₦airaland Forum

Josywhyte:
This is really true with most women. I remember back then in Akwa ibom where a man sent his wife packing for calling him by his name(in an insulting manner) in front of her pastor and calling the pastor "big daddy". Na so 14yrs marriage take end o. The woman was so saucy but fears and obeys her pastor any day and any time.
No pastor should gain more respect from you than your husband.

He sent his wife of 14 years away for calling him by name. Hope his wife left him with his children, too. 🥱🥱🥱

Pukkalolo:
➜Look, Men…
Women are wired (evolutionarily, psychologically, call it what you want) to feel a raw attraction toward men who demand… not beg, not negotiate, not explain themselves...
Demanding men create tension. Tension creates heat. Heat creates sexual attraction or submission. Boss demands output… she delivers or loses income. That create tension and heat. So she works hard to please her Boss.
You: the husband or the loyal boyfriend , demand nothing real from her. Or when you do, it sounds weak like this: “Please don’t talk to me like that…” No consequence. No grounded dominance. So she frustrate you,. She pushes. She argues. She gives you attitude. Not because she’s evil. Not because she’s a bad wife. But because something primal in her is whispering: “Why does this man feel so weak?” or “Did I marry a man… or a boy who needs my approval to function?” And every time you fold, over-explain, bribe with gifts, or avoid confrontation to “keep the peace,” you don’t create peace.
You confirm your own weakness. And female attraction doesn’t attach to weakness. It slowly detaches from it. Then she starts cheating on you. Be wise, brothers... Stay blessed

With this mentality, una go continue to dey wonder why you never have peace in marriage from your wife and why your children will almost always choose their mother over you, their father when they are grown. They there dey deceive una selves with many of the same old brain damage.🥱🥱

Oyinbo talk say old dogs fit learn new tricks, but it seems recycling old brain damage na una lot for life. 🥱🥱🥱

Unclebayo:
What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning… I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

. Dating or befriending women has always been optional, more so in the world today, where men also have the option of dating themselves. 🥱🥱

ntyce:
Just imagine innocent families thrown into mourning...
A needless war all because of one man's ego May the souls of all the departed rest in peace.

Where was this outrage during the few weeks in this same 2026 when 10s of thousands of innocent Iranians people and families were being subjected to the same by this very same regime? 🥱🥱

Ebenezer2021:
What's DEI?

That there— hyperfocusing on the race and color of those men— is a wicked attempt at diminishing the value of the lives and sacrifices made by those American soldiers. No surprises though since many of these same people out here never said one word during the weeks that the regime in Iran was busy massacaring 10s of thousands of innocent Iranians. 🥱🥱🥱

@Shimbo96, the biography written about MohMoh by Ibn Ishaq, the Quran as well as the 40 Hadiths of tradition are all of the evidence you need to answer your questions. Add to that the over 1000 year history of the Islamic Caliphate, a history of colonization and subjugation that continues in many of the same states to this day, and you have all the evidence you seek. 🥱🥱

Nairaland seems particularly intolerant of discussions on this subject. If you are interested, we can take this to Reddit, where grown-ups can freely converse. 🥱🥱🥱

Domif:
telling pope to shut up is not nice, considering the fact that the pope is greater than p. Mohammed

Your Pope and Mohmoh there mean absolutely nothing to me. I don't subscribe to your gods. 🥱🥱🥱

Rielbusinesses:
The Catholic church should try and see the possibility of making their popes younger people....

Open up Vatican City to illegal immigrants and Islamics first. 🥱🥱🥱

zinaunreal:
➜Shut your trap. You Trump and nethanyahu are going to HELL

Which hell? There are over 4000 different recognized ideas of hell out there, so which one?

Truthday:
Source: https://www.reuters.com/world/us-military-says-three-its-service-members-killed-iran-operation-2026-03-01/

I hope their families go on to obtain peace. 😶😶😶

jaxxy:
➜So where is the rituals here? its talks about Muslim producing their own foods in a healthy way and also avoid pork and alcohol. Kilode?
Did they create any food by themselves? And when u go to place like dubai people essential eat halal foods tho they may be other healthy alternatives..
Muslim abd Christian go to sane markets in Nigeria and most countries so what is the confusion here?

What is clear here is that, yet again, your confusion is not mine. I suggest you go read the book before continuing to foam at the mouth about a topic you seem particularly ignorant of. 🥱🥱

Shimbo96:
➜Islam is actually a religion of peace
➜ but some fake supreme leaders turned it to a religion of do or die.
➜ If it is alright for some people to say God doesn't exit then who are you to kill someone that thinks Prophet Muhammad (S. A. W) is not a messenger of God.
➜ I just believe some people actually read the fake Quran and Hadith to think anyone can fight for the great Prophet. I believe everyone is entitled to their opinions and you should never attack anyone that doesn't share your views on what you believe in.

1. Islam was never a religion of peace, as its founder famously boasted that if he could be given the chance, he would love to die a martyr, come back and do it as many times as allowed. So, let's stop telling this lie! 🥱🥱

2. How can he be fake when everything he wrote in his book—Tahrir Al-Wasilah(Volume 2) - Guide on Islamic Law by Imam Ayatollah Khomeini—can be traced back to entries both in the Quran and the 40 Hadiths on Islam and Governance.

3. Mohammed himself ordered the killing of those who do not believe; he famously massacred a jewish tribe for exactly that reason... they wanted nothing of what he was offering to them. The Life of Mohammed/Sirat Rassul Alla by Ibn Ashaq🥱🥱

4. You have obviously never read the Quran yourself. So, shame no catch you? 🥱🥱

jaxxy:
➜I heard halal is actually healthier food Cos they are more natural with no additives but u can't force that on people to sell or buy.
➜ But halal is not the only source of healthier options tho. That's just an Islamic brand. There are other healthier options. So Non halal doesn't mean its not healthy.

1. That is a bloody lie! Halal is nothing but food handled according to Islamic rituals. There is nothing "healthier" about such foods. Let's stop spreading these ridiculous and unfounded myths. 🥱🥱

2. Healthy food is healthy regardless of the rituals and traditions tags attached to it. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. Drinking Camel pee, drinking obviously contaminated water(like water with a floating dead animal carcass in it), or dunking the two wings of a fly in your drink after the fly has fallen in it are also halal... but we all know there is everything dangerous about such ideas. 😐😐😐

omoredia:
➜Any halal product u buy a portion of the money is going into funding terrorism

**Shudders**

Leepeak:
➜Ona dey deceive ona self enter RT news middle east don scatter, serious missile kill many children and even hit oma, protest is currently ongoing in Pakistan, USA can't survive this one
➜ Check most people at crying in the middle east, Kuwait people die oo, same goes to use they only show u little of what Iran strike has done to those use military base and assets. Soldier don die for the matter

The same Pakistan that declared open war with Afghanistan on almost the same day? 😐😐😐

2. So, it is a joke to you? 😐😐

Chicious:
➜First off, By God here I meant the thrice holy triune God and secondly, it's God that knows those who are truly His.

I know in your mind, you probably also think your religion is better than or produces better "gods of men" than all other religions, but reality shows otherwise. No one religion produces the best of men(or women).

ScamDemicEra:
... Ayatollah is the devil, Trump/satanyahu are angels sent to deliver Iranians is all over nairaland !
shocking how virtually everyone is asleep facing the same direction !!
May OLODUMARE hasten the expiry date to open blind eyes.

There are no angels or devils in this. There are just humans, some more devilish than the others. 🥱🥱

Chicious:
➜A real man is someone who fears God and submits to His will for his life. He is committed to discipline and order as he pursues the mission and calling God has given him. He is not intimidated or shaped by cultural or feminist gyno centric standards that seek to redefine manhood in ways that weaken, distort or neuter it.
➜He understands that if he becomes a husband and father, he is called to lead his family. That leadership carries both authority and responsibility. He must guide, protect, and provide for his household, directing it according to a clear vision grounded in obedience to God.
➜ So in a simple short sentence: A real man fears God, governs himself, loves sacrificially, leads with authority and responsiblity, stands firm against corruption, and lives with integrity in private and public life.

1. Fears and submits to which God naw? I ask because even that Khomeini guy wey dem kill yesterday swear say him too be man wey they pursue the mission and calling given him by his god even after him don murder about 32000 of his people in less than a month at that.

2. Yes, that is usually the external image we are given of such men as the one mentioned above, until you take a closer look and realize they are some of the vilest of creatures, as portrayed by his beliefs as presented in his book on Islamic Governance. 🥱🥱

3. Yet, history has shown us, time and time again, that most of these so-called men who fear God are some of the most corrupt and most wicked entities the world has ever had. How come?

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Fucking inbreds trying to intimidate me for not selling halal, and @metpoliceuk siding with them.
The Met Police isn't working for ordinary citizens but working only for Sadiq Khan's community pic.twitter.com/3RHzcxLX1G

— Harman Singh Kapoor (@kingkapoor72) February 28, 2026

in the world would the British Police do such? Is the UK now a Caliphate state or something?

Chicious:
➜You won't even recognize what a "real man" is even if he was standing right besides you. What you just described is a form of a human being from your own imagination or fantasy.

What is a real man?

JuanDeDios:
➜With respect, I think this one is above you.

Of course, you have to believe it above me because that is the only way your delusion continues to survive in that nut of yours. 🥱

JuanDeDios:
➜Talks were ongoing on the nuke issue.

Talks have been ongoing on that same issue, probably since before you were born. No point!

About 32000 human beings were killed by this man in only a matter of weeks, this very 2026 wey we dey so, and no one is talking much about that attrocity. 😶😶😶😶

SarcasticWords:
Source: https://www.vaticannews.va/en/pope/news/2026-03/pope-leo-xiv-angelus-appeal-peace-middle-east-iran.html

The Pope should shut his trap on issues of world politics until after he has opened up the borders of the Vatican city as a whole to illegal migrants as well as Islamic refugees(women caged under burqas included). Nonsense!🥱🥱🥱

By the way, I don't recall him even speaking out against the massacre of 10s of thousands of Iranian protestors by this same Iranian regime that happened this very January/February. 🤐🤐🤐

ManknowThyself:
➜LoL You always have a way to run from DNA testing and that's why I called you to it.
➜ A true woman "Wife" with true moral values of family, self respect and dignity will never lose peace over DNA test of her kids. This is the main awareness for me No DNA No Name. That's the only true protection of a man in marriage of today and men are getting the awareness.
➜In a nutshell, The moral values and standards of family is the bed rock of the society.

Why do folks like you resort to lying when caught in your own trap? I said you could alway DNA test on every child the woman has for you if you are also ready to raise the children yourself, because I would never advise any man's daughter to get herself caught up in anything like marriage with a man whom she does not have at least partial trust in. And when it comes to the average Nigerian man out there, the default way to guarantee at least partial trust is to have him pay up front for the service offered. 🥱🥱

2. Nonsense! Imagine this nonentity thinking it is his place to define for women how they can and should live their own lives, bah! 🥱🥱

3. The same moral values Nigerian men notoriously shove down a hole when it comes to their place as husbands and as fathers, abi na some other moral value wey dey only on the tip of tongues and nowhere else? Family is the bedrock of society, yet a woman una wan make she carry that rock alone for head while men continue to live single even after marriage? Nonsense! 🥱🥱

The vast majority of Nigerian men do not need a family but a female slave. I would not recommend any woman sign up for that without first guaranteeing that she will not come out shortchanged on the other side of that deal. 🥱🥱

ManknowThyself:
➜Yes very good on point, you forgot DNA testing to it.

No need for that in this case. If the man were to require a DNA test after each child, then he might as well simply pay the woman the full surrogacy and birthing cost — assuming the woman is only in it for helping him have his children—for every child while he takes full responsibility for caring for and raising said child afterwards... No need to marry the woman. 🥱🥱

Ittakescourage:
✓ I want to attain a certain level of financial stability before I begin the divorce process.
✓ I don’t have an issue with him not supporting me financially I don’t need anything from him. If he chooses to support his children, that’s fine, and I’m not stopping him.
✓ I’m simply taking my life one step at a time.
My only concern is that he calls the children and says hurtful and horrible things about me to them. That is what truly bothers me.

1. I see! 🤔

My first question is, what do you gain from having children with someone, only to have to bear 100% of the burden all by yourself while he remains in communication with them? Why sign up for this sort of situation? 🥱🥱

If he is not at least supporting financially, then I see no reason why you should not cut him off at this point. Because of his action, the children will likely need some form of therapy to get over the lies he has been filling their heads with. And chances are he won't be paying for it. So, what do you think? 🤔

Olaolar:
Why that anytime I mistakenly sighted or came across black lady nuds rather in a movie, or somehow walking on street,
you know the way nowadays girls dress naked ...

My body didn't use to move , except yellow girl's..
The question is that it's because I'm a black guy too ??

I think it may have more to do with your level of self esteem ...a possible dearth... than color of your skin. 🥱🥱

MrCaesar:
I need help, please help me. l married a mamaboy, l don't know what to do. Everything I need in my house I have to ask his mother for permission, even pads.

Unmarry the mama's boy and go find yourself a better man.