₦airaland Forum

Okoroemekah:
➜i don't believe you.there is no enjoyment in old age.a man suppose to be flexing from his early 20s when you are still very strong and active. i am 50 now and believe me most check engine lights on my body is on.is it at that age you will start flexing ? If you have nothing at 40yrs you have missed a lot sincerely the best part of a man's life is from 20 to 40 that is when you marry.build house.buy car .raise children.but I guess every body is built differently.
➜ Some have zero drive and ambition. While some have the mental power to succeed

SIRTee15:
➜So what other protein should bring in as substitute? Egg? A crate of egg is 6k. Titus is the commonest fish. U want to try catfish, stockfish or dry fish. Dey play Btw, it's a must u eat fruits and vegetables everyday as a portion. That's how u keep sickness away and stay healthy in old age. Balanced diet is now a luxury in that country- 50k can't get u balanced diet for a family of 3.
As I said earlier, it's up to u if u think the whole family should share one piece of meat as protein in a day. People did it and they survived.
But as far as I'm concerned, that's poverty. Nobody should live like that. Finally, Take this advice from me as a health practitioner - make sure u eat a whole portion of fruits and vegetables EVERYDAY. Also eat lots of fish Add exercise join- 4 times per week of cardio exercise
What u eat today determines your state of health and fitness in 10 years.

Olawrites:
➜This is true, don't let any woman deceive you. You won't understand this until you're into the marriage as a man. Endless bills, nagging, etc Marriage favors women...all in marriage is endless bills and at the end the children will still prefer their mum to their dad.

Tailorcaesar:
Bro I no go force person daughter to follow me oooo If she sees my financial status and feels like to join me, who am I to stop her....But please note this I believe die hard hustler I no dey stay one place

Ellioto076:
➜I don't think God or Jesus approved your desicion. You denied him sex...

Thomas1186:
➜PLS I NEED URGENT ADVISE AND SOLUTION! Each time our marriage breaks, my business gets stuck and all manners of evils happen to me at the same time.
We did a couple of business together before she suddenly became attractive to me one day when I saw her. I wooed her and we dated for just 2 months and got married the third month.
Few weeks into the marriage I discovered she had a traveling bag full of celestial materials like oils, crosses, perfumes, candles, to mention but a few. When I confronted her, her brother called and told me not to be angry that they are celestial members, whereas she told me she is a Roman Catholic. This was the beginning of discoveries.
Later on, I realised she lied to me about her parents, health condition, age and almost everything else. She is a lawyer. She hates everyone around her, doesn't forgive and she has no friend. When I'm sleeping, she search my phone, pockets and bags.
One night, she was watching a movie on her phone and she slept off, so as I picked it, I saw her chat with her male lawyer friend. I realised that everything we discuss at home, she chats it with the guy and also told the guy to prepare a prenuptial agreement for her, that would State that at the end of our marriage, everything we bought together would be hers. So, the lawyer asked her how she was going to get me to sign the agreement, and she said she was going to get me to sign it without knowing it. And a lot more. She began to accuse me of women, and infidelity.
Fast forward, there were so many problems that I had to send her away and immediately after that, everything was upside down for me: my business was stuck, I was duped of a huge amount of money. I had an accident and I couldn't walk. Everything was in jeopardy.
➜ We finally came back together and her character and attitude, disrespect for me, my family and friends etc, became times three. It got to a point that I was almost running mad. It became totally unbearable and I had to finally send her away. But before then, I calculated everything she has ever contributed financially to my life and I refunded her. Then I told her it can't work that I cannot continue. that she should leave.
➜ And that happened about 4 months ago. From the moment I gave her that money, everything becomes stuck. I either have a client who would agree to do business but after then, he or she would never call again or take my calls. But if he or she takes my call and is ready to pay, minutes before they make payment someone else would make the payment. I am into real estate. This has been the case for the past 4 months. The truth is that she doesn't eat catfish and sometimes make statements like can you come home I want to pray for you so that your business will work come and let me pray for you.
➜ Another problem is that her younger brother is like a god that sits for her. She reports everything that happened in our marriage to him. He was the commander and decision maker of everything. The one who sent her perfumes and oils once a little thing happens. I have prayed and prayed but still my business no longer works at all. It's just disappointment now. I have requested for my Downy and it's been refunded. Pls help.

Hhh4444:
➜Many people really need reorientation of the mind. How can someone still have this kind of mindset in this 2025 It's absurd.

Kaczynski:
Very wrong Almost 9 in 10 nigerians are going through some mental health crisis and we cope with it by drinking 3-4 bottles of alchol, constantly going to church and over feeding ourselves.

Hhh4444:
➜Nice one,some of them are hoping their children would rescue them from porverty. Very uselezz mindset to have.

KnowledgePower7:
➜Others are advancing and evolving. You are going backwards to the ways of your ancestors by walking nude.
➜ You should go back to fetching water from river to drink since your ancestors didn't have borehole water or GP tank.
➜ Also stop using phones as your ancestors didn't use phones to communicate.

KnowledgePower7:
➜maybe that is what we are missing.
➜That is why nudity and depravity has multiplied Because kids no longer get disciplined like before. See te level of shameless people on TikTok and Onlyfans. If they had parents like old parents not these woke mumu new age parents that don't discipline their kids

budaatum:
➜ My African Nigerian parents respect me their child, so I have learnt as well as I can to respect others regardless of their age, gender, color, wealth, etc., unless they show they don't deserve it, then gloves off.
P.s. I have commented on Nairaland like 40k times, so you can read my post history and share or quote the ones where I have been disrespectful to see if I walk my talk, at least more than I don't, and where I haven't, if it is deserved.

ChizzyBuna:
➜You are clearly not a Nigerian. 98% of Nigerian parents demand absolute respect and obidence. When you disagree with them it is labeled as insult or disrespect.
I have seen my boss been commanded by his father and this man is grown with kids. I have heard his father call him a fool Infront of us all.. African parents don't give a sh** if you grown they still see you as a kid in their eyes

Cromagnon:
anyone who will let his lineage die out nko What are they ? You may choose to run and hide, ppl fight on

lecowas:
✓ Lol... If you are trying to encourage someone, you can do better... Many married people that promote singleness will never even consider divorce... Never. So who is deceiving whom?

Mrkc:
I'm in my 40s, single, and jobless. Tired of life

mhmsadyq:
➜Ok. What is the point if the financial security cannot secure the longevity of a marriage that is suppose to be a life time union.
➜ Anyways, financial status can change at any point in a marriage.

babajero:
just keep on observing till you clock 80 by then your eyes go clear.

Labeebhabiby:
As if na so e easy u no put hospital bills oo, sickness na part of life

mhmsadyq:
➜How much one senator get before him marry one actress. How far d marriage go?

irumole1975:
➜Yes. Men are more intelligent than women. It’s the realm 89% of Nobel prize winner has been men. I know you’ll dash me with “but women were only allowed to go to school in 2020” I’ll wait

uuzba:
➜I know the man will be prepared to manage. It is the woman that brings the problem. If she goes to office, or church meeting, she will see other women, hear how rich those ones are then come back home and stop managing with her husband.

Tailorcaesar:
➜Remember you said marriage not breeding kids. And I don't fold my hands all tru the month, am a man I do hustle, hold evening classes and so on. But wait oooo....why will I be dreaming of a car with 40k salary ? If I try that in my dreams make EFCC come arrest me cos na tif dey enter my eye

Tailorcaesar:
➜Bro I trek to school my house is 5minutes to school and 10minutes to my church

Lexusgs430:
✓ Why is it a union, if only the man is expected to lift financially....... 🙄

BodyCount:
✓ I'm sure it's her mother that's raising her and no father figure at all. I'm sure if there was a responsible man in her life, you won't have the effrontery to even be dating her as an underage... Now tell me, will you want a guy like you to be in your daughter of underage life like yourself? In fact, will you want to have a daughter like her?

22o62021:
✓ And wheelbarrow pushers are married with 4 children, feeding well.
Many of you want to show off, if your kids don't attend private schools, you will see it as a failure
My salary per month is unstable. Some months I may see 100k. Others 300k Not a salary earner sha

ROK123:
You purposely said that, and it's an insult, what do you mean by grow and BE wise?? You no know sey nah underage you dey friend before?? Person wey just turn 18 abi nah because the mama know about the relationship
How about her telling you to " have sense and become rich/start making money" at your own birthday?? I know sey you no go sleep that day
Accept your mistake abeg, don't be that " I'm always right" kind of man jare. Be praying for her on your own, not shaming her

RollinTNDA:
✓ ✓ As someone born in early 90's I have always kept my distance from gen z people.
Here is why
I noticed that the moment you try to reason with them. They immediately think you are there mate. Respect flies out the window During my time, I related with my seniors abd never felt like I was in their level.
✓ But these gen z ppl the moment you try to hang out or chit chat the next thing they begin to treat you like you are age mates.Both girls and guys.
Am I the only one who noticed this?

Ten06:
This is what you see when you date teenagers. They are not mature enough to comprehend a simple encouragement phrase. And you are not also mature enough to handle it personally without coming here

Munashak:
U just needed to have added "r" to the "wise".
Na u get fault sir