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victorexpounder:
Inside the world’s largest church project (it’s not what you think)

Your Pastors, GOs, Imams, Sheikhs, GBs, Popes, Priests, Prophets, etc. are all scammers and deceivers. 🥱🥱

brain54:
✓ Lol at kwekwe...
That's great. Your relationship with your mom. 👍
But still take it easy with people's mom Sha. You know they might not understand you too much the way your own mom does!

I don't believe in gods. So, no thanks! 🥱🥱

Na people moms and dads dey there they destroy Nigeria, dey vote nonsense after collecting bribes and satchet of milk. Being someone's mom does not give one right to spew trash about or against others. 🥱🥱

Chijeep:
✓ That I don't know. She's talking from past believe I guess

Past my arse! How can the lives of everyone be colored by a past that we have never been able to obtain evidence for? She is repeating tales that helped render Nigeria and Africa the way it is today ..destroyed lives too. 🥱🥱

brain54:
✓ No go headbutt your momma one day Sha...

I actually have a great relationship with her as she knows to respect my boundaries even though I am her child. She would never try selling me such kwekwe nonsense.🥱

otrasane:
“Treat Daddy as Your God” — UK Nigerian Mum, Kids Kneel in Emotional Video A woman gathered her children to have a heartfelt conversation about their father’s sacrifices and struggles. She recounted the many challenges the family has faced together over the years. She explained that their father works 12 hours every day to provide for the household and ensure their well-being.
She revealed that during a period when the family was at risk of losing their legal permission to remain in the UK, he became deeply overwhelmed.
At his lowest point, he felt crushed by the pressure and was willing to sacrifice everything for his family.
The mother openly expressed profound appreciation for her husband’s resilience and dedication.
In a touching moment, she and the children knelt down together to thank their father for all he has done for the family.
Note: they have 4 biological kids. The oldest girl lives with them.

She said out loud what every African knows of the dysfunctionality that is African parents presenting themselves as gods over their children.

brain54:
✓ Kobo Person mama o...

My own mother's knows no to pass such filthy lies by me. Call a spade a spade. 🥱🥱

Just sit and imagine how much damage such filthy lies have really wrought on the psyche and lives of individuals and nations. It is then you will realize how not so innocent such wickedness really ain't. 🤨

Chijeep:
She said the spirit of the old woman will still be finding comfort in that house

Did your mother witness this spirit finding comfort in said house by herself? Does she have prove to back up her claims? 🥱🥱

@Lovenorth , pointing out an obvious reason for a problem is not intolerance but addressing the situation as it presents itself. Skating around the facts is not tolerance but ignorance. 🥱🥱

Chijeep:
✓ I told a friend who's in haunt for apartment in my area about the availability in this our neighbourhood and before he could speak my sister and my mom said is it not the same house that an old woman lived before passing away? And I was like is there anything wrong with it? But my mom stretched out words to debunk any attempt of my friend taking the apartment as she said the old woman have been living in the house for more than 40yrs before she died. That it's not good for someone who's not deep in the spirit to acquire a such house.
PLEASE IS THERE ANYTHING LIKE GHOST OR MY MOM WAS ONLY SPEAKING FROM TRADITION?

Your mom's mentality is something that should remain in the past and not in 2026. She shouldn't be giving anyone in this century advice of any kind with that mind set. 🥱🥱🥱

Imagine condemning property that likely belonged to innocent people who probably never harmed any one all because of retarded superstitious beliefs. Nonsense! 😂🥱

victorexpounder:
Inside the world’s largest church project (it’s not what you thinkl

Your Pastors and Gos are all thieves. 🥱🥱

Rukevwe999:
It's also vice-versa for the men. Guys forget any fantasy you have about dating a whites, asians or Latinas - the dating pool is very racist. Unless you've got money or have naturalized into their society, your best options are still Nigerian and other African women. As a black African man it's hard to find a young white girl to get into a relationship with, especially with the atrocities some of our men commit over there. As a black man you're at a disadvantage because she could easily put you into trouble and the government who is always on their side would take away everything you've worked hard for. Hear me, their women are obsessed with equality and would not tolerate your domineering nature or any other trash like our Nigerian women do.
✓ That is why passport bros are becoming a trend over there because even their men getting frustrated with them. Marry from your race and nationality abeg. We are in this together.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. See wickedness! So African women should be the ones to endure the domineering and trashy nature of African men? Tufiakwa! 😱😱😱😱

emiye:
Anyone advocating for a practice suited for the 16th century at best in the 21st century is unfit for the current society. Most of the Sharia practices are repugnant and not fit for modern day living, and it is not in religion only, it applies to backward cultureas well . A good example of retrogressive culture that is causing chaos and disaster in Nigeria is the fulani culture of rearing cows that is not in tune with modern world. If you think with growing population, growth and civilization, becoming a nomad on any available land is a sustainable culture, you are unfit to be related with. The fulani still wants to live as early man, with little or no value for human lives and claim it is culture. To hell with any religion or culture that refuses to make modification.

Islam is a religion that is built on the ideas of 7th century, not the 16th century, Arab man with a complex who believed himself to be the perfect model for all of humanity. Mohammedans are individuals who strive to live according to the ideals of this same 7th century man, following his every command and teachings. 🥱

alezzy13:
I don't think divorce is a major issue. From my brief experience in the North, the real problem is unbridled child bearing! Chai! Those women can born like eh. . .

Unbridled childbearing is a result of the religion of Islam, which condemns the use of family planning or pregnancy prevention of any kind. 🥱🥱

placeofallure:
➜Jesus is not a fan of civil unrest. He would've given to Ceaser what's Ceaser's.

You forgot to mention that Caesar is not a bunch of Mohammedans throwing a senseless tantrum in this case, but the government that grants freedom of speech to all in the UK. 🥱🥱

Gerrard59:
➜Thank you for this expose. Apparently, the north doesn't have high or strong morals than the south as opinionated by many northern netizens. So, how exactly does Sharia provide morals in the society?
➜ This means there is a high number of single mothers in Northern Nigeria and they're not stigmatised.

What exactly are these morals you speak of, and why do you go around asserting them on even those who don't have any clue what you mean, nor subscribe to whatever you believe in?

Every religion/culture/tribe/nation/group has a different set of standards as far as what you claim are morals there. So, what exactly is the intelligence behind crying "morals" here and there?🥱🥱

2. Here's what will shock your moral socks off. Single mothers in Islam are by design. And there is nothing morally wrong about their prevalence in Islam. Of course, there are eejoits in the religion who still look down on them while glossing over the fact that Mohammed himself made the proliferation unavoidable by his marriage laws. Heck, if not for the fact that he was not able to have kids, the man himself would have left behind at least 10 single mothers on his death. 🥱🥱

babajero:
so how does it work?

It is saying Talaq three times for a man to divorce his wife.🥱

The woman does not enjoy the same freedom as she has to apply to be granted divorce by a committee of men which may include her husband. In most cases, she is granted divorce only if her husband approves. This is as Mohamed, the prime example for all Mohammedians had it and decreed it should be. 🥱🥱

Clearly, being a Mohammedan literally means denying even that which is clear as day in the Quran. 🥱🥱🥱

DesireV:
➜How is this related?
➜Again, some African cultures inherit women. Islam says No!
➜ Some cultures forbids females from inheriting her dad, Islam says No and empowers her. Sweet Islam

1. It is unrelated because you don't want it to be related, which is literally the same as denying Mohammed and Allah.

2. Because Islam says no to inheriting by women in one verse, you take it that we should ignore everything else Islam says regarding the divorcing of women that one is married to in the adjacent verses? 🥱🥱

3. The topic, again, is not some culture but Islam, and the false claims you made earlier regarding the issuing of divorce for the man and woman in Islam. 🥱🥱

Flangelo12:
➜Why are you telling me about your experience? After all, nothing matters.

Learn to condemn wrong behaviour whenever you see or hear of it. Stop fishing for justification for obvious bullying 🥱🥱🥱

Flangelo12:
As I said before, context is required. You're just hot under the collar.
➜ Basically, you want to attack Muslims, just looking for some justification.

Stop this nonsense, abeg!! 🥱🥱

I have been called a sinner and other names by Christians preaching their brand of vomit, and have simply been able to walk past like it was all the wind. In what context would it be OK to demand that a preacher who is not in violation of public code be made to shut up?

2. Read the OP! The ones doing the attacking are Mohammedans... demanding the rights of a preacher be violated. So?

DesireV:
Thank you for bringing references. Let's take them one by one.
Baqarah: 228-237 is about what I earlier stated.
A man can only take his wife back if he divorced her twice. After the third one, she becomes unlawful to him to marry until she marries another man. Check my earlier post. Your reference is supporting my point.
➜None of these verses you referenced is supporting your claim or which version of the Quran should I check?

Again, you are lying! 🥱🥱🥱

muyico:
But why preaching around Muslim majority area?

What part of the UK did Mohammed himself tell you say na him area for the UK? This is why the country is currently having serious problems with people of this religion. 🥱🥱

bizzibodi:
.No need for that I know about it more than you.

Not according to your recent response. Read the book, so you can at least argue from the facts stated in the book and not gossip/tales. 🥱🥱

bizzibodi:
➜This kind of marriage allows but men & women to have multiple partners(sampling)....one man's wife today can be another man's wife tomorrow and vice versa.
➜ If a woman don't like her husband and she is eyeing another man is just to anger the man enough to do a triple talaq and she will be free to marry the other man tomorrow.

Wrong! It does not allow the woman. Rather, it allows the man to sample as many women as he chooses. The women are victims of circumstance in all of it. That a woman is married to one man today and thrown away by him the next day, only for another man to come along and marry her— rinse and repeat— does not mean the woman is allowed anything. She isn't ultimately the one choosing any of it. She is literally only able to go along with the ride-along as she can.

2. Wrong! A man can only divorce his wife if and only if her request for divorce is approved by a court of men or by her husband. Otherwise, she has to stay married to the man until he gets tired of her. It is never the woman to cause the man, rather it is the man's desire or dislike or whatever else that pushes the man to wish to divorce her. If the man hates her so, he could falsely accuse her of adultery and have her humiliated and all. So, again, it is not the woman but the man in charge.

Icareforyou:
Good evening fam. I have been dating this girl for over a couple of months and I don't intend to have anything with her other than a sexual relationship.fwb I don't intend to lie to her to off her p*nts. The issue now is, I asked her out fr a first official outing date and she said " she doesn't have chance" without any explanation. PIease I have dated several girls from teenage to adulthood and none of them ever told me they don't have chance for a first date"
Please what do you think I should do. End the relationship or Continue. Kobojunkie please your input will be appreciated. Note I don't like os and I am new in the area so I just want someone I can be with as a fwb No lies just vibes. I stopped responding to her messages for a week now .I don't even look at it. She has sent me three messages. I can't imagine it. I think she ought to give reasons without me asking.

You want a situationship with her. Has she made it known that that is all she wants from you, too? If yes, then what is the problem?😐

DesireV:
➜Firstly, shariah doesn't recognize democracy itself. Only a legal system that recognizes democracy is most appropriate to hear matters relating to it.
➜ Secondly, it shows the motives around the kind of "shariah" being practised in some sections of the world and how it has been weaponised. There is no selective justice under the shariah law.
➜ A case where punishment is for the poor and not the elite has no place is shariah law. The elites know this and hide behind common law that's easier to be bent. I read a news of some shariah court workers who misappropriated funds of some orphans. They requested to be tried under the common law system because they know what awaits them if they met an upright shariah law judge.

1. You are right here, and that happens to be because Sharia is a system incompatible with democracy.

2. Wrong! Sharia as practiced in places like Afghanistan, for example, more closely mirrors ideas recorded in the Quran and the Hadiths — Sunnah —than any others out there do. How can it be considered "weaponized" when it is the most authentic form of Sharia that exists? 🥱🥱🥱

3. Seems you have never read your Quran and Haddiths, which make clear that punishment in the system is left for the weak...Dhimmis, women, the poor, and disenfranchised.

DesireV:
➜Bring references.
This is one beautiful thing about Islam and shariah. It's not something you can sit in corner of your room and make up. Sharia means Qur'an and sunnah based. Not some wishful thoughts like you typed above.
Can you kindly bring Qur'an and sunnah references to these your assertions? Show the world the "several passages"

. The Quran is literally the only reference necessary here. 🥱🥱

➜ A man only needs divorce her three times Quran 2 vs 230. That passage says nothing of the man needing a valid reason to seek divorce. One could even argue that Quran 2 vs 223 gives the man the right to marry and divorce as he chooses, since the woman is farmland for him to use as he so pleases. Quran 4 vs 19-20 suggests that ordinarily disliking a wife is reason enough for a man to wish to divorce her, or merely a desire to replace a wife with another as reason enough.

A woman, on the other hand, needs to provide a valid reason to seek divorce from her husband, after which she can then approach a court where her case will be heard and possibly only approved at the consent of the same husband she wishes to be cut away from. The woman has no right as far as divorce is concerned. She is required to seek approval before she can have it.
➜ Iddah is primarily to keep the woman from moving on immediately after a divorce Quran 65 v 1-5
➜ Quran 2 vs 228 - 237 explains the man's rights as far as the woman he chooses to marry or divorce.