Autos › Re: Sold out Fairly Used Toyota Corolla @ V.I 3.3m by kirchofff(m): 5:17am On Mar 19, 2025 |
[quote author=Offpointng post=134597823]You need to upgrade your English learning skill to know what Fairly used means
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Business › Re: Americans Dump Tesla Shares As Loosing Streaks Continues by kirchofff(m): 6:12pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
SouthSouth1914: Elon’s romance with politicians especially Trump is not good for his personal business. I said this before Trumps Inauguration. Any scandal with the current government, his Tesla shares will be worth next to nothing. Remember, all government are full of scandals! the problem is not actually with Trump's administration. It's when trump leaves office and a democat gets there. He will hear pepper |
Phones › Re: Is Oraimo Powerjet Powerbank The Best Powerbank For Your Laptop? (Photos) by kirchofff(m): 11:22am On Feb 03, 2025 |
faceland: Only ₦80k.
Just yesterday I took a ₦250k loan that I would pay ₦450k back so I could purchase a power station for 3x this price. I wish I saw this post before purchasing. What power station did you buy  |
Business › Re: What Do I Do. Someone Claimed He Sent Me Money But I Havent Seen It For 24 Hours by kirchofff(m): 8:06am On May 20, 2023 |
victorbass1234: the person is not even tqking ny calls How far, was it scam? |
Celebrities › Re: Costa Titch's Family Confirms His Death by kirchofff(m): 10:07pm On Mar 12, 2023 |
thebosstrevor1: It might be drugs that lead to his death on stage.
Most artists are always high on drugs when performing What about cardiac arrest, isn’t that also a real thing? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Previous Company Sued Me To Court After I Got Another Job With A Company. by kirchofff(m): 3:12pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
This is nuts. Find a legal person first. That wouldn't charge a lot to look at the documents. I can recommend one if you don't mind. Hit my dms |
Family › Re: ADHD: My Experience And How It Has Affected My Life by kirchofff(m): 6:11pm On May 12, 2022 |
Hausa: Hi, there. Do you have ADHD, too? Yes I do. Mail me @ keepdoing10@gmail.com lets discuss coping mechanisms |
Travel › Re: 17 Travellers Burn To Death In Fatal Crash On Lagos-Ibadan Expressway (Graphic) by kirchofff(m): 5:42pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Hoo Lee sheet. These pictures are too gory |
Politics › Re: Troops Ambush & Kill Terrorists In Yobe State (Photos) by kirchofff(m): 4:42pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
haiti007: Why blurring the faces of the dead terrorist?  It's too gory. They can be sued for it. You don't just put images that can give people anxiety out there. |
Health › Re: My Near-Death Experience At Radisson Blu Hotel In Lagos By Victor Asemota by kirchofff(m): 1:54pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Omo |
Business › Using an Escrow service is a most when dealing online.. by kirchofff(op): 12:11pm On Aug 30, 2021*. Modified: 6:29pm On Sep 04, 2021 |
I have been scammed online, countlessly. So bad that I wanted to go find the dude and kill him. Chai, that was my last 2k. I couldn’t suppress my anger so I latched out on everyone around me. It hurt. So bad. All I wanted to use the money for at the time was to buy data with half the money and feed with the rest as an undergrad. An unknown fellow robbed me of that and probably spent it on rubbish! This is one of my numerous scam ordeals while trading online, but I know I am not the only one on this table. For some reason, I know some other people experience is worst than mine. The anger and confusion that arouses after been scammed is often the same but at different levels. We remember those events now and just laugh at them because they are already behind us, right? Well I don’t always laugh. I still curse the guy that ran away with my 2k. Here is the Million-naira security question I ask myself. ‘What if there was a platform I could use to securely trade at the time and avoided being scammed?’, ‘What if I had asked for a middleman during the trade?” Man, that 2k was all I had at the time – I slept with my eyes opened that night. Don’t be like me! Use objescrow.com The community of scammers vouch for themselves now a days so asking for vouch don’t cut it, use objescrow.com instead.
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Romance › Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by kirchofff(m): 9:41am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Omicron007: Hello fellow Nairalanders, There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends. I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers. I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected. We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times. We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex. Being fickle minded is a big sign of borderline personality disorder
She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.
I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.
According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle. Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.
I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend. I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.
Help a bro. Your comments are highly anticipated.
©Omicron007 Being fickle minded is a big sign of borderline personality disorder. Does her mood change frequently  |
Travel › Re: Uber, Bolt drivers threaten To Go On Indefinite Strike From Monday by kirchofff(m): 5:38pm On Apr 17, 2021 |
lekki1444:
and why is it that all uber drivers use toyota corolla ? fuel economy and easy maintenance |
Family › Re: My Lazy Girlfriend Lacks Ambition And She's Pregnant For Me!!! by kirchofff(m): 4:38pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
jondon11: So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.
I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.
She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.
I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).
Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference? 
Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.
I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.
I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.
What can I do??
 if you ask me, I don't think she is lazy. She might be having a mental illness like depression or adhd that makes people lack the motivation to do things like house chores. Just discover what she loves doing and you'll be stunned. |
Travel › Re: Meet Flt Lt Piyo Piyo, The Co-pilot Of The Crashed King Air 350 In Abuja by kirchofff(m): 10:15pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Profayo: The fear is crashing is one of my biggest fears when flying, if you've almost had a near crash before, you will understand what I am saying do you care to share your "near" crash experience? |
Investment › How Can I Invest 200k Online In 2021 by kirchofff(op): 2:29am On Jan 18, 2021 |
I have one 200k that I'm not currently using, I need an online business I can invest in. I don't need any physical investment or ponzi or forex. I just want other advices to invest online asides the stuffs I mentioned above.
ps: advice me here, don't request that we talk privately.
I will be looking forward to your insightful answers. thanks. |
Sports › Re: Okocha Reveals Players Rohr Needs To Succeed With Super Eagles by kirchofff(m): 4:23pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
Iwobi is trash abeg |
Crime › Re: 2-year-old Girl Raped & Beaten To Death By Mother's Boyfriend In South Africa by kirchofff(m): 5:39pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Psychopathic motherfvcker |
Romance › Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by kirchofff(m): 1:41pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE? point or correction. 35 years of self service |
Family › Re: ADHD: My Experience And How It Has Affected My Life by kirchofff(m): 8:10am On Sep 14, 2020 |
BrownCarton: Thanks brother.
I always thought I could train my mind... But it feels hard... Like a constant battle with my mind... A never ending spinning wheel. But thanks again do you procrastinate too  Kindly mail me at keepdoing10@gmail.com let's talk better. I have adhd and I understand you very well. |
Health › Re: White Tongue After Unprotected Sex: Please Doctors In The House I Need Your Help by kirchofff(m): 8:04am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Ekakamba: Oga based on the stated symptoms, see below possible results. Avoid skin to skin, it ain't worth it (after this event, I know nobody go advise you).
Keep Calm. what site is this please? thank you. |
Technology Market › Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by kirchofff(m): 7:17am On Feb 28, 2020 |
Mercykayy: Mine doesn’t use a capacitor but AVR. does avr or capacitor increase the kva of a Gen? |
Technology Market › Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by kirchofff(m): 7:52pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Mercykayy: Any help please  this Gen cannot power that fridge. I have a similar Gen and it won't power a mini fridge (smaller than the one you posted) |
Crime › Re: Graphic Photos From The Ondo Bank Robbery Attack by kirchofff(m): 7:03am On Feb 07, 2020 |
LordAzubuike: You can't even spell it correctly. Lol... and who gives a hoot? You're just a sick Troll and I'm done replying you. |
Crime › Re: Graphic Photos From The Ondo Bank Robbery Attack by kirchofff(m): 8:38pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
LordAzubuike: Hunting gun? Lol this one na illiterate o. you be mumu, I am talking about short guns aka hunting guns |
Crime › Re: Graphic Photos From The Ondo Bank Robbery Attack by kirchofff(m): 7:40pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
uruba23: Isn't that someone's brain on the floor what kind of assault weapon was used. looks like a big caliber rifle.... Eg hunting gun |
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Music/Radio › Re: 2019: Your Best Local And International Artistes/Songs? by kirchofff(m): 7:26pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I Express Myself Better In Writing Than In Speaking. by kirchofff(op): 10:09pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
Starz825: You can't be a good writer if u not a good reader... You can't be a good speaker if u not a good listener. what did you smoke?? |
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Phones › Re: I Have 50k To Get A New Phone, Suggest The Best Phone For Me Please by kirchofff(m): 10:23am On Aug 28, 2019 |
Seuntek: does it av AMOLED DISPLAY or IPS LCD do you know that iPhones use IPS LCD |
Family › Re: Help, I'm An Alcoholic! by kirchofff(m): 3:23pm On Jul 22, 2019 |
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