LiegeMan: Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country, I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
My brother anger is not what you are feeling its called jealousy, how can you get angry at the life your wife once lived before she met you? Is she still living that kind of life now? Why you come dey vex? Na jealousy dey worry u. Go church go cast that spirit out of you before you loose it all.
EmekaA125: The Adamawa State Governor, Alhaji Ahmadu Fintiri has completed the first flyover in the history of the State. This was revealed when the flyover located in the heart of the city was opened up to motorists.
The flyover unarguably is the first of its kind in Adamawa(Old Gongola State) and NorthEastern region at large.
Recall that Bornu, Adamawa and Yobe have been the hot-bed of series of attacks launched by Boko Haram insurgents whose main aim is seeking for an establishment of an Islamic Caliphate where Western Education would be prohibited.
The Fintiri led administration equally reiterated its effort and unwavering commitment in delivering democracy dividend which was the reason why the PDP got majority votes in the last governorship poll.
Soon to be brought down either by boko boys or bandits their cousin
Veryfoolishboy: Omo just like that 3 bread winner of 3 families are gone If you are among those hailing Nnamdi Kanu and his foot soldiers, know that you will also reap from whatever evil they sow. No matter how long.
What about the teenagers currently being killed in IMO state by your government, my friend wife family house completely burnt down by ur military, non is reported. I beg park well jare
Julieet: Why didn’t he resign when he found out? Na useless job Na useless job but yearly NPF recruit more than 10,000 applicants Abeg those ones too no know say Na useless job?
Its better to work for MC oluomo and be cutting ticket at oshodi Dan to join the poverty stricken Nigeria police force
timstone: I view of the ends sars memorial taking place I different state . Let's meet here discuss what's happening.
I love what falz and his boys are doing at Lekki tollgate, with over 200 cars and over 500 occupant currently protesting, the Nigeria police look so confused and stupid. Good one guys, swaga or no swaga tifnubu can not rule this nation, today is in remembrance of their action. Please falz run for president under any party except for those two demons in different color or names APC and PDP aka enemies in the day friends at night
Adeyinka12: Dear ..... Congratulations, You ve been shortlisted for 2020 NPF CBT on 29/10/2021 @ 8:30am. Kindly check ur email for info: www.policerecruitment.gov.ng
please who applied for 2020 police recruitment and he/she have received the above Sms. Moreover, Is it genuine.
Go and sign for poverty. A police man once told me the day he signed to be a policeman in Nigeria was the day he signed to be poor. So my brother you are welcome we don't really care about those animals on uniform
Softboy001: I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.
Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.
I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.
So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.
primary reasons 1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.
2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)
So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't
3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.
for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be
Secondary reasons. 4.am an introvert 5. Am not that tall. Am short 6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.
Christistruth00: Don’t mind them instead of them doing fund raising events to repair all the Carnage and destruction they did in Lagos last year and earnestly ask for forgiveness and apologise for the Lekkilies and the Murder of innocent Policemen they are looking for another chance to attack Lagos again
Eko Koni Baje
Eko wey don baje already, as long as your lord tifnubu still dey decide and control Una Lagos will remain dead
NaijaSatanist: You have to admit that things are not going well in your country despite the fact that you have been honestly worshipping the "almighty" God for decades now.
It's pretty obvious that God has failed you. Don't you think it's time to turn to Satan? God killed more people in the Bible than Satan. Satan was just an angel that stood up to God. Have you ever wondered why our lord, Satan has not been killed by God? It's because Satan is a very powerful ruler. He rules the plains of the earth. With Satan, you are free as a bird. When a politician fails you, you vote him out and appoint another person.
God has already failed you. Why not try Satan?
It's a new week and I pray that Satan be upon you and your family and shield you from the plans of the enemies.
thereturnoflucy: Students of the Ekiti State University (EKSU) trooped in their numbers to welcome the winner of the 2021 BBNAIja show to their institution.
The only thing is….the person they were cheering at….was not the real Whitemoney.
jericco1: Hey guys so how long have you spent at a job before calling it a quit or probably disengaged?
So this year I have been quite funny with jobs and whatnot
So the first job I did this year, I didn't spend up to 2 months before leaving, the job was too stressful for me and I couldn't cope.
The second I spent a month and half then I left because the pay wasn't encouraging
The third one though sounded interesting, and I was like oh finally a management position. So after almost three months of processing my application and several documents submitted.. I was finally called to resume but I left after the first two days. The job wasn't for me, it looked good on the outside but something else on the inside, to me it was slavery.
So I have decided to leave anything that has to do with job alone.. I'm doing well for myself
Handsomejok: Yes but I refused cos I was angry I wanted nothing to do with her anymore but I regret my actions but I thank God for this forums that I have come back to my senses and I am ready to take her for deliverance as soon as possible.
Thanks be to God almighty, may God be with you on this journey
Handsomejok: I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.
After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.
After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?
can't your church conduct deliverance for your daughter?
ambr055i: Please, I need your advice because right now I'm confused about where to go, it's a lifelong decision.
I just turned 34 last month, still living with my uncle, but no pressure on his part is a big house. Currently, I teach in a school where my net salary and my home lesson inclusive are approx. N 100000 a month. I have a master's degree in engineering, so I haven't put that certificate to use. I have a saving of 900k, it will be higher by December. Although it would have been more than that, I lost 400,000 to the detriment of a bad investment. Last two years, I had an illness that struck (ENT related), which doesn't have a cure. One of the symptoms is vertigo (a sensation of feeling off-balance). This made me change my mind about travelling. For a few months now, I haven't had the experience.
I have three thoughts, but I can only do one at a time.
Firstly, leave my uncle's house, get an apartment. Use the rest of the money to start a business as a side hustle while working with the school.
Secondly, leave my uncle's house, get an apartment. Next, I invest my time in a tech skill (web dev, programming or data science).
Thirdly, travel to the US for my PhD program. I have already been preparing for my GRE before now.
insidenaijasblog: An unidentified Nigerian man has explained his decision to use his parents for money ritual, Newspremises reports.
The man who was questioned on his intention, said that even if his mother begs while he's about to carry out the act, he won't stop as her plea would only push him into killing her faster.
When the man was asked if I could also use his father for money rituals, he said that his father is the easiest option as he doesn’t ''give a f*ck'' about him.
When asked if he would go ahead with the ritual if he was told he has only 3 months to enjoy the money, the man responded and said, he is okay with such arrangement.
He however, reiterated that if his parents gave a f*ck about him, they would have hustled to make him comfortable.
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