Politics › Re: Governor Ganduje Slashes Political Appointees' Salaries By 50% by Kingrefreshed: 4:19pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Soldiers Raid Militants' Hideout In Rivers, Recover Arms And Ammunition by Kingrefreshed: 3:57pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Omotola Jalade-ekeinde Celebrates 25th Year In Entertainment by Kingrefreshed: 3:47pm On May 18, 2020 |
lalasticlala: A-list Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, celebrates her 25th year as a Nigerian entertainer.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CAS2YLSA5IJ/?hl=en
After featuring in few movies, Omotola's role in the 1996 Zeb Ejiro movie "Mortal Inheritance" brought her to the limelight. Chai the only yoruba woman that make my manhood live on  Others are normal read oil. |
Politics › Re: Bode George: Pumping Billions In School Feeding When Schools Are Closed Absurd by Kingrefreshed: 3:33pm On May 18, 2020 |
Wiseandtrue: This Stark illiterate government is claiming to give out fish instead of teaching them how to catch fishes
With the billions spent, it didn't stop the almajiries from littering everywhere
The millions spent daily which runs into billions can be used to build standard factories that can afford to pay parents daily so that they can feed their children.
If they can build a standard factory in different region, processing different resources is all they were able to achieve, good! Then when another government comes in, they add to it 
This is the 21st century for crying out loud
Is this how they are going to diversify I pity you people that still believe in Nigeroa with all your hearts. |
Politics › Re: Tribunal Upholds Yahaya Bello's Victory As Kogi Governor, Dismisses Natasha, SDP by Kingrefreshed: 3:24pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Air Peace To Evacuate Nigerians From China Today Over COVID-19 by Kingrefreshed: 3:20pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Raymond Dokpesi Jnr. Blasts Saharareporters Over 'Sensational' Headline by Kingrefreshed: 3:16pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Dokpesi And His Son Clash Over Comment On COVID-19 by Kingrefreshed: 3:11pm On May 18, 2020 |
domino4211: You don't pay tax to government.. You pay tithe to Jesus through pastors. But today you want government to give you palliatives just like other developed countries gave their citizens who pay tax? No No No.. Your palliative is with Jesus. Somewhere stored in heaven where cancer worm won't consume it. You will get your own palliative in Heaven... After all,things of this world are vanity upon vanity .. Hunger don rewire your brain  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pope John Paul II 100th Posthumous Birthday Is Today by Kingrefreshed: 9:24am On May 18, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: We Are Worried About Movement Of Almajiris Into Our Region - SouthEast Governors by Kingrefreshed: 8:02pm On May 16, 2020*. Modified: 6:43pm On May 17, 2020 |
Kosiso12: "We're Worried About The Movement Of Almajiris Concealed In Food & Cement Trucks" - S'East Governors
By Wisdom Nwedene, Abakaliki
The Governors of South East Region have revealed that they are worried about the movement of almajiri youths concealed in food and cement trucks into the southeast region, Igbere TV reports.
This was made known in a communique issued by the Chairman of the South East Governors Forum, Gov. David Nweze Umahi of Ebonyi State after their teleconference meeting on 14th May, 2020.
The Governors requested community leaders to get passionately involved to ensure that such illegal movement is not allowed.
They noted that South East Governors will further strengthen local security to protect farmlands and agriculture activities to encourage more participation in agriculture.
The communique reads in parts ; 1. CACOVID Palliatives The Coalition Against COVID-19 (CACOVID program) led by Alhaji Aliko Dangote and Dr. Godwin Emefiele (CBN Governor) is furnishing isolation centers in the States while NNPC has chosen to build isolation centers in Enugu and the Imo States. For these, we commend them all. CACOVID has also started the distribution of food items like 10kg bags of rice, tomatoes, and some other food items with the plan to reach at least a 10% population of every State in Nigeria. We also wish to appreciate the team for their gesture. 2. Lockdown The Forum reviewed the current lockdown order within our interstate borders and agreed to strengthen it further with new measures. However, we are very unhappy with incidents of interstate border lockdown abuses that led to the movement of non-essential movement of persons. We request the security personnel at our border posts to take this task very seriously to curtail the spreading of the pandemic. As we go through this period, to curtail the further spread of COVID-19, we will continue to enforce the NO MASK NO MOVEMENT, social distancing, regular hand washing, and sanitary guidelines. 3. Security The Southeast Governors are worried about the movement of almajiri youths concealed in food and cement trucks into the southeast region. While we commend northern governors on their decision that almajiris should go to their States of origin, we also advise our people against coming back to their States to forestall further spread of the pandemic.
We, therefore, request our community leaders to get passionately involved to ensure that such illegal movement is not allowed. Seriously, SouthEast Governors will further strengthen our local security to protect farmlands and agriculture activities to encourage more participation in agriculture.
4. Agriculture We encourage our youths to key into agriculture programs in the States as this would keep them busy and sustain the livelihood of lots of our people. Our youths should take advantage of the CBN agric intervention programs which are currently available. They can make contacts with their State’s ministry of agriculture on how to get involved, as this is of utmost importance now.
5. Massive Testing SouthEast Governors and leaders agreed to embark on massive testing of her people with a target of at least 5% of the population in the five States within the next two months. We are happy to announce that Imo State Government now has two testing centers while Enugu State Government will soon complete the setting up of a center in Enugu. Anambra and Abia are working on this while Ebonyi has been fruitful since February 2020 With these, we can vigorously pursue a wider number of tests among our communities. 6. Post COVID-19 Program Forum also discussed a regional approach to a post-COVID-19 era. This proposed strategic planning will provide support for vital areas that we will be considering. Some of the areas we hope to prioritize are education, health agriculture, SMEs among others. The program will stimulate our regional economy. 7. While we continue to provide palliatives in our various States to our people. We urge our people to continue with precautionary measures as provided by NCDC and be rest assured of the governors’ determination to continue to protect lives and support. 8. Akanu Ibiam International airport rehabilitation
The forum noted the progress made so far on the rehabilitation project of Akanu Ibiam International airport. We thank Mr. President for providing the enabling environment in the achievement of this project. We likewise commend the Honourable minister for aviation, Senator Hadi Sirika for his commitments. We appreciate the committee on the rehabilitation of Akanu Ibiam International airport, especially the committee chairman Engr. Chris Okoye who has worked tirelessly to see to the current achievement so far. The runway reconstruction and other newly added facilities are almost completed. We deeply appreciate the Governor of Enugu State His Excellency, Rt. Hon. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi for all the interventions he has always provided to enable this project to come this far. We are optimistic that Enugu airport will open when the nation’s airspace will be re-opened to regular flights.
9. The Forum wishes to congratulate the newly appointed Chief of staff to Mr. President, Amb. Ibrahim Agboola Gambari. We wish him the best as he resumes his new position. Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1351451/worried-movement-almajiris-concealed-food-cement-trucks-seast-governors/ Our south east governors are very slow in thinking. The Northerners want to use the Almajiris to populate the East. Imagine in the 10 to 20 years to come with this high influx of trailer loads of Almajiri's into the South East. They will turn all our states to Jos,Plateau and Southern Kadunna |
Politics › Re: Diezani Allison-Madueke's House Used As COVID-19 Isolation Centre In Lagos by Kingrefreshed: 7:38pm On May 16, 2020 |
maxkoko: Ur an idiot I swear. But I mean no insult. Just that ur unavoidably idiotic. Coko man! I rebuke that fowl spirit in you. Animal! |
Crime › Re: Delta Police Parade Suspected IPOB Members, Cultists (Photos) by Kingrefreshed: 7:42pm On May 15, 2020 |
Modikko: Please invest your energy in a meaningful thing. As for now these are criminals caught and will face the law Yes theyre criminals dealing on cocaine. Not real Ipobs!! |
Crime › Re: Delta Police Parade Suspected IPOB Members, Cultists (Photos) by Kingrefreshed: 7:18pm On May 15, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Diezani Allison-Madueke's House Used As COVID-19 Isolation Centre In Lagos by Kingrefreshed: 7:15pm On May 15, 2020 |
MinorityOpinion: The same way they will return back all nnamdi Kanu ill-gotten money to federal account. We are watching closely. Thats Minority with inferiority complex talking |
Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Kingrefreshed: 5:32am On May 15, 2020 |
tunmiluabi: My story is quite long, please run through with patience.
I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...
As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.
We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.
To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.
One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.
To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.
Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.
After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.
Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.
She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.
The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.
God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.
Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.
My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.
Thanks for reading.
Tunmi Sorry i couldnt continue reading. I stopped at the place you said " To cut the story short" and then you fired down again. Somebody should explain to me what actually happened. |
Politics › Re: NOSDRA: Why Dead Fishes Were Found On Niger Delta Coastline by Kingrefreshed: 5:17am On May 15, 2020 |
kuss: They have systematically exonerated the oil companies Your head dey there |
Politics › Re: Zainab Ahmed: ₦5.548 Trillion Available To Fund 2020 Budget by Kingrefreshed: 5:10am On May 15, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Service Chiefs At Presidential Villa by Kingrefreshed: 4:59am On May 15, 2020 |
GreenDestiny2: Did you notice that Osinbajo is there? You ipigs kept asking for him. U dey made. Na so dem the rule nation? Hide and seek and youre jumping up and down as if u be monkey wey dem give riped banana. |
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Health › Re: Raymond Dokpesi Recovers From COVID-19 by Kingrefreshed: 2:16pm On May 14, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Uzodinma Gifts Imo Judges 20 SUVs (Photos) by Kingrefreshed: 2:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
GOFRONT: If E-Money had shown this act of Kindness, he would have had a peaceful atmosphere to do whatever he likes.....But hell no, all he know is show off on IG how he step out and step in in grand style......
Small boy!! Hatred is a very terrible thing. You cant differentiate one post from the other. Hello !!!! This post is about Gov. Hope Uzodimma of Imo state. |
Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Attack Kajuru In Kaduna, Kill Many (Graphic Pics, Video) by Kingrefreshed: 11:30am On May 14, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: Are those ABLE- BODIED YOUNG MEN in those communities only Good at DIGGING GRAVES and doing Undertaker Jobs....? If they try revenge,They will use Nigerian Army against them. Because their chief Terrorist is the one in power. Na dia time |
Health › Re: Lagos State Discharges 98-Year-Old COVID-19 Patient by Kingrefreshed: 6:54am On May 14, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Gov Abdulrazaq Sacks Driver for Careless Handling Of Suspected COVID-19 Patient by Kingrefreshed: 6:46am On May 14, 2020 |
jeromestarks: What does not work? You you don't have to give him, why not just keep quiet? I was helped here once and I know what that did for me. If you're heartless, others aren't. There are good people hear. I can testify to this. Did i attack you oga ? Try and Masturbate. It will calm your nerves. |
Sports › Re: Holyfield Announces Intention To Fight Mike Tyson Again by Kingrefreshed: 6:44am On May 14, 2020 |
PotatoSalad: Not bad just relaxed in my temperature controlled sofa with massage pads and watching coronavirus news on my 219" Samsung microled TV. How far, landlord don bring May rent? Haba na today i move from Maryland  Its been 5 years now. I dey my own house now for VI. Its really been long bro. You should focus on moulding blocks now gradually or wan die paying rent ? |
Sports › Re: Holyfield Announces Intention To Fight Mike Tyson Again by Kingrefreshed: 6:36am On May 14, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Gov Abdulrazaq Sacks Driver for Careless Handling Of Suspected COVID-19 Patient by Kingrefreshed: 6:24am On May 14, 2020 |
nijaomegacode: Hallelujah! FTC fire the first time in my life!. This shows that one day I will share my story with the world. Honestly, I was able to become FTC on this post because I couldn't sleep; Covid 19 hunger got me in the last few days. Somebody should bless this brother. Union Bank Acc number: 012 571 2368 May your children never lack Sorry to kill your hopes. It does not work |
Sports › Re: Holyfield Announces Intention To Fight Mike Tyson Again by Kingrefreshed: 6:20am On May 14, 2020 |
PotatoSalad: Rich boy. hafa na I dey, how Ajegunle this morning ? |
Sports › Re: Holyfield Announces Intention To Fight Mike Tyson Again by Kingrefreshed: 6:14am On May 14, 2020 |
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Business › Re: Firstbank Cardholders Record ₦1.18 Trillion In Transaction Value During Lockdown by Kingrefreshed: 5:59am On May 14, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Rinji Peter Bala: Army Apologises, Admits Killing 20-year-old UNIJOS Student by Kingrefreshed: 5:41am On May 14, 2020 |
[quote author=bigiyaro post=89514522][/quote]Source Kid.
Show me the source that you went to school. |
Crime › Re: Leo: Man Kidnapped In Owerri And Killed By Men In Army Uniform (Graphic Photos) by Kingrefreshed: 5:31am On May 14, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: WIll he get an autopsy or is the plan simply to dig ground bury am now? 
Is there evidence pinning the killing on the accused or are we simply out for blood on this one?  He confessed it with his mouth on video that he and his friends killes him. Now can you stop sympatising with murders. |