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RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 10:50pm On May 08, 2025
sparko1:
➜Close your eyes, raise your right hand, but it on your head! Repeat after, Who do me like this🙄🙄
A single mom is like every woman, they can barely love a man when they are single, [b]once they become a mom, the man is just a tool, something that has to provide or it becomes useless.[/b]
➜ If you want to test, just tell her you don't have money when she asked, see how fast she moves on.
Wait a second... isn't a woman— every woman— equally just a tool to many of the very same men? undecided

2. Hold up! Let's revisit reality here, shall we? undecided

The traditional marriage system in Nigeria— the societal norm— requires the man in the relationship to be a provider during and throughout the entire duration of the relationship/marriage in return for the woman's submission to him. This system mandates that the man regularly bring to the table his capacity as a provider for him to continue to enjoy submission from the woman in the relationship. By catering to the financial needs of his woman and family, the man is rewarded with his ego's desire — her submission and loyalty. This system of relationship insists that as long as the man is a provider, the man offers his submission. This equally implies that once that man is no longer able to act as a provider, the woman is not obligated to continue offering him her submission. undecided

But here you are insinuating, against the very societal norm, that a woman should continue to submit to the man even when he has lost his ability as the provider for his family? Why? Where does this idea of yours come from? Why is the woman, against the very contract that society holds to at the basic level, to live as a slave to the man in this case? What is your reason for thinking this way?🙄🙄🙄
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie:
lawrenzooo:
➜You're getting it wrong. She might be a single mum because she has bad character. But she doesn't have bad character because she's a single mum.
She is a divorced woman because she was abandoned by her husband during their marriage. He told you the husband ran off, abandoning his child— is the child a bad person too?—, and last I checked, abandonment is considered a criminal offense in Nigeria. 🙄🙄🙄
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 10:31pm On May 08, 2025
TechBaron:
➜I recently had an episode with one. Single mum of one. Her marriage lasted less than 6 months and the ex husband blocked her everywhere and has even abandoned their 5 year old kid.
➜ She tried enticing me with gifts and some dramaric nollywood style of love.. But deep inside, I knew there was something wrong with the lady, I sha wanted to see what made baba to run within a span of 6 months, and even abandoned his kid. Everything was going well, till she started showing me her true character. Omoh. I need not go into details... lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed See ehn.. Run from anything single mother. Even the one that you made, just run. I repeat, RUN..
Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

The person you described is not a single mother but a divorced of which there are so many out there too. Second, if her ex-husband, father of her child, blocked her, what you are insinuating is that she is not getting support from him as far as his own child is concerned, meaning he is some sort of deadbeat dad. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Silly retort! You mean like your other girlfriends, whom you are no longer with, before that point in time, and maybe afterwards? Most of you are too dramatically deluded for your own good. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
CultureRe: I Have A Very Weird Question, So Maybe One Of You Can Enlighten Me by Kobojunkie: 10:23pm On May 08, 2025
Fenrir:
➜Its nothing rude or abusive this time but....Hypothetically if a 70 year Nigerian man and 70 year old Nigerian woman wanted to get married. Their parents are dead and their aunts and uncles are dead, they have no cousins alive, so they are the elders of their families. Who does the introduction or knocking or whatever the tribes do? Who does the bride price talks? Who does what? Or do they just get married because they are old age pensioners and its not they are going to have kids or anything and all they want is companionship and to live together. That question is bugging the crap out of me because 2 old people close to me actually want to marry each other and I dont want to be rude and ask them directly
They should simply head to the local courts and be done with it. grin
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 10:14pm On May 08, 2025
InDiscov500:
➜Why he should be me to rebuild the Bonds I didn't break?,why me beared the Consequences of covetousness her?,why he should be me to clean another's messes? I need answers to this question
. Did anyone force you into dating a single mother or something? What sort of inane questions are these?🙄🙄🙄

You are responsible for your choice of who you date. If you choose to date a single mother, then it is on you that you made that decision for yourself, not the other way around. So, grow up and start making more mature decisions for your life so you don't have to ask these ridiculous questions of anyone. 🙄🙄🙄
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 10:09pm On May 08, 2025
dmgr:
Of course being a single mother isn't a death sentence, but make them sha avoid me.
It is your responsibility to avoid those who are red flags to you, not the other way around. undecided
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 9:56pm On May 08, 2025
fmlala:
➜Some single mothers too are something else
And who installed you as monitoring spirit over what single mothers can or cannot do, though? Are single individuals not equally prone to being something else? undecided
RomanceRe: Some Things To Deal With Before Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 9:54pm On May 08, 2025
cutecommend:
➜Here are some things to deal with before marriage.
(1) Bad mouth odour if any.
(2) Bad body odour if any.
(3) Bad private part or vagina odour if any.
(4) Bad eating habit and table manners. Do not eat terribly in the name of forming comedy.
(5) Cheating tendencies or habita.
(6) Gambling.
(7) Prostitution tendencies.
(cool Bad dress sense.. Dressing like old woman, old man, primitive person e.t.c.
(9) Insincerity.
(10) Pride and selfishness
(11) Laziness
E.t.c
Deal with before marriage? Isn't the fact that you are to be married mean that you have been accepted by your partner as-is? 😏😏
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 9:52pm On May 08, 2025
Amumaigwe:
➜Unfortunately, nobody wants to date them.
There is no truth to this conclusion of yours, given that many of them actually have more dates, some even married, before many single women. undecided
RomanceRe: Single Mother Dilemma by Kobojunkie: 9:51pm On May 08, 2025
atoliman:
➜Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them
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RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:32pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Alaye, i don't read romantic books. Am not the type grin
➜ Am a human being and observe the norms in the society. I don't have to read book to know some things that is stearling at me as am in this world.
➜ Are you into relationship or single let me know where your problem is from?
Why would I want you to read a romantic book after clearly posting a link revealing the science behind the brain-chemicals that people confuse as love, many times? undecided

2. If you were observing norms, you would not be regurgitating the same farce that people did many ignorant, maybe even bothering of delusional, ideas people threw about many hundreds/thousands of years ago, as though it were the norm of today. undecided

3. Again, go read some books on human relationships and behavior in general, your brain, and maybe even critical thinking, to help rid you of these delusions you continue to cling to. undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:22pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Have told you the fact. Even that woman currently with you is dating you for a reason.
➜ Financial benefit or other things she found attractive in you. We men also love Beautiful ladies that is attractive which is lust.
➜ The women we trurly love are our Mum and Sisters same for women.
Every human being, whether male or female, dates for a reason. Be it financial benefit, an egotistical need, or whatever, every couple's relationship is entered into for selfish reasons. If you haven't already figured this basic fact out, then again, I suggest you stay away from relationships altogether. undecided

2. There is absolutely nothing wrong with entering a relationship for selfish reasons, be they financial, superficial, egotistical, etc. They are all valid reasons to engage in a relationship with others. undecided

3. Nonsense! I suggest you get off the internet and go bury your head in books until you have clearly rid yourself of this ignorance you seem to be working with. undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:18pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜You're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation. Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself. Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation
So when you're soft and not that wealthy, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for youYou're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation.
➜ Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself. Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation.
➜ So when you're soft and also not rich, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for you grin
1. Please stop feeding yourself these nonsensical tales in these numerous attempts to evade responsibility for your own choices. The problem isn't with the women but with those of you who walk around life expecting all women to be the same when the same you would never expect that all men are the same. That is one of the biggest reasons why you choose women who are obviously bad for you, only so you can then turn around and complain that it is women to blame when the roosters come home to roost. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. How old are you, since I am not sure where you get that these women define love in the manner that you do? It almost seems more like you believe that because you think a thing the it is what others think. I really suggest you spend some time reading books so you can get past these ignorant ideas you hold regarding women and dating, as clearly you are well on your way to heartbreak and possibly loneliness with those things you have in your head. undecided

3. Nonsense talk! undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:11pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Even a girk that initially loves you may later find you boring or weak if you're soft.
➜ What we call love most times is just lust and other attractive features both gender found in each other
1. It has nothing to do with your being soft but merely the fact that the feelings she once had have slowly faded over time. The exact same happens when a boy who initially liked her, after a while, no longer finds her appealing. And has absolutely nothing to do with the person that is no longer liked, but the person whose emotions are no longer as they were. undecided

2. What you are trying to describe are the brain-chemical induced perceptions that people confuse with love. Yes, brain-chemical-induced feelings fade over time, and, naturally, since the brain can only withstand that much mental assault from those chemicals for only a short while. undecided

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5CG_vEHrQE?si=5gUlbp1kqVAso9DO
PoliticsRe: 24 Federal Tertiary Institutions Powered By Solar Energy – Minister by Kobojunkie: 8:52pm On May 08, 2025
Holluwhakemmy:
Hope you are still presently in the country? If yes, come and verify by yourself ire ooo
So, I need to travel across states to learn whether your claim is right or wrong? Are you volunteering to pay the cost of the trip and accommodation as well, then? huh
PoliticsRe: 24 Federal Tertiary Institutions Powered By Solar Energy – Minister by Kobojunkie: 8:47pm On May 08, 2025
Holluwhakemmy:
The one installed in OAU campus is working perfectly
So, the entirety of OAU university is currently lit up as we speak by Solar panels? How many solar panels— square meters of space covered —are we talking about here? undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 8:40pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Not only about not being into her. The guy is too nice and the type that don't shun a girl even when she did wrong.
➜ A girl may not be into you but will give you maximum respect when she is with you. She clearly don't love him, but the main issue is not regarding his presence as well which is totally bad.
➜ If the guy keep beeing too soft, he will continue having same issue with women. Women don't like soft men
1. What exactly is the point of shunning the girl in this case? She is not into him and acts on it. The most the guy would do in that case is walk away. So, why shun him as if she is expected to act according to his own emotional needs? undecided
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2. Nonsense! She is not into you, AND she does not owe you any respect at all. There is no law out there requiring others to give you the respect you feel you require from them, so why do you think it makes sense to insist others give you respect as though it is something you are entitled to? Don't you realize how absurd that thinking is? undecided

3. Nonsense! He simply needs to try finding himself a girlfriend who is not only into him but also shares his ideas. That is the simplest, really. undecided
FamilyRe: My Mom Became My Dad | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY by Kobojunkie(op): 8:31pm On May 08, 2025
ShinjaWWest:
➜This the type of rubbish U always support...,No wonder you are always offpoint

Christianity EtcRe: A Lot Of Young People Are Angry, See Why! by Kobojunkie: 7:53pm On May 08, 2025
captaininiobong:
A lot of young people are annoyed if you mention religion to them. ‎Listen to this live story
So, it turns out your own pastor is also a manipulative arsehole? Whoopie... since it took you this long to. I hope you will discard him and move on from them all after this, then. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie:
duduade:
➜Exactly what I was going to type. His children will look for him.. but this is sad o
They will look for him after their youth has long been wasted away as ogogoro sales reps, right? After that, you expect those same kids to show love to him, abi? Why you people keep having kids continues to leave me befuddled. undecided
RomanceRe: Marriage Is Dumb On A Conceptual Level by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On May 08, 2025
Kaczynski:
➜marriage is simply not worth it ,
➜although you find love and companionship, after courting for a long time and planning to have kids, you can proceed to marriage. courting should be long as possible, no need to rush somebody you'll be with for a life time
➜ a lot of people marry out of social pressure and society after marriage they born pikin like fowl without consideration of the kids they're bringing into existence
Bullsheet, given that the true worth of any idea is determined, not by those who forgo it out of fear or anxiety, but by those who embrace it and maybe even actually test it out for themselves. 🙄🙄

2. This is how you know people are just full of sheet! Earlier, you had said
⚉ Couples can't stay in love for the entirety of their lives
⚉ That only those in an artificially enforced arrangement— the stay in love part— remain in marriage after even the appealing period — the 5-year average, according to you — is over.

Given these claims of yours, what then does it matter whether one spends 1 minute or 3 years courting? Also, you think there is worth in marriage since you insist on this long courting period even though you already declared it of no real worth. Why not simply admit your commitment phobia instead of jumping around with these contradictory claims? 🙄🙄🙄

2. Unmarried individuals equally have kids like fowl all over the place. Are you now going to argue entirely against procreation? 🙄🙄🙄

Look, go deal with your psychological issues you seem to be having in your life due to relationship stress, and stop creating useless threads all over to further confuse already confused beings out there. 🙄🙄🙄

I recommend that you subscribe to and watch videos from the following YouTube links to help grow your mind in the meantime
https://www.youtube.com/@TEDEd
https://www.youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv
https://www.youtube.com/@Psych2go
RomanceRe: Marriage Is Dumb On A Conceptual Level by Kobojunkie: 6:39pm On May 08, 2025
Kaczynski:
➜Why are we lying to ourselves that two people can stay in love for the entirety of their lives? It's ridiculous. All the stats support the reality that marriage, unless artificially enforced, just isn't appealing to people past like 5 years or so, on average.
➜I wonder if people are going to figure out how to raise kids without marriage and just see who they want to see. I think it'd be healthier in the long run.
➜ Last week my gf threatened to break up with me because i don't have plans of marrying her even tho I love you , why do women like complicating matters
1. I think what people mean when they refer to love is marriage is a reference to the artificial enforcements you refer to in your next statement. undecided

2. When it comes to raising kids, the more mature individuals involved in the process, the better. undecided

3. Your girlfriend has the right to break up with you since you are both not headed in the right direction. You are being unfairly cruel to her by suggesting she remain your girlfriend when you are not at all compatible — she wants marriage, and you don't. If you truly loved her, as you pretend, you would want nothing but her happiness above all, not yours. Nothing you spew can cover this obvious fact. Let her go and find someone else who does not desire marriage to frolick with. undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is About Balance, Do You Agree? by Kobojunkie: 6:19pm On May 08, 2025
bukatyne:
cheesy grin You love trouble!
Na lie I talk? According to OP, the woman literally has to make at least 3 times what he makes to get him to submit to doing the same set of chores she does for his measly one part. Does any of that seem balanced to you? 😐😐😐😐
Christianity EtcRe: I Opened One Eye After Miracle Prayers, Kumuyi Shares Story Of His First Crusade by Kobojunkie: 6:07pm On May 08, 2025
OriOko88:
I believe him
Of course, you will. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Christianity EtcRe: Health Ministry Slams Oyakhilome’s Salt Consumption Claims by Kobojunkie: 5:56pm On May 08, 2025
sinola:
Funny enough, i'm sure there are some health experts and certified health professionals present in his congregation when he was spewing this health trash... Don't be surprised that instead of calling their MOG to order, they will be keying in to his mischievous and misleading preachings Religion don finish us in this part of the world.Chai!
I wouldn't consider any of them fit to treat even my dog. angry
Christianity EtcRe: Health Ministry Slams Oyakhilome’s Salt Consumption Claims by Kobojunkie: 5:55pm On May 08, 2025
do4luv14:
➜You might want to read that msg again, and see what the ministry Said, besides there is salt in almost all food we consumed, same as sugar,
In a practical aspect, you will not see the west consuming salty foods much, buh, can you say same for rice, semo, Eba, Fufu and the rest,
Mind you they contain certain amount of salt
Wetin you dey yarn, abeg? 😩😩😩😩
FamilyRe: Please Help My Son Make Decision by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On May 08, 2025
NeneOfushi:
My son will be writing his jsce soon and they will be having 3 months holiday after the exam. I want him to learn a skill before they resume. He's suggesting repairing of phone and Tailoring. Which do you think wil be better? Your opinion will be much appreciated
Those are not bad skills to learn, provided he does so in an effective way. But what exactly is his goal? What exactly does he intend to learn in 3 months of doing either? Does he plan to learn how to make a complete outfit from scratch in 3 months, or does he plan to learn everything there is to learn about repairing phones in just 3 months? undecided
PoliticsRe: 24 Federal Tertiary Institutions Powered By Solar Energy – Minister by Kobojunkie:
TimeManager:
➜The Minister of Education, Tunji Alausa, says 24 federal institutions have been powered by solar energy under the “Energising Education Project” of President Bola Tinubu’s Administration.
Alausa, who disclosed this on Wednesday in Abuja at the Collaboration Agreement Signing Ceremony with the vice chancellors of beneficiary institutions, added that eight more universities have signed collaboration agreements to join the fourth phase of the project.
https://punchng.com/24-federal-tertiary-institutions-powered-by-solar-energy-minister/
Lies! Na today Nigeria become Nigeria? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
HealthRe: 2 Co-Wives Hospitalised In FCT After Taking Herb To Arouse Husband (Pic) by Kobojunkie: 4:51pm On May 08, 2025
FamilyRe: Looking 4 The Fruits Of The Womb,come In Here. by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On May 08, 2025
terrezo2002:
➜ Ha ha ha. Call me anything you like. My joy is that you cannot stop the work of God.
It is the brazenness of your numerous lies that gets me realizing there is no hope at all left for you lot. Liars and Fraudsters, all of you! 😩😩😩
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie:
appleous:
➜May God never barb me this style in Jesus' name. I wonder how you had so many kids with this kind of person. If you have no discipline, you might decide to sleep with just any kind of person, but there are some people you shouldn't sire kids with. Not to sound classist, but having kids with the daughter of an Ogogoro seller?
➜You laid your bed, you are now being forced to lie on it, and having nightmares. Cut your losses and move on, as it is clear you don't even have the financial capacity to fight the daughter of an Ogogoro and her mother. Move on!!!
This statement is classist as it is not illegal to work as an ogogoro seller in a country where people have limited options when it comes to making ends meet. undecided

2. He should abandon the kids altogether? sad
FamilyRe: Looking 4 The Fruits Of The Womb,come In Here. by Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On May 08, 2025
terrezo2002:
➜The gate of hell cannot prevail. All your antichrist activities cannot stop the work of God.
Liars and Fraudsters, all of you! 😩😩😩

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