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Guys, If they allowed people to leave the plane on car without checkup, something is fishy. Those people might be spies, They might be sent to spread diseases to the east. Governments in the east should track those people before it tis too late.

See ole. Thief

They will not allow this man to rest. They are still blaming him for their failure. For hoe long will this go on. They are in their second tenure. And are still blaming him. Na waooo

Feminists prophetess.

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

Good training. You will thank them later.

These men attacking this ban are the real sponsors of boko haram, fulani herdsmen and bandits. These criminals are doing their bidding for them. The governor's should stand in their words and know that the indigenous people's welfare come first. Now, that it is hurting them, you see how fast they condemn the ban. When their foot soldiers was killing the people they kept quiet.

Tell your brother to wash it. Leave the wife alone. If you have to blame, it is your brother. He is the one to tell her to wash it not you.

If this story is true, then I'll delete the app and make use of apps like telegram and hangout. Their own don too much.

Hathor5:
She has got a bleeped up mentality. A psychiatrist may not be able to help her. Imagine calling good people weak. Was Jesus weak? Was Nelson Mandela weak? Was Gandhi weak? Was Mother Theresa weak? May she find the Hitler she is looking for.

I thank God for you. It is good to see a woman that think differently. Most of this kind of thinking is as a result of violent domestic home upbringing. From your comment, one can see that you have got a good upbringing. Kudos to your parents.

SweetCunt97:
True. No woman wants a man wey no sabi left from right. We love men who can take charge. Taking charge is different from toxic masculinity sha.

so your definition of bad man is a man that can take charge while your definition of good man is a man that is weak? I hope you see where the problem lies.

AfroMighty:
Lolz


I remember the day Prof. Ijaya tore my crazy jean right in front of the whole class (200L days). The jean tore to an extent my pant can be seen, as per rugged guy I just walk out jeje climb bike along the second guy, till I finish that semester na only two jean I dey wear go school since the rest are crazy jean and I sow enough materials so tey I prefer them to jean and top...I still don't know why I can't hate Prof.Ijaya after tearing my Jean...I too like that man.

Futminna

I know why you did not hate him. He made you a better man. That's what most youth fail to get.

lastempero:
Who else noticed the decline in crime and armed robbery.

Where do you see a decline in crime and armed robbery? My friend was robbed in the the traffic caused by #Endsars protester in ikorodu. And other was robbed at Lekki link bridge while walking across the bridge because of traffic. Thugs and hoodlums are taking advantage of this. We have to end this before it and find other means to tackle this saga.

Whiteball:
He's not aware yet and he's not on NL. Am thinking of talking to d lady to stop that nonsense if she truly wanna marry my friend. I dont know what my friend will do if he gets to know

Don't do that dude. She might want to strike a deal with you or blackmail you. Better tell you friend for your sake and your friend's sake. If they want to sort it out, let it be between them. Also that will set you free. Also, I'll advise you to consider marriage. Baby mama option is not better than marriage. At least for your child. You also don't need someone to get a girl for you. With what has happened, imagine the kind of girl she is bringing for you to marry. Bird of same feather. So look for the girl yourself, get to know her qualities and whether both of you are compatible. Also know that no one is perfect. But knowing the truth about yourselves will help to decide the marriage. That's why you should tell your friend. He deserve to know the truth. Or you tell his fiancee to report herself to him. He deserve the truth. If they decide to work it out fine.

bukatyne:
OP said he pounded the yams the last time and would turn the semi now.

Prior to this thread, I never knew that hosting your husband's friends would cause such an issue.

Our view of marriage is obviously different.

Whatever works for everyone.

My dear, I'm just finding that out like you. If it her group, I'll assist her. Both money and work. It is good to see what people think of marriages. Because opinion differs truly.

bukatyne:
Nobody said it is easy however, as the wife of the home, she is their hostess.

The OP has offered to make the Semo and get someone to help her. All she needs to do is to go to the market and make the soup.

The other person would be on hand to help her serve and they can figure out how to clear the sink the next day.

The thread is strange to me: I don't know anyone around me (across different cultures and income levels) that would debate the wife's responsibility to host her husband's guests.

The level would now determine the kind of help they would employ to make it easier.

This event is once in two years: not once a month or once a week or daily.

Once in two years.

The fact that people think the wife has a 'choice' in the matter is baffling.

Everyone to their own world.

God bless you. Your response is a relief. At least there hope for the nuclear family. Satan has been trying to destroy the nuclear family. From this post, I can see how bad it is. This is a simple problem. The wife is not doing the cooking alone. People responding, did not see that. But they started throwing insults at the man. So the husband can not ask his wife for help again? Thank you sister. Thank you. God bless you and your family.

SIRTee15:
I wont brandish insult with u....
Engaging in verbal insults both online or offline is a sign of weak emotional intelligence, the inability to engage in logical reasoning or sustain a conceptual argument.
A common trait among people from poor upbringing or dysfunctional family background.

U are not even married yet u've been dishing out toxic advice since yesterday on this topic...
No wonder u are telling women to stop cooking for their families.
The kind of people that give advise on this forum...u go fear.

I'm glad we still have people like you. I have been having chills from people response. What's wrong in asking for help from your wife? The last time, the husband help her. They did not see that. He even offer to get an assistant. The did not see that also. The people in question they want to feed are group of people that have their interest at heart. Which the wife will benefit from. But now the husband has become a bad man. God help us.

royalfly:
Abeg shut up... abeg sorry o but u Dey talk rubbish.. what is enslave in just cooking and cleaning, the guy offer to help... I don’t understand o. Watch this woman will do worse things in future.. if she refuse to help the man wash his clothes no problem but to cook my dear even whites host friends all the time and just like the guy wanted to do help each other. You could see the man grilling the meat while the woman cuts the veggies as the case maybe.. onyinbo life nor go kill una.. even the onyinbo is retracing their steps while Nigerians are blindly running forward to nonsense.. now I know why this country is like this.

Spot on my dear. This shows how bad we have become. The husband is now a monster for asking his wife to help him. That's why BLM is America wants to destroy the nuclear family system. Create a world where only woman matter, and trans. And Africans are buying into it.

SIRTee15:
Ok lets get something clear. Cooking in the home is the primary responsibility of the wife.
A woman has no business getting married if she doesn't want to be cooking on regular basis. Such a lady should stay single for life.
I don't understand where all this nonsense is coming from.
because last time I check, married white women ( u guys are trying too hard to copy) cook for their home, they cook for friends who come visiting and cook for family gathering/reunion.
There are thousands of youtube vlogs dedicated to married white women culinary skills in the kitchen.

Asian, Arab and latin women cook for their families without issues.
It's only in Africa that black women wants to turn modernity on its head with their warped feminist ideology that makes no sense.
I don't even see this as feminism...rather what I can perceive is a lazy but entitled generation trying to avoid responsibility.

It's not by force to marry, stay single if u don't like the responsibility that comes with it.

The thing tire me oooo. They don't want to talk about the help the husband has been offering. So sad.

Righteousness89:
All I Can Do Right now is to Pray For you!

Precious Daddy, I Pray thee, Touch the wife of My Brother to see the Need to Cooperate with Her Husband. Touch Her to Do it with Joy In Jesus Name.... Amen..

My Brother Calm down.. She will Do it...




Reading through the Comments, It's clear that People Have Lost what Marriage is all about!

Marriage is Cooperation
Marriage is Sacrifice
Marriage is Watching out for each other

It's sounds strange to me that a woman is not willing to Cooperate with her Husband and People are Supporting that!

Seriously! This Generation has lost it

My dear, you are right. People have lost it. This is the effect of feminism. They refuse to see that he even assisted his wife in the cooking. It is not that what the group is doing is bad. And I'm sure his wife knew from the onset about them. Moreso, it is done in turns. I believe the wife should support her husband. Look at how people are cursing him. So sad.

I know that the white don't believe that something good can come out of Africa. But it saddens my heart to read here in nairaland, that some of us still believes that the news is a lie. We are our own bane. How can we grow when we don't believe ourselves. So sad.

From God's definition, your body is the temple of God. Which mean we are the church. Oyedepo don't know what he is talking. He followers will believe him hook line and sinker.

Dettol company will be disappointed in her. Chai!

CzarChris:
I like your presentation, but you only mentioned a product not what the product is used for?

Do you use on walls? Or as a ceiling product?
Show us pictures of it being used.

Work on your marketing.

You are right. He writes as if he is talking to people that already knows what is is used for. I understand him well because I use it. But other people won't. He should tell us what it is used for in a layman terms.

I'm not surprised about the man's silence. It is all part of the plan. The pastor was never interested in the well-being of Nigeria. When anti-christ comes, who do you think he will go to? The government and religious leaders of course. They are preparing the ground ready for him. Deciving people. Have you ever wondered what people ask themselves when they what to know if you are a Christian? They will ask you which church do you attend. Is that what matters? This is all a grand scheme of the devil. Please read your Bible and understand that the world is coming to and end. So that when things like this happens, you ask yourself if you are in the right track. Before you get caught unaware.

Zoharariel:
The thread says Toyota Camry, why is Corolla being displayed?

Lol. To emphasize what he is talking about. To help you get the "picture" of what he means

Lol. To emphasize what he is talking about. To help you get the "picture" of what he means.

ForeThinker:
You no know before?

She should just discard her father's name now for a start and answer her mother's name. Not her mother's maiden name. Then we will consider her.

I don't have any problem giving pastors money for upkeep or for the ministry. But the manner they preach about tithes and other alms makes you feel obligated. Yes are supposed to give cheerfully, with joy and not because we are obligated to do so. I want to start a donation to a YouTube channel that made me understand the book of Revelations so well that I can boldly preach it to people. Majority of church congregations do not understand it. And it it specifically for our time. When Sunday come most congregants thinks of money to give, clothe to wear etc. And not the fact that the want to go and worship the LORD joyfully. We need to right some wrongs in the church. Church of this generation are acting like the people of Loadicea as mentioned in the book of Revelations. Imagine someone saying that I will not make heaven if I don't pay tithes. What that means pay tithes and heaven is you. John 3:16 no longer matter anymore. As for me, I follow Yeshua.

alBHAGDADI:
Nice

Today, many fools run their mouth at pastors and act as if they know the Bible in and out. Whereas, their rudeness is only inspired by an anti-church article they read online.

Imagine people saying pastors ought to go get a job and stop depending on Church money. They foolishly use Apostle Paul as an example, saying he made his income from tent making.

Was Paul a pastor? Did he pastor any Church? No, he didn't because he was an evangelist moving about preaching the gospel. Peter, James, John etc were pastors of churches. Can anyone show me where they worked? You can't find such.

Have you ever wondered why Peter was silent after Jesus saw him fishing after his resurrection in John 21? He knew he had messed up. When Peter the fisherman was called by Jesus, what did Jesus say? He said he was going make him a Fisher of men. Peter dropped his net and followed Jesus. So, Jesus was disappointed to see him return to fishing again. "Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these?"

A pastor is to feed from the Church, a thing apostle Paul also approved. If a pastor gets a 9-5 job, he won't be able to have time to study the word of God which he will use to feed his flock. If the church has a serious programme coming up, he might miss it if his company decide to send him on an assignment to another city. Imagine his church is on the mainland and he works at Lekki, think of the traffic he would be facing before he gets to church for a midweek service.

coolcharm:
You don't sell insurance to people trying to survive.

Survival first.

Abi ooo. They should sell survival insurance first. That is relatable.

Nobody is mentioning the fact that they reached an agreement. Moreover, the guy enrolled her into school with his money. And finally empowered her with 500k at this Buhari hard time. Yet some girls are talking trash. I wonder what the world is turning to. So is true that what 99% girls bring into relationship is sex.

Shit business is serious business

I use to respect this man when he was working with The Sun newspaper. It is bad to see how money can change a man. He should have just kept quiet and let buhari carry the blame alone. But what do I know? Mr. Femi has to feed his family.