Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 8:19am On Sep 14, 2018 |
 The reason many of your ancestors marriages lasted long was because many of your grandmothers and great-grandmothers put up with their husbands bullshit all their lives.The odds were strongly against them at the time due to customs, traditions, ignorance amongst many others. Believe me many of them(husbands) were total jerks. ehis05: madam u are wrong abeg and u stil talking about leave...if our parents left themselves wen dey had issues 90 percent of us wud hav been from broken homes.. Things where fine before now so definately it can go bck to been normal its jus for d man to forget and may nt happen suddenly buh eventually...dnt always hav dat idea of leave leave wen domestic violence is not involved..marriage is for better for worse |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 8:12am On Sep 14, 2018 |
 you guys won't kill me. Donjazzy12: A lesbian tactfully nudging her to leave, so when she becomes lonely, she can swoop in and start sleeping with her. If you know, you know! |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 7:44am On Sep 14, 2018 |
OkaNaUbe: I am not surprised at your advise that the OP should leave the marriage. Trust is hard to build but very easy to lose. She lied to the husband ab initio and that was wrong! I guess you aren't married yet or being mischievous.
Any lady that adds "king" to her name tends to be a feminist. Like "kingtonto". Men are kings and women are queens. *rolls eyes* I'm a feminist so  How about you face the subject and leave my moniker alone? |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 7:40am On Sep 14, 2018 |
akiOYIBO: Yes, u made a mistake and even the worst when u told him the truth cos u could av lied to save ur family. U could av said: honey I went to see the doctor last week and he said I might be in for POF. Why do u have to recount the scenario from onset before ur marriage? U made a mistake but only if u would adhere TO THAT ADVICE I JUST QOUTED. He's taking some advantage emotionally, who knows when he goes physically. U av begged, shown remorse etc. If u quit that job you're doomed..remember, know when to call the whole thing a quit and stand tall. Finally someone with a functioning brain. That's the point here. The man is already taking advantage of the situation to abuse her emotionally. Ok. What has a job got to do with the situation at hand? Have you considered the fact that he has always wanted her to be a stay-at-home wife and he's just taking advantage of the situation to enforce his selfish desires. You know what's worse? He wants to make her feel like it's a penance or something. Manipulation at its finest. |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 9:10pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Homeboiy: young girls una dey see am so
Marry on time but una go dey form say u can't marry a man wey no de earn 200k
Well I already know that any man wey dey marry woman wey don pass 30yrs Na rescue mission he go so
It's like buying newspaper in the evening Damn! Why so dumb? |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 9:04pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
alterswerve: It's very easy for you to say leave.. This is a marriage with three kids.. Don't do this, please  Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice? I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive! OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do. |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 8:48pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
You were wrong and you apologised. I just hope you are not considering quiting your job. He's already rubbing it in your face that you are not fertile. Imagine adding jobless to the mix. He'll rub that in too forgetting he asked you to leave.
He's already abusing you emotionally. You have to be strong dear. And by being strong you have to know when to leave. |
Celebrities › Re: Dija Celebrates Her Mother's 63rd Birthday (Photo) by Kinggnicole(f): 8:28pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
awwfar: shey Dija's boobs don dey grow ni? Shouldn't you be more focused on growing your account that's more in the red than the red devils? |
Career › Re: Photo Of A Disable Man Plastering A House by Kinggnicole(f): 8:24pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Enough of these so - called inspirational tales abeg. While I commend his fighting spirit, this ought not to be biko. Ahn ahn! In a sane country he won't be doing this. Isn't the government supposed to support him or something? This story should make any sane person angrier than inspired. This is pathetic! What if he falls from there now? Let's scatter this sham of a country abeg and start again. |
Family › Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Kinggnicole(f): 4:11pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
adewumiopeyemi: No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..  Abegiiii This is why some naija parents treat their children badly and think they can get away with it. |
Education › Re: Omotayo Dada Reacts To Emmanuel Adooh's Covenant University Sex & Expel Scandal by Kinggnicole(f): 4:03pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Homeboiy: Just because of sex between two adults
CU is an advanced college I taya |
Celebrities › Re: Desola Afod, Kunle Afod’s Wife Warns Actresses Having Sex With Her Husband by Kinggnicole(f): 3:45pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Madam you are married to your husband and not the girls. Who gives an eff if you've been quiet for donkey years? Mtcheew |
Romance › Re: How My Boyfriend's Wicked Slap 'formatted' My Brain - Lady Recounts by Kinggnicole(f): 3:03pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Stupid question. |
Family › Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Kinggnicole(f): 2:09pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Fariq: Before why will you change your Surname to your husband name? It's illogical because you only have one biological father and it should remain so forever.
You married someone you change your name in court, pay newspaper for publication. And if he divorce you next year you will still change your name. Finally someone has analysed this from a logical point of view. |
Celebrities › Re: Beverly Osu Slammed For Smoking Cigarette As A Nun On Magazine Cover by Kinggnicole(f): 1:19pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Adakintroy: This dumb girls are always trying to school people like they even know the question.
You are a slut. Ours is a conservative nation. We are not yet like the west. So will will judge you.
Yes Judge you! You don't want that, pick among the other thousand profession. Aside slutism.  |
Celebrities › Re: Beverly Osu Slammed For Smoking Cigarette As A Nun On Magazine Cover by Kinggnicole(f): 1:18pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
That art in one word HYPOCRISY. Like she asked, if it were in a movie would she have been trolled this much? This picture tells a story or many stories as the case may be. It obviously was not meant to disrespect anyone's belief. |
TV/Movies › Re: Genevieve Nnaji 'Lionheart' Toronto Premiere Tickets Sold Out by Kinggnicole(f): 4:33pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
xtophy1: My guys in Alaba are getting prepared already... If you like, go show am for heavenly cinema, Alaba copies will still be clearer than the original copy And we are wondering why this country is the way it is Can you people stop making crime seem cool? It has done more harm than good for this country |
Celebrities › Re: Bambam Vs Lady Gaga: Who Wore The Chicken Dress Better? by Kinggnicole(f): 1:02pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Nigerians sef. If it were Rihanna that wore this dress, compliments would be flying about. I like the dress but I feel it was a bit inappropriate for the occasion. Maybe for an occasion like MetGala |
Romance › Nigerian Girls Are Intelligent by Kinggnicole(op): 11:59am On Sep 03, 2018 |
I'm fed up with this "Nigerian girls are dumb" mantra some people (guys especially) chant all over cyber space. So I'm here to address this issue. As we all know, many Nigerian men are threatened by successful women. Same goes for intelligent and outspoken women. They might admire her from afar but they don't want their women to be so smart(Why do you think the word feminism makes them pee in their pants?). Sadly, we are in a society that makes women see marriage as the ultimate achievement. This is the reason why many girls in Nigeria play dumb with their men. This is with particular emphasis on the "play dumb". They don't want to be seen as a threat. They don't want to be seen as proud. That's why. So next time, before you refer to the girls you are dating or have dated as dumb, stop to consider that you might in fact, be the dumb one and she's just "playing dumb" to make you feel intelligent(they say it's massaging their egos). Gwazie ndi yard unu  |
Politics › Re: Homosexuality Is A Crime In Nigeria And Ought To Remain So - Donald Duke by Kinggnicole(f): 11:44am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Damage control. Say your mind and be unapologetic about it. How is homosexuality a crime? Does it pose a threat to the lives and property of people in the society? If your answer is no, I repeat how is homosexuality a crime?
We have other pressing issues anyway |
Romance › Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Kinggnicole(f): 11:37am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kingthreat: The female population is more than the male population. Men keep doing risky jobs in the name of bravery. Even if every man were to be married to one woman, there would still be many unmarried women. Polygamy might actually save the unmarried women folk. Ok without further ado let me address this ignorance. I won't be so nice next time. The population of males in Nigeria is higher than that of females. I'm sick and tired of some men regurgitating this BS to prove another BS. |
Romance › Re: See Why This Guy Broke Up With His Girlfriend After She Posted A Photo Of Them by Kinggnicole(f): 11:33am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Fake chat |
Celebrities › Re: Bisola Performs At 2018 AMVCA (Photos) by Kinggnicole(f): 6:22am On Sep 02, 2018 |
post=70820718: Who can rate her performance on a scale of 1 to 100 ?! 7 |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Shares Photos Of His Daughters, Imade And Hailey Adeleke by Kinggnicole(f): 5:06pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
IkwereBuIgbo: Do you think i'm low class like that of your family? It's a good thing you're "high class". At least you can afford a brain surgery. I advice you get it done asap. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Shares Photos Of His Daughters, Imade And Hailey Adeleke by Kinggnicole(f): 2:35pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
IkwereBuIgbo: So his sparm is very weak, only girls..Chioma take note. Why haven't you taken your drugs today? |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Feminists Slam DJ Cuppy Over Her Comments On Their Movement by Kinggnicole(f): 6:00pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
sinaj: I noticed that lots of feminist are divorcees, single ladies, jilted gfs, people in troubled relationship that just hide behind it to vent their anger against men with their conflicting opinion. Believe me that's not true |
Celebrities › Re: Adunni Ade Rocks Matching Outfit With Her Children As They Step Out In Style by Kinggnicole(f): 11:48am On Aug 30, 2018 |
pweshdodo: Doing cornrows for your male child at that age ,you are influencing him in a bad way.....
Pls change How? |
Family › Re: Women Did Not Come From Men's Ribs - Nigerian Feminist Says by Kinggnicole(f): 8:37am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Colourich: Chimamanda is married so getting married is not an issh, I dunno why you sound so pained, we all can't be feminist, the earlier you understand that, the better for you. That's no reason you should refer to feminists as stupid. If we go by logic, it should be the other way round. If I may ask, what makes her post stupid? |
Family › Re: Women Did Not Come From Men's Ribs - Nigerian Feminist Says by Kinggnicole(f): 8:35am On Aug 30, 2018 |
majekdom2: yea I used women as it is a woman who made the above claim. Submission does not equal inequality and I wonder what men who say women should not talk in churches do when their pastor’s wife talk. Like I said, it’s a deformed mind that sees a being as lesser in a relationship. People should stop using bible as a defense for their silly ness. Submission means submitting your will to another person. Wtf are you even saying? |
Romance › Re: 'Don't Leave Her If She Cheats On You, Just Apologize To Her' - Lady Advises Men by Kinggnicole(f): 5:26pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
 Naija guys keep yapping about how most naija girls are dumb. I'm surprised they couldn't figure out the simple sarcasm in the girl's post. Wehdone "intelligent naija guys". |
Food › Re: This New Restaurant Called Spyce Uses Only Robots To Cook All Its Meals (video). by Kinggnicole(f): 12:23pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
nero2face: My only problem is de possibility of electric shock while eating de foods, those Roborts can malfunction and add some high current elements to the food, those whites are becoming too lazy to do anything themselves Lazy?!! You're kidding |
Romance › Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Kinggnicole(f): 11:23am On Aug 28, 2018 |
yeyerolling: Any woman against feminism is a fool. At a time women could not vote, women could not work and belonged to the kitchen, women are expected to be seen as hoes wen dey fuk around bt men as dons, we have seen pple like arouma oteh akunyili and other okonjo who suppose to be in the kitchen. But made waves in male dominated sectors. Nonsense weak tweeter Heard of stockholm syndrome? Many Nigerian women are suffering from it. |