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JaySmart4422:
✓ Is like this is the new format that mother's are using to get a man to quickly come and marry their daughter.
A guy met a lady and decided to go pay her a visit to know her better n know her family, the next thing the girls mother started advising him to come and marry the girl as fast as he could cos so many men have been coming for her hand in marriage.
Before you say jack my guy entered unknown to him that the girl in question has a terrible character issues and it was asif the mother was targeting a scapegoat
and she got him.

The mother told him not to do a big wedding in fact guest should be served immediately after church service with carbin biscuits and mineral wedding closed.

The guy is currently not a happy man
Everything has fallen apart for him
No job , no shelter, even the so called wife left him.

Same thing happened to another good guy
The girls family lied to him that many rich men are coming to ask their daughters hand in marriage he should hurry up
My guy hurry up rush enter Today house be like hell fire .Men please be careful shine your eyes This format is what mothers are using to hang problems on your neck in the name of a wife.

elmodee7:
✓ Maybe, but mention one "Big " G O in Nigeria that lives this modest.

JuanDeDios:
➜His life compared with that of a pauper - in some ways. If you can't see that, something is wrong with your thought process. He complied with the demands of his office, in the open, for the cameras, but in private, where Junkie can't see him to praise or cuss, where there were no cameras, he slept like a pauper.

Cruzmaster:
➜Serve lavish as how? Did u think that Catholic Church is like Winners where GO live lavishly? Even with all money Catholic have, their Pope does not have private jet. He carry his bag by himself. I'm not Catholic but from my experience, they live normal life.

MadPolitician:
➜Where you the one lavishing him with service?

JuanDeDios:
➜It's a lesson in focusing on what what's really important. The room served it's purpose for him: sleeping. He slept alone, so he maintained a bed that fit just one person. There's a deep spiritual meaning here. His office demanded that he should be served. But when it came to what he had control over, where he sleeps, he implemented his worldview.

Omihanifa:
✓ https://fij.ng/article/insider-access-banks-stephen-ejezie-secretly-filmed-400-videos-of-naked-colleagues-in-office-hes-a-free-man/

ogododo:
➜In the 12 years of his Papacy, Pope Francis lived in room 201 of Casa Santa Marta. This was his room
https://x.com/stats_feed/status/1915786599360614458?[/quote]Because he spent x number of hours sleeping in a room like that each day, we should all then turn a blind eye to the fact that the same man lived a lavish life, served hand and foot by those around him all the other hours of the day? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Eriokanmi:
With this your long arms , you still dey do ako abi? Continue. Don't come on social media tomorrow and be shouting I need a husband oo. A lot of women had snubbed and missed their husbands unknowingly

salvation77177:
✓ Miss perfect woman looking a ready made or a perfect man. That's why they cannot keep marriage. Always looking for who has made it You forget that it's God that gives genuine and lasting prosperity. Good to you in searching for Mr. rich

Threedoorsdown:
✓ Lol. You guys need to go out and touch grass. Someone with nothing to his name(car or house according to una) should not get married even if he has a business or job that provides for himself and family? No offense in all sincerity but are you guys thinking at all?

kokoA:
✓ How much is minimum wage in your country? How many people earn minimum wage in your country? How many people will earn up to the minimum wage before they die in your country? How many well to do people in the society now did their parents earned up to minimum wage growing up?

uvie66:
....and most of them do, breeding unnecessarily.

LadyExcellency:
✓ It's not marriages that produce children. Sex does. And there's nothing you suggested to stop poor people from having sex and sex is the only source of true happiness for them.

Maobichek:
✓ Good day, most men including myself "married down" and are still doing well for our families and in-laws. ✓ To be frank with you, both men and women should be doing something, non should be a liability.
Lastly, one thing i observed from marrying down as a man is that you will plan better because you have responsibilities and your in-laws will always respect you because their daughter is comfortable.

Baronthecelebri:
She's right, how can a man be broke at 40, guys go and make money

Threedoorsdown:
➜I don't have issues if you want to marry someone higher than you financially but why talk down on the person when you are doing the exact same thing you accuse them of wanting to do with you.

Magnoliaa:
➜Summary pliz.

Exploring various perspectives on love, the Symposium is one of Plato’s most acclaimed works. Composed of a series of encomia concerning love, the text is structured as a dialogue, allowing characters to ask each other questions. One of the most influential speeches in this text is that of Aristophanes, who illustrates love through a myth regarding the history of humankind and the origin of soulmates. According to his account, humans were originally twice the size of present-day humans and spherical in shape. As punishment for their misbehaviour, Zeus halved each human, dividing one soul between two bodies. As a result, each person yearned for their other half—their soulmate. Aristophanes therefore proposes that love is a “pursuit for wholeness” (Plato 25) and that we seek fulfillment in reuniting with our other half. However, the other outlooks on love considered in the text at large suggest this is an insufficient theory of love. Eryximachus recognizes a difference between good and bad kinds of love. Diotima illustrates why love is not an end in itself, but a means to divine beauty and wisdom. Through these other perspectives on love, the reader is shown that Aristophanes’ speech simplifies love as a mere quest for wholeness. By telling a comic story about human nature, Aristophanes limits love to an exclusive pairing, fails to distinguish good and bad types of love, and disregards what love can lead to.

Portraying love as a quest for wholeness implies humans are lacking and can only become complete upon reuniting with their other half. While the notion of seeking soulmates can be considered beautiful or pleasing, depicting individuals as incomplete is a flawed element in Aristophanes’ theory of love. In fact, a paper discussing how eros relates to this idea of unfulfillment in Symposium, Chien-Ya Sun explains that this sense of lack is attributed to human nature, and states that, in Aristophanes’ myth, “the solution is pointed in one direction—a person” (494). Satiating our need for love exclusively through one person is problematic for two apparent reasons. Firstly, it narrowly defines love as the romantic kind, not accounting for other forms of love, such as familial and platonic, which are also greatly valued and should not be overlooked. Secondly, this approach to love is absolute, in the sense that lovers have no other pursuits once they find each other. In his speech, Aristophanes refers to the power of this loving devotion superseding the fundamental survival needs of two lovers: “they would not do anything apart from each other” (Plato 27). Although this may initially appear affectionate, love is depicted as a terminal phenomenon; once acquired, the lovers cannot ameliorate themselves through each other, nor can they cultivate their shared love. Instead, they forfeit everything else, leading to their death. Accordingly, if the solution to the incompleteness lovers experience as individuals is the love found through their other half, and once realized, results in death, humans spend their lives striving for a feeling of fulfillment that is fatal, as it stops them from seeking anything but each other. While Aristophanes employs a myth to illustrate his theory of love, another character in Symposium, Eryximachus, utilizes a metaphor. https://wordpress.viu.ca/compassrose/searching-for-soulmates-aristophanes-simplification-of-love-in-platos-symposium/

Toymax88:
➜Thanks in million!!! This was the advice from the office of OYO STATE GOVERNMENT, I sent a message and this was the reply I got, though I was directed to THE MINISTRY OF WOMEN AFFAIRS AND SOCIAL INCLUSIONS, ONIREKE, I was given a phone number of an officer on level 17
The man also directed me to an officer, who's currently handling the situation. We are probably going to meet on 5/5/ 2025. Especially on the education of the children.
If u are in IBADAN, I will want u to be present

kiksi:
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Obakoolex:
Na wetin iyabo ojo daughter sef talk about her ex's why she didn't marry any of them.

Toymax88:
➜What made jump into conclusion?

Toymax88:
➜Honestly, I'm very serious. She will clock 39 on 14th September, 2025 14/09/1988

Thundafireseun:
➜Baby mamas are extremely evil

Thundafireseun:
Baby mamas are sent from HELL with their entitlement mentality

Toymax88:
➜They hide on the instruction of the MIL. A neighbor told me

eniolorunfe:
➜Why are you using the words “wife” and “MIL”. You said it yourself that you’re yet to pay the bride price of the 38 year old woman that bore you three kids. If you’re the wife’s family, will you be happy to welcome “the man” that has refused to do right by their daughter into your home?

Toymax88:
➜I'm 41 and she's 38.
➜ My point is this. I informed my wife when I arrived OJOO that will soon be at their family house at BARIKA, so when I got there, the MIL wasn't around and I didn't c my wife. So I used the opportunity to interrogate some neighbours and that's when the truth was revealed. The MIL arrived like 2 hours after and met me in front of the house

Dopeboy8701:
➜When she don reach 42 , her name go be hadiaknown

Hezzyluv:
➜Even if they guy has what it takes to write scripts 4her that will take her acting carrier to next level, she no go still send. Wetin dey that her eyes na money.