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Xiadnat:
Mostly because men have a very FRAGILE ego !!!!! Women, for being called the weaker sex, are in all actuality, the stronger sex.

Psychologically, biologically, socially and evolutionarily; in any way you slice and dice it; women are more sophisticated and evolved cortex in terms of survival.

Case in point: how many men can undergo the pain of child birth. Have you seen a man sick with a cold? Lawd have mercy, they're such babies.

Some never outgrow sucking mamma's boobies!!!!! I guess that's why they are still fixated on boops. Choi. Vestigial indeed.

Talk about...............mtchew!

Biased & baseless.

uyosolo:
True talk bro,it takes experience to agree wit d OP nd see his point of view...i ws a vry strict person b4 i met my delilah nd she enjoyd my demise nd made me hate myslf d more...cos even me did nt knw whr i ws headin to...i ws knwn as unpleasable,nd didnt send any lady or cudnt imagine behavin lik some foolish guys,bt wasnt my folly more,i cud imagine her nd her frnds sittin 2geda nd laughin at my demise...dey say a word is enouf 4d wise...esp 2 doz dats its stil early nd doz dat hv a 2nd chance...its ova a yr,nd i stil languishin in pains,hv seen all my joy nd hapines turn 2 a dead ocean...yet d feelins r stil had 2let go...i dnt even pray 4 my enemies 2be in my shoes...one day i wud tel d ful story *wipes tears frm eyes,puts up a fake smile nd continues work*

Broda u don't need to wallow in self pity, abi your own pass samson own? Just see it as part of the vicissitude u had to go through, to enable u face subsequent challenges. It happened once, no big deal, everyman u see out there have his own story.

IYANGBALI:
under the law,he needs members of the national assembly 2/3 of them to get rid of Jega. Unless he is no more the democrat that he claimed

U're right.

smithy90:
This story quite real! I am moving on but I have his wife now actually wanting to be involved and make sure he is involved like updating on my scans due date appointments and I don't understand why he should be getting off his black arse and doing it himself,nope not my first love there's more about me but I don't like to post other stuff about my life but I don't really care for men anymore I've been put right off,I don't care if he isn't there financially,but now he can do what he wants my main concern my child my own personal life and my family

Alright.

But u really need to be philosophical about this, things will fall into place with time & u'll be happy. But what about your mum, u gonna need her.

SuperModerator:
Funny, he doesn't have the constututional powers.

He needs 2/3 of the legislators and there is no way he can achieve that cause APC won't agree

Don't underestimate the power of govt. We all thought there would be hell to pay if elections were postponed, yet he succeeded in postponing the elections, & nothing happened. What makes u to think the deposing of jega won't be possible?

smithy90:
Well I met this guy,he said he was seperated from wife,so beleived fell for his sweet talk,now am pregnant he doesn't want to know and is very much still with his wife,I told her and he thinks I was out to destroy his marridge when I wasn't,he lied to me and her,I wouldn't off gone near him if I knew he was still with her but now am pregnant he made it very clear he doesn't want to know,should I just leave him too it and carry alone or try make him see sense

I feel your plight, if d story is actually valid. U just need to move on, don't be disillusioned, u'll definitely find a more honest man sooner than u think, but don't transfer your vindictive sensibilities to him.

Is he your first love? & do u have the financial muscle to cater for your unborn child? Because u can't hinge on such a man for financial assistance.

kelvinmuffins3:
That makes you foolish because you were too blind with fake love and deaf with sweet words..
Next time be smart because love does not make us stup!d.

What are u saying? Love doesn't make us to do stupid things? Love can propel anyone to reach the peak of his folly. It does make us to do d unthinkable bro.

No try love o!

apluz:
Hey pals, I ve been tamed a "bad boy" where I live. I have bad rep with women and they all gossip abt me to every new girl I meet. Thing is, I onced lived the life of a player, flirting with so many girls and its haunting me ever since ve changed. I want to settle down with this girl I really love. But pple still gossip abt me and my past life to her and its making her doubt my love for her. Pls guys any tips on how I can redeem my self image ??

If she's having any misgivings about your love for her, give her time. If she doesn't come back, it only means her love for u wasn't strong. Why would she place baseless rumblings before u? Thought u were once a badt guy, so u should be strong enough to let her go. I doubt if that girl likes u.

Op is absolutely right.

But not every guy out there can understand this. U can only assimilate what d op wrote after a break up with your first love @least. All that d op wrote can be summed up in just one word 'pushover'. No woman wants a pushover for a guy, they all want a man that can lead the way, not someone they can lead.

That was why our grandmothers treated our forefathers like gods, they called them appellative like 'my lord' not baby. They never compromised their position as the head for anything, they all imbibe the attributes of a king, they were not fond of kneeling before women, because of frivolous dissensions, they were never sighted washing a woman's clothe, undies or succumbing to her ridiculous demands, they epitomised the ideal man God created.

But men of present days are always begging, always on the compromising end, always yielding to her induces, always talking about p*unny as if their lives depend on it, even when it's obvious the woman is at fault. They epitomised the henpecked man, & believing me God take a dim view of their actions. It's saddening how love is increasingly compromising the male authority in any relationship.

Amongst all the point, surrendering is paramount. Every guy should try to disagree with his woman when she does sth wrong, when u allow a woman to have her way all the time, u end up spoiling her. God created men to rule over women, because every woman is a follower by nature, but when u make her to be in-charge, probably because of love, then she will misuse that position, because women were never wired to lead.

But love, this emotion is so vortex, someone may be saying I don't have time for girls & all that. Just pray love doesn't strike, it can bring the most powerful man to his knees. It happened to samson, so guys need to be equipped with this kind of materials beforehand, so when the vortex domineering power of love strikes, u can contain it.

I implore every guy to absorb this piece.

Op u're d man.... I greet u.

justmag:
I will mess him up. Which I have done before. I punched a guy for beating up a girl.

I just can't hit a woman...it's partly due to my upbringing and because I have seen the effects it has on a woman. It's not wise.

U punched a guy because of a girl? U can't hit a woman? Your comments exudes d mentality of a man raised under d eyes of a female. I presume u spent most of your time with your mum while growing up, probably she instilled this kind of feminine mentality into u.

katzz:
I salute u!

Why d salutation?

justmag:
listen and listen well. Hitting or harming a woman is something a woman can't recover from easily. I have so many friends that have emotional injuries from events from years ago. It better to walk away or kick her out of your home.

If she knw she can't recuperate swiftly, let her behave herself. Any man that tolerate a woman to the extent of insulting his parents is nothing but a weak man. The op did made mention of the girl referring to him as a weak man, I will say the op is somewhat weak, to have allowed things to degenerate to this obnoxiously obsteperous stage, bespeaks he was never in-charge.

Abrasive women needs tough hand...

EggovinMma:
I no fit hold am sef.

I believe u... Gudnite.

Fourwinds:
no he is not remorseful. it is because he has been caught dats y he is carrying a long face. a remorseful person willingly comes to d open to apologise without being caught or coerse

Hmmm... I'm not trying to Justify what he did in any way, but I think every sinner deserves a second chance.

Slp well.

EggovinMma:
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaàaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttttttt? ?,
Can someone get be a Guuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn, this dude needs his head blown off! Jesus!

Lol... U go fit shoot gun?

I like this.

What a brave move! This qualifies her to be heroine of love. I implore other females to emulate her bravery.

Godmother:
It happened o. The baby was rushed to the hospital but I don't think she survived

Incredible!!!
But how d man take penetrate nau? D man get mind o!

EggovinMma:
What about using stapler to staple his balls? E go make sense o.

Jesus

How can a girl be this hard-hearted? Women are supposed to be more sympathetic.

Just because of ordinary rape, u want to staple his balls? It's not good nau....

MRLINGTON:
Looking like a political thug


Bastard!

Bros take am easy, na just ordinary rape o! No be murder.

Godmother:
Rape cases are getting to much and the kind of victims leave you wondering. A man will rape a 6 months old baby or a 2 year old child or a pregnant woman. There are 500 naira oloshos out there if the konji is so serious naa

Lol... 6 months old baby? Where u for hear dat one?

Emmy157:
Kill him ;Ddead by hanging

This is rather too harsh. He should be killed for a non harmful rape? Haba! U don't have d fear of God, christ save d adulterous woman, what will be your gain if this guy is jailed, can't u see how remorseful the guy is.

clubone0502:
Na wa...only weak men rape...I don't get why his face is still looking normal. ..

Blatant lie!!! It should be d other way round. Weak men are fearful, they crave for peace, they can never engage in such an Illicit act, they hardly initiate sex even when in bed with their spouse, let alone rape. Wicked men like armed robbers, cultists, kidnappers & d likes rape women.

zingo42:
may God forgive you! Are u ok?

May God forgive me 4 my benevolence?

Am just trying to be kind. U as a lady even ought to be more sympathetic. What will be your gain, if d poor okada guy is jailed. That will only means truncating another destiny, let's shame d devil by giving him room for repentance. His high libido can be keep in check by giving him a wife, it will be more better than wasting his life in prison for a non harmful rape.

Remember christ save d adulterous woman, save this poor okada guy by espousing my point.

I'm perfectly alright.
Zingo save a soul!!!

Dapo777:
Being a guy comes with some downsides too.

1)Lots of attention.
Guys envy girls for this. The girls get all the attention everywhere they go,Facebook,twitter,instagram ,its a girls world online. What about offline,girls still get all the attention. If a guy and a girl should ask for the same help,the girl has 85% more chances of getting helped. So annoying

2)Girls are always right.
In an argument,a guy can never win it,he must give up for the girl to win the argument,also a guy cannot hit a girl even if the girl is hitting him,its not fair.

3)Girls are wooed.
Girls get wooed and flattered all the time,their ego are nurtured 24/7 but a guy is left with his own ego to carter by himself. So sad

4)Lesbians are more tolerated than gays.
Lesbians are more accepted than gays generally,even straight people get turned on by lesbians and not gays. So sad for the gays.

5)Girls enjoy sex more.
Ohhh gush this is the most annoying, imagine me doing all the work ,pounding her like my life depends on her punny only for her to be screaming in ecstacy ,enjoying all the thrill. The kind of intense orgasm girls have ehn,it makes guys fascinate about what its like to have an orgasm as a girl. To make matters worse,they have multiple orgasm. clitoral own is there,vaginal own is there,g spot own is there, even nipples orgasm is there. BUT WHY?

6)Girls manipulate guys without getting noticed.
They know all the tricks in the book. They manipulate guys and we guys don't see it as manipulation, is it through tears? Through sex? Through sweet words? Chaiii guys have suffered. We even pay for the sex they are enjoying more. Wtf?

7)Women are more sympathetic than men.
Women generally can show more sympathy than men. Some men can't be taught be importance of sympathy, not all men tho,but generally women have the upper hand.

Women do less work
Since they are considered weaker vessel,they do less work wherever they are,on a general note. Men are handled with iron hand while women are pampered and they still get the same reward with the guys or even higher reward.

Well that's it.

Baseless!!!

Infact, d creation of female was born out of after thought. Why will any sane man envy a product of after thought?

#closedcasket#

Rexhandsome:
If you haven't checked your girl's Facebook inbox,twitter direct messages,e-mail account,bbm,phone text messages,WhatsApp messages etc...DON'T MARRY HER!

So u think prying into her private msg guarantees a lasting & peaceful marriage? I doubt bro.

menix:
@OP.... U nid b a man nd tell her ur mind, its U, u dont nid advise to b U.
The truth is u cant stop being a Man U fan cous her nd u cant afford d 30-40mins call except ur financial status ve changed.

Bro. one thing i ve neva hidden frm them is Wen it Chelsea tym we talk later.
Wen am wiv fwendz ur tym will come..

D last tym i hanged out wiv my fwend i had to go beg d gal fwend not to get angry we spent more than 10mins i took permission for, u could imagine wat ur life would b if u aint a man...

Jst take a look at der comment, 90% share gene wiv ur gal....

Your comment exudes d perception of a real man. Love is increasingly compromising the power of our men. The world need more of your likes to redress the balance.

Op u're d cause.

U gave her room to misbehave & become this recalcitrant. U're not even ashamed to create this kind of thread, ur wife beat u! U were looking @ her, ignoring her nasty, officious attitude hoping to be a good man. Probably u were one of those dat confided in specious notions like 'real men don't beat their wife', whereas d converse is d case.

Like I always tell men, there is what I call corrective beating, is part of discipline, & should be implemented @ d initial stage of any vestige of disrespect on her part. Don't forget u're d head, if anything goes wrong, u definitely will be held accountable. U should learn to fix things early enough, because of ur passivity u can now see she is trying to turn u against ur family, which is unacceptable, because of ur being to quiet to a fault.

Women are wired like children, they need iron hand, because they are illogically inclined. Don't be deluded by what they say, u often hear them saying any man that hit a women is less than a man, they say this to enable them do things with impunity.

My advise; put it bluntly, let her know ur family is very important to u, any further interference from her may change her skin, & if she persist with her unruly behaviour, divorce her. Don't feel bad when they call u a wife beater, corporal punishment can sometimes be d only way to redress a woman's wrong.

Don't be a slave by love, never allow her or any other woman to come between u & ur primary family, u knew them before her.

I know the joint account thing must have been her initiative, so she can use it as a manipulative tool @ times like this.
Any kids?

U pple should stop lambasting d poor okada guy, no be just rape. Seems like d female corper enjoyed it. Moreover it doesn't seem like a deliberate act, it was done out of konji intoxication, probably it was late & d weather was cold. No be him fault, but he should be chide, to avert future occurrence.

senorova:
Na sermon...
Mumu

Lol.....My guy wetin dey pain u nau? E Neva reach insult na.... It's not obligatory u must comment, u can just observe & save ur data, if u don't have any meaningful contribution.

My real guy...

ceteure:
I have learnt in life that the world is what it is and we are who we are!

This ur lesson is somewhat convoluted, can u be a little bit more explicit.

zyzxx:
Life is full of up and down

Freindzone urself b4 a lady freindzone u

Na lesson be this? Or u just wan comment?

diddydiva:
trust God.

trust not yourself because you dont know who you are but what you are made of

I get ur drift sha.

But I trust God plenty, & trust some pple small. U can't do everything all by urself. Every day we hear numerous cases of fatal motor accidents, plane crash, but pple still travel by air & land everyday. I knw d hrt of man is full of evil thoughts, but we still need to take d risk of trusting someone, dat person could be ur sibling,spouse,friend... Saying u won't trust anyone, seems like a mirage. Personally o!

I'm beginning to trust u already