Christianity Etc › Re: Chinese Pastor Wang Yi Sentenced To Nine Years In Prison For Preaching by Kingrefreshed: 10:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
oblaak: You’re part of the problems in this country I rebuke you foul spirit |
Car Talk › Re: Young Men Who Own Cars Have More Sex – Study Reveals by Kingrefreshed: 10:24pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Father Recreates Family Photo After 20 Years by Kingrefreshed: 9:15pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Owerri1stSon: A man has recreated his beautiful family photo after 20 year..
That's the son laying on his father's stomach..
But me...
20 years later, My father would rather lose shares in his company than allow me smile like that on his stomach 
https://mobile.twitter.com/kamauwhynaina/status/1213076725762011136 Na dia fada win. He did not change for the kids. He just waited for them to meet with his age |
Celebrities › Re: Jennifer Okechukwu's Pre-wedding Photos by Kingrefreshed: 9:10pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
fancyhandsome: Former Nigerian beauty queen Jennifer Okechukwu is set to tie the knot with her heartrobb in ibite Ogugu Awgu, Enugu state.
Jennifer was crowned Face of Culture Africa 2015 and was involved in numerous humanitarian projects during her reign including feeding/empowering over 500 widows in her local community in Enugu.
Here are stunning pre wedding shoot shared by the couple ahead of their traditional marriage on 6th,January 2020.
https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2020/01/ex-beauty-queen-jennifer-okechukwu.html?m=1 She got make sense if you take her from the back. Enjoy man! Hope it's not because of his money. (I'm waiting for una gun fully) |
Politics › Re: Death Of Soleimani: Nigerian IGP Adamu Places Policemen On Red Alert Nationwide by Kingrefreshed: 9:09pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Shares Cute Photos With Son Jamjam by Kingrefreshed: 8:33pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Stevecovey: The singer was out for a recent event with her mum and son, Jamil Balogun.
She shared several pictures in her new 2019 custom Mercedes Benz V250 which she bought a few months ago, and which was reportedly worth N70million.
Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/B68p0GeBjIW/ VANITY UPON VANITY ALL NA VANITY. |
Romance › Re: 13-Year-Old Boy Woos Lady On Facebook, She Laments, Blames Mark Zuckerberg by Kingrefreshed: 8:30pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Kinzeyfranks: ]A 13year old boy took to facebook to profess his love for a lady but gets turned down.
The lady, who was infuriated by his moves took to her facebook wall to advice parents to censor what their children do with their phones.
See their chats and the hilarious reactions of people below.
source:https://mobile.facebook.com/chinecherem.ejiofor?refid=46&ref=opera_speed_dial&__xts__%5B0%5D=12.%7B%22unit_id_click_type%22%3A%22graph_search_results_item_tapped%22%2C%22click_type%22%3A%22result%22%2C%22module_id%22%3A4041%2C%22result_id%22%3A100006850003565%2C%22session_id%22%3A%225b6616e6f66bbacdd9271dd0a558500b%22%2C%22module_role%22%3A%22ENTITY_USER%22%2C%22unit_id%22%3A%22browse_rl%3Aa3bc2fee-5040-424b-86b7-2feadfe9f7cd%22%2C%22browse_result_type%22%3A%22browse_type_user%22%2C%22unit_id_result_id%22%3A100006850003565%2C%22module_result_position%22%3A0%7D The boy wan try his luck because his peers have maybe tried it and it worked for them. |
Business › Re: Is Nigeria A Truly Wealthy Nation? See What Economic Facts Say by Kingrefreshed: 8:28pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Speak2klein: In 2003, Dangote set out to build his first cement plant with a budget of about $480 million. On completion of the project in 2007, he had borrowed an extra $175 million, built a dam, a gas pipeline (92km long) and more than 400 new houses. But guess what? No Nigerian bank was big enough to fund this project. In fact, the capital in more than 90% of the banks in Nigeria that year was just a little over $20 million. He had to look elsewhere.
Simple economic terms GDP — in straightforward terms, the GDP or Gross Domestic Product is the monetary value of all finished goods and services in a country within a specific period. It is used to estimate the size of an economy and growth rate. GDP per capita — If all the money Nigeria made in a year was split evenly amongst every single Nigerian, what each person gets is called the GDP per capita. National Budget — The government gets money from taxes and fees and spends it on things like healthcare, infrastructure, education and general expenditures.
Nigeria’s economy
Poverty level by State in Nigeria (image 1) Nigeria has the largest economy in Africa with a GDP of $398 billion compared to its closest competitor; South Africa, which has a GDP of $368 billion. However, the real wealth of a nation is calculated by its GDP per capita, and Nigeria ranked 140 out of 186 in GDP per capita global ranking. Nigeria’s GDP per capita stands at $1,963 compared to South Africa’s $6,100 and Egypt’s $12,000. (Luxembourg ranks the highest in the world with GDP per capita of $144,000). Nigeria is one of only 8 ‘World Bank red zones’. These are the only countries on the planet where GDP per capita (an indicator of individual share of wealth) has fallen steadily over the past 20 years. Nigeria’s budget for the health sector in 2018 was $938 million for a population of over 190 million people compared to South Africa’s $17.6 billion for a population of just 56 million people. This means that as an average Nigerian, the government’s health budget for you for a whole year was just $4.5. Don’t forget the UK which set aside over $250 billion for the healthcare of its citizens in the same year (more than 10x Nigeria’s entire 2018 budget). That means each citizen was entitled to health funds of $4,000.
How did others do it? You see, money is a coward; when money goes somewhere, and there’s trouble, money runs away. But when it goes to a place, and there is peace, it stays there. You don’t see money go to Iraq or Syria or Afghanistan, but you see it go to the UK, Singapore, London, China, etc. If you scare money, it runs away.
China Poverty Decline from 1981–2005 (image 2) In a single generation, China has had over 600 million people move out of poverty. Three hundred million people (about the population of the US) move from rural to urban areas every ten years. This is because China is still experiencing its economic take-off phase; this describes a situation where the majority of the working population move from agricultural jobs to tech and industry and move from the country-side to cities. The level of urbanisation that took place in China in 22 years is equivalent to the UK’s level that took 120 years and USA that took 80 years. So maybe there is hope for Nigeria.
Other Indicators
Number of Billionaires in China — 2015 (image 3) According to BBC, China produces two (2) new billionaires every week and one million (1,000,000) millionaires every year. I wanna be a billionaire, billionaire yeah yeah, I wanna be a billionaire, billionaire yeah yeah (Verse 2) I wanna wake up in a Lamborghini, I wan chop life on Santorini, oh yeah. -Teni the entertainer, Billionaire
Meanwhile, according to the NDIC, 98% of Nigerians don’t have up to N500,000 ($1,250) in their accounts. According to Mckinsey & Co, only 2m people in Nigeria have purchasing power and annual incomes over $10,000.
2. In India, the city of Mumbai alone has almost 60,000 millionaires; meanwhile, in Nigeria, there are just 12,300 millionaires in the entire country.
3. One of the measures for the economy and middle class of a society is the records of airport passengers compared to its population. In one year, Nigeria had 15.2 million airport passengers compared to Singapore Changi Airport, which served over 65 million passengers. (Singapore population — 5.6 million). The metropolis of Shenzen alone in China had over 400 million airport passengers in a single year. (Shenzen population — 12.5 million)
4. South Africa’s fourth-largest bank — Nedbank has a market cap of $72 billion. This is bigger than the market cap of all the banks in Nigeria put together, including GTB, Zenith, FirstBank and Ecobank.
So what do we do? The real wealth of a nation is in its people and like Dangote would say, “Nobody will fix Nigeria for us until we take the lead”. One of the greatest assets that have helped China and India grow is its population. So is Nigeria a truly wealthy nation? The answer is No. However, it can be so. If an average Nigerian produces half the GDP per capita of the average UK citizen, our GDP will not be $398 billion but $3.9 trillion.
The growth of businesses drives the economy, and therefore, the government must put in place suitable policies to promote business growth. We must increase our productivity as a nation. And it begins with you. Do better, work smarter and grow bigger. Please comment and share if you find this useful. I am Klein Udumaga.
This article was originally posted on my medium page. Please follow as I shed more light on the Nigerian economy and how to sell to Nigerians. https://medium.com/@kleinuduh/is-nigeria-a-truly-wealthy-nation-7f839d838a6c Northern Nigeria! The home of Poverty! They have been ruling Nigeria since The days of Adam but yet.... Poverty na their bread and butter. Our God is alive! |
Crime › Re: Hisbah Raids Gay Party In Kano, Arrests 15 Homosexuals by Kingrefreshed: 8:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Helen Mukoro Idisi Arrested In Spain For Posing As UN Official by Kingrefreshed: 7:24pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: U.S. Designates Iraqi Shi’ite Militia As Foreign Terrorist Organization by Kingrefreshed: 7:23pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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WASHINGTON -- The United States has designated Asaib Ahl Al-Haq as a Foreign Terrorist Organization (FTO), saying the Iraqi militia is a proxy for Iran.
The U.S. State Department statement on January 3 said that it was also sanctioning two of the group’s leaders.
Secretary of State Mike Pompeo called the militia and its leaders "violent proxies of the Islamic Republic of Iran.”
The State Department said Asaib Ahl Al-Haq, also known as the League of the Righteous, is backed by Iran’s Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps (IRGC) Quds Force, which has been similarly designated by the United States.
The State Department said it also designated Qais al-Khazali, leader of Asaib Ahl Al-Haq, and his brother Laith al-Khazali, another leader of the group, as specially designated global terrorists.
Such designations will freeze the U.S.-related assets of the group and the two leaders, generally ban Americans from doing business with them, and make it a crime to provide support or resources to the militia.
The move comes hours after a U.S. drone strike killed the powerful commander of the elite Quds Force in an attack in Baghdad, igniting outrage in Iran.
Qasem Soleimani, one of the most powerful military men in Iran, was killed in an attack on two vehicles at Baghdad’s international airport in the early morning hours of January 3.
Tehran has vast influence and supports many Shi'ite militias based in neighboring Iraq. Baghdad has attempted to balance its relations between the United States and Iran, both of which provide crucial military and financial support to the struggling government.
https://www.rferl.org/a/u-s-designates-iraqi-shi-ite-militia-as-foreign-terrorist-organization/30359784.html Correct! Na so dem label Ipob a terrorist organization. We go reach there small small. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Praises Trump For Soleimani Killing, Places Military On High Alert by Kingrefreshed: 6:54pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
hotwax: No oga..its going to be Sunni vs shittes...Saudi and other Arabs vs shiite annd persians No Muslims don't work like that. Once it's a fight against " A Christian dominated nation " shittes and Sunni countries always unite to fight that war |
Sports › Re: Jude Ighalo And Wife, Sonia Delete Each Other's Photos From Their Instagram Page by Kingrefreshed: 6:51pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Kilamiti: And while you are out there with your fellow gees chopping life, she's out there on her phone having sex chat with her ex boyfriends. Men wey mumu No wahala make she do anything she want. No be today una start dis una deceitful life... You remember ADAM? |
Celebrities › Re: Ujah Ruth, Queen Of Unity Nigeria Releases New Photos, Set To Launch Project by Kingrefreshed: 6:50pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
AlexReports: Crowing As a real gee I can tell you real gees here. This girl go sweet die. Who doubt me??  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Praises Trump For Soleimani Killing, Places Military On High Alert by Kingrefreshed: 6:48pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Persistent Rashes On Skin by Kingrefreshed: 6:43pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
PhenomenalAustin: Good evening NL..
Please I have these rashes that won't go away even after medications... It usually occurs when I wear clothes hence, it's visible all over my body save for my palms, feet, head and neck...
I went for test but both the urine culture and VDRL test I underwent came out negative... I've used all medications and triple action creams but no improvement... Please help..
P.S. I'm not sexually active
Thanks.
Please help me out. Thank you. Check the water you're drinking. Another is infection can cause it too. Lastly you have to use detol to bath for 3 months. If it continues then go for HIV test. |
Sports › Re: Jude Ighalo And Wife, Sonia Delete Each Other's Photos From Their Instagram Page by Kingrefreshed: 6:38pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Women and their problem. Bring her back to stay in Nigeria she will Nag and complain. Keep her in London she will Nag and complain bitterly.
If God could not satisfy women who are we.
Gave them Hair.... They scrap it off and put on wig.
Gave them eye lashes, they cut it off and buy fake ones to put.
Gave them lips and they paint it.
Gave them ears and they perforate it.
Gave them boob's and they change the sizes.
Gave them nails and they cut it and fix artificial nails.
Trying to satisfy them is mission impossible!
Etc.... The list is endless!
As a married man when you marry like me.... Get real gees around you so when they start nagging you move out to have fun with your fellow gees. Drink beer, chop pepper soup and be happy.
Life is short!
Happy New year |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Tweets About Hitting Iran Hard, Iran Responds (Photos) by Kingrefreshed: 6:31pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
JOSIG: President Trump has threatened to deploy 2 trillion dollars worth of new military hardware on Iran if the later attempts any attack on USA. Iran foreign minister responds. See snapshots below.
https://mobile.twitter.com/realDonaldTrump Trump is the real Gee. They're choosing their words carefully. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Al-Shabab Attacks Joint US-Kenyan Military Base by Kingrefreshed: 2:53pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
talk2hb1: Who Told You America Ever leave them Alone Horrop! What's you're point? |
Politics › Re: There Is Nothing Called The North — Abaribe by Kingrefreshed: 2:52pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
The only senator who still stand strong to say the undiluted truth in this forsaken country. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Al-Shabab Attacks Joint US-Kenyan Military Base by Kingrefreshed: 2:50pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: SERAP Gives Buhari, Osinbajo, Governors 7-Day Ultimatum To Publish Assets by Kingrefreshed: 2:22pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
This Sharap.... Sorry SERAP people are just stand up comedians. Na Buhari una dey tell make declare his assects ?? Person wey get Ear infection |
Christianity Etc › Re: Chinese Pastor Wang Yi Sentenced To Nine Years In Prison For Preaching by Kingrefreshed: 2:10pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
oblaak: But why would you have to quote the whole story again instead of just commenting after reading the original post? And how was that supposed to make you feel better? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Rockets Fall Near US Embassy In Baghdad Injuring Five As World War 3 Fears Mount by Kingrefreshed: 11:19am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Dannybammz: The rockets fell in the Iraqi capital's heavily fortified Green Zone which houses government buildings and foreign missions a day after the US ordered the execution of top Iranian General Qassem Soleimani
Several rockets targeting Celebration Square and the Jadriya area in Baghdad, and the Balad air base in Salahuddin province, with no loss of life. Further details to come," the Iraqi military said in a statement.
There are currently not believed to be any deaths.
It comes a day after Donald Trump ordered the drone execution of top Iranian General Qassem Soleimani at Baghdad Airport.
After his death, the country's supreme leader Ali Khamenei sparked fears of war as he announced revenge, adding: "I and the government and the nation of Iran strongly condemn this American crime."
The phrase "World War 3" began trending on Twitter and searches for the same sentence also spiked on Google within hours of the air strike in Iraq.
https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/breaking-world-war-3-rocket-21214000 This fools are still using rockets hahahahahaha. America used a DX20 Black military drone that can launch 50 missiles per second to terminate General Qassem Soleimani's life from the skies. They only launched 4 missiles only and you see the result? They just type in his name. It uploads and the lunch the attack simple. They will just type in "ERASE IRAN" in their military computerised gadget and click ENTER. Weeeeeeeeeeep! Iran will be deleted from the face of the earth. |
Politics › Re: Chad Soldiers Leave Nigeria As Their Boko Haram Fighting Mission Ends by Kingrefreshed: 11:14am On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Fresh Pressure On Presidency To Bring Daura Back by Kingrefreshed: 11:12am On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Boko Haram Kidnaps Lawan Andimi, CAN Chairman In Adamawa by Kingrefreshed: 11:10am On Jan 05, 2020 |
itsme01: So what you gon do Son Wait till America start flushing you guess out outta the face of earth. I'll come and circumcise you first then do other many things to you before sending ya to hell |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Kidnaps Lawan Andimi, CAN Chairman In Adamawa by Kingrefreshed: 11:04am On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Chinese Pastor Wang Yi Sentenced To Nine Years In Prison For Preaching by Kingrefreshed: 7:35pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Kinterez: Chinese Pastor Wang Yi Sentenced to Nine Years In Prison By Bp-News-1 - January 4, 2020 0
Chinese Pastor Wang Yi I will serve my sentence, but I will not serve the law. I will be executed, but I will not plead guilty.”
Chinese Pastor Wang Yi In what is believed to be the longest sentence against a house church leader in more than a decade, Pastor Wang Yi of the Early Rain Covenant Church in China, was sentenced to nine years in prison for “inciting to subvert state power”, attempting to turn people against the Chinese government, and “illegal business operations.” The charges for business operations relate to the printing and distribution of Christian books by the church, the Voice of The Matyrs, reports.
Pastor Wang’s trial was secretly held on December 26th and the verdict was announced on December 30th. Along with the lengthy prison sentence, he was also fined over $9,000 CAD and denied all political rights for three years. “This is a pure case of unjust religious persecution against a peaceful preacher of a Chinese reformed church,” reports Bob Fu, president of ChinaAid.
Chinese Christians Memorize Entire Bible In Prison, Says Gov’t Can’t Take What’s In Your Heart’
Pastor Yi’s sentence comes just few days after Elder Qin Defu of Early Rain Covenant Church was given four years pprison term for sharing gospel tracts.
As for many of the remaining members of the Early Rain Covenant Church (those who have not been imprisoned), governing authorities recently mandated that these congregants meet with security officials five times a day. Despite the stringent stipulations and heavy oppression, members of the church continue to faithfully meet together, seeking to serve God any way they can.
China has seen an uptick in religious persecution under the administration of President Xi Jinping who took office six years ago. In recent years, the government has demolished crosses, cracked down on house churches, arrested pastors, and put officially-recognized churches under tighter control.
Chinese law requires that places of worship register and submit to government oversight, but some have declined to register, and are thus deemed illegal. These churches are known as “house” or “underground” churches.
Why Many Chinese Are Becoming Christians
Wang had openly criticized Xi and refused to comply with Chinese government requirements to register with China’s Religious Affairs Bureau. In 2006, he traveled to Washington to meet with then-President George W. Bush, asking for his support in their fight for religious freedom.
Ahead of his arrest, Wang published a letter condemning the “evil” Communist Party for its continued persecution of Christians.
He expressed hope that God would use him to “tell those who have deprived me of my personal freedom that there is an authority higher than their authority, and that there is a freedom that they cannot restrain, a freedom that fills the church of the crucified and risen Jesus Christ.”
China Offers Thousands of Dollars to Anyone Who Will Report Christians, ‘Illegal’ Churches to Government
“Regardless of what crime the government charges me with, whatever filth they fling at me, as long as this charge is related to my faith, my writings, my comments, and my teachings, it is merely a lie and temptation of demons,” he wrote in the letter titled “My Declaration of Faithful Disobedience.” “I categorically deny it. I will serve my sentence, but I will not serve the law. I will be executed, but I will not plead guilty.”
Early Rain Covenant Church in China Please prayerfully uphold Pastor Wang, his wife and family as they now must contend with the implications of this verdict. Pray that justice will still prevail and that this sentence will be overturned. Remember the members of the Early Rain Covenant Church as they seek ways to continue reaching out with the Gospel message in their community.
Lifelong, Famous Atheist Bill Hayden Receives Jesus At 85
The U.S. was quick to denounce the prison sentence this week. Secretary of State Mike Pompeo criticized the verdict and called for his release: “I am alarmed that Pastor Wang Yi, leader of Chengdu’s Early Rain house church, was tried in secret and sentenced to nine years in prison on trumped-up charges.”
Secretary Pompeo of US ✔ @SecPompeo I am alarmed that Pastor Wang Yi, leader of Chengdu’s Early Rain house church, was tried in secret and sentenced to nine years in prison on trumped-up charges. Beijing must release him and end its intensifying repression of Christians and members of all other religious groups.
Christianity In China Explosive growth has characterized the church for at least the past 30 years. About 100 million Christians live in China, but only 30 million are affiliated with the government-authorized Three-Self Patriotic Movement (the state church controlled by the Communist government). The remaining 70 million worship in unapproved house churches. Despite continual pressure and oppression, house church leaders refuse to compromise the Gospel. About 60 percent of the believers in China live in rural areas, and only a few house church leaders have formal theological training or access to Bible study materials, according to VOM.
The number of Christians in Communist China is growing so steadily that by 2030, it could have more churchgoers than America.
Officially, the People’s Republic of China is an atheist country but that is changing fast as many of its 2 billion citizens seek meaning and spiritual comfort that neither communism nor capitalism seem to have supplied.
200,000 Tibetans, Including 62 Buddhist Monks, Come To Jesus
The Chinese Communist Party once tried to destroy religion, but it failed, and today, according to some estimates, there are more Christians in China than Communist Party members. Up to 100 million.
Life for Christians In China: Ten years ago, unregistered churches in China’s “house church” movement enjoyed a measure of acceptance by the government. However, today things are much different. In February 2018, a new religious regulation led to increased government restrictions on unregistered churches. This has resulted in the forceful closure of hundreds of churches, the arrest or detainment of pastors and church members, and the prohibition of online sales of Bibles. If church leaders refuse to join the government-controlled church, false charges are filed against them. It is illegal to teach religion to anyone younger than 18 years of age.
https://believersportal.com/chinese-pastor-wang-yi-sentenced-to-nine-years-in-prison/?fbclid=IwAR2Bl8CufRHtPqTyfrRIRshYkBKNiuiVO-AUXJ2cE3f3phy6kNzLPLpAvDo Go and register your church. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Bassa In Kogi, Kill 20, Burn Down Churches And Houses (Graphic Pix by Kingrefreshed: 7:29pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
stephenduru: Below are photos from Tawari in Kogi State where Bassa Kwomu community was attacked and over 20 persons were gruesomely murdered by unknown Gunmen.
State Commissioner of Police, Nigeria Army Captain, Mr. Ede Ayuba and Captain Mahmud confirmed the incident and assured of maximum security.They also promised to fish out the perpetrators.
APC ward Chairman, Ibrahim Simbabi, Chief Imam were among the 20 persons butchered. 2 churches and residential houses were burnt down.
May the souls of the victims RIP.Amen
Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2020/01/gunmen-attack-bassa-in-kogikill-20burn.html?m=1 Yahaya bello sold Kogi out for a re-election. I am sorry for Kogi people. More of this is still coming. Now you people will know what PDP have been doing for you since. |
Romance › Re: Am I Taking The Right Decision To Love This Girl? by Kingrefreshed: 1:21pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
ultimate77: Hi guys... It's been a while. I hope y'all enjoying the new year and the winter. I practically sleep with my fan on and without cloth, I bath with cold water as well. Before you say I should go to jos and try it, I was born in Jos, plateau state and lived most of my life all in the north.
THIS WILL BE A LONG READ SO BUCKLE UP AND ENJOY THEN PUT MOUTH.
To my story. So I was able to do away with my ex as you guys advised me to, 2 years ago. After 3 months of the break-up, I got a good job and left the city. I wasn't posting any picture on my WhatsApp status neither do I post on Facebook. She was always viewing my status which are usually my poetry write ups. After a year, she called to apologise saying how I am the only best guy for her in the whole world, how I am the only guy who knows how to treat her well. Well, truth of the matter is I tolerated a her excesses and my guy just asked me to so I can learn how to handle any other woman.
I was celibate for the whole year before she came back begging and my guy asked me not to be rude, I should tell her it's ok, let's try again but I should just watch her for a month. Men and brethren, I was cautious enough not to allow us meet because she not someone you can easily come by and you will go without your JT responding to stimulus.... She had a way of getting my pants down. So I did everything so we don't meet.
So she told me how she had missed me, the love, the care, the outings, the foods I make for her and the sex most of all. She admitted she has within the year dated 2 other guys and still broke up with them.
Note: the longest relationship she has had was the one I and she had which lasted for 3 miserable years... But I learnt much lessons so I do not regret.
Refusing to meet her after we agreed, I was giving her excuses that I was busy with work this made her start showing that her attitude again.. I already had become immune to all those behaviours of her. I just ignored her and that was how it slid. I was happy we went silent on each other again.
So, mid last year, I was at work and one of my bosses brought this young beautiful lady to my office and requested that I help connect her to the company's wireless. I didn't even act as if he was talking to me neither did I respond to any of them, on that day, I was so furious about the job I gave my boys to do which they did not complete. So the man asked my colleague to help her do that. I was really not interested in connecting anyone to the network until I resolve the downtime. However, I really don't give face to female young chaps at the company because I know myself.. Someone might just fall in love with me and I can't even deal.
Fast-forward a month later, my colleague has started taking and chatting with the new lady, she actually Came for her industrial attachment. They were always chatting and she'll come visit him in my office during break hours. All the while, I only respond to her greetings but sometimes, I listened to their conversations while working on my system. She seemed to be a great personality as I noticed she barely get angry, each time she speaks, she made sense. She responds to any question you ask her. After 2 months, I asked my guy where the girl is from. He told me. I kept quiet. 2 days later, my colleague told me that the girl said she wanted to learn Java and he told her he doesn't know how to but that I can help her. He brought her to my table and I told her she was going to pay me 50k so I'll teach her all she needs to know. She bargained and we agreed on 40k. She came the first day during break period, I had to interview her and I was amazed at her responses.
Work wouldn't let her concentrate so we cancelled classes till when she's done. A day Came she just came to my office and that was a day for just chats. I led through the conversations and she clearly opened up to me to say.. In her words "you know what? The day that man asked you to connect me to the network, the moment I saw you, I had a very strong feelings for you and since that day I couldn't help it but I was scared you might bounce me. But I said to myself 2 things must happen. It's either I make this guy fall in love with me by my actions or I tell it to him... But you were not just interested." I was smiling. She told me everything she feels... I already had within two days thought of asking to date her and marry her because she possess 80% of all I want in a woman especially her common sense and love for technology.
She had told me she has a guy outside the country who she said want to marry her, she loves him but then, she doesn't know what is going on because she can't seem to get over me and she said she knows it's not infatuation. I knew it wasn't either. I loved the girl like mad within 3 days. I knew I would. After 2 weeks, I told her I want us to date and I want to marry her I know she will too. She couldn't say a word so I let her.. Fact is, she can't stay off my path. I developed strong feelings for her that I could just do anything for her. As the days go bye, it was becoming stronger and stronger.
She decided to start acting weird to see if she's really fooling herself at that point I realised and decided to take a chill pill and have a break.. But after 2 days, we hooked again. Things happened and we finally decided to stay with each other and marry when the time comes. I know I shouldn't beg a woman to marry me as a man but guys, marrying that girl is in my own interest because she will preserve my home and everything that has to do with me. She marrying me too is in her own best interest because she will have a man who is worthy to be called a husband.
Now the challenge is... This guy outside the country is younger than I am and just 2 years older than she is.. She is 23..and I am 7 years older than she is. The guy has built houses, has cars and has a business but not educated as I am, not sensitised as I am.. Just anything academics and social and otherwise.. Most especially I have a profession and yea, he has a business but has achieved more than me.. The lady Has weighed the both of us and is still very confused as she keeps saying both of us are just perfect for her. On her list of 8 guys, she had deleted 6 it's just left the two of us and that she really wish she can delete him but the guy is too good to be deleted like that. She hadn't had sex with him because she said "the guy said they should skip sex till marriage because of how much he loves her" and me in the other hand, I don't have a house built yet, my business is in it's pitching stage and I don't own a car or cars too but that isn't my biggest worries now.
I had told her, before the year ends before she wraps up her 500 level, my business should have been set up and running and since she loves my profession, that will be a plus for her and she will as well know and be proud that she was and is a part of my/our success story. She was sick about the whole thing and finally decided she'll settle for me and I advised she shouldn't tell the guy until he comes back to the country so you guys can talk and you can kindly tell him. Though I feel the pains this guy will go through receiving this news.. But it has to be done.
We now talk more often, as I am planning to marry her this year hopefully after her studies because I am certain the money will be available even to buy her all she needs. She had read my vision and seen a headway and how I strive to make them come alive. She has been quiet supportive with her advice and love. However, at some point, I fear she might just change her mind and return to the guy. You know how inconsistent some ladies can be na. She told me the guy had visited her mum and her elder sister who is married and they all liked him but her father hasn't seen him yet.
My aunt rarely accepts girls I show her but then moment all my family members saw her picture, they all accepted her and asked that I bring her. Me on the other hand, I had only spoken to her mum just ones and that was because I needed to help them do a payment and we've not met. Most of the men at the company are asking the girl to marry them as she shows me the whole conversation.
Guys, at some point I feel she won't leave me at a point I feel threatened by the communications between her and the guy though it doesn't last longer than 5 minutes but we speak like 40minuites over the phone. On free days 2 hours sometimes. And I am not scared that she might leave or maybe that I can't get another. Nada! There are many options but she's number one and I know I love her more than any one else. She has other options too but I can't speak for her.
Guys, anything I can do to secure this girl? Even though I know I got her at angle 90° for now not even 45° because @45° there won't be much distractions. I hope no body comes to tell me to go acquire what the other guy has acquired because I'm in the process.
I just need a few words guys.
Please help You're just another biatch a$$ niggarrr. Now that's my few words for you Too many biatch niggarrss on NL these days |
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