kkins25:

People underestimate the power of what love is. Even jehova succumb to the power of love for it is written in the famous Scripture john 3:16, which I shall paraprase, for God so loved the world that he had to sacrifice his son who he loved less, for that which he loved the most. Love is the True God.
He who thinks he can control his God aka Love is but a mighty fool. I recommend Op should petition love to free himself from this burden Love has placed upon his shoulders. Love is a God who can only be petitioned via a god called reason.

Please,make your message simpler for my understanding..I feel there is a serious message in it.

jhubril:
MAJORITY OF YOU are too hypocritical to even realise it. Why would you expect a MUSLIM LADY TO CONVERT TO CHRISTIANITY in the name of one yeye love when IT'S VERY DIFFICULT / IMPOSSIBLE for you CHRISTIANS to allow your daughters to marry a Muslim . Even though Islam allows Muslim men to marry Christian ladies without forcing them to convert to Islam , I don't think that's possible anymore in the Islamic fold. We can't continue to lose our Muslim sisters in the South as you guys can't reciprocate a simple act of interreligious marriage. Guy, see look elsewhere for your wife to avoid confusion in your marriage.

My gf is a Christian and I am glad to inform you that she's has converted to ISLAM without forcing her to do so.

You shouldn't see this as a fight between to different religions. It's not.

With all the happenings around us, from a man raping his 1year old daughter to a young man killing his mother and using her body parts for african juju,why do we think stories like this are made up?

Back to the matter,they both (boyfriend and mother) don't deserve you and you shouldn't kill yourself for it. Just move on,better days ahead.

sykeng:


Don't mind those fanatics, look for a free thinker like you to date, religion is a virus to mankind. Anybody who want to convert me to any western ideology aside science na breakup straight, I'm better off alone than to expose my mind for extremists to pollute.

Thanks my friend.

DC49:


I understand your pain man because I've been on that road before.
My own little advice is that you really need to sit down and evaluate if you truly can't live without this girl. Our minds do play these cruel tricks on us sometimes, causing things that were not as if they were.
If you are sure that your love is absolute, then convert, else, walk away.

Though, personally I don't think changing your fundamental beliefs because of love only is the wise thing. Nothing lasts forever.

#thethingswedoforlove

Thanks a lot for your advice...I will actually re-evaluate my situation.

Kingsteve:
I really empathise with you.
I'm sure she's a northern Muslim, cos they're very strict when it comes to religious matters.

If she was a yoruba muslim, it would've been easier...probably!

If you really love her, and you're sure you can't live without her, then maybe you should consider converting, as long as you can live with the repacurtions.

Things we do for love!
Oh well...

All the best!

Thanks plenty.

Dov3:


Well, she clearly has something against yours .... and you were too myopic to see that and trash it out early. Please do and enrol in a children koranic school closest to you

Funny.

Dov3:
I can't believe you dated her for a while and started making future plans without giving any thoughts to how to manage the religious differences.

It is not like it just popped up over night that she is Muslim and you are Christian. Brother, if you didn't have the balls to tell her to convert since, then she has had to grow some balls to tell you

The kind of weak men we are seeing today sha...

Personally,I have nothing against any religion...So I didn't and don't have reason to ask her to convert.

blackpanthar:



YOU MUST BE A FREE THINKER... if you were ever a christian and living in NIGERIA... then how could you ever believe you and her will get married without such issues.

SHE DOES NOT EVEN LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO JOIN YOUR SO CALLED RELIGION..... rather she wants you to prove your love for her by joining ISLAM...

now you are here to FIND AN EXCUSE.



See, stop deceiving yourself bro. IF RELIGION IS AN ISSUE AT THIS STAGE..... IT WILL ALWAYS BE, EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE AND IT WOULD GET WORSE.

so end the relationship if you know that your love for her is NOT deep enough to convert your beliefs to Islam. Her love for you is not deep enough too.


YOU BOTH CAN BE GOOD FRIENDS..... but your relationship was not really COMPLETE without the GOD FACTOR.

maybe you never really knew that MARRIAGE is a UNION OF TWO FAMILIES.... you both were blind from the start to think this RELIGION stuff would not be a major ish.


YOU ARE NOT CONFUSED MY BROTHER, You just want to see who will support your opinion.

Thanks for your contribution my friend.

I was dating a muslim lady for over a year now. We love each other. We have plans for a life together. I've never met her parents. Recently,we started making plans to take things to the next level. We were happy until she just came one day to my place with tears in her eyes. I was worried and she told me she wouldn't want us to continue. Her reason was I am a Christian and she is a Muslim that Allah will never bless our union unless I become a muslim.

I'm heartbroken and confused.
Please, how can I deal with this?....I really want her in my life.

God dey.

H

Hmmn

It's alright.

"Still on still"I don't like anybody carrying gun in Nigeria,they have one thing in common:hatred for the citizens(bloody civilian).

Hmmmm! Let's wait for the elders.

HmmmM...no data to watch. I'm on free nairaland mode.

kevotek1000:


Congrats Simi... My brother 4 Banky W matter mind your business. Who say make u no mind am?

Yes o...make em mind am. In Falz voice " Weldon Sir,Mr Talker. Mr waiting no concern you reporter"

andrewbaba44:


You are going to visit nah ? I am putting the smallest amount that can take you to cairo as a BTA

One of my friend that visited me at cairo during the afcon period was holding a BTA of $500 and he didnt have issue at the point of entry

Na those thieves for muritala airport go just give you small issues

Ok.. Thanks...I am just visiting.

andrewbaba44:


Go and apply for visa nah and if you don’t have anyone there just have your hotel reservation

Book your ticket 2 way ticket not one way unless you will be sent back at the point of entry

Hold $500 for your BTA at worst ,with all this you are good to go

Good luck

You mean $500 is enough to take me? I'm totally new to traveling.

Please,I need detailed explanation of how to travel from Nigeria to Egypt by air. Not going for work or stay,more like tourist visitation for few weeks.

Was he trying to rape her?
Which of the laws in the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria was broken?

RIP.

Woman and power don't mix fine. Give a woman a little power and see her true being.

The rate of jungle justice in Nigeria today causes fear. Something should be done about it before it becomes untamable.

Arewa1408:


Liar. Look at that woman again, even at your current age, that woman will beat you and dip that your mouth in that shit. However, she went to the extreme, that was bad, she should've assisted the boy in packing it and disposing it properly and then tell the boy not to do it near her house again. I can imagine why she will be angry. I guess she has to always see it on her way home back and forth also the smell will be offensive if its near her house.

You don't know me.

When I was this guy's age,I could do serious damage....we go chop the shit together o.

Fake testimony like this can cost people their lives.
Stay safe and ignore dangerous lies like this one.

Bambambiglo:


Insensitive asshole

Extremely insensitive.