₦airaland Forum

Haydens:
➜One of the easiest way to treat bad breath is by taking warm water in the morning then wait like 1hour- 1hr3mins before brushing, in those hour you wait still take room temperature water after then brush your teeth and be free from bad breath.
The experience has been working for me na why I wan give out the expo.

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄

You obviously don't understand the reason for bad breath and how what you do probably means you have terrible bad breath, but those around you refuse to let you know it.

brain54:
➜You too like wahala... And violence. I didn't make any claims. What links are you looking for when it's in the post. Did you read it. Or just jumped in to argue?
➜ Secondly I might not have worded to convey the point I wanted to make effectively. But people relocating abroad can be super prone to depression, often referred to as "expat depression" 😊.
➜ This is because moving to a new country comes with a ton of changes and stressors, like culture shock, language barriers, social isolation, and loss of identity.
➜ Research shows that expats are actually at *double the risk* of developing mental health issues, like anxiety and depression, compared to people who stay in their home country!

1. You said, "The wife said...," and I want you to provide a reference to the link where you got the claims from.

2. Are people in Nigeria not equally "super" prone to depression? What evidence do you have of the difference here?

3. You wish for us to believe that experiencing these changes is more likely to cause depression than remaining in Nigeria, under, in many cases, severely unfavorable conditions?

4. Can you provide a reference to this research you supposedly quote?

brain54:
➜I won't be surprised if he was depressed... Or mentally unstable! Seems like it happened with no prior warning signs.
The wife said they didn't discuss his resignation from work earlier. Suggesting they were probably in good terms with no issues. Also the wife described the mother as peaceful or peace loving. Nothing suggests they was any altercations. Just someone getting unhinged. She is lucky to have escaped.
➜These are some of the downside of living abroad. Depression can set in. That's assuming depression is the actual cause of what happened!

1. Can you please provide a link to the claims you posted that were made by the wife in this case?

2. So, in your mind, those in Nigeria don't suffer from depression or psychotic episodes? Really?

[quote author=DitariIzon post=136285294]Look at these two portraits. How does this child look like me? He is two months old here and I just took the picture some few minutes ago where I was collecting fresh air at one shade.[/quote]It seems you already made up your mind that the child isn't yours. So, tell us what you intend to do from this point on? Shouldn't you let the woman know, so she can find herself a better father for her child at this point?

TooResilient:
➜Tooooo. Thanks for your contribution, but they should learn to understand that somethings are more important in marriage than bloated ego.

Why should the man want to do that? If they were raised to value their bloated egos above all else in marriage, and do not mind getting themselves another woman/side-chick after marriage to ensure their ego gets all the carressing it desires, why should they do what you want them to? Think about it!

Tohsynetita1:
➜I don’t understand you boss

I will do my best to break it down for you.

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The average unmarried man out there finds himself meeting the following needs for himself. (He also has the option of paying others to handle many of these on his behalf.)
➜ Housekeeping or home care
➜ Cooking
➜ Maintenance needs
➜ Managing his emotions and frustrations
➜ Getting his sexual needs satisfied
➜ Handling day-to-day chores outside of his primary career duties...

If the unmarried man should choose to sign a traditional marriage contract with a woman whom he then refers to as his wife, the traditional contract offers him the benefit of having a wife submit to him and respect him; in exchange, the woman satisfies the duties that were formerly the man's to take care of.
➜ Baby mama
➜ Nanny
➜ Housekeeper & Governess
➜ Cook/Chef
➜ Emotion dumpster/Counselor
➜Sex partner
➜Personal Assistant.

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Now, back to the issue that started all of this. If the woman were to, however, earn her own money and contribute to the financial needs of the family, of what benefit would it be for her to continue slaving away in submission and also as an emotional dumpster/counselor to the man in the marriage?

Bahamas95:
➜That statement means she's the jealous type but she deeply loves you.
➜ If you love your life avoid anything side chick, if you must do it (which I don't advice) be VERY smart about it......Don't ever let her find out.
"Na teeth wey dem dey use laugh dem take dey bite"

Contrary to the nonsense brainwashing that is traditional in places like Africa, Jealousy is a very healthy emotion for humans to have. What individuals decide to do as a result of the emotion can be either positive or negative.

2. It is funny how you don't see that having a sidechick is just as bad as a negative reaction to the emotion that is jealousy.

Toruibestate:
➜Your wife tells you that not in this life would she allow another person to take you..
You both have two children, a 4 years old daughter and a 2 months old son. She then said somebody trying to take me away from her is like someone trying to take the son away from her and my reply was am I your son? But then I start pondering on what she meant. What do you think she meant?

Why don't you simply ask her to better explain herself to you? Let her know your fears as well.

Tohsynetita1:
➜You can have your source of income and still be submissive and respect your husband now.

Why is there for a woman to gain by that suggestion of yours? Particularly since the traditional setup has always been that the man earns submission from his wife by carrying all of the financial weight of the family alone?

alphonsoolajide:
Wife Discovers Husband’s Secret Second Marriage on Facebook — After 3 Kids and Years Together!

The tearful story was shared in a viral video on X (formerly Twitter), where the woman emotionally narrated her ordeal. According to her, she had been married for years but always faced rejection from her husband’s family — especially his mother, who strongly opposed the marriage because the woman is from Anambra while her husband is from Enugu.
“His mum never supported our marriage. She even sent demonic messages to me, saying I’ll die if I don’t leave her son,” she said.
Despite the warnings and red flags, the couple tied the knot and started a family. But things never got better.
“We lived in the same house and didn’t talk for a whole year. He was tired of me. He lied and pretended a lot,” she recalled.
At one point, the husband returned from a trip with a young woman who began following him around. When questioned, the man’s mother claimed the girl was “just the neighbor’s daughter.” But things took a darker turn.

This is a warning for all the women out there who think they are divinely powered to overcome all red flags. E no dey work at all! Now this woman is crying after the red flag has abandoned her and 3 of her kids in her life. 😩😩😩😩

TooResilient:
✓ Therefore I urge you, bother. Don’t settle for a woman doing nothing for herself or not earning anything. Don’t settle for the one that will be worshipping you because you are feeding her. Don’t settle for the one that only has her v@gina and praises (“isimili jiofor” - in Judy Austin’s voice) to offer you, else na your children I pity.
Talking from experience. Peace ✌🏾

But Nigerian men in general can't stand women who don't worship them. Their first complaints are usually that they are not respected and adored enough; And we all know that only the women who bring v@gina and praises alone to the table are best able to tolerate them and their egos best?. So, do you realize you are also informing them that the respect and worship of their egos, something most of them have been trained to expect in marriage from their partners, is of no real value.

Nooneonline:
➜Do you think it's easy it's easy to tell someone that is notaware they smell or have some funny odour that they actually do smell?

It is not easy but it must be done and in the politest of ways too. Many times, a simple brushing of one's teeth will not make the problem go away, and this can happen to any one of us. It becomes very important, then, to ensure we are informed on the many possible causes of bad breath. (Bad habits or poor grooming are not the only reasons for bad breath.) This way, we don't go in assuming it is exactly for the reasons we think in our tiny minds.

Right now, I know my breath is bad. I do brush and floss, but it's mainly because I have not seen my dentist for my regular cleaning for a very long time now. So, whenever someone complains, I let them know that I already have an appointment to see a dentist for a cleaning soon, and smile. That typically puts the person at ease.

fxexperts:
That is also what an incompetent mother can be also, since you are just one bitter feminist.

Well, sell your take instead to the one my response was directed.🙄🙄🙄🙄

Truvelisback:
➜Good day, fellas. Let's discuss the Phases of the endtime e.g Rapture(a sudden take up to heaven), Great tribulation, heaven, hell, lake of fire, Millenium reign with Christ etc.

Go back through and read that book again, this time without the many delusions that your religious scammers pumped into your head probably since birth.

Biodun556:
I hope Nigeria Christians won't fall victim. Ignorance is a disease

. Quit fishing for ignorant comments in attempts to provide backing for your particular delusions.🙄🙄🙄

The man is wrong in claiming that the Torah says people who worship idols should be killed. The torah is available for all who have eyes, and nowhere in there is it written that those who worship idols in the land must be killed.

Clearly, the man is an ignorant pile of dung; that does not mean everyone in the country is the same, especially since the other guy mentioned that he preached his Christian idol by the Damascus gates, and the police there did nothing to them. It is the same with how there are mosques in Israel where Muslim idols are also preached regularly, and nothing happens to the people there either. Religion has a way of bringing out the worst in humanity.

Zeebuy:
➜Stop replying that Nnamdi guy. By now you should know one of the powers of the enemy is Ignorance.
➜The more ignorant people are about their existence, the more than can drag souls into their doom. They'll try to pretend and claim and say things to make others think you're talking gibberish, and to sideline you from important topics. Ignore him

How do you define Ignorance? I ask because the dictionary defines what you are doing — holding on to ideas against all evidence — as the meaning of ignorance.

2. Ignorant people are only able to drag equally ignorant people down into their doom. Why? Because only those who are ignorant have time to give their souls over to ignorant ramblings and gibberish.

Therock5555:
✓ See eh, add me on Whatsapp make we argue...
I don't want to do this argument on NL

I no dey do Whatsapp arguing.

Softmirror:
✓ What are you trying to say? That we shouldn't care for our parents in their old age?!
MODIFIED:
He didn't mention men any where in the message he was trying to pass. If he did please show me. Hence, it wasn't gender specific. Which of course is not a good communication.
So, in essence a man will outlive his wife simply because he runs away from his responsibility of taking care of his family? How does a responsible man care for his family while neglecting himself?

I don't believe this is the reason why many Nigerians kaput earlier than many others. I mean, many of those who do have side-chicks, some have side-families too. So, how can one declare that men who run away from one family are bound to live longer? Some others were never the breadwinners to begin with. That makes no sense? 🤔

Ajibade123:
✓ BeautybyTy don't let this user above deceive you, men of these days are no longer patient like when you were growing up, if he puts in 10 efforts, he expects you too to put in at least 5 efforts, that is what will make him certain you are the one for it.

So, because, according to you,men of these days are no longer patient therefore, it is OP who has to bend over backwards to please them all because you wish to have her believe still that these impatient men are some sort of price she cannot afford to loose? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Will you also advice your own daughter, sister or even mother to do same for the sake of a man? Nonsense! 🙄🙄

Therock5555:
✓ Well it's my personal situation not hear say but you wey I know, we'll keep debating till eternity...
So I choose peace and silence....

A personal situation is merely a delusional one until proven/evidenced. You know that, right?

advanceDNA:
➜Everyone chose to be here ......we have just lost that memory ...... Free will has always been at play before we became conceived and birthed....

You chose to be here, meaning you existed before your conception, abi? How? Where? For how long?

1Alex:
Enough to all these nonsense. People fail to understand the role of sex in marriage, that why most people go into it, get disappointed and come out.
No sex in courtship should be for virgins, people who have never tasted sex in thier lives. So when they get married, they will explore together.
In fact, let me make an extensive topic on this.

As expected, nonsense!

Celestialsword:
Elumelu's mom is 97years
Otedola's mom is 103years
Jonathan's mom is 88years
Saraki's mom is 99years
Dangote's mom is 90years
Where are their father's, Long gone in most cases.
Food for thought
Treat yourself well, they will survive without you

. Why do the people in those pictures all look so much like their mothers? Jonathan looks like all of his facial features came straight from his mother, as if no father dey the equation there. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kalulu44:
✓ Hahaha, the thing no tire you

And then there are others who keep insisting that those who don't believe in their Spiritual bullsheet are empty inside, well the last I checked all humans -- rich or poor, young and old -- are guaranteed suffering in this life until their very last breath. And a huge part of all of that suffering is a result of the human condition which is the emptiness -- yearning for more, wholesness, completeness even--- we all struggle with from birth until we take our very last breath; literally claiming has ceased to feel this emptiness is akin to claiming one no longer has suffering of any kind. (Even the book a whole lot of this claim to believe in guarantees suffering and tribulations.) So, where does someone get off claiming that only those who do not believe in what are spiritual nonsense are empty on the inside?

Religion/tradition has really damaged a lot of people to point they cannot be a expected to see even that before them.

Therock5555:
✓ I could tell you something pal but you'll definitely not believe me so I won't waste both of our time...😁😁

Meaning you have absolutely no proof to offer me in this way of this thing you intend to tell me, right?

Kalulu44:
✓ Lolz, I have heard you. Just tell us you were with God when He wants to fix you in your mother's womb. I'm telling you I don't believe in something and you're telling me spiritual stuffs. Oya nah come and make me spiritual then.

He claims this God showed him how he arrived in his mother's womb from a former status as an angel, abi?

At one instance when God wanted show his might to me, I saw how I was fixed into my mother's womb—Every single path I took as the angel of the Lord brought me from somewhere to my mother's dwelling place. How her womb was opened, the spiritual principles used to fix me promptly exemplified on the spot!
I know there are two perspectives to things, the physical race(biological race) and the spiritual parallels(underlying mechanism that brings about the physical systems).
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He says all this while completely ignoring one crucial detail that was stated in the book written about the same God which is that man(in his entirety) was created from the very dust of this earth. Yet, contrary to all that, this poster urges you to believe here that not only does he believe in that deity but that he also has proof the deity in question is an absolute a colossal joke whose words are not to be accepted.

See wetin religion/spiritual bullsheet don do so tay he dabaru the wey these people dey reason?

VladimirTheGrea:
✓ Wetin happen for sea dey remain for sea. You no be sailor and you never test anything close to that. Ocean and sea routes demand so much, sometimes some captains dey wan downplay am to their own doom. Make I capless.

Africans, who do una this craze, abeg?

Ijoba85:
✓ Didn't you read the part where op said they haven't had s*x but the girls were demanding for money all the time. No girl who satisfies a man sexually would be denied money when she request for one.

Oh, and you take that to mean that IOP would have bought the gal a laptop if they had been having sex? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Therock5555:
✓ Just dey play.... If God answers my prayer, then He wouldn't allow Yama Yama parents to have children...
Problem solved....😁😁😁😁

If? Have any of your numerous Christian gods --- 46,000 images and counting --- ever, in fact, answered the many prayers of your pastors alone, let alone the many prayers of you, their followers? 🤔

Emmanuel30a:
✓ She was saying her experience...as to why she remain in abusive marriage...
✓ Who asked Osinachi to marry if she has money... If Osinachi also believes that there is brainwashing tradition and religion in Africa... She should have marry an American...etc... Otherwise, she can also adopt whoever or whatever...she wants, if she wants to be controlling/giving instruction/becomes a mentor or role model to some kids... I wonders why such tradition and religion doesn't affects you...and it affects other women...

According to you, abi?

2. You can go reprimand her all you want at her grave.