₦airaland Forum

waleademolaa:
The gal I plan to marry used to argue with me and I did leave her to argue not until I started paying money to her people in the name of list to marry her, so anytime she just tries to talk I shut her up.. I can't marry u with my money and u come argue with me, who born u? I bought u

Oga ma paro no lie, you are not married. How can you even say you bought your wife? Your wife o... But it is expensive to marry Igbo ladies sha...

Skypeaceconsult:
How sure are you that bride price is cheap in South west?

What happens to people in South East or Northern ?

Bride price/list in SE is no joke o, I just came back from one omo the prize price was bone crushing... But still affordable sha as long as there is money.

vicmbosowo:
https://www.facebook.com/attila.general/posts/3450954534941044

Wow... But my own still dey expect rent fa

Basalt:
Goodmorning Ladies and Gentlemen.
I am Basalt by name and I came to Germany last year(2019) October for my MSc studies with a little amount of Money and a partially borrowed block account from my inlaw (his money and my money).
On arrival in Germany, I took only a few courses and got a job outside my city and also got a mini-job. I did all my monthly expenses from my Mini job and used my main job to completely pay back my debt within a few months of arrival.

Now, that's not the discussion at hand.
I need advice especially from people who have lived abroad or have many years of experience in life.
My visa still counts till 2022 and I can even extend it if I don't finish my studies by then.
According to German policy, once you graduate from the University, you will be given 18 months to get a professional job or return back to your country.
Returning back to Nigeria is totally out of my plan at least for now because I came from a very poor family without any job connection and I am really enjoying Europe.
I plan to buy land or start building a house (I saved millions of naira and will even save more as time goes) but my friend who is also a student here discouraged me against that saying that my root is not yet fixed abroad that I should wait and continue investing in myself and undergoing professional training until I get permanent residency before investing. That I should always keep saving because it is not certain that I will get a professional job after graduation since my course is not in Information Technology which is currently booming in Germany. That even if I don't get a job, I can use the money to migrate to Canada or any other country of my choice.
He asked What if you invest the money now and don't get a job after graduation, what will you do after the 18 months of post graduation visa since you don't have any backup from home who will help you out financially.

What do you guys think. I need opinions

Returning back to Nigeria is totally out of my plan if you understand the business environment in Europe so well, and you are doing fine there, why are you contemplating the idea of returning to invest?

You heart lies there if you should come back to where you don't really have in mind and you don't enjoy that would be bad.

A lot of people who I have heard of, who come back to start business or invest and they are doing well are people who have Nig in mind and are ready to defile all odds but your case is different.

Invest there do exploit then expand your investment to your country once you have learned about the functionality of your business down here.

sanpipita:
How does she get what more she deserves if she choose to be anonymous? do you realize she could have come out as kemi alabi without unnecessary drama.

She said she wanted to be anonymous as kemi alabi, BBC granted this, if she changed her mind would be very easy, kemi alabi was mentioned a lot , nobody knew who she was till this drama, Oge did a thread and never even held kiki responsible for anything

That was a mistake on her side... But come to think of it, it would take confidence to defeat fears in her case so she is guilty but not blamed

This is a problem caused by her that has remedy, the needful should be done.

No way.... For two reasons only.

1. To avoid future wahala.

2. I can't stand it, there are levels to what I can accept.

But surrogacy is a good advice for those who have womb issues and vhf whala

sanpipita:
Kiki equally risked her life, even since the documentary was released she has received threats and hate more than anything else, what oge did is highly unnecessary might kill her future opportunities

it may ruin her future opportunities or it may adjust things a bit we can't conclude for now. Besides, if she keeps quite she may end up as a unsong hero and that is like a slow death.

They both risked their lives but she was the one out there on the field, she may have been caught in the process and strangled to death... Case could have been denied and even covered up by lecturers as a whole, drag it till eternity in court till we all forget about it...

She deserves more than ordinary credits

owobokiri:
No be only sleeping... Pity the ladies there.. Was told of one rector like that at oko, who did a meticulous census count of the ladies in his school..

That was the first thing that stroke my mind

sanpipita:
Jealousy is bad, Oge made her terms with BBC but once she saw Kiki winning awards she began feeling sick plus her friends who pushed her to this.

This is another angle to it, but the question is how many people risked it all to bring the case to light?

somebody02:
So, why is Oge crying out right now.
She for don vexxxxx way back.
At least open up when the whole documentary began to blow.
She should take what's left of her L and build something meaningful out of it
PS: not a fan of Kiki

She for don change am since but she no soro soke at all.

That excuse up there still don't cut it, two people were suppose to receive wards, credits, financial rewards but only one person is getting it because the other person's name was omitted.

Did they ask her if she wants to keep her name secret or not?

Even if that asked, that shouldn't be a reason why she was left out, credits won't put food on her table, credits in this case can't help her achieve her dreams

It should be none of our business, as far as I am concerned his people think is the best thing ever to happen to Nigeria after independence, as long as no be my area watin concern me.

Buhari chop your life

Your people love you so much more than their own lives

What works for family A may not work for Family be, there are many marriages that are still waxing stranger today because of interference from either mother or father, thus their role can't be downplayed. There are also some marriages whereby the reason why everything is upside down is because of their mothers, especially the ones that take sides and dishes bad advice to their children.

But for me o, my mom may not be able to give me the best of advice without being taking sides fortunately, I understand her and I know how to handle things already so taking her out of the equation is not an option when I am not a bastard and that is how it should be.

Just get familiar with your partner's mother during courtship know what they are capable of, make a decision so that all these werey advice won't come back to hurt you.

Why would you take your parents out of your marriage when they are not trouble makers and bad advisers whom you can't control... So it depends what works for A may not work for B.

Nairalanders and sex matter be like ant and sugar... See as thread long.... This op sef your lie too much....

You guys should repent before we enter 2021

sharpyoung:
Where boss?

cassava plantation...

Help your wife when you can and when needed, she is not a slave... but it's not compulsory.

blackpanthar:
There is something called SWOT Analysis.... you need to do it for whatever area and business you choose.

This 2020 has been a year of reset... you need to set up a business that will thrive irrespective of lockdown or plandemic.

Let me give you a few...

1) FOOD PROCESSING or FOOD COOKING
2) Agric-tech( where you invEst in buying a farm and you get as little as 50% ROI in 5 months.
3) STOCKS or FOREX.... (well... this one is late because if you used 4M to buy dollar at the beginning of the lockdown, by now you would have more than 6M)
4) Land.. then you put it out for LEASE (this is big business if you are in an industrial area)
5) health kits too
6) tech (setting up a dating or earning or news website or app is huge business)
7) real estate
mobile printing press (a van that is converted to a mobile office and you can drive to campuses and print on a daily basis)... someone sold this business here on NL for 850k with gen and other stuff.
9) TRUCK business (this is a very big business because a company handles every other thing for you once you buy the truck at an installment of 1.5m)
10) YOU (why not learn skills that will make you so versatile for less than 500k and then use the 3.5 to establish yourself)

Now sit and think which one your personality can cope with. Then Launch. I wish you well bro

Agric is very lucrative. There is a certain part in the agricultural sector in which if you invest 2OOk he could make 800k per annum.

Agriculture, very reliable.

Are we operating a parliamentary system of gvt.. This sagay no go school o

A very good move

HenryThegreat1:
https://www.channelstv.com/2020/12/10/luther-kings-daughter-us-lawmaker-others-ask-buhari-to-release-jailed-protesters-journalists/

This is a good one, I can now support any black struggle... Life is all about give and take.

chrisooblog:
still hasn't responded to Ruona's accusations though.

She clearly avoided the question... Ruona may be correct after all

Zzor enter men trap today o.


So a bachelor doesn't have the right to take a walk to the market and buy soup ingredients!

Even as a married man if you have the spare time and your wifey is tired, preg or sick and you have no house help, you are suppose to help her go to the market.

Theory yii gidi gon

Both everything maranma

korilala:
Hmmm
Unforgettable...
BBHS...
Woke up in my bunk in the middle of the night to find my school father trying to apply some kind of lubricant to my anus hole...when I jolted out of bed he started begging...
Reported him when it was daytime and the motherfucker was expelled...
Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Benin?

iezeiyida:
FG, crashes data prize with straight implementation, not mere talk!

Telecommunication companies in Nigeria, especially MTN, are very wicked, stupid and corrupt.

that notorious network... Even if others sell it lower theirs go higher with impunity

fergie001:
SOURCE

No changes, network providers are still selling it at the previous normal rate.

In other words ba audio slash.

DCatt:
For the first and last time I'm going to let this your very comment plus your next response to this my message go without me cursing you back.

I put this here for people to see because of how this will end for you.

We both insulted parents long time ago but you have since kept bringing my handle to every thread you comment on including the ones I don't know exist. You have a death wish and when you do get it, people will see that I avoided you long enough.

you are very sick, diabolical nonentity like you. When I made that promise never to forget how you insulted my mom do you think I was playing? Guy come, there is nothing you can do. If we are seeing each other live probably someone amongst us would have had the another person arrested. You don't curse people's parents no matter your political affiliation, it may worth it to you but to me, it is very stupid.

And for your threat alaye gbe gbe o, if na alfah you wan go you go meet me there, if na babalawo you wan go you go meet me there and if na prayer you need no wahala. You think say na one civilised city person wey no know anything you dey follow talk. But for the fact that that you started your convo politely for the first time even though na nonsense you use take end am and I feel it's not worth it I go free you.

Make I just free you cos I believe say one day your political blindness wey fit make you insult people parents go put you for real life trouble.

CuriousMynd:
Singer Mr Eazi says he is making a move for his fans to be able to buy shares on his songs, Igbere TV reports.

The 29-year-old in a tweet said he was going to try an experiment where his fans will own equity on his yet-to-be-released song as they stream on Wednesday.



https://twitter.com/mreazi/status/1336612349394948101?s=20

In another tweet he said due to his fans, he has been top five most streamed African artists since 2016.



https://twitter.com/mreazi/status/1336613248452489216?s=20

Mr Eazi is also a songwriter and entrepreneur.

He has two extended play (EP), One Day You Will Understand and Something Else.

Eazi na business man.... Meaning more streams go come hin way be that....

If Davido,Burna boy or wizkid fit do this kind thing na then e go sweet pass... Now na dav n Burna own go make sense pass

Easzi is a business genius

NwaNimo1:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/recession-citn-charges-fg-to-widen-tax-net-with-informal-sector/

Na everything Buhari don tax already, this people still dey tell am say make he tax infant join.

Buhari!!!

I don't know why we like crying more than the bereaved.

How Ketsina take affect the whole country?

The people who the law was made fore love it, so abeg why are you guys complaining

faithfull18:
Reconstruction in an unsettled zone.

This was what came to my mind straight up....but I wanted to stay silent until I saw yiurxpist. What about clearing out boko and bandits before making such move