₦airaland Forum

Santalpharay:
➜If it is not a criminal offence, then it is a moral offence. No religion teaches you that unclothedness in public is your choice.

Moral offense according to whom? You?

God1000:
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https://www.facebook.com/100068376034740/posts/pfbid02wPmP7auGGZUjHmJwCaCnxqRViSt3tiDmoNZoqb3w7Qet3Lk1oQKX28dw6QQvN8Ful/?app=fbl

How old was this oldest daughter who took a DNA test to trace her ancestry? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Lanretoye:
✓ As if you wear cloth come from heavendress code of hell is unclothedness and you came to this world unclothed,that means you came from where?

Every human is born from the earth and not this heaven. And when humans die, every human is recycled back to the earth from which he was born from. 🤔

Houseontherock1:
➜Private party thrown in our faces via social media? Are you saying other "private" guests were pre-informed that they were going to see the bride's breasts as a side show?
➜ While no law explicitly mentions "breasts," various statutes address indecent acts and exposure, which can encompass such behavior, including the criminal code (Southern Nigeria), section 231, it criminalizes any willful indecent act in public without lawful excuse and is punishable by up to two years' imprisonment. If you are familiar with the VAPP Act (2015), section 26 also addresses indecent exposure! It defines indecent exposure as intentionally exposing genital organs or a substantial part thereof with the intent to cause distress or induce another to commit an offense! I'm sure you will throw a fit if any guest attends the"private" party with his balls hanging out of his trousers or only the tip of his penis covered!

1. Social media is an opt-in system, not a platform that forces anything on you.

2. I am all for people knowing what their law says, but I guess I also have to add here that you ensure you comprehend what it says. For instance, those criminal codes you quoted cannot be used against a stripper in a night club or a mentally ill naked man or woman on the streets. Do you know? Do you understand why?

Oceanjagaban:
➜No be everybody for UK na him dey okay....u never hear am.many people for Lagos suffer pass other people for other states.

I know for a fact it is a very small circle of people in the entire Lagos State that even get invited to gatherings such as the one in the video.

olaniyilukman:
➜Why are you so belittle and have inferiority complex,
➜ what has living in Lagos has to do with this,
➜ we are condemning this immorality in totality and you are here defending thrash, does that means walking naked is also fashion now

Belittle? I belittled no one but merely set out to point out the fact that these events are removed from the life and realities of 10s of millions who think it their place to comment or dictate regarding what goes on in those sorts of places, events that are not even of the criminal kind

2. It has a lot since it is not your culture or your place to comment on.

3. You are instead belittling their lifestyle and attempting to impose your inferiority complex issues on others. These people are comfortable with their bodies and so have no problem showing them off. You, on the other hand, probably come from a culture where you are fed tales that your bodies need to be covered out of shame— your ancestors walked around naked, more than just a fashion statement but a lifestyle.

okrikaboi:
➜Your take on parents and family is just sad. Who hurt you? 😔
➜ You seem to be going through an existential crisis, I hope you find peace.

It may seem sad to you because they are some sort of gods to you. But when you see them for the flawed humans they really are, you may realize that you have been relating to them in the wrong way all this time.

2. Existential crisis? You keep using terms you have little to no understanding of, why?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEzMwNBjkAU?si=caFKmY7KW0h6FBtf
Anyways, I don't have one of those since I am at peace with the facts surrounding my entering of this cycle of life and eventual exit from this life.

triplechoice:
➜You can only say it was leaked if you have evidence guests were barred from recording the event and posting it online. Yes , there have been some private parties where guests were prevented from using their phones to capture anything going on. And if the celebrant was the one who posted it online , would you still call it "leaked"

? You should probably look up the word's application before responding next time. The fact that a function is private makes all that pertains to it private. To move any of the contents from that private space into the public space is to leak the particular content.

RenoOkriTheGoat:
I bought this pet dog two days ago from a security guard. I noticed that it has not been barking, instead it constantly makes a funny sound like laughter. I'm thinking of selling it. It appears that it might become dangerous in future. It stares at me in a scary way too.

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Santalpharay:
➜Don't mind them. Those people defending her should lead by example.
➜They will cover their own oo, hide it well we'll inside the house.
➜ But they will be cheering another person who exposed herself

Is the man or the woman in this case your child or your slave that you intend to lead by example ba yi? 😏

2. If I am conservative, I will probably cover my own and hide my body inside the house. But don't you see how utterly stewpid it would be of me to pretend that my conservative ideas should be imposed on others who do not share or desire any of it? 🙄🙄🙄

3. This is what they want, and it is not a criminal offense, so what exactly is wrong with celebrating with them on achieving their goal ba yi? Why are you people so sadistic that you would go as far as to demand people be denied their joy for the sake of your meaningless private prejudices and biases?

Santalpharay:
➜You mean stinking Lasgidi. Stripers club full everywhere. One can attend by choice.
➜ But this is a wedding and the bride's dressing should be decent.
➜ The groom should be ashamed of himself

. Who said anything about strip clubs? This is a wedding, a private event.

2. According to what law or code, criminal or otherwise?

3. The groom should be ashamed of the woman he chose with all his heart to marry? Are you sure you are OK?

princeademuyiwa:
This kind of marriage doesn't last, it's either the lady is the bread winner
✓ and she can't be controlled by the groom.

Which kind of marriages last then?

2. So, marriage where the woman can be controlled by the groom are the sort of marriages that last, abi?

Bobage16:
Sorry, just asking, Is this happening to gen x or gen h or which one or all of them? 🥴🙏

We all know the truth. Let's stop lying to ourselves abeg!

IbrahimSola:
➜Her groom may not complain for you hear, after all you and I were not there in their room before or after the wedding.
➜ Any sane man would frown at such cheap and provocative display of your food outside. It is possible that the man was seeing the dress for the first time that day. Women lack values these days. They lack that decorum that characterizes a woman. They want to be loud in dressing, appearance, in word and in deed.
A woman who is okay with this kind of dress has nothing to offer the next generation. She lacks good sense of judgement and trivialize any serious issue. A man who is okay with this kind of dress has a lot to learn. The dressing is simply irresponsible, and anyone who is unbothered about it is also irresponsible. My opinion.

Una too dey like yarn nonsense!

The groom was aware of most likely aware of what she prepared to wear and probably even paid for it all. He sanely approved it all and even invited his friends to oogle his bride. So wetin be una own? Why do you lot impose your minuscule existence and ideas as standards for others to live and even marry their own wives by? Shame no dey catch una?

okrikaboi:
➜Very stable family and me and pops are so cool. He is even way cooler, like I said it could be positive or negative. You got triggered lol, drink water.

Triggered? Far from it since I was never entralled by the idea of either parent units as a youngster. Yeah, they clothed, fed, and raised me, but that was their duty since they chose to bring me into this world — my permission was not solicited at any point—, and so I don't go around talking about them as though they sit as gods around me in my adult life. But since you are that way with yours, you should probably check to be certain what pole your particular issues lie on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQAXMyAnWuk?si=NPHXvNRbV86uwICl

cr7lomo:
➜So then don't complain when men disrespect and talk down on women as well...since u think its right...
➜ see u mentioning " movies" ...u women get easily influenced negatively
➜ ...reason tge devil easily used Eve

Moments ago, you claimed women could not talk back because in your mind they were inferior to their bosses, elder brothers, etc., implying that those could talk down to and disrespect women without consequence. However, now that you realize that women always had the authority to equally talk down and disrespect males of all ages and statures, suddenly you are on about right and wrong? Are you OK in the head? What has that to do with anything?

2. Whether women choose to be influenced negatively or not, it's their prerogative...their freedom... so what's it to you?

3. See this clown bringing up mentions of a devil after realizing his stewpidity! Even those who sold you those silly brain-dead tales of an Eve that was used by a devil never met or mattered to either. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Taiwojon:
➜See Your case is like Paul the apostle Keep showing your ignorance in the things of God until Christ arrest your soul. I rest my comment

Again, what is the evidence for your claim that it is baseless?

Taiwojon:
➜All these baseless allegation amount to nothing

What is the evidence for your claim that it is baseless?

3kay945:
You called this "private party" You sure you still remember the meaning of the word "private" ?

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Earthscience:
Stop trying to stay relevant with your meaningless reply. No offence! Don't bother quoting me because your reply will still be in line with my bolded words!

The saying, "Empty barrels make the loudest noises," is not for not. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

lenghtinny:
➜Madame defender of the female gender, I don’t have your time tonight

I am on the side of commonsense, not a gender. So, tell us why this simple question scares you?

Is not liking sex the same thing as not wanting sex at all?

lenghtinny:
➜You get the point….I used to be in a relationship with someone that initially gave me the impression that she didn’t really like sex, making me feel like a sex freak. Until I decided to tone down on it and practice semen retention, na their kasala burst. This babe worry me for sex like mad I began to wonder if it was the same person that wasn’t into sex when we started dating.
Better gaslighting oooo

Is not liking sex the same thing as not wanting sex at all?

Myrepublic:
➜There is a woman for every man,and man for every woman.
➜ When you go and marry a wrong partner,maybe because of wealth or yansh,the marriage will definitely have issues that you both won't be able to manage.
➜ But when you both are meant for each other,no matter the storm,it won't break you two apart.
For more counseling, contact me on...

There is no truth to this belief.

2. Any partner can be a wrong partner when both are not equally invested in the success and health of the relationship.

3. The idea that two people are meant for each other. Even maternal twins who share the same hobbies and likes can easily turn out enemies if they are not equally invested in making the relationship that exists between them successful.

luminouz:
➜Isn't it blatantly obvious? Women don't appreciate nice men or anything they already have dominion over. Once she knows she is your weakness, she will weaponize that...it's in their nature. But pretend you don't give a fûck or even have female admirers and watch how she will go extra lengths to give you 20 orgasms in 3 mins. I have seen this a million times and I'm sure you have...even if you play naive

You have seen it happen millions of times yet the same una dey always admit say na the SIMPs — nice men — dey always get the girls?

shinaola21:
🌺 When they confide in you they are stylishly telling you they need money abi no be women?? Na so one dey stylishly telling me say she no get phone and phone is what makes her happy. I just tell am eyahh sorry me sef I no get phone na so I dust my slippers and run,I hate girls wey dey bill

Since, when did saying common NO become a problem for people, abeg? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

okoloto:
➜ If the man no go out there to work his ass out, na them go still complain say he is lazy. All he does is stay at home and make love Bills have to be paid and most times these naggings kills the man's emotions.

So, a hardworking Nigerian man is not expected to have sex at all with his wife? Yet many of these same men are not by any means celibate?

DarkJeddi:
➜Yeah? She's not to be blamed but we can all see how she's making men the culprits. Women and accountability are strange bedfellows.

What nonsense is this? Making men culprits of what exactly? Did she suggest in her statement that her clients are only women? 🙄🙄🙄

DarkJeddi:
➜How many of the small girls insult the men? You people will go around making your homes a war front,and will cry foul when men keep away from the lack of peaceful environments you create.

Nigerians and denial ehn! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ten06:
When insults is being heaped on him daily how can he perform in the night? Too much nagging kills emotions/erection

. How come insults do not stop men from pursuing those small girls outside of their marriage?

Maurindo:
➜Awon feminist lawyer. Hope she's not been facilitating some of the divorce?

Are you OK at all? Is she to blame for the many problems people who come to her have in their marriages? Kai! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

DrAda:
➜I am exhausted by this exchange. Let's agree to disagree please

I agree with the others that sex is an important aspect of the Nigerian marriage, without which marriage becomes nothing but an informal prison sentence for many.

Akalia:
➜You are not entirely spot on. Take myself for example, I have being married for 5+ years and I still have a strong sexual attraction for my wife. In such on a few occasions that I cheated in the past, came to the realization that the women I slept with didn't give me the high level orgasm I usually get when I do it with my wife.
Unfortunately,my wife seems to have realized that I am sexually drawn to her strongly even after birthing two male children, she deprives me sex often citing tiredness or comes up with some flimsy excuses. She has weaponized sex. I no gbadu cheating because of the fear of GOD and I also do not get the same high level satisfaction with other women like I do get when I do it with my wife. So it's not entirely true for all men that their sexual drive towards their partners wane with the passage of time.
Where I work I have a lot of female IT intakes and colleagues but I have never being moved to approach them discreetly with a sexual motive, just don't find them sexually attractive even through they got all the right features.

Why does all of this read like assumptions you have conveniently concluded on without even seeking input from your other half? Have you ever actually had a talk with her on the matter? Have you two ever sat down like a couple to discuss your sex lives?