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Idowuogbo: Oh la la!

its gerrin hot in here , i wanna take my pata off.

You just dey "wanna?"

I don pull off tey tey. . .

REALITY101: Gross101

Especially if she ate stockfish a.k.a okporoko the previous night. . .

ronkebp: If a woman can forgive a man for sleeping around and giving birth to kids with every woman he has slpet with or still sleeping with, why can't the man forgive his wife

naijasexy: It means you did not forgive her or at least, not entirely.

MRbrownJAY: NO!!!! you CAN let go of ANYTHING, and saying that you cant live without someone is just a "figure of speech". YES there is only one person to create the beautiful music that you guys created, and YES again, when she goes the whole essence of what you guys created (aka Killz 5.0) disappears and you go back to being Killz 1.0.



at least we are getting somewhere!!!! if she is "special" then she is more that just someone you can live with.



i remember them all because the music we made was special, the feelings they brought to my life is/will always be special, its like walking on clouds. if you've never felt this way (aka the best version of yourself) then you are seriously missing in life!

also, you can never go below 1.0, thats your basic self. when these women leave, you get right back to where you were before you met them, aka single (1.0). as a single guy, you can be happy and fulfilled in life, BUT, that happiness can only take you up to 3.0. to attain 5.0 (the best version of yourself), you gotta be with someone, you gotta have that woman in your life that will help carry you there. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO GET THERE ON YOUR OWN!

Sugardiva: Kneeling is not a proof of sincerity. I had a bf who knelt to beg for my 4giveness at evry given opportunity whether in public or private but guess what? As soon as i 4gave him he went right back to do the same thing again!
I can sincerely apologise but not kneel.

Like every other thing, kneeling is abused. . . Doesn't change what it stands for.

MRbrownJAY: ^^^no no no bro, the point is that A) you can never attain Killz 5.0 unless you LET GO and open your heart and let that gal in.....because to do so you need to fully trust that person. being with someone you just CAN LIVE WITH (aka almost anyone out there) will only get you to Killz 3.0, at best, lol. B) although you may attain such higher state of mind with another, it is never the same. the beautiful music you create with one is "special" and cannot be recreated with another, therefore that part of your life dies out, and you recreate different (but equally beautiful) music with another one, if you open up like that.

So you kinda implying i "cant" let go of the old, and let the new in?
That there is only one special person for me? And that when she goes, the whole essence of my living goes with her?

MBJ leave story. . . all these is story. . . She is "special" as long as we are together, once she goes, she goes and we move on. . . Simple! Are you saying you still remember all your "special ones"? That you've only told one lady you cannot live without her? And that when they leave, they leave you in MBJ 3.0? I wonder the version you'll be running in now. . . MBJ 0.0001 perhaps?

xynerise: tesco

O boy, i can still hear Andy crying after he saw that picture. . . You sure say the bobo go fit sleep this night?

Miss EZ: Seen and duly noted. It all boils down to each doing their own. Abeg o make i write my paper finish before i have to go and kneel and beg the professor to not give me zero o...lol

Abeg o. . .

Sugardiva: photobucket...

Yes o. Photobucket. . . i nearly fell outta my seat! I had to shout "Blood of Jesus"

As in the picture was #$%^&()*)&*&^%$# I was looking for something worse than F9 to qualify it. . . but i no see

freecocoa: Err mm i don't think you get my point,I'm not saying its not alright to kneel,I'm just saying I've never done that and i don't pray i should but in the end i never say never.

She's prolly cried her eyes out cos she was truly remorseful for whatever wrong she must have done,now are you saying kneeling has a quicker effect than shedding genuine tears?a guy that would not accept my apology while seriously crying but would if i kneel down without a tear in my eyes, is not looking for a partner but a house maid or slave and if i notice this i'll use the last strength in me to wave goodbye to him.

Miss EZ: Nah Kills, you kinda get my point but you misunderstand my motives. I don't think that kneeling down is necessarily demeaning in every context. The dignity aspect is usually defined in the context in which a person kneels down. For instance if you kneel down during your marriage ceremony, kini big deal? My qualms with it is when this is the only acceptable mode of apology. I honestly cannot fault someone for kneeling down to appease another, that is not what i am saying at all. Like i said earlier, everyone should be free to express apology as they deem fit. If kneeling down is your way, fine and good. What i am against is the fact that kneeling down is a prerequisite used in judging the sincerity of my apologies.. I mean look at some answers in the forum, the refusal to kneel down is equated with pride or lack of humility. [b]My question is what makes kneeling down more superior to tears during an apology?[/b]Are we more concerned with the action itself, or the intent behind the action? I have seen people go speechless because they cannot find the words to express their regret, but the pain in their eyes and their body language says it all. Should i now reject that apology because they didnt kneel down?


Just as a general note to some other posts: The issue here is not just about begging, its the issue of kneeling down to beg. I dont think most people are saying they cannot apologize for wrong doing. But for some, the issue is why they must kneel? Everyone answers this question differently and no one should be insulted because of their opinion. Do what works for you and your significant other. Cest Finir

Kneeling down is a non verbal gesture that can be interpreted in various ways depending on any given context. I just think that in Nigeria, sometimes we major on the minor and minor on the major. To all who wish to kneel o, by all means do. whatever works for thee and thy loved one.

Nice self-hype Kills, will surely keep the "sold out on tears alone" character in my prayers....lol

Kneeling, whether done by a man or woman, whether greeting an elder, or whether kneeling in prayer is a sign of respect and humility. Do you believe that?

I can greet while standing and i can also pray standing. It depends on the depths i want to take it to. Kneeling is not a prerequisite, but culture teaches that kneeling signifies sincerity, and even at that, i don't think any man would say to a woman "YOU MUST KNEEL". . . No! The woman or whoever kneeling does it out of her own want and sincerity.
It takes a lot of humility to kneel before anyone, do you agree? That is why when a woman begs a man to the extent that she kneels, she has thrown all manner of pride to the wind, and that is why kneeling is kinda appreciated. . . kinda. Kneeling is a form of apology, given the context in which the kneeling is done, and it is NOT a must. But for you, who offended someone, the act of kneeling could signify the extent to how sorry you really are. . . Could, not must!
Like i said earlier, tears does it for me. other males on this thread abhor a woman kneeling for them, so it's dependent on who you are, and who you are appeasing. But on a general level, kneeling is a sign of humility.
If a woman chooses to beg her husband with tears in her eyes, fine. If she decides to kneel and beg with teary eyes, fine. But i've never ever seen any man that will ask a lady to kneel before him to show she is remorseful. It's the ladies that play that out to show how sorry they are.

okuya: Why not I've had girls go down on their knees with tears begging me not to walk away, especially when they've seriously wronged me!. I sometimes go on my knees to say sorry when I go wrong. [size=19pt]I believe pride causes a lot of problems to go out of control, using d word "sorry", and going down on knees has saved a lot of relationships[/size]

Idowuogbo: Shuuush it ! U nko?

Anyways u b virgin and u no sabi toast woman anyway.

See u at 35 I doubt if u don kiss woman sef.

It's a fccking lie!

MRbrownJAY: if you think like this then you should continue and say: since you were born and raised alone then you should also stay all your life and die ALONE, lol! come on bro, its all about getting the BEST out of you, and we know that when you are in love, you are the closest to that (however you may want to deny it).

the fact that you are AFRAID that she may leave, shouldnt be a reason to be miserable all your life, is it? if she leaves then you will have months(possibly yrs) of happiness to value, and also valuable experiences on what to do and what to attain (or more) in LOVE. its a win-win situation!

slimyem: For all here crying foul and singing hypocrisy,i'll take it that you still dont get the crux of this matter which is-[size=30pt]WHY BEG sOMEONE WHO DOESNT WANT TO STAY?[/size]
ugh!

aleroo: Den by all means please give him a break,

aleroo, how are you holding up?

MRbrownJAY: bro Killz, as i once asked you: have you never met a person that brought the ultimate BEST out of your being, someone that made you the greatest version of yourself? until you meet that person you would never understand why people say that they cant live without someone.

it has nothing to do with saying that this person is some kind of vital organ for your life, it just means that the feeling that this r/ship brought to you are like a drug, and you just want to feel euphoric/happy like that ALL THE TIME.