming like a reality show!

After the deadline expires, try opening the website. it would redirect to a chinese online trading store or something like that sha. The hussle is real.

N.B: I wasn't scammed o, twas a friend that nearly fell for it till i gave him advice.

Jesuscoming:
Please guys..I really need ur help on this one.. I saw a website that is own by nigeria support fund. They invited some nigerians between the ages of 18-40 to write a short pointed note on how they can help fight poverty with their profession or dreamed profession. They also said that participates will be rewarded with one NSF laptop,scholarships, and the best participate in each category will be given 1million naira and some other benefits... God helping me,i wrote and i was shortlisted.. The problem now is that they asked me to register with 6500 naira to get the laptop and other benefits.. Honestly,am confused because i really don't know what to believe any more....I thought they said its an empowerment program, they said nigerians should express how they can help fight poverty,,,Pls 4 God sake why must we pay 6500 for registration Pls guys i need you on this one...If you really know anything about it,pls share....Help save my money b4 it enters voice mail. Thanks!

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!! They are big time scammers, don't part with 1kobo o i beg u. Even if the whole Nigeria enters the contest, they will shortlist them. Keep ya money o. I tried calling the guy after some pple paid, his phone was switched off. no try am, i don talk my own.

I just dey fear. That eruwa whatever shouldn't have ever come up, waste of time as it is. gateleo and wallyhali, we are waiting!!

I really hope the update is gonna be good news for djdola's sake. He's suffered too much. Refreshing the page every minute, I'm so anxious!!

Artistree:
I told him that too! The issue then was embarrassing cos of lack of funds. Now, there is little to go around with, sentiments should be dropped but he insisted that from the look of things, his mother will NEVER go back with him to LUTH. He actually gave me express permission to post this so the house can know the odds against him presently. The dude can't move so he's at the mercy of people to do the needful.

mtcheeeeewwww!! The mama never ready, guess she has a million kids. Even if it means you licking the doctor's poo, won't you do that to save your child's life?? When he gets better, you can return to the hospi and slap d doc if you feel like. Pls tell mama to do away with pride. I'm sooo angry!!

thinkdip:
NL's should take this guy out of there, I sense the family are trying to play games, the money is already in the account, what's stopping them from taking him to luth, I sense something, pls, let's radically force them to respond and take the guy to the hospital so that they won't play games with his life.

Good point you've made. The money might have "entered their eyes" especially all these yeye extended family, thats why they are recommending one yeye unheard of hospital so they'll have some change left. Hope his atm card is with him or a VERY trusted relative cos people are damn wicked!!

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lovinam:
she will struggle o. What comes naturally to other pupils in class won't be so in her case. Sometimes the parents does all d homework for them. I don't know where parents are rushing their kids to. That child should be in nursery 2. From 6 yrs is primary.

You are very very correct. Her mum does the homework, actually writes it in the girl's book herself.

lovinam:
A four years old child has no biZ in pry

Really, but my neighbour's daughter is 4years old n in basic one(youngest in her class). She's trying but she would have been better by far if the parents ain't rushing her.

That's why i asked you to educate me bro. Just hearing this ever(yea!). You don't have to be harsh about it. And my post wasn't referring to all guys, i said some. Same way not all women are shy about making the first move.

Thanks for the information though it was passed with the intent to ridicule.

filani:
@ kendra

Fine ,you make a point about wrong mindset from the girl coming into the marriage but as I said in an earlier post, such issues should be ironed out by the couple before signing the dotted lines.

You talk about men just going 'straight to the point' and all with no thought for madam, us men have been bashed about that for generations by girls and a lot of us have had to become professors in the act, swallowing pills and concoctions just so they can satisfy madam!

Let me shock you by telling you that a lot of girls are also guilty of being LAZY sexually, they only care about their own satisfaction as far as they care they MUST have multiple orgasm or he is not 'man enough' but these same girls are so bad in bed they have never given a man an orgasm even one time.
These girls are so ignorant they think ejaculation and orgasm in men is the same thing! They don't even know that us guys fake orgasm with them because they are so bad in bed!

So my dear before you point finger at guys, you will be surprised that you are also guilty of being bad in bed!

Pardon my ignorance, but can guys fake org@sm? Thought once they come, that's it! Educate me please. As for guys going straight to the point, i know what I'm saying. A woman's make up is diff from that of a guy. Once junior is up, guys are good to go but its diff for a lady. Have you ever tried having sex with a lady who's very dry "down there?" How did it feel??

The brain controls most of these things so when the woman knows all the guy's gonna come n do is hump away, she doesnt bother trying to stimulate her senses cos she knows there's nothing in it for her.

For a long time, men have been known to lead while the woman follows. The woman would lead only if she knows its gonna be worthwhile. By worthwhile, i dont mean she must reach 0rgasm(how many women even do sef) but there should be some sort of satisfaction for her. please face it, some guys are just damn selfish in bed. their slogan is " so far i come, nothing concern me"

same thing happened to me with my son's birthday cake. Shame no let me show anybody the cake. the woman even used pins to hold the icing in place, laff nearly finish me, in this century!!

Op, sue for as much as you can. Wedding cake fa, anytime you view your pics you'll always be reminded of the nonsense. Sue so she'll know everyone cannot be intimidated.

For some women, it might simply be due to their orientation or how they've been handled in past relationships. They might have been taught that a woman's place is just to receive and never to initiate, if not, she'll be termed a "loose" woman. Such person might carry that into her marriage and it will take a while before she can shake off such wrong behaviour.

Hubby has to be patient and also watch out for signs she might give. The "I'm tired, i have headache" excuse most women give is because they ain't looking foward to having sex mainly because oga just "goes straight to the point". No pre-intimacy, nothing nothing. He just wants direct entry, lol.

Scam alert!

please, are those girls in the first 2 pictures standing on stilts?? Or the heels of their shoes are so high? Or I'm seeing double??

Just my hubby knew. My sisters asked but i told them to chill, even EDD, i didn't tell when they asked. Told them i wanted it to be a surprise. Though my sis was like "Did any pastor tell you that I'm a baby sucking witch, hehn? That's why you don't wanna tell me"?

If you're comfortable with it, tell her if not, park well.

Yea, i think the Op is true. You need to see the level of competition these days especially amongst mothers of these kids. "My son is 7years old and in JSS 2, my daughter is only 5 years old but she can read advanced physics", all in a bid to show you their child's the best.

Its natural for any parent to wanna show off their 'amazing child' but take time to consider the child. Is s/he really doing good with the exposure/demands on him to always excel? In short, is the child happy?? Push your kids, yes, but only as far as is suitable/healthy for them.

Most people i know that studied abroad for their masters almost always have rich parents/relatives with connections here and there that can help them secure a job, or the parents have a business they want such a child to manage after School.

Doesn't make sense for a poor man's child to rush abroaf for masters. Pls tell your friend to grab the job fast and leave what people will say out of the matter. He should work hard and put aside that air of 'i did my masters abroad' cos as they say here' ko kan aye!'

olafunso:
Does ondo state have planning to employ other 2000 workers apart from teacher? If answer is not, it means won ti gbe nkan gbeyin o, because i heard it in osrc dat those they sent msg to shuld come to interview in ilara. But they do not mention tescom, dat's y l asked may be ondo state govt have piann to enploy other workers. Olorun yo o se tI WA nire IJN

I sincerely hope you did not apply for any teaching position. If you did, it'll be quite amazing!

Ijewuru- by my mum
Daraprim- by my brother. Daraprim being the name of an anti-malaria drug popc gave us every sunday. And i liked to repeat a particular outfit to church evrysunday. So, he'd call me daraprim anytime he saw me with the dress

I trust my father. He drove me to school on just ONE occassion, wetin concern the man? See me posing in front like Jonah pikin, i felt very good when some classmates were like "we saw that nice car that dropped you" i was 'prouding' myself.

Really used to envy the butty kids then, tot my dad was very wicked. That feeling when your classmates would pass you on the way to school in their parent's car and wave at you, you dey trek with better sweat forming map under your armpit.

i can go on and on, thank God sha cos that experience will always come in handy.

royalblood21:
Doing advert since she joined NL

sorry, have we met before?

Fxwarrior:
You seemed to have started reading my posts from the middle. Where did I say they should give the baby yam?

Besides you contradicted yourself by saying you suspect she's living based on what people will say.

Why are you suspecting again? Since the beginning I have been saying she's not speaking the whole truth on how she squanders 50k in a month. You are contradicting me only to take my stand all along. Are you a bat?

lol, I'm no bat and yes, i know I'm speaking from both sides of my mouth. Reason being that, I'm being sympathetic with the woman's plight and at the same time, scolding her because i feel she's indulging in some excesses. So, there you have it, Warrior!

babeline:
U still didn't answer my question. Do u have kids? Cos I'm guessing you don't. If u did, you wouldn't be say in the things you be said here

Read a post of his where he said he watched his sister shoving ogi down her son's throat forcefully. Has he asked her if she'll really like to do that on a good day? I'm not saying ogi is not good o, that's what my baby takes with relish.

Fxwarrior, just understand that women tend to go overboard with matters pertaining to their kids.
You need to see me n my oga going through my budget for our son. He'll strike out most things while me I'll be there boning but in my heart, i know he's right. I know you mean well, but your manner of approach is too harsh. Shikena!