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dude why have unprotected sex when you know you would be risking so much? disdaining the treasures of tomorrow for the passions of the moment. typical. i hate abortion so i can't really advise you to force the issue. however you can tell the girl that she should have the baby but tell no one that it is yours till you have graduated and your father has done whatever it is your so scared of losing. this way you should be able to start a family comfortably. this is assuming that you have no other source of reasonable income. the girl should understand because a tango takes two. she also took the decision to have unprotected sex and if she decides to keep the baby she should be prepared for some hardship. the only other alternative at this point is to face your dad like a man,apologize to him humbly and make some kind of promise to make up for it. and if all fails, well the poverty numbers in nigeria will increase

bykes:
I presently work with one of the leading banks in lagos as a marketer.I was posted to the this new branch of the bank and[b] this lady is the business manager.[/b]she [/i]sends me love emails,text messages.she is a widow.just last week monday she called me into her office, i thought it was a one on one session which she normally holds [/b]with all the marketing staff,there [i][b]she told me that right from the first day[b] she set my eyes on me she has not been herself.[/b]that is either i give in to [i]her [/i]advancies or get fired.[i]she [/i]also promised to give me all the necessary assistance to meet my target.i am confused,pls i need advice

didnt you guys do english comprehension in secondary school?

[quote author=Abbey_city link=topic=409038.msg5648235#msg5648235 date=1268041963]Honestly, embarrassing is an understatement! [/quote]lool. i can imagine what it feels like being debated upon like some form of entertainment. don't worry it means ur now a celeb!

^i didnt really go through the whole thing but what i deduce is that arabic is gid's language? fine so why then did he not give the whole world one language (arabic)? are you saying that when you die if yu can't speak arabic you will be given automatic ability to speak or one of the angels will come and translate for you?

nopuqeater:
what is the Quran revealed in but pure arabic language? what language is the official prayers and other matters are conducted, but authentic Quranic arabic? what language could God be mentioned in that everyone will now it is meant to be Islamic God that is being referred to, but arabic language? if it has said Allah in hebrew, would it not be claimed by the jews as their God; eloi or elohim [take your pick]? if it has simply stated God in english, would the christians and the jews and others who believe that there is God, and indeed the muslims amongst them will not claim it (God) as their own God, where there arises because of this ownership exclusively without any clarity?

the chrsitians will claim it for Jesus, or Ghost, or Father (make your own choice of the confused 3 entities passing as one), then the jews making sure it is the God that is the God of Abraham, Isaac and jacob and the Israelites, and not the God of everyone else. the others, Hindu and co will call it one of the thousands (many) gods they worship.

At least as Allah, you kingdavid kow it is the God of The Muslims; One God without any blemish and no partners!

so what if it simply appeared as 'allah' then? in simple english the word allah. should that not do the trick?

tada!abbey city is here now. she is pretty but not the hottest.

[quote author=Abbey_city link=topic=409038.msg5648134#msg5648134 date=1268040693] _{I can't believe dis!!!}[/quote]i would guess the attention is embarrassing to you abbey?

tottenham or aston villa for me. i really like tottenhams style of ply and they are my second favorite english team behind man united. i think tottenham play in a similar way to you united which may be why we have taken two of their ex stars. (berbatov and carrick). aston villa too are interesting and have someplayers i like to watch but if theyare to go to europe they will need to improve individuallly.

abrahym:
As man united fan,i go for man city

excuse me?? you sir are no man united fan or you certainly do not do your research or even watch any derby games between these two. man city, leeds and liverpool are uniteds worst foes

i find it strange that every single on of the so called miracles is supposed to depict the arabic for allah. guess god must be arabic then?

mikel the best defensive midfielder in the league?please don't say this anywhere else. even etuhu and olofinjana who both play in the english league are better than him and yet these guys would never be considered among the best defensive midfielders. palacios is good yes but there are better guys such as mascherano and essien. de jong and barry are at least as good if not better than palacios. ferguson did give eagles his chance and he showed what he could do. he is good but not quite united quality.

Does God speak arabic? i mean is arabic the national language of heaven?

what a comedy of errors!!

juogar:
what will been your reaction when you had your fiancy is a snake, and you are really in love and weding is coming up in a month time

nuff said really

chistiana:
i think if i heard my fiancy was a snake, i will run till i couldnt breath any more.

but all the same correct your grammatical error. no one above mistake [/b]all the [b]same, but this doesnt make enough of ,

your post proves that no one 'above mistakes' in truth and while you where in such great haste to castigate(me sef won blow grammar) the poster you forgot to finish the sentence

eminemkayc:
@cipriani neva meant 2b pejorative at d poster bt at d same tym,hp u dnt intend pourng invectives on me cos i wunt renegade 2 gt bck at u SO HARD!!!

lol dude after blowing grammar left right and centre with all manner of pejorate abi invective you come spoil am with renegade?i'm sure u meant renege cuz renegade in that context makes no sense.



the moral of the story is that nigerians are grammatical hypocrites.

chris eagles? come on mann that dude is average

mann some of the things you say are coming off as just plain weird. majority of americans are poor? no one denies that there are poor americans but to go as far as saying that majority are poor ? majority of americans are like those who come on the jerry springer show? what then is the point of the jerry springer show?? u even say they are better christians than me when many of those people dont believe in a god of any kind. are all americans christians? geez mann i can no longer keep up with u coz there is no logic or reasoning in your posts,only demented looking religious fanactism.

^^ :d :d

r.i.p

been under the impression that ivanovic was basically standard issue. as in no more or less than what you would expect at chelsea. mathew taylor is ok.i think hehas mor technical skill than talent. carrick is another unsung hero

1. intelligence
2. beauty
3. virginity
4. sexiness/ fashion/girliness
5. career potential
6. traddition/homeliness

oh and yea i would have thought that a prophet would be very busy during the day and seeing as he prays for most of the night i just don't see where the time for sexual activity comes from especially when you are talking about eleven wives. yes he was a man but for a man who was supposed to be God's greatest messenger, don't you think he should have set at least a near perfect example? at least he should have been pure enough to leave no room for 'infidels'(like me) to find anything to fault him with. no?

your posts are really long. first try and understand that everything i said with regards to sexual issues is related to what i saw in the original post. it was the same original poster who claimed that mohammed was rich. read his long post carefully cos u are not just opposing me but you are also saying what he has said is wrong. which of you then is right? you talk as if you believe that everybody in america is a christian or that the people on the jerry springer show are representative of americans in general. really? the people who come on that show are elements of the worst possible character.you say that the americans are our masters whom we strive to emulate, thats funny. i must first ask are you an arab? if not then the same applies to you and the arabs are your masters whom you are trying to emulate. religion has nothing to do with race. if you can claim that everybody who goes on the jery springer show is christian and that all christians are like them, then i ask you if all muslims are murders like osama bin laden and his followers? the age at which mary got married is not a fact recorded in any historical book and most certainly not in the bible. historians have only made estimates on this based on the norms of the time. anything else i have forgotten?

^ evidence that the bible has been tampered with

experts:
Christianity is a religion that follows jesus and to my believe despite all changes that had occured in d bible,i still know that some basic truth can not be replaced,

islam in the other hand is a religion that was founded by prophet mohammed,

mohammed didn't condem any thing in the bible expect what has been tampered with,

and d Qur'an contain everything in the bible and more details,

this is a sign that prophet mohammed is a prophet sent by God to mankind just like jesus.

but where is the evidence of such, by whom, how and why?

i intend to purchase a quran soon as i regularly engage in discussion with my muslim friends. should be interesting. the koran was written at least 500 years after christianity. most of the books of the bible were written separately and at the time period of the ccurence of the events described therein. big question is why the koran has such striking similiarites with the bible when the two books are clearly not united in their message?

nopuqeater:
@kgdavid: « #40 on: March 02, 2010, 08:27 PM » thats just part of the reasons he married many. others were to keep the women from falling into the hands of vulture like men, like you who just see them for intimacy and nothing else. some of their marriages were to cement the alliances with many potential clans who were enemies of islam, in the fledging days, ready to fight it. since many of them outlived him, they became the storytellers of his legacy, and our mothers, etc. may Allah bless them all.

yet the women described him as having the power of 30 men? are you for real, or do you think that volume is quality? their complaint was simply that they wanted to spend more time with him. afterall, when he passed away, none of them married anyone else. that should tell you something.

there is a time for intimacy and there is time for prayers. Muhammad is not like you whose existence is mere basis, almost animal like; eat and sleep and when worship, it is the wrong diety. whats your essence of being on earth?

Jesus was not wealthy. unlike Solomon, Muhammad and jesus were not wealthy. no one of the wives of Muhammad (as) said he was not a great husband, except only by the human female nature that each iwas individually jealouse, in the same way a man who ignorantly accept one wife lifestyle, while he keeps horde of girlfriends out there, wishing the society would not shortchanged his male nature.

did you hear anyone of them say she was not happy in the marriage because of his poverty? you call yourself kingdavid; could you tell me how david provided for his wife, including the wife of the man he killed so that he can take his wife, according to you and your Bible? shame on you to have accepted the name of an adulterer, killer, murderer, by your own standard.

a mere 1000m years ago, the life span of man was 24. please could you tell me what age was maturity then, if 24 was the top age, and often most died?
just the other day i saw a show on MTV, titled "16 and pregnant". they often become mothers even before 16 in the best country that the christians of the world hold on to as their pride. in the united states, there are tv programs like maury show, hosted by maury povitch where you see 12 years old or even younger girls sexually active, day in day out. if you went to Utah, in the USA, the age of marriage is even almost 10 or just above. what about the show of Jerry Springer, a former mayor of Cincinnati, Ohio, where everything goes or Steve Wilkos show, too. man, get with the program, and see how naive you are of the reality of the world, by going on Youtube. if this is today's reality, what was the reality of 1400 plus years ago? tell us man, if you lived way back then.


@GODSON2009: « #41 on: March 03, 2010, 01:46 PM » arrogance of ignorance. if muhammad (as) conferred prophethood upon himself, what was the need to wait till he was 40, instead of say the age of strenght between 25 and 35? afterall, jesus conferred godship on himself between 30 and 33 or maybe younger? i laugh at you in your mother tongue, whatever it is, godson. yet khadijah (ra) took him to waraqah ibn naf, the christian who said what he said. i think you should read what waraqah a true christian said about what muhammad (as) was about to become. that statement renders all you silliness as pure rubbish.
neither of these people's name appeared in the Quran as a protector of Muhammad and the muslims. we knw by ahadith that abitalib was a protector. khadijah was never a protector. you are now the one who lacks full knowledge, in the same fashion as the biblical Jsus, your god.

Muhammd did not leave Makka immediately his wife and or his uncle died. another person protected him, even after the death of his uncle. by the Quran and the ahadith, we know that Muhammad (as0 waited for revelation for his ZHijr, since many hijra were already made by the muslims, twice to Ethiopia and later the steady streaming of muslims to Madina from Makka. Islam of Muhammad was 13 years in makka before his own Hijr.
your point is so weak, since we saw that Baghirah the monk warned his uncle about the harm that could befall him, if he was taken to Syria as a young boy of say 8 or 9.

ridiculous ypothesis. a woman is still gender restricted even now, and in the days of Muhammad it was not different, since while Khadijah was banished to outside the city limit of Makka along with the rest of the Muslims, until the oath posted on the wall of Makka came out as it did, which was how the banishment of the muslims ended. you dont know that, or you are selective in your memory, just like Jesus of the Bible; sometimes he was god, other times he was just a prophet, yet at another a son of man.

except that his wife did not protect him. why pass lies as truth godson? and a wife as president or vice president still the wife of the husband. or in your world, she becomes your husband and you are the one now wearing the skirt?

man this is some unnecessarily long post. anyway first i would like to remind you that now where have i claimed that sex is the basis for marriage. i simply pointed out in the article it is claimed that mohammed married to help these women with their sexual and material needs which, by obvious contradictions in the same essay, he was not doing. i did not say sex should be the priority but the article candidly says that he did not have time for sexual relations as he would pray throughout the night. You accuse me of seeing women merely as sexual objects but is it any better if you marry a woman only for the purpose of sealing a deal with a tribe? why would you have to marry someone to protect your religion? surely you can see the hollowness of such? or he married them to be story tellers as you say they outlived him to tell his story? the only one of the wives that was married for romantic reasons was aisha,a nine year old girl. life spans at that time were not 24 my friend quit exaggerating wildly. david killed and took another mans wife. fine, but david was a man, a mere man who had great power and made great mistakes and yet he repented and went on to do great deeds. i suppose you would say shame on a muslim with the name daoud?or dawda?or i guess you don't know that David is mentioned and praised in the quran do you? and you conclude by saying mohammed was not rich. of course he was. he was greatly enriched by the marriage to khadijah or you saying he squandered his fortune? man do you read? i bet you did not even read that article before you starting posting. you talk about jerry springer, ashow about depravity, as if this is the benchmark for how we live our lives. i don't know what you are talking about but an 18 year old will go to jail for sex with a 17 year old. but y dont you go and emulate the inspiring standards you see on mtv and jerry springer? how old are you?

see the kind of question you are calling for advise for, or are armed robbers in your house right now waiting for your answer? ok u'v gotten your answers, hurry and go and answer them before they get angry and do all the above

hmmm i see.i stand corrected

because my whole life is centered around her?? people have jobs to attend to,degrees to attain,businesses to grow, children to raise and you are listing 50 ways to make your wife happy. serve her breakfast in bed joke of the century brada. i wouldnt want breakfast in bed myself. all these things are unnecessary. if you truly love each other it would show in the little things you do but some of these things u listed are just plain corny/cheesy. u want to turn men into big fat pussies?

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=408145.msg5629561#msg5629561 date=1267739531]with your username i aint surprised [/quote]so wat does dobodobo mean??

guy lots of chics here have pictures on their profiles, u can check them out. the images may be a little disturbing though so viewer discretion is advised(kiddin). on the other hand if u got a girlfriend why do you want to see pictures of nigerian girls? it's one thing to want to see pictures of the country but of the girls in particular, its quite another thing entirely.

hey genius of course something fishy is going on but let me walk you through the maze cuz it looks like ur lost.
1.What is the guys purpose of calling your wife?
Ans: obvious romantic intent
2.Is your wife aware of his intentions?
Ans: obviously.
3. does she condone his attention?
Ans: yes or she would not keep talking to him and even defend him by calling him a friend.
4. so is she involved with him?
Ans: probably
5: what do you do?
Ans: should never have married her and as it is u r in deep, till death rescues you, shit.

^metatarsals are the bones the feet are made off and seeing as he broke his fifth metartarsal which is the biggest one it would be accurate to say he broke his foot. like u imply,it would be nice to give this issue a rest already. i mean half of the people on here had probably never heard the name 'shawcross' before. so much controversy in the game this year so far.