Hatrick01:
Please suggest what i could gift her tomorrow being valentine...

Budget:#1200

check jumia. you'll see necklaces at that price. good ones

Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself

Truth is you didn't do anything bad as far as she gave you her consent to visit. she likely had another guy with her that's why she behaved that way. I would advise that you cut the friendship as she isn't a straightforward person. don't bother calling her anymore and don't invite her over again. just be plain with her even after she apologize over her actions

a religion that doesn't allow others practice theirs in peace. nawa o.

LittleBigDick:
My worst fear came true. My ex came crawling back after I started getting serious with another girl.
We broke up 7 months ago. We'd been together since uni. I'm 25, she's 23. She said she needed some space and wasn't sure we would work out long term. I tried to fight her on it for two weeks but eventually gave her the breakup and went ghost mode
First couple of months were rough but I applied myself at the gym and other things and when I was feeling better about my physique made a Bumble account just to gain some self-esteem back and also take my mind off her. Met this girl about 2 months ago and we've been fwb since then. We Bleep every week and recently we've been talking about making things serious. I confess I'm starting to become infatuated with this girl, and she's already head over heels for me.
The problem is that I still love my ex, way more than this new girl. She reached out today saying she regrets breaking up with me, she was depressed and got some therapy and realized I'm all she wants. She says she went on a few dates but "didn't have sex or even kiss any of them." She said I could check her phone if I want to. Obviously she could have just deleted any proof but I'm inclined to believe her considering she was very prudish when we were together and also I was the one that disvirgined her
The problem is I don't know whether I stick to this new babe or accept my ex back

move on with your current girlfriend. you see that your ex ehn, she is still confused and would drag you into her world of confusion then dump you again. you're her backup plan and not her first choice. man up and let her know you've moved on

flourishing247:


Some don't have the above features. Check sickle motivator on instagram. You would never know except she tells you.

if she's SS you'd know. it's only people with SC that look healthier

she is no longer attracted to him

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

125k to remove pregnancy. oga d babe wan rip u. just lock up. don't answer her again and move on with your life. you better be careful cos she doesn't love you. it's too obvious. you're the one putting so much effort but she is thwarting everything. she doesn't love you and besides it looks like she is not mature yet mentally

breakthrough22:
Good evenning ,

I came back home from work this night to find out my wife and my son have packed and abandoned me .

My son is 4 years old and I really don't mean to hurt my wife .

She travelled on the 26th of December to her dad house here in Lagos .I missed her so much and I sent her money to come back last Saturday though she said she will be coming on Sunday only for me to call her between 2pm and 8pm without her picking the call .

The phone rang times without number .I later gave the last try and the no was busy answering other call .She later picked and said there was no light .So,she couldn't charge. I was mad because the excuse was too flimsy .I challenged her to tell her but your phone rang .I was mad and I lost trust in her that moment and flashed back to the excuse that she will not come on Saturday.

Seriously ,I was angry and different thoughts came to my mind like May be she went to see another man .

That hour ,I told her I don't want to see her again .I was angry though .She didn't come on Sunday. She came back very early yesterday which was Monday.

I will not lie ,I have been so angry ,ranting and telling her to go back to her parent house that I don't trust her again.

To my surprise ,I came back tonight and she already packed all her loads ,packed my son things without leaving any thing .Her wardrobe and my son wardrobe have been empty as I am typing .She packed everything .

Seriously ,I am depressed cos I love her .I love my son .I can't even allow him to stay over there to start schooling. Me and my wife have been together since 2013 .We have gone through a lot of difficulties together and now ,things are beginning to look good for us .I am so down right now .I called he dad and her brother .It is like they took that decision together .

I have never beaten her before but I do nag especially when bills are weighing me down .His dad and his brother was just shouting at me .Fear of been a single dad or living alone at this stage of my life will make me a walking ghost and the fact that ,I really love my son too and also my wife too will one day kill me .

Imagine ,that Saturday she changed what she saved my no with and saved with my son name.I attached my call history .Check the image of the missed calls.

Please what do I do?I am devastated .


Some of her chats this night ..

[1/10, 9:35 PM] SWEETHEART: Hv always endure with u even though u did not hv money,but u always rain insult on me everyday .am not coming back I want to work and make my own money,u said u hv never achieved anything good bcoz of me!u said I am your biggest mistake in life and now hv made up my mind with you.you pushed me to the wall!u make me carry luggage in the hot sun and cry ,am tired,I cried and cried and endure all bcoz of love so nao am ready to work and earn good for myself and my son.
[1/10, 9:40 PM] SWEETHEART: U can change ur key am not coming again
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: Am not ,u know is too late for me to come back to .... and u urself know is my biggest fear bcoz I don't like coming here but u make me come back,is too late. Even wen u always tell me to go,I will still wait but u make me come back to my fear It is too late.
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: ...will start school on Monday here and just take responsibility of it, if u don't want to loose ur son too.

look bro you have anger issues. just accept the fact. work on yourself. it's not too late. whenever you are angry, don't utter any word. this is the same thing that happened to my boss at work. he has anger issues and utters damaging words at that moment. he told his wife to move out cos of a little issue and now he misses her so much. it's 2yrs now since she left. drop your pride and work on yourself for the sake of your son

she got served hot. scamming someone of his hard earned money and you think everyday would be Christmas. Even after the guy relocated to Abuja, she still had to traumatize the poor guy. it's just a pity the guy couldn't control his emotions

dgitrader:

how possible, kindly drop hint

I don't wanna post any link here cos of the bots. you can contact me on WhatsApp.

certifiedvik:

Hello chief how much did it cost you to repair the screen ? Mine just got bad

15k

yes it's possible. I even chat people up without saving their phone numbers

makeherscream:
I don't understand my girlfriend anymore I think she's cheating on me ,

on Monday my girlfriend messaged me on Whatsapp exactly 6:00pm meanwhile her last seen was 8:25Am , this is not the first time this shit is happening , if I ask her why it's like that she keeps telling me it's network issues,

like WTF abi no be the same WhatsApp wey everybody dey use again?

Have ask her several times the type of WhatsApp she's using she keep telling me it's the normal WhatsApp that I know

After our argument she removed my picture from her profile and we have not been talking to each other since on Monday , I think she's cheating on me and maybe a hookup babe because I heard that most hookup babes normally freeze WhatsApp , when they are chatting with a customer online , so that their main boo will think they are offline

She's been a nice girl no doubt but this is the other side of her I don't understand or could it be that am overreacting

bro stop overanalyzing things. just calm down and stop assuming. if you keep fighting her like this, she'll lose the respect she has for you and you guys would turn into enemies for life. just calm down and act like you can't see anything. once you are able to gather evidence that she is cheating, just quietly move. to be honest, she might not be cheating on you. just calm down. you aren't married to her. once she notices that you are so clingy and insecure, she would leave you for a guy that posseses more masculine traits. we all feel jealous and tend to get clingy but control your emotions. pay less attention to her and get busy with something that would move you forward

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

don't Marry her. chai but why did you choose a single mom na? you should know that as long as the father of that her child is alive, he would be chopping her na. you better delay that marriage and see if her sense would come back. if it doesn't, my brother don't wed her or you'll become sick and tired of life. she's not ready to be committed so don't force marriage on her. a woman can say she wants to get married when sense never complete. if you marry such person, one day she'll just stand up and say she's tired for no reason.

Liverpool should just honorably bow out to avoid thrashing from Brighton

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

women do this after marriage. to women, marriage and kids are the ultimate achievements. once they have gotten them, they stop giving their husbands Joy. this is why I don't blame some people for engaging in polygamy. women sit tight when they see a competitor. try to find out why she is doing it. for now stop asking for sex. you may need to get a side chick.

iSense247:
https://businessday.ng/amp/politics/article/disquiet-in-apc-over-buharis-non-participation-in-tinubus-campaign/

izala movement. Atiku and Buhari. if you don't Gerrit, forget about it

udofia234:
Good evening friends!!!

Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.


On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys

she wants your gbola. she likes you a lot. it's either you cooperate or tell her to stop. be firm. be a Man and stop asking for advice when you have two clear options to choose from. she is doing it on purpose cos she kinda admires you. she is carried away by either love or lust for you

it's Igbo food mostly. the smell can be quite offensive. personally I don't like the smell. they have tasty food but that offensive odor is the issue. funnily enough, those foreign foods have higher nutritional value as compared to our starchy food. African food is filled with mostly starch. big outside but empty inside. Lord help us

Mino1000:


Most times she shares her live location herself whenever she is going out and said that is what they do for security reasons… she also gets angry when I don’t check and ask for updates but I guess I took it too far.

if this is the case then she is hiding something. she might have someone and that person might be connected to her boss. pls bro no matter how much a woman tells you to check up on her, don't always be at her beck and call. sometimes be scarce. women can say something today and say another thing tomorrow. their head dey work with network signal. their hormones sef dey work wonders. the more you chase after a woman or show her too much care, the more she runs away. one more thing, stop prying into the personal affairs of your partner. stop keeping her personal stuff or using her Google account. it's childish

he might not be a fake doctor. his license had probably not been renewed for a long time and he kept practicing. it could also be something else but not that he is fake. if he was truly fake, why are they covering his face? na HEFAMAA handwork be this.

I don't like APC but this is good. kudos to them. when we see something good, we must appreciate it

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

marry a second wife and see magic happen right before your eyes. you are a man. take charge and stop wailing. once she notices that you don't give a damn anymore, her brain would reset.

this is nice. in a world where people people don't see anything wrong with immorality. it's a thing of Joy and would command respect from her husband

jeromestarks:
So I met a girl on Twitter. We talked and exchanged numbers.
I called her to come over to my place because I needed sex. She agreed and pleaded that I should not play with her heart.

She even asked me to buy her a new phone when she comes. I said no problem.
We agreed that she will see me tomorrow.

After talking with her on phone, I searched for her name on Facebook and found pictures of her and her baby which dated December, 2021.

I won't say anything. I will wait till she comes, fvck her, give her some money (highest 3k) and discard her.

No time to keep olosh0 as a girlfriend.
( I pray I won't contact disease shaa).

don't even bother telling her to come over na. why are you disturbing yourself? don't be surprised if she even has a bigger plan than yours. Life is unpredictable bro. the hunter can easily become the hunted

Aboliko7:

With this kind of nyash you put on, I no go mind smashing

it's not her own

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

bro I really feel for you. she's cheating on you. it's obvious. get your evidence then divorce her. she would never apologize cos she has seen your weakness already. she knows you love her too much. it's better to be single than to go through this trauma

Mecka:
does size matter

size does not always matter. it's how well the man can use his joystick. sex is not all about just penetration. unfortunately, many mumu men think it's about having big joystick so they take all sorts of nonsense mixtures. many men don't understand that pre-intimacy is the Koko. they just rush in as if na war Dem dey fight. as a result, the woman starts shouting. they think the shout means she is enjoying it not knowing that she is just feeling pains cos the p***y is not properly lubricated

KeyEndurance:
Hello Everyone Please I Need Your Help. Whenever Am Alone My Dick will Stand Gallant like A Soldier but When Am With A girl To Have sex the Thing Will Start Sleeping. Please Is There Any Medicine That Can Solve This problem?

chai. no joy in your stick. your brain has been affected. the brain is responsible for the erection so your brain has been reconfigured by something you are doing. I suspect masturbation and porn. stop now before you enter marriage and get disgraced. it's not a medicine thing, it's the brain. let your girl play with your joystick and focus your mind on her. stop playing back porn in your head and delete all the images of pornstars in your head. most of those pornstars are always on drugs and those body features you see aren't natural.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

must you people control her life? A 24yr old has the right to choose her path in life. let her choose and make her understand that she must be ready to face the consequences on her own. it's simple. we have too many control freaks in Africa. haba!!! she is not an object or a steering wheel. at this stage of her life, she has the right to move away. she has blood rushing through her veins just like you. whoever would be bad would be bad. whoever would explore would still do it. you guys have frustrated the girl too much. if she was having peace of mind, running away from home wouldn't be her first option. you should have acted as a confidant. that way, she would take your advice. I have a very stubborn female cousin. she had issues with most of our family members except me and that's cos she sees me as a confidant. she tells me everything that she does. then I use that opportunity to redirect her steps. you can't use the same method for children on adults. get close to her and show her your human side. it may be too late already though.

efelicity:
My aunty, that is, the unmarried younger sister to my mother has been with us for over week now, at any time she chose she can just rush into my room without excuse.

I'm a matured guy and she could meet me standing naked at any given time and I'm not bold to tell her.

I've tried to talk to my mother but she was insisting I must not say anything to avoid annoying her sister.

let her see your gbola. once she sees it, she'll learn to start knocking

hmmmm there's something going on. CBN is plotting something big and the FG knows about it