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Snow2six:
➜Na ppl lik una de gv dt Jenny and junkie mouth for ds forum..u de pet her so she go want u or what?? No b d Jenny de her profile so? I fit swear say na only online dem ds1 fit talk..Mek dem com out com c beta gals

Why does even that threaten you, though?

bigpicture001:
➜.....Growing up, it's is a normal for me. We gather around parents to watch them kill the Christmas animal as we wait for it processing ND eventual cooking and serving in the menu
Now after understanding animal cruelty and also growing human conscience, I, now see such acts as barbaric...
Also grabbing, the fowl by it feathers while on a bike through the long road to the house or on it's legs and placing them upside down

. Killing animals has always been barbaric. I was not comfortable with the sight as a child. So, I would rather that it not be done in front of kids— let them choose whether to watch or not.

GenFunction:
➜Like I said,u obviously know nothing about value and its not a crime. Your last paragraph gave u out and on this note I rest my case.

What you are telling me is that there exists some phantom standard which you refer to as values and distinction and those who do not adhere to this phantom standard you hold to are not necessarily criminals or guilty of any crimes against their fellow man. Of what use or need is this standard to anyone, including myself, since I refuse to even pretend I have any idea what you are even going on and on about?

This is sort of like listening to dem religious f0rkjobs try to tell me "god said this, god said that.." knowing fully well I don't subscribe/smoke or partake of their particular delusions. Come on,meen! You know you shouldn't go around trying to impose these ideas on everyone out there.

GenFunction:
➜Don't allow poverty make u not know the difference btwn value and no value Not because she's a girl,get it straight. I'm talking about values and distinction,I hope u understand

All of this is more gibberish that explains absolutely nothing of what you are driving at. She is a woman of her own, and her net worth is more than most of your poverty-riddled people can amass in a lifetime. So, where is the bad belle coming from if not that she is a young woman who has used what she has to achieve so much in just 24 years?

GenFunction:
➜I leave u to ur definition of value and distinction

You have to explain to me why she is not allowed to openly express herself in this manner. What is it about what she said that offends you? That her Pucci value is worth nothing less than 20 million or what?

Would you have been happier if she had said You don't need to pay any money at all to get her to open her legs to you? I mean, what exactly are you getting at here?

GenFunction:
➜We are talking about value and distinction. I hope u understand this.

Value and distinction? She has so many made more value out of her life than her parents have put into her since she was born, looking at her net worth, and she didn't need to harm anyone to achieve that. What is wrong with that?

And when you talk of distinction, 99% of us all will never attain that in this lifetime, so what in the world are you on about? You ask if I understand. What I understand is that you are desperately grasping at straws here, trying to bring this girl down because she is a girl and not because of any crime she supposedly committed.

GenFunction:
➜Lol. None of the above. ➜But u no go like born pikin like saida shey? Abi u go like?

Given her net worth and her age, I say she is doing much better than many of her peers. I have yet to find any articles stating that her parents have come out to say they are not happy she is their child. So, wetin be your own? Na bad belle abi wetin?

For that Nigerian, una go hail drug dealer, yahooyahoo boy, even dirty politicians are hailed daily, though they all commit crimes and ruin the lives of others by it. But the moment una see woman wey dey do her own thing, no dey harm anyone, una go come out in droves to condemn her, why? No be pure bad belle that one be?

GenFunction:
Girl child nau. Imagine how saida boj mama go dey feel after all this wasted effort.

What wasted effort? Is she a criminal? Is she a bandit/kidnapper(I know Nigerian government no dey treat those ones as criminals naw)?

SIRTee15:
In naija, girls are harder to raise due to financial pressure.
In western countries, boys are harder to train especially black boys. So long as u push girl child along the religious line, she will be fine.

I am sorry, what? Indoctrinating girls makes them better? Do all of your pastor's daughters turn out this fine?

fredagu:
I was promised 300k if I can withstand weed for 2weeks please what's the best way to do it any suggestions for the record I am addicted already

Did you, at least, make certain to get a contract clearly stating the terms and conditions of this deal, so that the person cannot renege on the agreement afterwards?

Be sure to inform your family members of what you are trying to embark on, and make certain they have ready shackles and chains, and possibly the address of a good psychiatric hospital if things start to go to hell for you afterwards.

I have no right to discourage you, as I do not know how much you need that money. My advice would be to drink lots of water every day to help flush more toxins out of your body, eat well—lots more protein, fruits, and vegetables—, and try to exercise regularly to help sweat out as much of that stuff as possible. Start today practicing mental self-reflection and self-regulation so you do not get overwhelmed by your emotions.

The key here, I think, is to ensure that no matter what, you are not overwhelmed by your emotions to the point of succumbing. That could be fatal. Otherwise, Goodluck!

tollyboy5:
Is feminism cultural?

Do you know what feminism is?

professore:
Both you need to keep the girl safe from sexual predators and the boy safe from bad companies.✓ Meanwhile, boys are also vulnerable to sexual predators and girls are also vulnerable to bad companies.

So, boys don't equally need to be kept from sexual predators? 😩😩

2. Oh, boys are but you ignore that to hyperfocus on monitoring your gals and never the boys? There are a lot of boys out there who were sexually molested as children that grew into men who now sexually molest other children including girls. Many of the fixation Nigerian men have on dating young girls(some small boys in secret) comes from trauma and abuse they endured in their childhood. 😩😩😩

Hezzyluv:
Neither of them is easy to raise. However, make sure you play ya part very very well, by teaching them the right principles "when them never even start to dey seat" Also, not forgetting the potency of prayers too.

Pray more than pastors some of whom have kids that are sexually promiscuous by their religious standards or addicted to one thing or another? 🤔

Your Prayers do not raise better children, abeg! 😩😩😩

eepeepook:
Touch grass. 🥱

I love this response of you. I literally walked about an hour in the snow....its snowing right now....and getting ready to walk another hour back in 27 degree weather. I love the wind in my face and my staying warm and all bundled up while burning all that Thanksgivings calories off by it. It's exhilarating.

brain54:
➜Consistently...? Pls if you don't have anything to say just go away. I only made one comment about her size. The rest about her poise ... I don't know what time it is wherever you are but go to bed. You don't have anything meaningful to say to me. Good night!

Yes, consistently! Since, up until that comment of mine, you had hyper-focused on her fatness and the positioning of her legs in the picture, not meeting your definition of poise. I even reposted your own posts to show this. Why are you triggered?

cutecommend:
➜Please would we have more depressed people in this era if there was no social media or has social media contributed more in depressing people?

Social media has not contributed, in my opinion, but instead provided depressed people with a well-needed outlet by which to connect to others like them and maybe learn how to better treat or live with their suffering.

brain54:
When you look like a baby buffalo on a buffet... Which man would accept such shots?🤷

This is not body shaming? 😮😮😮

brain54:
Sometimes person suppose dey say truth the way it is... See the way she is sitting with no poise as a lady. Spread legs yakataaaa. Looks like a turn off to me already....

This isn't body shaming her for being more comfortable sitting with her legs wider apart? 🤨🤨🤨

brain54:
➜Monitoring spirit for person wey I no know...?🤷 I'm literally seeing this person for the first time. And I'm commenting based on first impressions.
➜ I don't have a problem with fat people. My main complain is the way she carried herself. This obviously is not a good picture to use to be shooting shots. She can do better.
➜ She should keep spreading her legs yakataaaa without poise. Since that's what she wants so she would keep shooting shots at men instead of the other way around. Not my problem. But wise people take criticism not as insults!

The first time, but you are sure that this one unflattering picture describes all you should know of her, abi?

2. You don't have a problem with fat folks, yet your posts up till now showcase your particular disdain for them.

3. Na your poise she dey live for, abi?

dederocs:
➜Nigeria's problem is religious and political, talk like you have sense...I don't go back and forth on non issues. Baseless back and forth...if you don't understand what discipline is, go to primary school.

Storyland! No be the same religion/traditions wey dey inside of every homes dey destroy the minds and lives of the children throiugh their religiously confused parents? Your teachers and politicians, no be from the same stock of abused, traumatized, and indoctrinated children you get people wey dey grow to become your teachers, politicians, etc.? 🥱🥱

Always looking for ways to keep your heads in the sand about what truly ails you all. 🥱🥱🥱

EmmyMaestro:
➜Aesope fables

Classic! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

PantShifter:
➜Maybe she fell on hard times

Abi oo! Many people in Nigeria don lose tremendous weight and are still losing in this SAPA period.

SultanOfPuna:
➜God works in very mysterious ways. I boldly asked a girl out and she rejected me. E pain me but i pack my cool. And move on 1 year later I meet her and my goodness I kept thanking God that she reject me She come barb lowcut come resemble boy Come slim down then I saw that she really wowo. .. Thank God she rejected me

Possible say SAPA don hit the girl like it has hit many of the same Nigeria. Good thing she rejected you and can keep her peace even in SAPA.

brain54:
➜Sometimes person suppose dey say truth the way it is... See the way she is sitting with no poise as a lady. Spread legs yakataaaa. Looks like a turn off to me already. Good luck to anyone that accepts such shots. I'm not demeaning anyone. People ought to learn how to carry themselves. Truth is bitter sometimes!

Your mere opinion is not and can never amount to the truth or a truth for anyone outside of your own mind. Right there in Nigeria, there still exists the culture of fattening women in preparation for marriage.

Also, na your legs she spread? Na her legs but why you come become monitoring spirit over how she can spread her legs as though na your standing of poise women dey suppose live by?

dederocs:
➜Without discipline kids will grow up to be irresponsible and wayward adults... discipline straighten kids out, I don't know where you got your abuse from. If your parents abuse or indoctrinated you on bad ideologies or ways, then that's too bad...most parents I know discipline their kids the normal way and steer them aright.

Children in Europe and other saner countries are not abused and traumatized as Nigerian children, yet they, on average, grow up to be better citizens and members of the community than most of your abused and traumatized Nigerian children. The people in those climes grow up more disciplined than your Nigerian children.

Compare the chaos that is Nigeria after 60 years to, say, the calm and crime levels in places like Sweden or Denmark, where child abuse, trauma, and indoctrination masked as discipline are almost non-existent.

ChizzyBuna:
stop blaming your parents for your past at your age. You will also blame your parents for fuel price Nonesense

Are you sure you are OK? Why does it particularly trigger you? Are you currently inflicting the same on your children? 🥱🥱

What I explained there are the ways that parents inflict trauma and abuse — damage that research has been identified as following their children well into adulthood— all while tagging it discipline and morality. Many of these previously traumatised/abused individuals go on to believe that by passing on the same trauma and abuse that was previously inflicted on them by their parents, their own kids would turn out as pacified by it all as they were— what is right according to their own delusion.🥱🥱

Goodvibes8:
➜You go dey single forever in Jesus name… Buy plenty jeans Ooo! Cause you go chew plenty.

Being single forever is not a curse but a blessing in disguise, particularly for those who value their peace of mind and joy above all else, though. It is also a lot more sensible than being married and lonely, i.e., the state of many married individuals out there.

brain54:
➜When you look like a baby buffalo on a buffet... Which man would accept such shots?🤷

They say different strokes for different folks. So, why demean her for not looking your type? Are you or that man there every other person's type?

dederocs:
✓ Discipline is not abuse, I don't get where you get brainwashing from, that's a word used along with indoctrination...were your parents religious extremists or in a cult?

What the vast majority of you in Nigeria regard as discipline is abuse. This includes the wicked, vile words that many parents throw at their children. None of it is discipline. That is why Children grow up fearing their parents instead of actually living and respecting them.

Indoctrination comes with in with the many lies and contradictory ideas your parents, including your traditionally/religiously inclined members of your community fill your heads with in the name of keeping you from what they refer to as vices and sins. Those contradictory ideas your heads are filled with from a young age are intended to keep you from being able to critically process your life and reality outside of that which you have been raised in. 🥱🥱

MatrixCircle:
✓ I took an Indian lady and a white British out for a date here in England at different times and both ladies preferred we split the bills at each time but at a different occasion I took a Nigerian lady out for a date she just sat quite and wanted me to settle all the bills including her take away.
Is this a cultural thing for Nigerian ladies that a man is supposed to pay for everything ??

Splitting of bills is not cultural. It is a new phenomenon that is more obtainable in western climes and practiced by those who ascribe to those particular ideas.

The norm remains that the man pay for the date. Next time ask the lady if she is open to splitting bills if that is what you want.

Criksus:
...2. The men who make N2M and above a month will not want them because of their attitude.
Only few women retain their femininity once they start making money and men who make N2M and above a month value femininity above any other thing. What you just read is the reason why patriarchy seemed to be against women.
✓ The truth is that patriarchy understands the inherent nature of women and wanted to save women from themselves.
If you want to keep a young lady single, give her good money.

What do you mean when you say women lose their feminity once they attain financial independence for themselves?

2. Are you then insinuating that this patriarchy only thrives when women are held financially subdued? Without financial superiorit, patriarchy loses any possible leverage over women?