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I met Haruna my husband during my service year in Adamawa and we fell in love with each other but I had no intention of getting married to him not until a day I mistakenly barged into his room without knocking and I saw him unclad. I immediately noticed his third leg and told myself I am gonna get married to him just to keep the promise I made to myself years ago.

Myself and Haruna, promised ourselves not to have any form of intercourse before our marriage and we kept to it strictly.

After our wedding, during our honey moon we had our first intimacy together. It was good but I am scared because I almost lost my life during the encounter.
The whole thing was so perfect the way I wanted it but wasn’t coming to an end at all. Haruna my husband nearly killed me just in one encounter.

Now I’m wondering what my life could be if I continue like this for the next 3yrs.

Please readers advice me on what to do. Should I take the divorce step my mum wanted years ago?

Hmmmm! It's better to just stay safe and avoid unnecessary trouble. If not,I won't return 1kobo.

Omar09:


Forget sex thingy... I'm a dude.

Lol! I see.

Omar09:


From my angle, it's morally right.

Ok ma'am.

Omar09:


It very much true. And that's why they prefer calling 911 than using a cloth to prevent bleeding.

But to be honest most ladies under the age of 19 and above 18 prefer not to get married at that age, they claim they wanna explore more and once married they won't explore hence break marital vows. It's both morally and legally right, but it comes off as immoral when most of them are shamed because "they got married too early". And most men don't like to get married to them because these men feel they are "too young" to take decisions and stand by it. In fact most ladies need to get married at that age, it's their need, but usually the "wants" always supersedes the "need". Hence it appears immoral to marry a girl at that age.

It is morally right and the same time wrong based on what angle you view it from?

Blu03:


^^^^ i concur.
You type with reason alot.

Lol

Omar09:


18 is the age of responsibility. Once 18 can be prosecuted under the law. It is assumed that's when an adult could be held responsible for his or her actions. So 19y is a morally right age for marriage regardless of the capability to make the right or wrong decision.

I understand you. For instance,I don't really know how true is this:in USA,if somebody is having an emergency health problem and you attempt to help the person actively without the proper medical training and injures the person in the process,you can be held liable.

The above action is morally right but legally wrong.

I know this kind of circumstance I am about to present is legally right but let's talk morality.

Is it morally appropriate for a 29year old man to marry a 19year old lady?

I personally feel a 19year old lady is not really capable to make the right decision on issue as big as marriage.

Renforce:
The water looks so clear and shallow but jump in and you'd be sorry if you can't swim.
When I was young I had a close shave even though I could swim. That day I learnt there's a difference between swimming pool and a seemingly still and clear river with heavy under currents... R.I.P to the fellow!

Typical village boy......I've never entered a swimming pool..if it is not river Niger or Benue,I am not interested. I hate it when water is too small for swimming like a swimming pool.

I never believed in destiny. Life is all facts.

Yea! I became worried immediately. Wondering if we have started dealing in human corpse trading

Have you ever found yourself in a very difficult/conflicting situation and started reading/preparing yourself for/about things you never thought you could experience?

I was so broke at a time that I actually read "how long a man can survive without food." because I didn't have food to eat and without any hope for food.

I also at some point wanted helping someone and I ran into issue that I actually googled 'how to survive in prison" because I thought the issue would land me in prison.


Share your experience.

Oh! And Marley is the only one suffering for it....I whole label: Yahoo Boy No Laptop even dey.

What kind of fuckery is this? Nollywood?

There is no sense in this....not an atom of it.

First good thing I've read on nairaland like in a thousand years. Thanks plenty.

Educative

dastroud:
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Can you post original picture please

What do you mean by original picture?

My screen

Hahahaha! If you no take time,you go land for ground again. Hahahaha!

You need a comprehensive medical investigation and treatment. Go to Hospital.

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I have being recieving notifications from my Opay app since morning that I can take a single ride for not more than 10naira. Please,how true is this message? Has anybody taken it today?

namiji2598:
even as the graduate, I once went for an interview as a cleaner ooooo my brother, the man asked me who send me, ahhhhhhh I shock, he replied who told u abt this job

You see.... connection everywhere. Lol!

Like a thousand times we have read, understood and applied ideas like this,yet we are still unemployed.


Forget it. Simple, connection will get you a good job. If you don't have connection, settle for work like gateman, security man etc or learn hand work and work for yourself or you run out of Nigeria or choose crime(sure pay,don't just die too quickly)..

This is a very rare phenomenon that have nothing to do with witchcraft, neither spells thrown, nor infidelity.

During love making, suddenly in some rare situation, the couple is stuck. The penis is in the vagina, and it is impossible to get it out, which is called Penis Captivus at first, a little patient is required.

According to an emergency doctor for penis captivus to occur, a series of events during sex must take place. The penis, which fills with blood during an erection, may continue to grow in size before orgasm. The vagina’s walls, which are made of muscular tissue, expand and contract during sex. The muscles inside the vagina may pulse slightly during an orgasm, too.

On occasion, the vaginal muscles may contract more than typical. These contractions can narrow the vaginal opening. This narrowing could prevent a man from removing his penis, especially if he’s still engorged and erect.

After orgasm, the vaginal muscles will begin to relax. If the man also reaches orgasm, the blood will begin to drain from his penis, and the erection will ease. You may be able to remove the penis from the vagina as these events occur.

Another solution to a stuck couple while having sex is that the woman should swallow a sleeping pill, then when she dozes off her muscles are relaxing, then the man can gently withdraw.

Most people who experience penis captivus can expect to be stuck together for just a few seconds. Staying calm and letting the muscles relax will help you unhook from each other.

Penis captivus is one manifestation of vaginismus. Vaginismus is a strict contraction of the vagina’s muscles that is so strong, the vagina essentially closes itself. When this occurs, a woman may be unable to have intercourse. It can also prevent medical exams.

So couple sticking into each other most times is the vagina muscles holding the penis that is it involuntarily contract the muscle, typically harmless and at times painful too.

Spiritual investigation should be conducted...This appears unnatural.

RIP. May we never make unnecessary decision that will cost us our life.

kkins25:

Hahaha..
The girl knows just as you are also aware that Allah has little tolerance for defectors unlike jehova having repented from his tyranny now condones defectors, and opens his hands to all flesh and bones from all nations and race.
Being a serpent that her feminine nature has gifted her, the lady had done her homework and realised that jehova would have no problem with the guy defecting to islam- decided to lure the guy to her side. The fear of Allah's servants in situations like this is the beginning of wisdom.

It's OK. Thanks.