₦airaland Forum

Denko2721987:
➜When it happens to your male relatives, come back here and tell us the story.. We would gladly listen and laugh together. Lol

Oh, it's probably happened to many of them, and many of them aren't innocents either. So? 🙄🙄🙄

Houseontherock1:
➜...Your deliberate distortion of facts and refusal to acknowledge reason expose a level of ignorance I have no interest in entertaining. I won’t waste my time on a conversation that’s clearly built on bad faith. This ends here.

This is coming from someone deliberately ignoring the facts of the criminal code to assert his biased point of view in its place...🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Doyin2:
➜See how christians are supporting indecent dressing?Whereas we know how women dressed during the time of “jesus”.Even Mary ,mother of “Jesus” wore hijab. Modern christianity/pentecostalism,na big scam! One idiot was even claiming to have spent 8yrs in Ilorin as if there is any society that is 100% free of exceptional and immoral behaviour. Rather than face the issue of indecent dressing,they would rather look for justification of bad behaviour. Rubbish!

1. While I ain't have anything to do with any of your many religions, indecent dressing is not a criminal or civil offense even in Nigeria, and as such it is not up to anyone or any group to decide for others how they can or cannot dress. Please carry this dictatorial religious mindset/fanaticism into some gutter somewhere, as this is 2025, and no people should live under fear or anxiety because of any group, abeg!

DyshApp:
➜A wife has reportedly turned down a remote job offer worth $4,000 per month because her husband felt it could cause discomfort and potential issues in their marriage.
The story was shared in a post on X (formerly Twitter) by social media influencer @jon_d_doe, who revealed that the woman is a PhD student and had recently secured a high-paying remote role based in Nigeria.
According to the influencer, her husband, a financially stable businessman with a master’s degree, expressed disapproval over the job, despite its lucrative offer.
“A married man whose wife is a PhD student… she just got a job offer that would pay her $4,000 per month. But she’ll be working from Nigeria,” the post read. “The man has a master’s degree and is doing well financially. He doesn’t want her to take the job.”
In a follow-up post, the influencer stated that the woman agreed to turn down the offer, citing the husband’s concerns that the job might make her uncomfortable and lead to problems in their relationship.

Storyland! Why all these stories that portray women are kpomo-brained imbe_ciles, abeg?🙄🙄🙄🙄

PlanetZero:
➜Who am I to stop anyone. What goes around comes around. Men dey encourage their men to knack anyone. Forgetting say he who live in glass house must not throw stones. If we are to discourage infidelity. Let it be for the two gender. Today even a guy best friend dey woo his own friend woman

. Indeed, my friend...indeed! Anything short of that is meaningless in the end! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

haybhi1:
➜Also, note. It's not correct. Only meagre certain areas are like that here. Kwara poly girls around UITH and poly gate environs and Unilorin girls at Tanke and Oke-odo wear the worst that could make any Miami girl go green with envy and no one really bats an eye. Heard Kwasu girls no send anybody too. So, don't lump the whole of Ilorin into your judgement, amigo.

The fact that there exists a part of the city— public space— where people are not allowed to live in freedom is a bad thing... stop trying to normalize foolishness, please!

Emmybz:
➜The biological father

You are assuming you are privvy to that information right and the person on the other end would volunteer to pay up, abi? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Putindbutt:
➜Stop this nonsense, it's not only the rich that request their women to dress up in a particular way they like.

A confident woman would confidently wear what she wants to without fear or concern for the opinion of others. When a woman decides to wear what someone else prefers it is because she has a reason to submit to the authority of such a voice, usually out of fear or anxiety e.g. fear of abandonment(in marriage/relationship), fear of rejection, fear she might lose her financial supporter, or fear that she may be cast out by the authority voice or society.

So, when you say it is not only the rich that request their women to dress up in a particular way they like, you forget that it is not only the rich that can hold something over a woman. Even a poor man married to a broke wife has something he can hold over her to force her to dress in a way that is against her own will.

Putindbutt:
➜Don't go off point, I was talking about what she would do if her man wants her to dress in a particular kind of way. It has nothing to do with money or selling someone.

It actually does since you insinuate that the man is the money and she is meant to exist as meat for his whims.

Houseontherock1:
➜... Let’s be clear: when a so-called “private” party is broadcast on social media, it ceases to be private in the legal and moral sense—it becomes public content. That changes the dynamics significantly, especially when cultural and legal norms are flouted in full view of a wider audience.
➜ You're right that the law doesn't specifically mention "breasts," but it does refer to indecent exposure—and the law is deliberately broad there for a reason. ...So yes, I would absolutely object to anyone—male or female—showing up to such an event with their private parts on display.
➜ The goal isn't to police personal choices, but to remind people that actions have societal implications—especially when shared publicly.

1. Where is the statement in bold stated in the Criminal Code you quote, or any other for that matter?

2. You are still not making any sense, given that the codes you keep quoting continue to insist that this only applies when the exposure occurs in the public space.

3. Again, if you don't understand why those codes insist on a separation between private and public space, may I suggest you dive deep into why it does so.

Putindbutt:
➜I don't know the tribes you referring to in those states. If they find themselves in Kwara state, they will learn how to put on clothes.

My mistake!

tnerro1:
➜But why girls dey like dress anyhow come market, any dey you enter Wuse market, na so ur eyes go full, some with very anyhow things dem call clothes. Some be like dem escape from where dey come from and forget to dress finish

Are they breaking any laws by their actions? If not, what is your own? Are you a self-installed Hisbah abi na monitoring spirit over what girls can wear or not wear?

Putindbutt:
➜Ontop his money?

Argh! So, you sell your daughters and sisters to men for money, right?

Putindbutt:
➜Where are they in Nigeria?

At least one is in Niger State and another in Yola. These people have a right to continue living as they have always lived, even if the rest of us have chosen to abandon the old ways.

Putindbutt:
➜If these are the kind of clothes your man wants you to wear so that he won't look outside, what would you do?.

Why should the man dictate to the woman what she can or cannot wear? Please do not encourage your daughters or sisters to dress in the way others want; that same man you push her to will likely eventually run away from her with another woman who likes to confidently wear what she wants. .🙄🙄🙄🙄

Emmybz:
➜My own way of balancing this matter....he will pay every amount of money I have spent on them.... From pregnancy still birth for the 4 of them...

Who?

haybhi1:
In the lands of the Roman's, act like one

Did this land belong to this particular Roman, or instead that the Romans are seeking to impose themselves on the people? Soon, we hear say dem don massacre all the naked tribes wey dey Nigeria finish.

Holluwhakemmy:
What is the moral lesson here? Because I don't understand

She is pointing out the level of religious imposition in Ilorin for all to realize that the situation is already bad. If women are not careful, burqa's will become their lot regardless of their private beliefs.

shinaola21:
🌺 Honestly I've always wondered why do people lie about their real age to people,is it a crime to reveal your age or what??

The simple answer is usually shame or fear of rejection; these are some of the mental conditions that people refuse to approach honestly.

Thugnificent:
I mean there are billions of galaxies, trillions of stars, the Moon, Sun etc. Here on earth we have Wars, poverty, Natural disasters, Diseases etc. But no, God is worried that i went to fap in my bathroom to release Konji. Like doesn't that sound stupid? Please Christians take some time to reason this matter God bless 🙏

Why is this in Romance section though and not right there in the center of the Christianity section?

God1000:
Honestly DNA test should be made compulsory, and after child birth government should make it free or reduce the cost, they should pass it into law as a criminal offense In many families today men are just foster fathers.

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PricelessGem1:
This is the height of injustice a woman can do to a man. Even if the man is impotent, why not agree with him on how best you both can have children than go behind him to do such injustice? DNA TEST MUST BE MADE COMPULSORY AT BIRTH. We need to shout it loud and clear so that our National Assembly members can adopt it as a bill and pass it into law. I expect the men there to seriously push for this. Let the cost of DNA tests be made low enough to be very much affordable. At least if from the hospital bed it is discovered that the baby does not belong to the man, he can abandone her and the baby at the hospital and walk away so that the cheating woman can go look for the real father of the baby to pay the hospital bills, get them discharged from the hospital and raise the child as it is his. Woman please get sense and fear God for once. STOP THIS INJUSTICE!!!

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abidem4real:
Men in this regard are just at the mercies of the naturally cruel women(woe unto men)! Can you just imagine the pathetic situation of the man! Sometimes I just wish women were never in existence. Making DNA a compulsion and free by the government will make the menace of bastards reduce to a large extent I think. I support making it criminal offence too

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Arabk25:
Paternity fraud is on a high in Nigeria is high time the government steps in. What's even wrong with this unknown gender self. I feel for you bro. Imagine a whole 4 kids none was traced to you. God abeg o

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omobabalemomu:
I support the idea that DNA should be made compulsory by Nigerian government after every child birth. Why are women not relenting in this terrible act?

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nkemjika6006:
THIS IS GETTING TOO MUCH. GOVERNMENT SHOULD HELP. THE PRICE OF CONDUCTING DNA SHOULD BE MADE FREE AND IT SHOULD BE AT THE POINT OF BIRTH. THIS WILL ENABLE THE MEN TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE BREEDING FOR. HOW CAN A MAN TOIL FOR ANOTHER MAN? GOD ABEG

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Kingzjayzee:
supported 💯%

Government should this... government should that... the same government has yet to provide you with clean drinking water, a dependable electricity supply, a worthy educational system, good roads, better telecommunication, and financial services, along with other services you are constantly tasked with.

In the year 2025, a country with about 774 LGAs cannot boast of any of the following
■ Clean water supply to homes
■ Robust sewage and water management system
■ Effective Waste management system
■ Good schools with world-standard educational and Skills training services
■ Internet connectivity in both homes and businesses
■ Electricity supply to homes and businesses(through building of dams, use of wind turbines, and better distribution services)
■ World Standard equipped Healthcare network
■ Sturdy road network complete
■ Passenger Rail system linking at least the major towns and cities
■ Network of Libraries with free access to members of the public to support learning
■ Better prison facilities and rehabilitation programs
■ Expansion of police-community programs to help capture crimes across all parts of the state.
■ Robust Gas transmission network for the direct piping of gas into homes. , etc.

Yet this is the same government that you expect to save you from the problems your dicks/pussies get you all into? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 ....

DyshApp:
✓ An unusual domestic saga has unfolded in Abia State, where an 80-year-old man allegedly served his wife divorce papers, sparking outrage and disbelief within the local community.
The incident was brought to public attention by Ochiegbu Marvelous, a human rights advocate on Facebook, who intervened after the 70-year-old woman was reportedly detained by the police on the orders of her husband.
According to Marvelous, the man accused his wife of attempting to poison him five years ago, and used the allegation to have her taken into custody.


In a post shared on social media, Marvelous narrated the bizarre sequence of events:

“80-year-old man from my village served his wife of 70 years divorce papers last week from the high court in Abia. Their first son is in his 40s.”

He revealed that he and his team were able to secure the woman’s release from the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department (SCIID) in Abia State.

Marvelous further alleged that the man sold off 20 plots of land in an apparent effort to “show his wife pepper.” Matters escalated when their son challenged his father over the situation, only for the father to allegedly include his son’s name in a petition, labelling him a kidnapper.
“I don’t really know the person engineering this, but I’m disappointed.
Accusing someone with no questionable character of being a kidnapper is just too much,” Marvelous wrote.
He praised officers at the State SCIID for their professionalism and swift handling of the case, saying they kept his team well-informed throughout the ordeal.

if the man wants a divorce, then he should get it abeg. I don't understand why he needs to get the police involved for his case to be taken seriously. 🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

APOPTOSIS:
Never Wife an Ashawo. They may retire at some point because of low customer turnover but they never get TIRED.

Better go do DNA test on all the kids born to you by your virgin wife before you have to come back crying soon. While you are at it, make sure to follow up with a DNA test to confirm you are your father's son, and also a fertility test on yourself as well to round it up nicely. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

WetSmoke:
Make sure you are your father's son also while at it

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BABANGBALI:
women are more dangerous than men. It has always been like that since the time of Adam and Eve.

Storyland! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

libertyfather:
The wife kpai herself? This can never be Nigeria my country....the ones here no care for any baga papa, casting nah casting go hang urslef

It's the other part of the story that claims the man continued with the kids as if nothing happened that is totally un-Nigerian. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

dapsoneh:
✓ If i am Tinubu, o will make DNA test free, by the time i scatter many homes, nobody will remember whether i'm dping w3ll or not

Man wey devastate una economy in less than a month in office and watched as the people did nothing will turn around and do that for you? Why are you all so frustrating as humans?

virginboy1:
✓ Any man that marries a virgin in this era, have less worries over raising another mans child...especially the first child
✓ I am eagerly waiting for the day the price of DNA test will be cheap like pure water,,,

Abiola and many of your ancestors also married virgins. But w know today from those many examples that doesn't solve anything.

2. Make sure not to get any woman pregnant until then. 😂😂😂

BABANGBALI:
Obirin. Trust them at your own peril

same can be said of the men. So, which one? Trust no one, right? 😂😂😂😂

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Happen to who?
Team #TearRubber or nothing.

Your kind of ogbon is the sort many of our ancestors including Abiola probably used. We all know the results of that stewpidity to laugh out arses off at today. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Una no dey ever learn! 😂😂😂😂

yemmit90:
Whenever this happened, just know that the man involves might be battling with low sparm count withiout knowing. Alot of Nigeria men have this but will never know because their wives are constantly getting pregnant.
There is no way you will not father just a child out of 4 from a wife you constantly slept with. His wife may not be sleeping around self, just occasional accidental quicky could get her pregnant since her husband sperm is infertile.
DNA test at birth is the best.

Interesting! 🤔

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Why you no marry virgin? At least you would have been sure your firstborn is yours. Now see your life outside.

You people never learn! Wait until it happens to you so you can come tell us stories! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣