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they don't see Tinubu as a true Muslim and that's why they want a muslim running mate. the thing is if he picks a muslim vice, it would make the election tougher for him. something is happening. it looks like some people in APC are really working for PDP. Tinubu shouldn't even be contesting. he needs to focus on his health.

LadyD22:
Is there any trustworthy dating app that you know ?
I tried to check bumble but everybody is just looking for a girl to have sex with and then they lie about it too
Noone should come and preach for me about God's time or go outside and search , people that are finding their partners online don't have two heads

try MeetMe app. you would likely find someone. nairaland discouraged me as well. thought I could find someone serious. we can talk on WhatsApp 0.7.0.3.5.7.0.3.0.0.8

KiNg0G:
I lived with my father's brother for a long time. he didn't work one day, all he does in the morning was to wash his mouth, have his bath then have his meal, awaiting his wife to come back from her trade in the market.. Then off she went to prepare another meal.. Staying With them was hell for me because sometimes there was hardly food in the house but my uncle hardly cares about that, it is either he is in one joint with his friends on a sunny day or he is at home listening to radio stations. His wife was the provider and never for once did she insult him...

This same character has gotten into me deeply, I can't help myself. I can't do thing's for myself.

My girlfriend cohabiting with me is the one providing almost everything we need all I do is to give her my G-15 in the evening. I'm always at home 24/7. She's never complained, I love it, for me to get a job and be answering Sir sir to people, I can't.

Stay fresh, bath, eat and sleep is the order of the day.

Few women are like this,
just the other day she asked me to come pay her bride price before the year ends, I asked her where would I see the money... baby girl told me not worry that something huge is coming..

I love this freedom, but sometimes I get a mixed feelings of been a liability, ants feeding on sugars. Anyway I'm enjoying myself quite well.

The real thing is my masculinity as the head of the house still intact.

Guy you're playing with fire. Go and work. Don't complain when you find out that she's servicing another guy to get the money she uses. Man up and work. She'll soon be fed up.

Born2winnx:
Hello all
My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.

Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.

I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.

relationship is 3months
I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.

I don't really see any issue here. the only thing I see is that you don't love her as much as she loves you. your guys tell you to abort and you sef abort. funny thing is that your friend might be eyeing your babe. be careful with friends. It's not everything about your relationship you should be telling them.you can go with her. don't allow negative energy kill your relationship. she is proud to show you off to her people. she wants you to marry her. you can let her know you're not comfortable with it and I believe she should understand

DOWN2HeartLoved:
When she wants to give birth I took BG risk, she's from Orogun,if anything would have happened to her I would have been held responsible,still yet

A point I skipped,why did she say I should say am her brother at the Hospital.

Can you believe same thing happened on the Onset of the relationship,I should say am her brother

I was reading your post but when I saw this one, I just had to comment. oh my God! this is pure evil. she is bent on destroying your life. it's obvious you love her so much but she doesn't love you back. you said you initially cheated on her. did she start all these after you cheated? the fact is she has other lovers and she doesn't want them to know about you. she is a real player and she has been doing this before she met you. sadly, there's nothing you can do at this point and you won't be the last victim. just let her go and move on with your life. next time, do a proper background check on any woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.

LaSenior:
those male friends some of them are aware that she has a boyfriend one was even telling her that she can still have her boyfriend and still be seeing him , all her male besties wants to see her pants and I am not comfortable with that I have tried to let her know about this but she will just wave it off as nothing

see bro let me tell you the truth. if she has refused to let go of those guys, it means she's either considering those things or they are already lashing her which I strongly suspect. ignoring your advice shows she has lost her respect for you. funny thing is that she'll even prefer to act on the advice of those besties as opposed to yours. she's not yet mature enough to settle down and it's quite obvious. pls don't marry such person for your own good cos it could get worse and it signals to her that you don't have a choice. for now, just play along and quietly search for a lady who's serious. when you discover a new lady that reasons on the same page with you and is ready to treat you like a king just as you treat her like a queen, leave the stubborn one and tell her your reasons for going. don't ghost her cos if you do, you'd appear as the bad person. also let your family know everything since they are aware of your relationship with her so they won't look at you like a playboy

Michelle55:
The picture quality didn't do justice to the food, is this how bad the Oppo camera is?
I was expecting some nice-looking food display. It ends up making the food look unappealing

you wanna start riot here. if you look closely you'll see that there's not enough lighting thus the sensor moved quite slowly. this resulted in some shaky shots and poorly focused one. besides, she is not really good with photography. it's obvious. there's nothing unappealing about the food. I wouldn't mind having some of it.

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terrorists using helicopter? this is the first time I'm hearing about this. this is very bad and this shows the level of decay in Nigeria's security. no doubt the military is firmly supporting terrorists. it's high Time everyone gets guns to face any attacker.

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ajabani4allah:
January this year

did it fall on a hard surface before this thing started or it just started on it's own. if it started on it's own, it's very much a software issue. you have to reflash the ROM. some of the Operating system files might be corrupted. check your phone power button if it's not pressed inside

ajabani4allah:
I have done factory reset of the phone 3 times is still not ok

how old is the phone?

Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

hmmm this your girl is not ready for something serious. she is actually still playing around. she has other guys who are likely deceiving her. don't bother yourself about her case, just move on with your life and find someone who is more mature. don't wait for her cos when she sees that you're still waiting, she'll keep taking you for granted. I can assure you that you'll be fine. Ladies are usually like this. it's a cycle. Ladies usually love to hear lies at that stage. once they hear the truth from you, you become public enemy number one but once they cross into their late twenties, they begin to find good guys unfortunately a lot of them would still fall into the hands of bad ones. A lot of Ladies are their own problems. Go after ladies who are ready to settle down and not the ones that are still carried away by social media, friends and material things. your girl is still collecting gbola from Yahoo boys up and down. she's not yours. be a man and move on. if she truly loves and respects you, she would never keep doing those things. run away fast before the respect she has for you becomes zero. leave with your pride intact

On my honor as a student, I will do my best
Do mi re re ti re re la do re re ti so la TI do

Dramadiddy:
Please suggest the least expensive and fast Android that can run apps seamlessly without hanging (on a budget of 100k naira). Pls note I am more concerned about speed than any other feature.

if you want speed, go for umidigi A11pro max. it runs stock android so no bloatware. it's really fast. you can check the speed tests and review. the device is available on jumia for less than 90k

tishbite41:
not surprised
afraid of your fulani masters as usual
blame nnamdi kanu
oponu

hahaha. Fulani masters? unfortunately they're your masters. you can't leave the country without their permission. listen, in as much as I detest Fulani people, I still believe there are good ones among them. I have once been helped by a Fulani man. it was something I never expected from a Fulani. he knew I was a southerner and christian but yet he stuck with me. one of the biggest problems in Africa today is religion. it has brought so much hatred and bitter rivalry. if you want to stop all these terrorists in their tracks, get your PVC and vote in the right person

tishbite41:
hypocritical coward
what brought simon ekpa into this, investigator?

you're just a keyboard warrior. you need to be ignored. you're part of the Simon ekpa supporters that's why you are so pained.

ajabani4allah:
Good evening everyone, my Umidigi A11 promax is really frustrating me. I bought it sometime around January this year. It restarts itself(Off & On) always. I have tried several ways to resolve this but all to no avail. It does this like 3-5 times daily. Can I still get solution to this or i should just throw away the phone?

The most annoying part is that it does this sometimes when I am on call or attempting an online test/exams

reset the phone totally and it'll be fine

reachome:
Don't know why my phone is showing this whenever I try to unlock it. Is it something I can reset, hope it's not screen problem. Somebody should pls help me out.
Note: umidigi A7 pro

it's because face unlock has been enabled. go and disable it

yes Ndidi is a good player for manU but these manU legends have to stop talking too much and let the new manager work. they have used their unnecessary talk to derail former manU managers

Eriokanmi:
Which investigations do you need again? Did you watch the video in which one fulani man lurking around the church immediately after the attack with an Ak47 in his hand, who was disarmed by the brave policeman and killed by the mob after collecting his gun ? A lady's voice was heard calling Mr Asiwaju to stay away from the scene in owo dialect. Google is your friend. Watch the video.

They shouldn't have killed him, they should have kept him to reveal their sponsors

I heard the video is not connected to the church in any way and that it's from Togo

tishbite41:
Cowards
The Fulanis just finished killing Yorubas and Igbos in Yorubaland.
You still have the guts to say rubbish.
Not only Simon Ekpa, blame Ojukwu.
Clowns

you called me a coward? why don't you stop hiding behind the keyboard and go there to investigate. listen, don't just start throwing accusations. we know the Fulani herdsmen do these things but beneath the surface, these aren't just herdsmen. terrorists have come here and are masquerading as herdsmen. the main purpose of behaving like fulanis is to confuse the suspecting public. it has been well orchestrated. it may truly be Fulani herdsmen, I'm not contending that with you but there's more to it than meets the eye. that governor knows something we don't. infact I can bet with you that there had been intelligence reports before this attack but they weren't given the required attention. watch the events that would follow and you'll see the culprits

Babaken:
SORRY FOR USING THAT WORD IN THE FIRST PLACE .


There's nothing impossible as Nigeria is concern but that will be the last thing IPOB or ESN will think of if you watch most of those atrocities going on in south east they are been carried out by some criminals claiming to be ipob or esn why those groups are not in support of it just like what you are saying some kidnapping going in south east are been carried out by fulani's which most people has testify about it. If only Nigeria police and military do their investigation properly most of all these perpetrators would have been arrested and unmask for see their true identity and those behind them.

I support this statement. You're correct. The Fulani people are mostly implicated in this issue because of their previous misdeeds. I won't be surprised if they're the culprits cos these gunmen must hate christians so much. Terrorists have creeped into the South. It's a pity and the Nigerian military has been compromised. It's only left for us to defend ourselves

tishbite41:
lol
u must be mad
wetin concern simon ekpa and owo

mad like you. you're really myopic and I don't expect anything good to come from you.

Babaken:
you see the reason why you need to go for mental check up.

mental checkup you say? do you think these atrocities are committed by herdsmen alone? can't you see that there are individuals masquerading as Fulani herdsmen to Carry out these attacks? I know the Fulani people can be problematic but there's something sinister going on. this could also be Iswap or bokoharam. they are slowly creeping into the South

for some reason, this thing looks carefully planned to make people believe it's Fulani herdsmen. I'm not saying Fulani herdsmen can't do this but think about it, what if this is Simon ekpa's plan in destabilizing the west and use that to bring the west to think they have no other option than to side with IPOB against the north. Fulani came and shot sporadically at people in the church while giving away their identities. hmmm... something is going on. just some days ago, police caught some people hiding guns in bags of rice and those ammunitions where headed for the east. later, people were quick to mention Fulani herdsmen.
what is going on? Are these people actually Fulani herdsmen?