₦airaland Forum

Dzzzz:
Why did you choose to quote from the Bible?..Kooobooojunkiiiie😉

Why can't I or why shouldn't I summarize an idea from the book and use it as a signature?

Dzzzz:
But your signature says otherwise😂

I don't follow. What exactly is it that you think my signature says of my person?

Dzzzz:
You don’t want to say what you into bro..

Huh?

Dzzzz:
What are you into?

Religion is built on foundation of delusions/lies; I am into truths...facts.

Dzzzz:
You do traditional ba?

Tradition is religion; I am an anti-religion.

Legitz:
Story reader

I didn't process much of that tripe; you lost me by the beginning of your second paragraph.

Dzzzz:
But you believe there’s a heaven and hell right ?

Not necessarily! I am not religious, and I am not a Christian. Your religious ideas of heaven and hell do not appeal to me.

So, again, fairies, leprechauns, vampires, marine spirits... they are all imaginary beasts, are they not?

Dzzzz:
We not talking of fairies or leprechaun..Witches are real and marine spirits..

Fairies, leprechauns, vampires, marine spirits... they are all imaginary beasts, are they not?

sjx566:
S*x Is Not Connection, It’s a Reward for Power I once believed that sleeping with her meant we had a bond. But she was sleeping with other men too, men who didn’t care, didn’t text, didn’t “do the most.” Then I learned: A woman gives her body to the man who captures her emotions and holds the frame. S*x isn’t a sign she loves you. It’s a sign she feels your dominance. And if you think sleeping with her means you're “in,” you’re already out.

My friend, your particular delusion runs deep.😏

The girl you describe seems to consider sex as just that, sex! But here you're going on about something you clearly still don't understand. Get yourself the help you need!

Dzzzz:
➜You can mention Godzilla too if you want..I schooled in Calabar and I’ll tell you that they are real..

"I schooled in Calabar," is not an explanation or an answer. Edet — from our MacMillan Primary School Texts— was also schooled in Calabar, but he didn't come toting fantastical fables like you. 🙄🙄

Again, are you insinuating that if witches—human beings— exist, then marine spirits—including leprechauns, vampires, fairies, sango, etc.,—should also exist?

RealityKings1:
➜I am observing you

So you lied?

Dzzzz:
➜You believe witches are real right? But you don’t believe in marine spirits lol

I don't follow! Are you suggesting that if witches—human beings— exist, then marine spirits—including leprechauns, vampires, fairies, sango, etc.,—should also exist?

Dzzzz:
➜When you get to Calabar just keep talking like this and them go shock you..
➜You think their marine festival is for jokes right ?
➜ Doesnt it sound odd that you don’t believe in marine spirit but you believe Sango and he’s wives Oba and o shun who turned to rivers?..Just Dey Play ooo

It doesn't just happen to people in Calabar. It happens to people even in Chicago, Phoenix, and everywhere else.

2. I have watched the marine festival and think it is just your ordinary costumed festival.

3. No, it doesn't! I mean, we live in a world where some people actually believe that a man like Trump is their messiah. People will believe anything, but that does not mean delusions are real.

Dzzzz:
Do you know what it means to see someone go and 15mins later he’s mad?..

Yes, it happens! It is called psychosis, and it can happen to pretty much anyone. You only know people from the outside — the carefully composed image they project of themselves on the outside. What you don't know is the turmoil brewing on the inside of their minds at any given time, which can eventually reveal itself in the form of illness or even psychosis.

Dzzzz:
The person is my friend who just drove a yellow babe to go drop her and next 15mins he was on boxers running mad,3 pastors where dragging him into a church opposite the bar we sat..

You knew your friend on the outside but did you know what was happening in his mind even at the time he was dropping off the girl?

TechAI:
➜Okay. Thank you for your time. I am grateful.

Just so you know, I wasn't trying to shatter you with my comments. Just felt you may need to begin thinking outside of the box that has been relationships for you.

You had mentioned that you are an introvert, and I don't know if you are by personality or by trauma. Regardless, something of that may explain why you keep going after a certain type of woman. I don't know, but I think maybe sitting in a therapist's chair for a time might help you get a handle on what it is you truly understand and want in a relationship, and how you may need to change up on how you seek out partners in the future.

Legitz:
Yes it's real ,Yoruba call them emere ( they are different types based on how they do their meeting, Either in T junction , refuse dump site , water or sky) and some ladies are possessed with witchcraft . To appease them when they are angry ,you have to appease them in line with the type of spiritual coven they belong to , either you take some ritual stuffs to river , T - junction,e.t.c
Some were born with the witchcraft power ( transferred to them by their mothers) some ladies used to seek for the power and get it through friends that is already possessed ( they used to seek for witchcraft or marine power so as to defend themselves from men and to torture any man that offend them ( mostly their husband)
There is no any good thing in marrying a lady that is possessed with marine or witchcraft power , if you're a billionaire and you marry them ,if you're not spiritually strong ,they'll make you become poor , they'll tie your Glory spiritually , disorganize your job , life and finances , they will want you to be at their mercy and want you to be licking their foots before they'll untie you small . in fact when they tie someone ,it will take a powerful Alfa or Pastor to break you from their grips or boundage, in fact you'll be going from one church to another , mountain to mountain and it will be as if God didn't answer your prayers , reason because those marine or witchcraft possessed ladies used to take permission from God before inflicting pains on someone. As Pastor is praying to God ,those possessed women always seek God's stamp in treating someones Bleep up. When they are the one inflicting pains on you , infact you won't know they are the one because they'll be doing eye service , trying to show love and care ,they might even be fasting for you and swearing for your enemy, pls take note that it's a fake fasting oh because deep inside their heart ,they know they are the one behind your problem . In fact they maybe using the image of your mother to inflict pains on you , and any where you go to pray , they'll be seeing your mother , here by causing misunderstanding between you and your mom ,this is a method to withdraw you from your mother so that you can be seeing your mother as a bad person , this will make you to disconnect totally from your mother , you know our mother's a prayerful type , they know if things didn't go well for you ,your ot your mother will be praying for you and they know your mother might be going from one pastor to Alfa , so one of the tactics of those possessed ladies is to first disconnect you from someone that can help you fight spiritual battles .
Take note that they don't forgive , they don't yield to corrections when you end up marrying
them , you can't date or marry them and double date or make attempts to marry second wife even when they are they one not giving you peace on the marriage ,they prefer you and her to be rolling in poverty . They'll use their spiritual power to make you poor and they'll be telling you that they are the source of your money and once they get angry at you that your source of income will be badly messed, take note that it's a lie ,they dont have have the power to give anybody money ,ask yourself why those possessed ladies don't used to make their own father or brothers rich ,why is it that they have to wait to marry and make their husband rich ,they can scatter things but they can't organize things.
They used to show kind and cool behavior during courtship but once you make the mistake to Marry them , you're in soup , they'll never bow to you as the head of the house , reason because they believe they are also head ( head in spiritual coven)
They hate prayers, although they might be going to church but once they noticed the husband is a prayerful type especially during midnight , just be expecting different dram from them during the day because they believe the husband is disturbing their evil spirit from attending meetings at night
I write all this from my experience because I married one , God helped me to get out of that marriage recently , before I married her years back 3 pastors warned me not to married her ,I turned down their warnings because I didn't belief in seeking pastor's vision before choosing a spouse to marry.
Yoruba adage says (No matter how you throw handfan , It'll always be using its flat side to rest on the floor) their is nothing good in marrying any lady possed with marrine or witchcraft spirit , they are always aggressive in marriage ,over jealous. Anytime you offend them , they'll attack your source of money and makes your helpers not to help you again, and it'll take you only the grace of God for you to get back on your feet , that's why those ladies use to say they are the source of my boyfriend or husband money but when he offended me ,he become poor or they sack him from his place of job. It's a lie that they make the guy to have money ,they only used spiritual unseen power to bring that man down so as to punish him and make him bow to her ( girlfriend / wife)
You too as a man will be afraid to break up with her because you know if you make such attempt ,your finances will be attacked (en fear poverty than death) especially if you've been making money
They always rush to get married to any cool guy that they know is not spiritually stand, they love rushing to get married to a man that his eyes is blind spiritually .
Imagine you as a man with clean spirits now getting married to a lady that is possessed that anytime she sleeps beside you at night ,her spirits is already wandering around in darkness coven ,doing meetings , inflicting pains on other humans life, turning to owl ,bats ,lizard ,wall gecko,croackcrock.

Story tellers! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Dzzzz:
As mush as it sounds fake,I have not witnessed marine spirit but I saw something happen to a guy cause I schooled in Calabar..

You have never witnessed it, but because you were told by the them-say-them-say crowd that something happened to a guy, therefore what you presumed fake must be real?

RealityKings1:
Based on observation spirit possession are real but to say a particular manifestation is that of a water spirit might be hard. But if you mean the girl is literally from the waters, I'll like to know if she has no mother or father 😁

How many have you observed?

You and your obsession with the issue of sex again.

Tominix:
I believe we all had an experience with this song...

Not me! This is my first time hearing it and I don't like it ...I no like the sound at all.

ifytrik:
she's doing very well now in my arms, I got married to her in 2014😋😋

Really? Make we see her before and after. There is a reason why.

Tominix:
I believe we all had an experience with this song...

Not even a link for those who would like to listen to the song?

TechAI:
➜ The things you mentioned aren’t things I do. No one comes to my house and gets instructed to do chores, because as far as I’m concerned, they’re just visitors. My cousin once stayed with me before he left for Canada, and during the entire year he lived with me, I never asked him to do any of those things. He did them on his own. In fact, among the men in my family, it’s pretty normal for us to do things people traditionally expect women to do.
➜ So please, ease up on the assumption that I’m running a “slave camp.” I simply got the lady something to eat, left her in the living room, and went into my room to work on my laptop. By the time I came out, she was already helping out. I didn’t ask her to, just like I never instructed my cousin to do anything either.
➜ The main point of my concern is this: don’t be selfish. For example, the lady I mentioned who was only interested in taking and taking, I told her I was sick earlier this year, and she neither called nor messaged me. I had to ask an elderly man for help to get water boiling, then covered myself in a duvet while letting the steam from the hot water surround me. I had to do that because the medication I had taken wasn’t working, and that’s how I eventually recovered. I haven’t been ill since.
➜But after I got better, this same lady told me I should take her to see Funke Akindele’s latest movie. I asked her, If I had died, would you still be asking me that?

1. You wrote the following, didn't you?

Then I met a 24-year-old lady whose only mission seemed to be to take, take, take. She never gave anything in return. She visited my house a few times, never offered to cook or ask if I was okay—she just came, talked, and left. Or she’d suggest outings, anything that would make me spend. She even asked for money to "make herself up" whenever I invited her over. I had to draw the line and told her I wouldn’t continue, because it was obvious she was just taking advantage of my kindness.

Are you wanting us to believe that you don't have this expectation, but just wrote it in or something? 😏

2. Well, yeah! Your OP states that the 20-year-old made an impression on you by that act of helping you clean up and stuff.

3. From what you typed up, I got a friends-with-benefits— not-a-girlfriend/fiance —vibe from your description of both the 24 and 27-year-old girls, though. Even the 20-year-old seems to be in it with you for the benefits, and not much else. I don't think a friend-with-benefit would go that far as to care much about you when you are sick though.

4. Again, friends-with-benefit and not girlfriends or fiancés! If you want a give-and-take relationship, you could start by toning down a lot more on the Santa Claus vibes unless you are into girls who depend a whole lot on you, financially and stuff.

As for why you keep going for mostly emotionally unavailable women(at least to you), maybe you should also try to visit a professional mental health therapist. It could help you understand why you continue to do that.

TechAI:
Hello, I will post this under this quote for security reasons:

it seems you have had lots of friends -with-benefits relationships which you confused with the typical committed relationship between man and woman. Reading through your writeup, I kept wondering if you even understand much of what a relationship really should be about. But then, that is me..

By the way, color me shocked that in 2025, there are still men out there who think a woman is to come in to cook and clean them. If a wife-appliance is what you are looking for then a wife-appliance is what you should get, just be sure not to come complaining when she gets sick and tired of living like a robot and decides it is time to take her leave of you, and possibly with all she can make away with then too.

It may be that the 20-year-old is inf sct ready to be a wife-appliance for you there. Given what you described of her situation, it may be what will work for her for now. Maybe in the future, after developing her self confidence and esteem, she may change her mind though.

dollytino4real:
because that one involve marriage

It is about marriage, you say, and it was said by YHWH, God of Israel, to the people of Israel who He gave statutes allowing divorce for those of them who wanted it. So, tell us exactly what aspect of it has to do with Nigerians, particularly those living in the year 2025?

influenz:
➜My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.
With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).
I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

If the issues between you two cannot be resolved via the aide of a professional marriage counselor, then consider this: are the children better off with unhappy married parents or happy separated/divorced parents?

OgaTheTop2:
➜Canadian wife took everything when they separated? As in, how come? 48yrs...Omo!

That depends on the deal he had with the Canadian wife. My question or concern be say, how come Ghanian wife dey there dey wait for him all that while?

stainlink:
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Fake news ! Moderators should please do what needs be done, abeg!

TouchNfollow:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1AxLW1JQs9/

His Canadian wife took everything while his Ghanaian wife and kids sat back waiting for him to show them mercy, why?

What a great loss!

Emmanuel30a:
➜So, who should we blame for marriage...? Men or women...? Why is ... not married...? Is ...not trained when she was a toddle that her salvation in life is in being married...?
➜Why are women or girls having boyfriend...?
➜ Who/what is pushing men to becomes father and women to becomes mother...?

Blame for marriage? What makes a particular gender need to be blamed for this problem highlighted here? Why do some of you have a hard time removing your particular emotional shortcomings from issues?

2. Why can't women have boyfriends? Does having boyfriends automagically mean women want marriage?

3. Are you sure you are OK? You read clearly from my comments that the push has been majorly societal and religious, yet you are here asking me this question for what?