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truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

BassReeves:
Mark 7:15
'there is nothing outside a man [such as food, earrings etc] which by going into him,
or on him can defile him [morally or spiritually];
but the things which come out of [the heart of] a man are what defile and dishonor him.'

On the contrary, as I beg to differ and propose that true and pure religion, which has no flaws or fault and such that God approves us is not opium of anyone talkless people of Africa, its false religion, bigotry, hypocrisy and the Pharisaical spirit thats the opium of people, the sheepole most especially

Conflict of interest. His principle won the day

No, not all he never, because he said his friend was in full support of him

xpressionx:
Well people take Christianity anyhow because they know God is a merciful God.
Try this shit in a mosque in Kano.
Na for nairaland we for dey type your RIP

Ammishaddai:
People love being stupid for the wrong reasons. The place of work this idiot goes may make it mandatory to dress with a tie and a suit ,but the mumu never considered that dogmatic. But when it comes to respecting the doctrines of a church, he quickly refers to it as dogma. Nonsense

Mowoe:
People who do not support abortion(pro-lifers) only care about a baby before it's born; after you give birth they'll tell you to 'carry your cross,' and ask you why you'd give birth to a baby you cannot take care of.



SHIT HAPPENS!

Juliusmomoh:
I don't understand.

Laturuturu:
Toto water

LagosInter:
Fixed matches.

They promoters know this.

They will make more money if AJ loses the match.

The rematch will be hyped and he will win that one.

Everybody smiles to bank.

Same thing with this useless big brother naija.

People are told to act in certain ways so the whole thing will be controversial, more money for the organisers.

Hangmnk:
Probably IPOB terrorists wants her for bulletproof or Afonja Christian for internet scam

Kittex7:
AJ fhucked up jarey

Idamond:
My face is always OILY and it also cause PIMPLES on my face because of that I stop applying cream on my face, and the resultant is causing pimples on my face..

even after taking my bath in less than an hour oil will pop out from my face even if I'm under an air-conditioned...
please how do I stop these.

ThankUJesus:
RUBISH, everything is wrong from the beginning to the end.

Iyaebe:
ill gotten money has never been a turn on or motivation for any sensible person, these kind of money are always spent on frivolities, no good ending attached to it.Anything legitimate is the real deal for me.

Arda1000:
call him anything but his a real guy,nothing goes for nothing I bought u food n u won com carry the food waka like that,oni kure

Nonpartisan1:
Hunger don reset their brains...

RichThugg:
Terrorists



I know say unar other terrorists organization branch in Nigeria (APC) go dey jealous unar right now...

saphiere:
lalasticlala seun mynd44

treesun:
Lalasticlala

Crossroad1:
and you call yourself an engineer!!
No wonder you have Alot of collapse building.. If you are truly an engineer, your certificate need to be withdrawn

lanas:
Pls this your analysis is full of flops. Not realistic at all. Pls convince me more with evidence of ur practice history where u have used dis ur work schedule. Anyway, there's no way for u to used excavator to excavate foundation of the subject building type. Impossible! Hope u know dat u don't need to wait for d decking to dry before loading it with blocks at upper floor cos I can see u leaving 4days for it to dry permanently which is also a technical blunder. Concrete doesn't dry but cure, by gradually gaining its strengths. U said plastering and tiling of d whole building not more than 3days? Ure nothing but a quack in d built environment profession. I'm 100% sure urent a qualified engineer or builder. Mr online engineer!

lanas:
Pls this your analysis is full of flops. Not realistic at all. Pls convince me more with evidence of ur practice history where u have used dis ur work schedule. Anyway, there's no way for u to used excavator to excavate foundation of the subject building type. Impossible! Hope u know dat u don't need to wait for d decking to dry before loading it with blocks at upper floor cos I can see u leaving 4days for it to dry permanently which is also a technical blunder. Concrete doesn't dry but cure, by gradually gaining its strengths. U said plastering and tiling of d whole building not more than 3days? Ure nothing but a quack in d built environment profession. I'm 100% sure urent a qualified engineer or builder. Mr online engineer!